December 2019 Moms

Group 1 Check In (DD 12/1-12/8) WO 5/13

Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/5 10w4d


FTM/STM/TTM+: Mama to 8yo DS


Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding Out 6/28!


Upcoming Appointments: 6/7


How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): Pretty good, still have sore boobs and constant hunger. My mood swings are outrageous!


Rants/Raves: After 80 degrees last week were back in the 50s this week and I’m overly pissed about it.


Questions: Is anyone experiencing round ligament pain yet? I swear I’ve been feeling it in my right side, level with my pubic bone and radiating into my groin. Ouch!


GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 

We’re in central KY and live right outside Frankfort in the country. 

Re: Group 1 Check In (DD 12/1-12/8) WO 5/13

  • edited May 2019

    @k_mama91 I'm loving this weather change! 50s are nicer for me than 80s, but we also need to replace our AC unit so that could have something to do with it. Definitely noticing RLP though. Not all the time, but like if I move quickly. 


    Due Date / Weeks + Days:  bumped to 12/4 by my OB's calculations/ 10w5d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out but not for a while 

    Upcoming Appointments: 6/12

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc):  thought I was feeling better but it turns out that was just because I was taking my meds and taking it easy. Showered post-med but pre-food this morning and threw up again. Other than that just really constipated. 

    Rants/Raves: I'm really constipated and hate large pills so I'm taking a gummy prenatal without iron. My blood work came back from my last appointment with my hemoglobin at 13.4 so I can keep skipping an iron supplement. Hooray! 

    Questions: any other STM+ feel like a terrible mom? DS is still in his crib because I'm letting my stomach settle a bit before getting him. He was crying but I think he fell back asleep. 

    GTKY: where is everyone from?  South Eastern Indiana. 

    ETA grammar...

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  • LM1007LM1007 member

    Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/3 - 10w6d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: ttm - 2 boys 🤪

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out.

    Upcoming Appointments: 5/20


    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): Still so sick. But able to eat a bit more now that I know my sickness routine. I've literally eaten 2 jars of pickles since Thursday. Ew. 


    Rants/Raves: my husband really went all out for me on mother's day. And I've signed myself up for a 7week ceramic class, starting tonight. I'm so excited to have something to do for myself throughout summer without kids lol

    Questions:

    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 

    I'm from LI, New York. 

    @nothingbuttherain I do feel kinda like a bad mom. I make breakfast a little to late some days- and my patience is no where to be found. 

    @k_@k_mama91 I'm really not sure what round ligament pain is- but when I sneeze or move in awkward positions I do get pains around my stomach.

  • @nothingbuttherain no way to this weather! I’m dying to get outside in the sun. And I do feel like a horrible mother. I’ve had such a short fuse with ds lately.

    @LM1007 I’ve read it can be sharp pains in the abdomen from sneezing, quick movements. I get that too but I’m also having the aching in my groin. It’s a little unsettling but it’s normal and means things are growing!
  • baby-n-pupsbaby-n-pups member
    edited May 2019

    Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/7

    FTM/STM/TTM+: First baby, 4 dogs! 

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Hubs wants to find out & has good arguments for it.

    Upcoming Appointments: 6/5

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): breast pain, round ligament pain when I sneeze or cough, acne, headaches, nausea that only goes down when I eat but the thought of eating initially makes it worse! 

    Rants/Raves: they were difficult to take before pregnancy due to smell/taste, but my liquid iron & prenatal capsules are so difficult to get down!!!

    Questions: When does it start feeling real? What should I prioritize for getting ready? Any recommendations on telling my boss? I do PTSD research for a large medical university, so no hazards but it can be high stress/emotionally charged. I'm considering talking to HR first, but wouldnt want them to tell my supervisor before I do. 

    GTKY: We live in Savannah, GA and actually just moved into our 'forever home' a couple weeks before we found out I am pregnant. One major downside to the timeline is that this house needs a lot of renovations and baby is really speeding up the original timeline. 

