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Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: TWW Tuesday 5/14
CD/DPO: 22/8
Timing: -3,-1
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: Trying to make it until Friday
R/R: SS has taken over. This is why I end up testing early because I need to come back to reality. I’m still going to try to hold out though. As if I don’t feel stressed enough, I’m having computer issues so our IT person had to take my laptop home and I just realized I’m not going to be able to do anything until she brings it back. So now I’m lounging versus rushing off to work. It’s a nice change haha.
CS/Q: I do have a question about the daily threads - do people ever start them from the app or does it make them look funky? Sometimes I am on before they are posted for the day and feel like I should start to take a turn, but I only mobile bump
Month/Cycle: 10/1AL
CD/DPO: 30/12ish
Timing: Not very good
Typical LP length: 14ish
Testing: BFN this morning with FMU
R/R: TMI wanring: I ended up with some kind of stomach virus yesterday, and had to leave work in the middle of a meeting. Between that and the super sore boobs, I was SSing like crazy, so I went home and POT(wo)S. Both BFN, but I hadn't held it for very long. I slept for like 10 hours last night without peeing (probably pretty dehydrated) and so my FMU was definitely super concentrated this morning. Still stark white. Ah well. I can't say I'm surprised after how bad our timing was. Onto the next cycle!
CS/Q: Nope
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 21/4DPO according to FF
Timing: -3,-2,-1 (I originally thought I ovulated on CD16 and that my timing was -2,-1, 0 until I plugged my info and symptoms into FF. It estimated O on CD17 so we shall see. I'm going to start temping for more accuracy.)
Typical LP length: 11
Testing: 8DPO
R/R: Rant: This past weekend we had a graduation BBQ Saturday and Mother's Day dinner for the MIL Sunday, and we were in Chicago the weekend before. This coming weekend, I just wanted to have a quiet Friday night at home and my husband said he was all for that. Now 2 other couples invited us to dinner with them, but the reservation is at 8:30pm and that is just so late for a Friday to me. He really wants to go, and he literally always does anything I want to do so.. l will just suck it up, but after a 9 hour work day on Friday it will be the last thing I want to do and I'm dreading it lol
Month/Cycle: 6
CD/DPO: 26/9
Timing: 0, +1
Typical LP length: 14-16 days
Testing: haven’t this morning. Probably will though. I’m a POAS addict
R/R: sleep just doesn’t exist right now and when it does I have crazy dreams. *TW* I dreamed my best friend who is getting married next week was pregnant with twins. I mean, don’t I have enough of that ACTUALLY happening without dreaming it? Lol *end TW*
CS/Q: no temping this time so my numbers above are all guesses
CD/DPO: 20/2 dpo is what I'm going with
Timing: pretty good I think. -5, -2, -1, 0
Typical LP length: 14
Testing: not for awhile
R/R: It's raining AGAIN in the northeast...I've given up on spring ever really happening for more than 24 hours at a time and just am crossing fingers that we have a real summer. I think the beginning of TWW is probably my most at-peace time so that's good...we did what we could, too early for SS.
CS/Q: nope, just cm and opk's so nothing to see
@mrs_llama Ohh I feel you - I'm useless Friday evenings. I have WW meetings on Saturday morning so I have an almost complete embargo on Friday night plans
@madcouplewithabox OMG that dream!!
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD/DPO: 18/1
Timing: -2, -1, 0
Typical LP length: 12-14
Testing: Going to try to cool it on the POAS this cycle. I O'd super late last month (I knew it though), and kept getting excited the later I got past my normal 28 day cycle, only to get BFN after BFN.
R/R: Husband took the wrong set of keys this morning, and the key to my car on his set has a battery issue and the clicker doesn't work. I had to figure out how to get into my car without it (the model of the car has no visible keyhole), literally had to pop a piece off my handle to expose the keyhole. In the rain. No fun!!!
CS/Q: Nope
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@madcouplewithabox My dreams always seem to be about things I don't actually want to dream about too. Sorry for all the PGs everywhere! GL POAS!
@whitealbum29 All of this rain is killin' me. I've been struggling in enough ways already, and could really use some sunshine to help my mood. One town over from me even had some snow on the ground this morning!
@mvt2003 Cars are basically just big computers at this point, and I don't like it. Glad you figured it out!
