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Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: WTO Thursday 5/2
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, CM, preseed, PNV
R/R: Today is opening day for ALDIs (our new grocery store) I’m hoping to check it out but if it’s a madhouse then I’ll just go to our normal place across the street. I’m pretty excited because I’ve been frustrated with our normal place for cost and quality for a while now so hope this place lives up to my dreams.
CS/Q:none yet
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Month/Cycle: 29/3 AL
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: metformin, clomid w/monitoring, TI, progesterone after o, Tempdrop, opk, pnv, ubiquinol, vit c,d,e, methylfolate, baby aspirin, ww, low carb
R/R: rant- dh has had failure to launch both last night and this morning...so not impressed 😒. Preeeety sure our chance has passed. Dh has duty today so I won’t see him until tomorrow after work.
Rave- it’s finally Thursday so the rest of the week should be more relaxed. There’s a big plant sale on Saturday that I’m looking forward to.
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 5/6
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: Sex EODish and tracking CM
R/R: We leave for our trip tomorrow and a lot still needs to be done today (both at work and at home). It’s going to be crazy but I’m starting to think I’m going to be able to make it all happen
CS/Q:
@kbrown2385 ugh so frustrating. Hopefully today is O so you will have pretty good timing still
@bows22 hope you have a great trip!
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
@bows22 - good luck getting ready and have a good trip!
Month/Cycle: 9/9
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: ovia app, prenatals, cm, eod, evening primrose oil, preseed, will probably end up doing opk's this month. I just need to put this list somewhere and copy it in every day, I feel like I always forget something haha.
R/R: We should start EOD today but SO got a bad night's sleep and was a stress case this morning about work, which is supposed to get less stressful for him this month. I hope he can relax today and just chill out for the next couple of weeks.
CS/Q: nope
@bows22 days before a trip are always crazy! Hope you get everything done that you need to do!
Month/Cycle: 23/21
CD: 23
WAYDTGKU: done with BCP, but back on it in a week to start IVF things
R/R: the deck is officially ALL gone. There's so much light in our basement now lol. Now DH and I need to go through our junk to see what we can add to the dumpster before they haul it away. Problem is, there's almost no room left so the old table and chairs I want to toss might not fit! We might have to saw the legs off or something.
CS/Q: nope
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@inthewoods23 that’s awesome getting more light in your basement! Hope you find a way to fit the table!
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
@whitealbum29 hoping yh can relax a little so you can get through your fw.
@bows22 I’m sure you’ll get everything you need done! Have a great trip!
@kbrown2385 That's frustrating. Hopefully timing still works out okay!
@bows22 Good luck getting things done, and have so much fun on your trip! Where ya headed?
@whitealbum29 Hope YH finds a way to relax a bit! Maybe you could set up a little relaxation scene for him when he gets home to help put him in the mood? Candles, music, etc.?
@inthewoods23 Are you guys planning to put another deck on? Or any other big plans for the space?
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
CD: 18
WAYDTGKU: NTNP
R/R: MH put a serious dent in the front corner our fairly new, very expensive stainless fridge with his crutch. I know he didn't do it on purpose, but just one more thing to add on to my list of frustrations with this ankle injury.
CS/Q: Nah.
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD: 20
WAYDTGKU: prenatals, opk, bbt, preseed
R/R: took my 2 cats to their new vet yesterday for annual/vaccination and she and her assistant were both so fantastic! I've never had a bad vet, but this one, you could just tell how much she genuinely loves animals. 😊 both cats are in great health, especially considering their age, but they're also both fat (13 lbs) so DH and I were kindly suggested to give them "less treats, more play" 😬
CS/Q: nope
@varimama I've never been to an Aldi because we don't have one but I've heard good things, especially about their prices!
@kbrown2385 bummer about failure to launch, but as others said, your timing might still be good! 🤞 plant sale sounds nice! I've always had a black thumb but recently planted some sunflowers, we'll see if they grow..
@bows22 prepping for travel is always so stressful! But it's nice to get away! Where are you headed?
@whitealbum29 sorry to hear SO is under so much stress. Hopefully he'll be able to unwind a bit soon. Men always seem to carry their work around with them.
@shamrocandroll ugh about your fridge! I would be so upset, but like, it was an accident so you can't show how upset you are. 😑 yay for the knee scooter though! Hope his ankle heals soon. It's hard when your SO is out of commission. But for sicker and poorer or whatever 😝
@inthewoods23 sounds like you've got a big project going on! Are you remodeling your basement area?
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: FF/BBT/CM, NP Thyroid, Progesterone Cream, Multivitamin, Vit D, Omega 2, Probiotic, Thyromax supplement, Methylated B-Complex. Magnesium Bisglycinate. DH is on Multi, D, Omega 3 w/ CoQ10
R/R: The weekend is almost here!
CS/Q: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5d321c
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019@kbrown2385 Sorry about YH, hopefully the other days will be enough.
@bows22 Have a great trip!
@whitealbum29 I hope he has less stress soon!
@inthewoods23 I was going to ask about a new deck and then see you answered that already!
@shamrocandroll Yay friend for loaning you guys the scooter.
@peppyj9 I have a large cat who I have on a "diet" right now. Basically we are trying not to over feed him and give him more exercise too. I think he must be 15/16 lbs, but he is long and muscular so 11-12 lbs is ideal for him.
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019@bows22 - good luck getting everything done today!
@shamrocandroll - I'm sorry DH's ankle injury has been so stressful for you.
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: pnv, opks, temping
R/R: The guests that were coming this weekend postponed their trip. I'm so relieved! I can get caught up on laundry from being gone and grocery shopping! Also I still had so much to cleaning left. I'm glad I can pace myself now.
CS/Q: --
@peppyj9 glad you found a vet you like so much! Compared to mine your cats are small haha. Elvis is 21lbs 🙃.
@shamrocandroll sorry you’re having such a tough time with dh and his injury! Exciting about the scooter! Maybe he will prove to be of some help now, as long as he doesn’t run into the fridge again lol.
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: currently benched
R/R: rough emotional day, but excited to be done with state testing! My little third graders have taken some kind of end of the year test (state or district) at least 2 days a week every week since the end of March. We took the last one today! We celebrated by relaxing and watching a movie and eating popcorn.
CS/Q: nothing to see
@varimama MH and I love ALDI! That’s the main gravers store we use. The ALDI find aisle is our favorite.
@kbrown2385 sorry about the failure to launch... we had that problem not too long ago. 😩
@shamrocandroll I don’t know why but I just visualized YH on a scooter with a basket and it made me giggle! I can imagine the frustration, especially when TTC. Then to put a dent in the fridge? Party foul!
Edited for formatting... my phone did something crazy. 🤷🏼♀️
@peppyj9 - great about your new vet!
@ejoseph16 - so sorry today was rough for you. Good about state testing!