  • @baby-n-pups I have 3 large dogs. Our house is a zoo sometimes!
  • cpk3535cpk3535 member

    Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/1 & 11W1D


    FTM/STM/TTM+: Mama to 8yo daughter 


    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out when I get my NIPTs results- maybe this week?  I’m excited!


    Upcoming Appointments: 6/18 in the office, possibly phone appointment to discuss NIPTs results earlier than that.  Hopefully good things!


    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): Good-  I’m tired, not sleeping well lately.  My exercise routine it still way off- lots of things I would normally do make me sick or woozy, which stinks.  Usually bloated at the end of the night post my one meal of the day that sometimes sounds good.  


    Rants/Raves:  I work with pretty much all guys in a retail shop that appeals mostly to men.  It’s been hard not telling people what’s going on, because they have been asking me if I’m feeling okay. Trying to hold out to the second trimester to tell people around me 👍


    Questions:  Tooth sensitivity has been randomly kicking up for me.  Has anybody else noticed that?  Not while eating, mostly just during brushing.  It’s not everywhere, just  one gun line above a couple of teeth.  


    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 

    We’re in Northern California near Oakland/San Francisco.  We have also lived in So Cal (our true home) and that’s where we intend to be living by this time next year. Job switching and home selling to come.  Sounds bad while pregnant, but hey, I’m almost 40, life’s too short not to act on this stuff!

  • @cpk3535 I just read that around week 12 the fun sensitivity and bleeding while brushing starts 😣 don’t remember that with ds! 
  • Due Date / Weeks + Days:  12/8     /   10w 2d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM   6 year and 2.5 year old boys

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Still haven't decided if we'll find out or not. 

    Upcoming Appointments: 1st appointment tomorrow morning  :)

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): Craving a glass of milk which if I have leads to severe nausea.  Nausea in the early morning and usually around dinnertime, I've been only able to have a couple bites at dinner before I get extremely nauseous and then end up eating something super later after it passes. 

    Rants/Raves: These hormones are making my emotions go crazy.   I tear up at so many things right now and it's so out of character. I also feel like I have been getting mad about the smallest dumbest things.  

    Questions:  I need to talk to my doctor tomorrow on their preference with travel (flights) during pregnancy and how late they'll let me fly.   We've been invited to visit some friends who live in Alaska and we'd like to go in September which should be before 30 weeks along so I want to know whether or not they're okay with us making that booking now.    I also have a work conference in early October that I'd need to fly to, if she'll let me fly at 31 weeks. 

    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 

    We're living in Southwest Missouri near the Springfield area. I'm originally from Minnesota but have lived in a handful of states in the Midwest. 

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  • srab606srab606 member

    Due Date / Weeks + Days:  12/7     /   10w 2d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out with NIPT, hopefully by Memorial Day!

    Upcoming Appointments: Thursday 5/16 ultrasound, 5/23 NT scan

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): Exhausted and nauseous constantly. But luckily I haven't actually gotten sick.  

    Rants/Raves: I can't wait until after the test results to start sharing! Also, I'm a teacher and I need summer break to happen now.  I don't have enough energy to deal with a bunch of little ones that are getting crazy with the warm weather!

    Questions:  

    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 

    Central Jersey,  by the shore.  I can't wait for summer at the beach! 

  • Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/4, 10w5d


    FTM/STM/TTM+: this will be our first baby!


    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out as soon as our NIPT results come in, supposed to be this week!! omg! can’t wait to hear all is well & the gender. the wait is killing me


    Upcoming Appointments: 5/23 will be our 12w ultrasound :) excited to see the changes and hear the sweet heartbeat again. 


    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): Slightly better this week in terms of nausea. It still comes in waves if I don’t eat a snack and after eating a big meal, but I’ve noticed an improvement in the mornings. Fatigue is still very real, I’ve been taking naps all the time which I’ve never been able to do. Bummed I am not exercising as much as I’d like to be cuz I’m so tired. So thirsty for water always. Food aversions are still a big thing. Biggest symptom has been wacko emotions this week, specifically anxiety! I’m so anxious about getting our results and the next ultrasound. Can’t wait for that relief of knowing everything is good. Been trying to meditate and relax.


