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Month/Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Typical LP length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: TWW Monday 4/8
CD/DPO: 20/6
Timing: -1,1
Typical LP length: 13
Testing: the 16th at the earliest
R/R: This weekend went by so fast. I guess that means we had a good time. I spent way too much money at Costco yesterday, but I’m excited for the lavender plant I picked up lol. I think spring is here to stay, it’s going to be mid 70s today and i hope we can spend most of it outside.
CS/Q: o day changed again so our timing got better
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 25/7
Timing: -2
Typical LP length: 12-14
Testing: Waiting for AF
R/R: We had an awesome weekend, but we were so busy, I didn't get to bump. The weather was awesome, so we went to the zoo Saturday with friends. The rest of our time was spent getting our house back in order after renovations, and it's so nice to have things back in their place!
CS/Q: Posting in spoiler
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
@MrsVP614 glad you had a good weekend!
Month/Cycle: 22/20
CD/DPO: 27/13
Timing: decent
Typical LP length: apparently the few months before my IUIs I have had 13-15 day LPs so....
Testing: an expired internet cheapie was BFN yesterday..... So....
R/R: good weekend with my brother around. I can never think of more rants or raves when I post so early in the morning...
ETA: see I just remembered a rant - my cat slept on my legs last night so I woke up at like 3AM sweating to death. Sweating while sleeping in the worst!
CS/Q: I hate my chart. Stupid dip confusing me!
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD/DPO: 20/6 according to FF
Timing: "good"
Typical LP length: 12-13
Testing: Probably 9dpo
R/R: This cycle is nothing like any other cycle so far. It looks like I had a slow rise at first and now my temps are unusually high.
CS/Q: Such a wonky cycle that has me doubting all the things.
@kbrown2385 - lavender sounds divine. enjoy!
@inthewoods23 - sorry for the BFN
@kerco925 - whoop! can't ignore that temp rise.
Month/Cycle: 6/5
CD/DPO: 23/10
Timing: -2, O
Typical LP length: 14d
Testing: BFN today
R/R: this weekend went by way too quickly. some big things hopefully happening this week with our home addition, but i should know better than to get too excited or hopeful
CS/Q: wonky chart this cycle with lots of open circles, but temps staying as predicted.
Married May 2013
BFP #1: 10/14/16 - DD born 6/2017
TTC #2 November 2018 (Mirena removed October 2018 after 1 year)
BFP #2 9/11/19 - EDD 5/24/20 - DD born 5/2020
TTC #3 May 2022 (Mirena removed after almost 2 years)
BFP #3 11/24/23 - EDD 7/30/24
CD/DPO: 31/11
Timing: bad
Typical LP length: In the past, 12-13. Lately, 8 or 10... but looks like I’m getting back to normal!
Testing: BFN
R/R: Found some bunny babies in our planter box. They were afraid of the leaf blower and all snuggled up, so I just put their covering back on. Here’s a pic of a video. I got a splinter while pulling stuff out of the planter box, so I didn’t get any better pics.
CS/Q:
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
@sevenn: I think all of us need to take some breaks from TB now and then. chime in whenever!
@kerco925: I feel like mine was also a slower rise followed by a jump this time too. Weird.
@inthewoods23: sorry about the BFN
@MrsVP614: sounds like a great weekend!!
@kbrown2385: Costco always takes too much of my money!
@kerco925 that’s such a dramatic temp change! Makes for a really pretty chart though!
@inthewoods23 sorry for the BFN. I hear ya on the pet thing. My two cats sleep at my feet sometimes and I wake up burning up. Its not so bad in the winter, but when outside temps start rising it makes for horrible sleep!
@sevenn hello! FX everything goes well with the house:)
Month/cycle: 5
CD/DPO: 21/6
Timing: Good
Typical LP:14-16
Testing: Next mon or Tuesday
R/R: Got a pic with Jason Momoa yesterday at Wizard World😍 He’s sooooooo tall!!!
CS/Q: big dip today which is annoying. Still abover coverline though.
*edit.words are hard*
CD/DPO: 11/25
Timing: ok
Typical LP length: 14
Testing: thought about it this morning but actually didn’t have any tests in the house. Maybe tomorrow? I’m out of town for work wed-fri, with AF due Friday. I’m quite torn on when to test.