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
CD/DPO: 20/ 5 or 6
Timing: Terrible, 0 or +1
Typical LP length: 13
Testing: Nope
R/R: DH did the dishes again last night! We eat mostly paleo and whole foods and rarely eat out so there are dishes every day and our dishwasher is run about every other to every 2 days. It is so nice that he is finally keeping up with doing them, I hope it continues every night. It is nice to come home from work and be able to get in the kitchen and cook right away without a pile of dishes on the counter or in the sink.
CS/Q: I overrode my O date to CD 14. I woke up 2 hours before my alarm and I was breathing from my mouth, my temps are so rocky this month.
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
CD/DPO: 27/10
Timing: Excellent
Typical LP length: 13-15 days
Testing: BFN
R/R: Had a nice birthday yesterday. We went to a local Neapolitan pizza place and then to Culver's for ice-cream. I had plans to leave at 4:30PM and then got hit with urgent stuff so I was still in the office, by myself at 5:30PM. Ugh! Also, H still doesn't have any idea what to get me. I have some ideas but it's a little too much $$ for a birthday gift. I usually ask for a spa gift card. Any ideas? What are some gifts you would like?
CS/Q: weird temps this cycle but FF says that are still on the up trend
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
@shamrocandroll sorry for the BFN.
@mrs_llama Hi! I would be dreading it too. 8:30PM is too late for a Friday. Maybe you can get a nap in?
@whitealbum29 they were talking about the rain in the NE on the news. I hope it stops soon! And I agree about DPO 1-6 being the most peaceful days in your cycle.
@mvt2003 waht kind of car is it? lol
@m6agua I totally agree with you! We cook every night too and I tell my H I need a clean kitchen before I cook. If I have to spend 30 min cleaning the kitchen, then my motivation to cook is 0. And do vaginal temps!
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@mrs_llama 8:30 on a Friday is too late for me too! Is it a good restaurant at least?
@madcouplewithabox I hate crazy dreams like that especially when I’m already not sleeping well. I hope you have a better night tonight.
@whitealbum29 enjoy the calm before the SS storm
@mvt2003 I wouldn’t know how to do that on my car either. Guess I should probably figure that out!
@m6agua I’m glad your DH did the dishes again. My DH does the cooking so I try to keep up with the dishes. It’s only fair!
@rikiteacup my birthday is coming up too and there’s a concert I want to go to that I don’t think DH will necessarily love so I might ask for that. I also always like getting a new purse too!
@rikiteacup it's custard not ice cream! 😂 DH gives me a hard time when I use the wrong term
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
@shamrocandroll I hope you feel better soon. I swear these stomach viruses and sinus problems have been awful this year. We have had compromises about who does what chores, it goes well for a bit, but then I find myself doing almost everything. I will stop for a long time to see if he does it, he doesn't, and then it is more work for me in the end. I hope he keeps this up. I downloaded the love languages app and had him take the quiz too, so I think it opened up his eyes to me receiving love with acts of service.
@mrs_llama I hope the dinner will be enjoyable at least.
@madcouplewithabox Aww man, I've been having some vivid dreams lately too.
@whitealbum29 Isn't part of spring, rain? It's been raining a fair amount here too. I hope summer is nice this year too.
@mvt2003 That sucks, I hope your day has gone better.
@rikiteacup There is a Culver's basically across the street from my house and also from my work. It is my downfall. I love a chocolate concrete mixer with peanut butter sauce and heath bar! For gift idea, spa gift card, hydro flask water or coffee cup/mug, gift card to tanning, MeUndies, I like practical gifts too, like kitchen tools. I don't know if I will ever take the plunge into vaginal temping. I usually can still see a shift even with rocky temps. I do think I need a new battery though.
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019CD/DPO: 22/1
Timing: Excellent
Typical LP length: 14
Testing: WFAF
R/R: Constant cramping in my lower right side. Also been so tired today and just overall feeling like it was a yucky day. Ready for a new day.
CS/Q: Does anyone else have ovulation cramps for a couple days after ovulation? Never had it before so wasn't sure if it was common
@shamrocandroll Feel better!!
@mrs_llama Hope it's a yummy meal at least!
@madcouplewithabox ugh, I hate bad sleeps, I don't function normally. I hope you have a better night tonight!