    Rants/Raves: Will this anxiety feeling ever go away!? I’m assuming after each visit to the Dr. it will be better but some visits are so far apart and it’s hard not to worry. I just want to be positive and excited!!!


    Questions: Are most of you still waiting to tell family/friends? We’ve only told a select few and have decided to wait til end of first trimester to tell family. Have you found any decrease in nausea at 10+ weeks? I have a bit and read it’s normal but of course an alway worried :)


    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 

    We’re from Los Angeles 

  • @k_mama91 I definitely think I’ve been experiencing some round ligament pain as well. It’s mostly when I make sudden movements, but it’s definitely there!

    @nothingbuttherain I’ve had my moments with my son as well. It can be so hard to balance it all.

    @cpk3535 My gums have been sensitive for about a week now with brushing. It was like this in my last pregnancy too :/ I hope it doesn’t get worse for you.

    Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/3 10w6d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM - 1 boy 16months

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Still unsure! Hubby want some to find out, I would like a surprise like last time.

    Upcoming Appointments: 5/22 First US

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): I’m feeling pretty well. I’m exhausted and my boobs are sore but otherwise things seem fine.

    Rants/Raves: We’re having gorgeous sunny weather this week and I enjoyed time outside and at the park with my son today!

    Questions: Anyone else unsure about telling people? My family knows but we haven’t told my in-laws yet as my last pregnancy they became way too involved and it made me uncomfortable. I told my hubby maybe after my ultrasound next week, but it’s been so peaceful without them asking 8 million questions...

    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from?

    I moved from Madison, WI to Bristol, UK last year. I’m a Minnesota girl though!
  • @k_mama91 I’ve been feeling RLP too. It seems so soon compared to last time around.

    @moonriver_and_me We have told close family and friends but haven’t said anything on Facebook. I’ve only told my boss at work, none of my coworkers. Will wait to tell them and the rest of the world when I start to look pregnant. 


    Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/1 11w1d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM 1 girl 2.5

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Team Pink!

    Upcoming Appointments: 5/24- I can’t wait to (hopefully) hear baby’s sweet heartbeat again!

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): My symptoms are starting to disappear. My boobs don’t hurt as bad and after a weekend at Disney, I’m not nearly as exhausted as I thought I’d be.

    Rants/Raves: First works problems. The airline lost our luggage. We found out today it’s still in Orlando and will hopefully make it back here Thursday, but my husband’s CPAP is in there, phone chargers, make up, and other necessities. 😕  

    Questions: none right now

    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 

    I’m a Midwest girl too. I live in central Illinois - pretty much right in between Chicago and St. Louis.
  • Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/5 10w4d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out soon...NIPT appointment is tomorrow 

    Upcoming Appointments: 5/14 genetic testing and 5/29 NT ultrasound

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): I'm feeling worse than ever the past few days.  Very tired and nauseated!  Still struggling with food aversions and sensitivity to smells.

    Rants/Raves: I live in the city and commute to work on public transit.  Lately, the worst of my nausea coincides with my ride home from work and I spend the whole ride trying not to throw up. 🤢

    Questions:  STM+, when did your nausea start to improve in your previous pregnancies?

    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 
    I was born and raised in Northeast Ohio, but have been living in Chicago for the past 12 years.  
  • @liz110712 i’m definitely unsure about telling people and totally feel you on the in laws! i know they will be so excited but my mother in law gives a lot of unsolicited advice and i’m not in the mood. the longer i’ve held out the easier it’s becoming. we were going to tell at 10 weeks but it didn’t feel right so we are waiting til after our 12 week ultrasound. 

