**This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children or pregnancies of others should have a TW (trigger warning) and be in a spoiler if possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!**
Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: WTO Thursday 5/9
Month/Cycle: 10/9 (fourth cycle AL)
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: Prenatal vitamins, Fertility Friend, temping, OPKs, observing CM, appointment with RE later this month.
R/R: I have a new obsession with Darjeeling tea. I hope I can find it in one of my local grocery stores because it's going to get expensive if I have to order it online from the company where I got my loose-leaf sample. I guess there are worse things to splurge on, though!
CS/Q: Nope. BIG dive this morning. I guess that makes sense now that AF is gone.
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, CM, Pre Seed, PNV, EOD
R/R: saw my dr yesterday * TW LC*
CS/Q: none
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Month/Cycle: 5/1 AL
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: benched for the month. OPK and BBT.
R/R: 16 days of school left. It cannot come soon enough. Kids are being jerks, I’m exhausted, we have to move everything out at the end of the year because our school is being renovated... I’m just checked out.
CS/Q: nope!
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: BBT, FF, HIO, PNVs
R/R: Rant: I go here now, but I was totally expecting AF, and I'm ready to move on!
Rave: It's almost Friday, and I get to see my college besties tomorrow night! If the weather holds out, I may meet my mom to do some outlet shopping this afternoon.
CS/Q: Nothing to see yet.
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
@ejoseph16 hope the rest of the year goes by quickly! What a pain moving everything out though. Hope the renovations are nice
@MrsVP614 sorry about CD1 even if you were expecting it
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
@ejoseph16 sorry about the students! I can hardly deal with people day to day at times. I don't think I could handle the attitude of students!
@MrsVP614 sorry for CD1, but have fun with your college besties!
Month/Cycle: 23
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: BCP, then IVF meds
R/R: I was definitely not expecting to still have AF at CD5 after being on BC for 18 days, but at least it is light. I guess it probably takes a few months to get both shorter and lighter periods. I just can't be bleeding come Monday for the SHG. In other fun news I will probably be driving to a customer location to fix an issue. The drive there is like 2 hours so that'll end up being most of my day. Makes Friday come much faster!
CS/Q: nope
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: cm, opk's, eod, prenatals, preseed, ovia app
R/R: Trying not to overanalyze but I think I screwed myself by experimenting this month with going off Clomid. (Was on for 2 cycles because of generally long cycles/late ovulation but the month before I started I actually ovulated earlier than usual, so this month I tried going without to see if it would happen on its own...esp because I guess there's a limit to how many months you can take it.) The past three days I've done opk's and they've all been low/negative....generally there have been some random high days if I'm going to O around CD 19...like some "activity" at least. I feel like it's going to be another cycle where I O at like day 28 if at all.
CS/Q: nope
@MrsVP614- your plans sound awesome! Enjoy!
@inthewoods23- glad today is going to fly by for you.
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: pnv, opks, temping, ff
R/R: ridiculously bad ovulation cramps yesterday. I was having a hard time standing up.
CS/Q:I think I might be moving over to the TWW tomorrow. This was a super short follicular phase if I'm right. (I've had a hard time in the past week uploading photos from mobile. I'll post my chart later.)
@varimama that is frustrating but at least you have answers!
@spacemountaineer sorry to hear about your cramps! That's awful!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD: 17
WAYDTGKU: pnv, opks
R/R: Still looks like I will either ovulate on the flight to Rome or our first night there so guess I'll be getting busy right before the airport just in case
CS/Q: Nothing today!
@ejoseph16. I took a little mini wto break and just saw you’re here:( I’m so sorry *gives giant hugs* hopefully these last weeks of school will go by quick!
@varimama Do you think temping would drive you crazy? Your doctor can give you suggestions about tracking, but they are not you, only you can decide.
@ejoseph16 I hope the days go by quick!
@MrsVP614 Sorry about CD 1.
@inthewoods23 I hope AF gets out of here by Monday!
@whitealbum29 I hope you ovulate soon!
@samvsimpson I like the Watermelon Wonder flavor, sometimes I mix it with a lime carbonated water.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: A lot of supplements, FF, CM, BBT
R/R: I haven't really felt like I had a whole lot to contribute to this thread this week so I haven't really been posting.
CS/Q: Not really a question or CS, just that I have a feeling O is today. My temp rose a bit this morning, it's my typical O time, my cm is not really fertile anymore and I had O pain this morning. If so we have no timing except tonight (hopefully). I guess I will just wait and see.
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019Month/Cycle: 2/ 1 AL
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: Acupuncture 1x/week, HIO 2 days on 1 day off in FW, BBT, Pre Seed, CB Advanced OPK this month
R/R: Joke's on me. Remember when I said I love CDs 7-11 because there is never any CRAZY? Well, it looks like I spoke too soon. GAH! My temp this morning was equivalent to my usual post O temp from other months. I did have EWCM yesterday (CD 9) and watery (CD 8), but no Peak reading on my advanced OPK. I had slight twinges on my left side, but nothing compared to my normal O pain I get every month. We did HIO on CD 8 because I noticed watery CM, but not last night. The rest of my R/R will go in spoiler due to **TW Loss**.
CS/Q: Chart in spoiler.
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
@samvsimpson get that BD when you need to! Mile high club maybe? 😉
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@varimama Sorry your OB appointment didn't go as planned, but at least you have more clarity on why your cycles are longer/lighter.
@ejoseph16 WAHOO for 16 more days left! Hang in there
@inthewoods23 I don't know much about BCP AF bleeding, but I hope it finishes by the time you have your SHG so you don't need to delay it. FX for you!
@whitealbum29 I'm having a weird cycle too, but in my normal cycles where I O between CD 15-17, I generally have some activity about 72 hours before O. So I don't think you're far off at all with a CD 19 O and being on CD 15.
@spacemountaineer I'm so sorry about your O cramps! This happened to me two cycles ago. I was basically bed ridden the whole day I was ovulating. Heating pad and all! I thought I even had a cyst rupture. I hope you're on the mend!
@samvsimpson Have fun in Rome!
@MrsVP614 I'm sorry about CD 1
@m6agua FX O will be tomorrow and you can get in one last HIO session!
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
@inthewoods23 hope your day went fast!
@whitealbum29 I’m sorry you feel like you screwed up experimenting this cycle, there was no way for you to know unless you tried though. I hope it still ends up working out anyways
@samvsimpson what is kombucha? I feel like I’m seeing it around now but I’ve never heard of it like before 6 months ago
@puppylove8910 sorry your calm days are crazy this month, hope it levels out for you quickly
@spacemountaineer sorry about the cramps, good luck at TWW
Edited bc my phone screwed up formatting
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
I could just tag everyone, but ugh. After my complaining session on here this morning, I had an actual 3rd grade fist fight in my classroom today. Like one boy pinned another up against the wall, punching him in his face. 😩🤦🏼♀️ At least they’re both suspended? Silver lining.
@m6agua omg! that sounds sooo good! Definitely trying that!
@inthewoods23 hahaha DH would never, I would... I'll try but.. he's a germaphobe and well airplane bathrooms... you know 😫
@puppylove8910 Thank you!!
@MrsVP614 sorry about CD1. Even when you're expecting it, it still sucks.
@inthewoods23 hope AF gets the heck outta town ASAP. That's so frustrating.
@whitealbum29 I did find some Darjeeling (Twinings) at the grocery store near me. Have you ever tried Harney & Sons teas? They have some really great varieties! I just tried their Florence tea and it tastes kind of like Nutella! I'm sorry for the confusion around O.
@spacemountaineer do you usually get really bad O pain? Ouch.
@samvsimpson Darjeeling is a black tea from India. I can't really describe the flavor, maybe slightly sweet. Have a safe flight to Rome!
@m6agua FX for good timing!
@puppylove8910 that seems like a really early O. Who knows WTF our bodies are thinking sometimes?
@varimama sorry your OB appointment was a bit frustrating. If you're looking for a good OPK, I really like Pregmate.