R/R: camping was wonderful! We only stayed one night, but got in an entire day of outdoor fun inn saturday before storms rolled in on Sat night. Glad we bailed though, b/c weather got pretty nasty!
CS/Q: stopped temping so nothing to see here now.
CD/DPO: 22/11?
Timing: -5, -4, -3, 0 (x2), 2, 3 {Probably not spot on as I don't do any ovulation testing and I'm just basing this on cervical mucus consistency.}
Typical LP length: no idea
Testing: I might shoot for the April 11th or 12th. The waiting is killing me.
R/R: Feeling better this morning so far. It is getting to the time of the month where PMS/PMDD symptoms start to surface, so I'm dreading that. Anyone else have it really rough before and during AF?
Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019
@madcouplewithabox WOW! Awesome you got to meet Jason Momoa!
@NYTino24 Aww cute. It is a good thing that you let them be!
Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019
Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019
@inthewoods23 I am glad you had a nice visit with your brother. My cat often sleeps on me and makes me sweaty, it is miserable. But he comes immediately back when I shoo him away.
@nytino24 they are adorable!
@madcouplewithabox, that is so cool!
CD/DPO: 22/7
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 15
Testing: so, I tried to be bad today and take one and accidentally took an opk. Thankfully I realized my mistake before seeing it and thinking it was positive.
R/R: so, this week has been awful. Home from work again... dh’s friend, BIl, SIL and nephews came over last night, which was fun.
CS/Q:
@NYTino24 Cute bunnies!
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
@kerco925 I’m liking that rise!
@inthewoods23 Boo to the BFN
@MrsVP614 Glad things are falling into place!
@kbrown2385 I’m happy that your timing seems better. Lavender plants smell sooo good!
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
@kbrown2385 - I love nice spring weather! Are you hanging the lavender plant or putting it in the garden? Also, don't forget -4 counts for your timing
@MrsVP614 - I bet you are so relieved to have your kitchen back. It looks beautiful btw!
@inthewoods23 - Can't trust those expired internet cheapies, smh. :d
@kerco925 - Your chart looks good! Has FF given you triphastic??
@NYTino24 - Baby bunnies 😍😍😍
@madcouplewithabox - Pics or it didn't happen! I'm insanely jealous right now!
@lcking82 - Test tomorrow? That way you can be prepared for AF while you are away.
@flowntheloop - I got really depressed Saturday and yesterday, but it doesn't always happen every cycle.
@holly321 - I'm glad you were able to figure out it was an OPK before getting your hopes up. That would be a cruel trick!
AFM, I'm still here, so no AF yet and still getting BFNs. I've just been testing EOD since AF was "due" but I'm stuck at work with no supplies because I forgot to repack my purse from last month. Hopefully I make it through the day before it starts.
This weekend was just really hard. I was super depressed with not a lot of reasons why. I wasn't in the mood for company, but somehow our house ended up the party place on Saturday. Sunday I got some time to de-stress and binge on the new Hanna show on Amazon Prime.
Eta I hope you feel better soon. Take care of yourself ❤️
*TW, DD is edited out, but you can still see a leg*
*edit, cause non edited photo was accidentally uploaded lol*
CD/DPO: 6/23
Timing: Excellent
Typical LP length: 13-15 days
Testing: Maybe this Thursday
R/R: I had a very productive weekend. I removed vertical blinds from my sliding glass door, filled in the holes, sanded, primed, painted and installed curtains. It looks so.much.better. I am proud to say that the family room is now the only room in the house with vertical blinds. They will eventually be replaced but this is an improvement. Wood blinds/curtains look much better.
CS/Q: Forgot my phone in the car but chart is looking exactly like it does at 6DPO.
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
CD/DPO: 24/9dpiui
Timing: good?
Typical LP length: 14
Testing: not yet
R/R: Having lunch today with my friend who's in town from NY. Should be fun. This week is looking like a busy one so just trying to take it easy right now.
CS/Q: didn't temp this cycle.
@MrsVP614 I love it when a house project is over and everything goes back to its place. What did you have done?
@inthewoods23 remember that you can't analyse your chart based on 1 temp. Dips don't mean much on their own.
@kerco925 are these high temps normal for you? Also, based on your OPK I would say you are 6DPO but based on temps, I would say you are 4DPO.