    @sunshineandlemons i feel you on the symptoms decreasing! it’s starting to ease up a little for me just in the past few days. you’re ahead of me by 4 days so it’s interesting. did that happen around this time with your first girl, as well? (this is my first pregnancy so everything is so new!)
  • @sunshineandlemons they have his CPAP?! I would be so irritated!
  • LM1007LM1007 member
    @blueskychicago12 I can't remember exactly, but I would say for me about 13-14w both pregnancies. I can't wait! 
  • Ladies!!! I got my NIPT results back and everything looks really good, low rush... and I’m having a girl 💕 just like all my dreams. It took exactly 8 days from the blood draw to get them back (Panorama from Natera lab) 

    The only negative thing is I found out in another blood test taken at the same time that my immunity to rubella wore off at some point. Can’t get a booster til after I deliver. Wish my Dr. had tested this before TTC so we could have avoided that... annoyed... but she said it’s rare to contract these days. 
  • @moonriver_and_me Thats great! And a girl, how exciting! I have to wait until our scan on 6/28 to find out 😩 we declined the NIPT due to the vanishing twin possibly affecting our results.
  • @k_mama91 ugh that’s hard to wait so long! waiting is the hardest part for all of this so far.. i feel for you. once you finally found out it won’t matter tho 💕 you’ll be so excited
  • Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/4 10 weeks 6 day

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM!

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out! We can’t decide if if we want to do the early testing... guess we’ll find out what we’re thinking tomorrow! I’ve been having dreams this past week that it’s a boy!

     Upcoming Appointments: 5/15

     How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): I didn’t take my nausea medicine Saturday night... BAD IDEA! Was throwing up the past 2 days. Today I feel a million times better... had two chocolate doughnuts haha. Still feeling really dizzy. 

     Rants/Raves: I recently got promoted to a VP position at work. I feel like I’m not meeting their expectations since I’ve missed work or have left early. They are reassuring, but it’s causing stress. 
     
    Questions: Is anyone’s belly getting itchy?
     
    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? We’re from Omaha, Nebraska! 
  • k_mama91k_mama91 member
    edited May 2019
    @moonriver_and_me yes waiting is so dang hard!

    @baby_love7 not my belly yet but my boobs. I was always told not to scratch bc it caused stretch marks. Obviously an old wives tale but I’m trying to refrain! ETA- spelling 
  • cpk3535cpk3535 member
    edited May 2019
    @k_mama91and @baby_love7 I’ve been having itchy, dry skin starting up, too!  Sorry if TMI, my the skin on my nipples was flaking a bit even!  My shins have been really itchy and dry, mostly in the evening.  I need to dry brush and oil massage to suck up some moisture!
  • edited May 2019
    Hi ladies, I went for genetic counseling today and had blood drawn for the cell free DNA test.  Just wondering if anyone is doing carrier screening or have you done it in the past?  I was unsure about doing it.
  • @k_mama91 Same! Worried they'll knock the baby over, so really focusing on their manners now. 3 big dogs (pit/boxer type) & 1 little 8 pounder.
  • sjb2215sjb2215 member

    Hey ladies, sorry I haven't been the most active yet, but work has been crazy busy lately! Hopefully it'll start to slow down and I can catch up a bit

    Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/3 11 weeks today!

    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM (15 mos old DS)

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Still up in the air :)

    Upcoming Appointments: 5/21

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): Feeling a bit better this week! The fatigue is still there, but getting better

    Rants/Raves: DH and DS spoiled me on Mother's day, hope everyone else had a nice day too

    Questions: 

    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? We live near Madison, WI ( @liz110712 EDD twins and Madison too! Do you root for Bucky or the Golden Gophers?)

    @nothingbuttherain My OB had me take Colace last time around for constipation and I'll likely be starting it up again soon, not too large of a pill if you want to check with your doc for some relief!

    @allison_smith_6212 I flew last time around at 24 weeks and it wasn't too bad, not sure if your doc will recommend flying in 3rd tri or not

    @moonriver_and_me congrats on your NIPT results  <3

    Lots of Midwest girls in this group!


  • @sjb2215 welcome!

