This is a weekly check in for the mamas who have made it to the 3rd trimester!
3rd Trimester is over for me...please feel free to take over
Congrats to @uterusdreams on her new baby girl and to @Drove2u on her new baby boy!!
- How far along / EDD?
- How is everyone feeling this week?
- Upcoming appointments?
- Questions?
- GTKY: How is everyone's nursery's coming along?
If you're just joining us please post a:
Mini synopsis in your first post with your EDD
How many babies you are pregnant with
If you know the gender(s)
How you have been feeling going into 3rd trimester.
Please let us know if you need to be added to the list below.
❤ Mama's to be ❤
@kristimh80 March 25th - Eviction Day!! EDD 3/28 GIRL!
@bebesparrow EDD 3/27
@scikap EDD 4/1 BOY!
madasm0530 4/20 BOY!
@bpietronicco 5/15 BOY!
@bkatp 5/31 BOY!
northbeach3 6/5 GIRL!
TTC #1 since April 2015
June 2016 - CP
2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
IVF w/ PGS - January 2018
FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
ERA Cycle May / June 2018
ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP

Beta #1 - 137 Beta #2 - 410
U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
EDD March 28, 2019
Baby Girl born 3/26/19

Re: 3rd Trimester Check-in | w/o March 25th
and congrats on the coming one @kristimh80
!!! so much excitement over here
Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE
Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016.
September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo.
Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC
June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice.
August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP. Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18
September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks
March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!
TTC #2
January/Feb 2021 - Freeze-all IVF cycle
March 2021 - FET of 1 PGS normal female embryo. BFP! Beta #1 156, #2 472, #3 1241, #4 5268 EDD 12/5/21 - Christmas baby!
"When all is lost then all is found."
@bebesparrow are you ready for the big day ?
dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019
(3 untested embryos remain)
@bkatp @northbeach3 sleep has been ok. It could be better. I’m able to knock out easily but I do wake up about every 2 hrs to use the restroom.
@mrsyng I have started to look into pediatricians within 5 miles of where I live From last week. Yet to zero down on one
Things to ask about with a pediatrician --
After hours resources -- answering service, phone number/emails/txts, etc.
Extended hours -- evening and weekend hours for busy schedules.
Same day sick appointments -- will you be able to bring in your kiddo the same day if they are sick?
Bedside manner -- do you "mesh" with the doctor? Every doctor is a little different and you'll want to find one that makes you feel comfortable. You'll be trusting their experience and knowledge often so this is important! Don't feel bad if you don't like a doctor's style and want to find someone else; there are patients who do like their style and there is likely another doctor better suited for you. The doctor wants the relationship to work just as much as you do!
Newborn rooming/waiting room -- you'll want to check to make sure they room newborns quickly so their waiting room exposure is minimal until their immune system gets built up a bit more. You'll be seeing them quite a bit in the first few weeks so knowing you won't have to sit in a room with sick kids is a huge plus. Our office let us wait in the car until they had a room open so we could go right to the back.
Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE
Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016.
September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo.
Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC
June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice.
August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP. Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18
September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks
March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!
TTC #2
January/Feb 2021 - Freeze-all IVF cycle
March 2021 - FET of 1 PGS normal female embryo. BFP! Beta #1 156, #2 472, #3 1241, #4 5268 EDD 12/5/21 - Christmas baby!
"When all is lost then all is found."
@mrsyng sorry to hear about the terrible reflux. i only get mild cases here and there that i try to manage with tums or pepcid once and a while. i am getting winded though... its hard to teach for 3 hours straight -- my breathing is definitely more labored and short. the new thing is allergy season! i hadn't had seasonal allergies until i moved to vegas. i woke up with puffy eyes and a runny nose but didn't feel sick... then i remembered allergies! blergh
@bkatp gastritis sounds super uncomfortable and probably worse than having to get up to pee all the time. hoping the medication helps... they say to get as much sleep now as possible!
dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019
(3 untested embryos remain)
@kristimh80 hope you are enjoying with your baby girl.
@bebesparrow @scikap any updates from you ?
My ob gyn appointment went well and I am scheduled out till my delivery. Biweekly appointments till 36 weeks and weekly then on.
I can now differentiate brackston hicks and baby movements. Have anyone of you experienced lower back pain, I read online that persistent lower back pain coupled with 3-4 brackston hicks in an hour is associated with pre term labor. I had both yesterday and was Worried if it was pre term labor. I laid down for rest of the time and I am fine by the morning. Now at work I am experiencing both again, after I reach home I’ll just lay down again for rest of the day. Just hoping to make it to another 5 weeks atleast. If this feeling doesn’t go away I’ll bring it up with my OB at my next appointment on 10th.
Have any any of you gotten your RX for your breast pump? I brought it up once earlier with my OB and she said oh of course we’ll give you an RX but dunno when to bring it up again.
@kristimh80 I’ve been waiting with bated breath for your update. Hope things went smoothly. Let us know!!!
dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019
(3 untested embryos remain)
30+1
dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019
(3 untested embryos remain)
dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019
(3 untested embryos remain)
@northbeach3 I got my pump thru Aeroflow Breast Pumps. I didn't need the dr to give me an RX directly, the company will contact everyone for you and checks your insurance to see what you coverage is. It only took a couple of days for them to get back to me and gave me a web page of my options that insurance covered, plus optional upgraded one's. It was so easy! Plus, they sent the pump within a week and didn't have to wait.
June 2016 - CP
2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
IVF w/ PGS - January 2018
FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
ERA Cycle May / June 2018
ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP
U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
EDD March 28, 2019
Baby Girl born 3/26/19
Congrats! She's perfect! And Anne's birthday twin hahah
@bebesparrow
Congrats also!! Sounds like my hubby when he was born -- 10 lbs and hefty!
Hope the recoveries are smooth for both of you
Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE
Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016.
September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo.
Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC
June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice.
August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP. Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18
September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks
March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!
TTC #2
January/Feb 2021 - Freeze-all IVF cycle
March 2021 - FET of 1 PGS normal female embryo. BFP! Beta #1 156, #2 472, #3 1241, #4 5268 EDD 12/5/21 - Christmas baby!
"When all is lost then all is found."
@mbradfo2 Haha I thought about you and your LO the other day when she was born!
I will say, after all the hard work and time we put into having these little one's...you forget it all as soon as they are here. I keep asking myself..."is she really mine? Like how did this happen?"
June 2016 - CP
2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
IVF w/ PGS - January 2018
FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
ERA Cycle May / June 2018
ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP
U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
EDD March 28, 2019
Baby Girl born 3/26/19
congrats to @kristimh80 and @bebesparrow!!
What an eventful week.
Baby boy Alexander was born on March 26, 6 lb 12 oz!
Everyone is doing great, though the birth was pretty dramatic (read below if you want).
Can't believe he's finally here
I never ended up being induced because i went into labor on my own at 39 weeks. I had fairly mild manageable contractions for about 22 hours, when my water broke. Baby came about 5 hours after that after that.
Here’s the scary part. As soon as I started pushing, the baby’s heart rate dropped dramatically. Turns out his umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck twice. The OB said that we needed to get baby out ASAP by whatever means necessary. I was pushing as hard as I could, but it wasn’t enough. They tried two different vacuums, gave me an episiotomy, and then in the end the forceps did the trick to get him out.
Baby Alexander is 100% perfect! I’m fine too, but I have a grade 4 tear and a rough recovery in the coming weeks. Still worth it though

