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TWW Friday 5/10

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Month/Cycle:ย 

CD/DPO:ย 

Timing:ย 

Typical LP length:ย 

Testing:ย 

R/R:

CS/Q:
*TW* History
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

IUI #1-3ย |ย all BFN
IVF #1 |ย 6.11.19ย |ย 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1ย |ย 9.10.19ย |ย BFNย "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testingย |ย all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2ย |ย 3.31.20ย |ย Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE |ย 8.20.20ย |ย Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! |ย 9.22.20ย |ย MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally |ย starting 11.22.20

Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist |ย 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy |ย 10.1.21ย | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono |ย 10.15.21ย |ย normal
Bloodwork |ย 10.21.21ย |ย high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22ย B)ย | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch;ย added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction


TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI |ย 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check |ย allย normal
Labs |ย high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up |ย 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce

**New relationship starting May 2024**

Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Its Gonna Be May GIFs  Tenor

Re: TWW Friday 5/10

  • flowntheloopflowntheloop member
    edited May 2019
    Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD/DPO: 28/12?

    Timing:ย  excellent (every other day for the most part, with some back-to-back)

    Typical LP length: n/a

    Testing: trying to wait until I miss AF (Sunday evening if it hasn't started by then?)

    R/R:
    Rant: I'm just wanting AF to hurry up and get here so I can get my disappointment/grumps out before I go to the in-laws' and my mother's house tomorrow. I woke up at midnight with some cramping, but they had subsided by the time I woke up this morning (4 am), so I may be waiting a day or so.

    Rave: Nothing to rave about right now! :P I'm just feeling very GRRR right now.

    CS/Q:


    Me: 38 DH:38.
    Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary:ย 2001.
    TTC #1 since 3/2019
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  • bows22bows22 member

    Month/Cycle: 6/6

    CD/DPO: 17/4

    Timing: -3,-1

    Typical LP length: 12

    Testing: 11DPO

    R/R: Our cupboards are bare from being gone so I had (way too much) kraft Mac & cheese for dinner last night and feel like crap today. At least it was the whole grain kind? Happy Friday!

  • bows22bows22 member
    @flowntheloop good luck holding out on testing! hopefully visiting your inlaws/mom will be a good distractionย 
  • flowntheloopflowntheloop member
    edited May 2019
    @kagesstarshroom *hugs* Thanks! <3
    You stay safe today! I hate severe weather! We had some last night and we are expecting more today!
    @bows22 <3 Thank you! I hope you feel better today!
    Me: 38 DH:38.
    Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary:ย 2001.
    TTC #1 since 3/2019
  • bows22bows22 member
    @kagesstarshroom Iโ€™m mad at your chart, and at your school. Would you be able to send it via email like a โ€œtake homeโ€ final?
  • @flowntheloop sorry youโ€™re in a funk. Hope youโ€™re able to have a nice weekend regardless of af comes or not.

    @bows22 mmmm Mac and cheese.ย 

    @kagesstarshroom stay safe today! ย Your chart does look so nice. I sorry for the bfn.


    Month/Cycle: 30/3 AL

    CD/DPO: 24/8

    Timing: -5, -3, -2

    Typical LP length: 14

    Testing: ๐Ÿ˜’

    R/R: so glad itโ€™s friday. We may or may not go strawberry picking today. I have zero motivation to get out of the house today though.

    CS/Q:
  • flowntheloopflowntheloop member
    edited May 2019
    @kbrown2385 Strawberry picking sounds awesome. I've been craving fruit smoothies all week (already made one today), so i could DEFINITELY restock my strawberries. Crossing my fingers that the in-laws have fresh ones waiting for me on their farm this weekend!

    I just started spotting, so I think I'm probably out.
    Me: 38 DH:38.
    Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary:ย 2001.
    TTC #1 since 3/2019
  • @flowntheloop I found a field much closer to my house we may stop and go picking at today. The one my friend wanted to go to was about an hour drive with a ferry ride involved and that was just too much for me today. I have little motivation for a huge day tripย lol. Sorry about the spotting ๐Ÿ˜”
  • peppyj9peppyj9 member
    edited May 2019

    Month/Cycle: 3/3

    CD/DPO: 28/9

    Timing: Good, I think

    Typical LP length: unsure

    Testing: tested again this morning, still early, still BFN

    R/R: DH and I have been doing yard work the past few days and it's really starting to look nice! We even planted a lemon tree. I've always wanted one! I'm excited to see it grow :smile:

    CS/Q: nope

    @flowntheloop hope your grrr feeling subsides soon and you have a nice day! Fingers crossed AF doesn't come ๐Ÿคž edit: just saw your update. Sorry to hear ๐Ÿ˜• always next month though!

    @bows22 mmmm, mac and cheese. Whole grain totally offsets everything ๐Ÿ˜‰ Just try to eat lighter today, hope you feel better!

    @kagesstarshroom ugh! What a gross morning! Your school needs to communicate! Is there any way you can reach out to students to postpone the exam? Boo at your chart for being misleading. You deserve some chocolate or something! ๐Ÿซ

    @kbrown2385 oooh!! Strawberry picking sounds fun! I've never done that before. Is there a farm you go to or do they grow wild near you? We get tons of BlackBerry bushes around so we pick those but I'd rather have strawberries! ๐Ÿ“

    Edited for spelling and update on comment
  • edited May 2019
    @flowntheloop FX Hoping AF doesn't come at all, but if she does, I hope she gets there soon so you can enjoy your weekend.ย ย 

    @bows22 I still LOVE Kraft mac n' cheese as a grown ass adult.ย  I can eat a whole box, so I can't keep it in the house.ย  :lol:

    @kagesstarshroom Sorry about the BFN!ย  And your frustrating morning!ย  I hope it turns around soon!ย  :(ย 

    @kbrown2385 Oh man... nothing like fresh picked strawberries!ย  Yum!ย  Have fun if you go!

    ETA: Boooooo @flowntheloop.ย  Sorry about AFย  :(

    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!ย  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • kbrown2385kbrown2385 member
    edited May 2019
    @peppyj9 thereโ€™s quite a few farms around here that grow. My friend wanted to go to one that is an hour away plus a ferry ride. I wasnโ€™t into that today and found on about 10 minutes from myย house. That seems more doable to me lol. I hope you lemon tree grows well! Iโ€™d love to have fruit treesย someday. Growing up we had wild raspberry bushes grow along side my parents driveway and we loved picking those in the summer.ย 

    @shamrocandroll sounds like a fun evening ahead! Hope you enjoy!ย 

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  • @bows22 @peppyj9 Thanks for your suggestions/empathy! However, I would have had to rewrite the final to make it a take home one--and then would have to give students a certain amount of time to take it. With grades due Monday, that puts all of us in a bad position. If some of my students don't show (I'm on campus now, more than half of them are here) I will have to figure something like that out.ย 

    @kbrown2385 Strawberry picking sounds fun! I had a zero motivation day yesterday, though, so I feel you. Leaving the house helped me not think about impending testing, though? So I recommend it.

    @shamrocandroll lolz that's what I often mean by "going out" as well.ย 
  • peppyj9peppyj9 member
    edited May 2019
    @kbrown2385 yes, 10 minutes away is much more doable! That's pretty cool! I'll have to see if that's something we can do in my area. As a side story, DH told me when he was a kid his mom took him and his siblings strawberry picking. Afterwards they stopped at the library but DH didn't want to go in, so he waited in the car. While waiting, had a strawberry. He said they were so delicious he ended up eating them all!! He said his mom was SOOO mad ๐Ÿ˜…


    Edited for typo
  • Month/Cycle: 13/13

    CD/DPO: 23/6

    Timing: Excellent

    Typical LP length: 13-15 days

    Testing: Not before next Tuesday/10 DPO. Don't want to see a BFN on my birthday.

    R/R: The sun is shinning, it's Friday, I wish I could leave early but I have a conf call at 4:00PM. And this person is a talker so I know it will be at least 1 hour long.

    CS/Q: Nothing going on at this time


    TTC#1
    10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
    11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damagedย 
    1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
    4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
    6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020 <3ย  Baby girl born 2/27/2020
    7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).

    TTC #2
    9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
    10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
    12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022

  • @flowntheloop this must be frustrating. Do you know how long your LP usually is?

    @bows22 that's the butter. I always use use half of what they recommend.

    @kagesstarshroom sorry for the BFN. Stay safe!

    @kbrown2385 I would love to go strawberry picking! Sounds like fun.

    @shamrocandroll sounds like the perfect date with your friend :D

    @peppyj9 how, this sounds nice! I need to do yard work also. Mulch and fertilizer.
    TTC#1
    10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
    11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damagedย 
    1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
    4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
    6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020 <3ย  Baby girl born 2/27/2020
    7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).

    TTC #2
    9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
    10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
    12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022

  • @peppyj9 thatโ€™s hysterical! I ate quite a few myself and got way too many. I canโ€™t be left on my own when I pick fruit. I have too much fun and pick way too much. Guess ill have to make strawberry shortcake tonight. Iโ€™m sure dh will be disappointed ๐Ÿคฃ.

  • @rikiteacup why do people schedule
    conference calls for 4pm on a Friday? Clearly that person doesnโ€™t like fun.ย 
  • @rikiteacup It is. I'm spotting and cramping at this point, blahhh! Just ate one of these and cried in my car in the parking lot LOL:

    As for my LP, I can't be exactly sure. I'd say between 12-14 days?

    Me: 38 DH:38.
    Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary:ย 2001.
    TTC #1 since 3/2019
  • @kbrown2385 that person is in Australia so when it is 4:00PM for me on Friday, it will be 7:00AM for them on Saturday.ย 
    TTC#1
    10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
    11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damagedย 
    1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
    4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
    6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020 <3ย  Baby girl born 2/27/2020
    7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).

    TTC #2
    9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
    10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
    12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022

  • peppyj9peppyj9 member
    @rikiteacup thank you! I've always grown up in apartments, so it's my first time having my own yard and the hard work is definitely showing!

    @kbrown2385 whoa!!! You got a huge haul! I'm sure YH will be so disappointed ๐Ÿ˜† kind of makes me wonder just how many strawberries 12yr old DH ate in one sitting ๐Ÿ˜ณ
  • peppyj9peppyj9 member
    @rikiteacup also,ย  sorry about the late conference call. Hope you get out with enough time to still enjoy the sunshine! ๐ŸŒž
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