    @baby-n-pups ours are bloodhounds, not the easiest to train! They do great with 8yo but even he gets knocked down some.

    @cpk3535 my entire body is flaky too. I’m going thru lotion like crazy.
  • edited May 2019
    @moonriver_and_me Glad everything went well and congrats on a little girl. I want to say this was about the time everything stopped for me, but I can’t quite remember. I will say with this pregnancy, I am not as tired as I was last time and I had no period-like cramps this time around. However, I definitely felt more nauseous than my last pregnancy (still not horrible).

    @k_mama91 I KNOW!! He’s sleeping on the couch til we get it back! 😂 I feel bad for him, I know he’s not getting good rest as a result.

    edited: autocorrect fail
  • cpk3535cpk3535 member
    edited May 2019
    @baby-n-pups and @k_mama91 The dog thing is really tough.  We went through this last time- our Jack Russell had been with DH and I for 10 years by himself when we brought home DD from the hospital.  He was so tough to train.  I felt myself immediately turn on him in protective mother bear mode.  Over the early years, our daughter got nipped a few times, I wanted to kick his butt so bad.  He’s passed away now, and we adopted a smaller Bichon Frise mix.  Thank god she’s small (11 lbs) and she’s crate trained.  I have a feeling my relationship with her won’t be that different post-pregnancy, aside from making sure she doesn’t lick or step on the baby in my lap (she’s a big time lap dog).

    I’m still waiting to see my NIPTs results and it’s driving me a little crazy 😜 We really want to know which of our previous baby stuff needs to stay and what needs to go.  Do donation places want older car seats if they’re in good shape, or do we just throw those away?  I’m also going to go through clothes from last time and pull nicer stuff for a consignment shop to maybe get some $$$ back for baby 2.  I’m ashamed I’ve been stockpiling this long, but DH and I never knew when we’d be ready to go for baby 2.  I think we expected this to happen a lot sooner.  Anybody else dealing with a minimizing fire sale feeling at their house?😂😛

    Also, is it weird that my next office appointment isn’t until mid-June?  I think it puts me around 16 weeks.  I guess I’ve had two ultrasounds already at this point (last one at 10 weeks) and taken all of the blood work tests and NIPTs, so does that sound correct?  It just seems like a long time to wait between checks.  
  • @cpk3535 they are 3,2,&1 so still very much pups and very hyper. Hopefully we can work on manners between now and December 🤞🏻

    As for the baby gear/clothes I’m in the same boat. We’re resuing the crib and pack n play. I didn’t keep many of ds clothes and we don’t have his boppy, bumbo, or swing. 

    Also my my most recent appt was 5/10 and I’m going a full 4 weeks before I’m seen again. I think it’s pretty standard.
  • @cpk3535 congrats on your results! yay team girl 💕
  • @cpk3535 that's wonderful news!  Congratulations!
  • @cpk3535 congrats!!

    3 for 3 on the girls so far!
  • Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/8-- 11wks


    FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM, I have 2 boys (7 and almost 5)


    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out


    Upcoming Appointments: 6/10


    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): Still nauseous and get pretty tired easily 


    Rants/Raves: can't really think of anything!!



    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from?  Nashville, TN

  • Due Date / Weeks + Days: 12/4 11w5d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: this is my first!

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: 

    I think we are keeping it a surprise!

    Upcoming Appointments: 5/29

    How are you feeling? (Cravings, Symptoms, Etc): 

    Soooo tired. Occasionally sore boobs, some nausea, and so much acne (ugh!)

    Rants/Raves: pregnancy glow is NOT real. I have the worst acne 🙄

    Questions: Have you announced yet? My husband knows but we haven’t told anyone else (we are seeing some family this weekend so we’re letting them know then).

    GTKY: Since were interacting constantly let’s GTKEO better, where is everyone from? 

    California! Originally from New England though

  • cpk3535cpk3535 member
    edited May 2019
    @lamarshall. We’re also telling some peeps this week.  Another California girl!
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