Age: 38 DH: 38 Together since 2000, Married August 2010, TTC since April 2016
IF diagnoses: MFI (3% morphology) & LPD
1/18 - IUI with puregon & ovidrel - BFN
2/18 - IUI with puregon & ovidrel - BFN
3/18 - TI with puregon & ovidrel - BFN
5/18 - TI with puregon - BFN
6/18 - IUI with puregon & ovidrel - BFN
7/18 - IUI with puregon & ovidrel - First BFP ever! Beta 12dpIUI: 18, beta 14dpIUI: 48, beta 16dpIUI: 142, beta 23dpIUI: 4797.
1st ultrasound @ 7 weeks: HB 145
2nd ultrasound @ 9 weeks: HB 140
EDD April 2/19
June 2016 - CP
2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
IVF w/ PGS - January 2018
FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
ERA Cycle May / June 2018
ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP
U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
EDD March 28, 2019
Baby Girl born 3/26/19
congrats @bebesparrow and @scikap!! Also very exciting/nerve wracking birth stories. Best of luck with your recoveries and spending time with your new babes.
dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019
(3 untested embryos remain)
dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019
(3 untested embryos remain)
All beautiful babies with exciting birth stories. Hoping for fast recovery for all three of you.
@northbeach3 I had a very small baby shower of only 9 people so I was able to splurge and get a bottle of champagne for each. Honestly, you look great, mama, looking at your picture.
TTC since Oct 2013
IVF round 1 January 2016 (w/ ICSI)
ER: February 17, 2016; 15 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized
Day 5 Blastocysts: 8 sent for PGS - 5 Normal
FET date: April 12, 2016 - DS born Dec 7, 2016
IVF round 2: FET : Oct 4 - 1st Beta 188!
my party planners are both a bit obsessive in their own ways, so they've been clashing with each other, and kinda driving my batty. the one who's doing food wants to go way over the top and had been demanding matching serving ware, but she doesn't have any and was underwhelmed with what i had. she wanted to spend a ton of money to by ceramic mugs for her affogato desserts and i asked her if she planned on keeping them after the party (b/c i don't need 12 coffee mugs, i have plenty!). that's just one of her initial demands... fortunately, i think i mostly talked her back from spending all this extra money on stuff that we don't really need and that her food table will still be beautiful. *sigh*
dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019
(3 untested embryos remain)