@sevenn I love house projects, can you tell us more about your house addition?
@NYTino24 Baby bunnies are so damn cute. And YAY! for a longer LP!
@madcouplewithabox your dip is most likely an estrogen surge. Totally normal. Your temps will go back up tomorrow.I have this every other cycle.
@lcking82 glad you had fun camping. Where was it?
@flowntheloop my PMS symptoms vary each cycles. Some cycles I have boob pain starting at 6DPO until AF comes, some cycle I have nothing.
@holly321 I hope you have a better week! Good thing you realized it was an OPK. I totally see myself doing one day.
@marebear15 I hope you feel better. Watching your favorite shows is the best when you're not feeling your best.
@littleredm Enjoy your lunch!
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
@flowntheloop The waiting is also killing me, but I keep telling myself that I thought we had NO chance this cycle and then bc I O'd earlier than expected, turns out we have a chance, so I'm grateful for that & going to wait until I said I was going to wait until bc there's good reason. So, solidarity in the waiting!
@kbrown2385 I got a lavender plant this weekend, too! 👯♀️Also, yay for yr O changing since it made yr timing better, ^_~*.
@NYTino24 Sorry for the bfn--but I love those baby bunnies! How cute! We don't really have rabbits in Louisiana? I've never seen one in the almost-four years we've been here, at least.
@inthewoods23 Sorry for the bfn and confusing chart. My one dog insists on sleeping on top of me sometimes & she's 50+ lb., so I feel you on the "waking up sweating"--esp. now that it's been nice around here! I'm like "girlfriend. it's too hot for this! you have your own bed!"
Month/Cycle: 6/2AL
CD/DPO: 24/11
Timing: -2
Typical LP length: 14-15 days
Testing: planning on doing it tomorrow, though w/ low confidence (chart isn't looking fab.) like I said above, though, I thought we had zero shot bc of my traveling during most of FW, so that we even have a chance, I'm grateful for.
R/R: DH is sick & I'm notoriously bad at taking care of him when he is--what I got from the tarot card I pulled today (5 of Swords, if anyone is interested,) was not to be too caught up in my own that I ignore those around me who can help lift me up, but it turns out he's also bad at being taken care of & didn't want anything I offered! I will try again in a bit---It's Monday, and my to do list is stupid long, too, so there's that. / Hate not having a rave, so... I wrote two poems yesterday!
CS/Q: nothing exciting, but here she is:
@rikiteacup these temps aren't normal for me. Really nothing about this cycle has been. Usually positive opk, ewcm, and temp rise are all close together. This time they are all over. I tend to think I am 4dpo now because I never have a slow rise. But who knows?
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@rikiteacup I want all the bees to pollinate my vegetables, so I’m pulling out all the stops haha. I’m hoping it thrives, dh loves lavender.
@littleredm have fun at lunch today!
@marebear15 it’s a porch plant, so I’ll keep it in a container. We rent so I can’t have a real garden unfortunately. I’ll add the -4 tomorrow. Anything to help, right? 🤣 Sorry you weren’t into it this weekend. What’s the new show? I just started outlander and I’m obsessed.
@holly321 good thing you remembered it was an opk before you saw. I can imagine the emotional roller coaster that would have ensued 😬
@NYTino24 those bunnies are so cute! Glad your lp is getting longer!
@inthewoods23 glad you had a nice weekend with your brother!
@madcouplewithabox
Married May 2013
BFP #1: 10/14/16 - DD born 6/2017
TTC #2 November 2018 (Mirena removed October 2018 after 1 year)
BFP #2 9/11/19 - EDD 5/24/20 - DD born 5/2020
TTC #3 May 2022 (Mirena removed after almost 2 years)
BFP #3 11/24/23 - EDD 7/30/24
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
Month/Cycle: 1/1 (randomly tried in winter but then had to wait because I am in 2 weddings this fall and couldn't be going into labor! LOLz)
CD/DPO: 23/7
Typical LP length: 2 weeks?
Testing: Waiting for AF and its killing me
R/R: My rave is that spring has finally sprung here and I am so beyond excited to get outside after this AWFUL WINTER here ins Chicago. I need sunshine!!!!!
@kbrown2385 I can totally relate to the lavender and Costco, we always spend so much but no clue if it's even worth it lol!
@NYTino24 sorry about your BFN