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I miss sex!

amiiprice1amiiprice1 member
in September 2019 Moms
So I'm pregnant with my second, there will be a 15 month age gap between the two and I'm struggling with sex. Before being a mum I was horny. I was excited to watch porn, I own many toys and we even looked at visiting a club. During my first pregnant that appetite vanished! We maybe had sex twice in the 9 months. I then struggled with a little prolapse and it took a while for me to start feeling myself then I got pregnant again. Back to no libido! I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else feels this way or has found a natural way to get it back that's safe to baby. I miss it. I miss the feeling of being wanted. He does. Dont get me wrong but I dont feel sexy anymore. Its more a chore!!!!

Help me ladies!!
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    cheshyre319cheshyre319 member
    What is it about sex that you miss? The physical feel good? The connection to your partner? The intimacy? 
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    amiiprice1amiiprice1 member
    I would say all of it, things are a little drier there which is a bit of a mood kill for me but it's something my partner and I were always good at hahaha we have a fab connection and it's almost feels like now we dont have sex as often we just dont seem as close. Theres no random kisses or hugs or flirting and it's so sad :( hes given up as much as I have it seems :(
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    staciexo30staciexo30 member
    I also find it difficult to get in the mood. My husband hasn’t been trying as much lately because he knows I’m just not as into it. We talked about it and I figure I just need more foreplay and that seems to help. Spontaneity is also a turn on so the other day I hopped in the shower with him and that got things going I just find it takes a lot more thought and effort while pregnant! Just got for it! Grab some lube, a vibrator, your husband, and turn on some porn and get busy. 😉 
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    mamabear092019mamabear092019 member
    I am on pelvic rest due to the placenta detaching and reattaching early in the pregnancy. It's been VERY hard on us, but we finally found a rhythm that works for us. It definitely takes a bit more work, but it is totally worth it! Turning on porn instead of browsing on our phones at night, using yummy lubes for oral, having hubby apply body butter in the much needed areas I can't reach and the ones he likes to help with anyway, taking warm baths with a bath bomb or bath salts together, pulling the toys out. I'll even throw a teddy on if I think I really could get into it. My hubby is into my bump curves, so that helps. I dont always start off in the mood, but seeing him into it helps get me into it. 
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