alright ladies - we know how much we all do physically though this process like eating well and working out... what are we doing for ourselves mentally this weekend? Sitting outside, reading a good book, mani/pedi?? Let’s hear it!
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married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
Re: GTKY Weekend Edition 3/30-3/31: Self Care Sat&Sun!
I have a lot of tests to grade today (boo!), but I will squeeze in some self care. For me it's knitting, Netflix, and of course...tea.
TTC since 9/2018
10/19- First RE visit
2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles
7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
12/21- Baby girl born!
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
I never said I was good at doing my nails haha it’s just something to occupy some time
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
@chichiphin No judgment at all! I've thought of getting it done to help with my tension headaches and TMJ, but I'm too much of a wuss. The thought of botox leading to the reprogramming of sensory maps in other areas (like the hands) creeps me out too much!
As for what I'm doing to relax/practice self care:
I'll probably do some yoga this evening. Then some anime and tv marathoning after that!
Tomorrow, I hope to get in a nice hike (hopefully the pollen won't be as bad then).
Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019
@chichiphin Oh man I have a bunch of friends who have started getting botox! I'm a little curious about doing something about the permanent wrinkle I've had between my brows since I was like 15....
Today my self-care was knocking a bunch of things off my to-do list. I know that's not traditional self-care but I was so stressed out by the state of the house and all the things I needed to do to get ready for overnight visitors and a party in two weeks. It made me feel so much better to have a good amount of that stuff done.
Married: August 2014
TTC #1: February 2017 - BFP 7/28/17; EDD 4/8/18; DD born 4/7/18
TTC #2: February 2019
Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
I actually switched from a facial to a glycolic peel and OMG HOLY GRAIL. My skin already looks better today. I am amazed.
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
@emeraldduchess I used a non-toxic mask by Pure Haven. I also have very sensitive skin! Also I started using an overnight peel a few months ago and it’s wonderful! Pic in spoiler!
@NYTino24 Love the cut!
Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
Y'all got me interested in some skin care this weekend, so I whipped up a honey/oatmeal/avocado mask! The only problem is that it smells really delicious! Haha!
Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019
Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
Ive been wanting to cut my hair to my shoulders for months now. I told my bf and he said ‘I thought you said you’d want long hair for your wedding?’
I agree but he hasn’t even proposed haha so I told him it would take about 2/3 years for my hair to get back to the same length. He suggests I wait ! So who knows what that means in a mans mind lol.
@chichiphin @brookert615 Yes to the Botox! I’m a fan but I haven’t done it in years. I recently started looking my age (no gray hairs yet but a permanent wrinkle between my brows that I can’t stand) so I asked my doc about Botox because his office advertises it. He said “Better not to with everything you’re going through and trying to get pregnant”. Bummer!!!!!!
I’m not tying to be Debbie downer here lol! I did read a study that said women report feeling much happier when on Botox/Dysport. Science doesn’t know if it’s simply because women feel better when they look in the mirror or if limiting their ability to frown or furrow their brows blocks negative feelings associated with those movements. Win-win!
AFM, I’ve made it a point to get 8 hours sleep every night this weekend and it’s helping with the chronic exhaustion. I’m also doing the free online guided meditation I mentioned in the Dailies. Here are some samples if anyone’s interested.
https://chopracentermeditation.com/landing/freestreams?sso_code=eyJpdiI6IlhicFZ4QXFaNndISGlLb3REWG9QWmc9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiUkpRSWF4b0pSZkFGTHdXZ1Z5VzJLXC9uQjdlKzIzYjJoTnBSdGs3NGxZeGh3dmhrbzQwcnN2QkdBKzhra0VuTUdSdWZ2NE9tYWNoZEN4aUdFZWxjR3dOMU5id2x0Qng0WWQrcVN5OVVLWDBrPSIsIm1hYyI6ImQ5NDQ5NTM3ZDE1YWEyY2QxNjU5MzE1OWU4MjBkYzhjODg4YzY4OWYzZjE5ZDkyYjlhM2FiMGU4ZDYyMDA4ODgifQ==
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
@emeraldduchess - I got a free sample of Fresh's rose mask which is nice and seems like it would be good for sensitive skin, although I think it's $$$! I've also started using a few things from Acure which is a pretty inexpensive "natural"/clean brand...good ingredients which would probably be good for sensitive skin, and they have a couple of masks - both sheet masks and the kind that comes in a tube.
@inthewoods23 - I'm the same way! I haven't painted my own nails in years. I have to use nail wraps or nail polish strips to do my nails.
@NYTino24 - I love the hair cut!
DH and I had a date night. It was super simple, just Thai food and running errands. It felt nice to spend some time together.
@kels0091 You can always use extensions! I did, but not for length. My hair doesn’t hold a curl well at all and it was 95 degrees F on my wedding day!
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility