So my whole pregnancy experience has been not right. First I found out waaaaay later than normal that I'm even pregnant. So I missed all the first trimester stuff. (Not completely complaining about all of the missed parts of the first trimester). So one week after finding out I'm pregnant I am having an ultrasound to determine how far along I am and I learn I'm having a boy....then I have the anatomy scan yesterday. They are sending me to an ultrasound specialist because they didn't get all of the images of the heart that they needed. Which has me very nervous. I am very aware that I didn't take a single prenatal vitamin during the first trimester and that really bothers me. I know that is very helpful in heart development. I'm nervous that I have messed this pregnancy up by convincing myself I was incapable of carrying anymore children. We tried for so long and I have been off birth control for years and now when I was so out of sync with my body I do get pregnant and I missed it.
Anyone else have to get specialist scans because they "weren't able to see everything"? I'm looking for reassurance that everything could be just fine and that maybe it literally is what the doctor said that they just weren't able to get the shots they needed because of positioning etc. I have experienced 2 early losses and have seen doctors very calmly know something is wrong but not show it until they have confirmation. So I'm worried we are just waiting for confirmation that something is wrong. I go on the 26th for the scan.
Re: Ultrasound Specialist
I went for a cardiology ultrasound for this pregnancy even though they found nothing wrong with the heart on the 20 week. They ordered it because of my first. They found one VSD.
I took all of the vitamins for both pregnancy. Heart issues happen.
Most heart issues either resolve on their own or are easily treated.
Chances are everything is fine. If there is a problem, it will most likely be very small.
This. We can store months worth of some vitamins. Also, baby gets first dibs on any available vitamins or minerals - my OBGYN has told me that several times. So you yourself might become deficient, but baby will get theirs.
We had to go see a fetal cardiologist and have a special ultrasound to get better views (and everything was fine!). They are just super careful these days and so many heart issues can be remedied if they have notice. I would trust what your doc says and not worry!
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It's hard, but I'm spending my energies focusing on the nursery and preparing for his arrival instead.
i also didn’t take a single vitamin or seek prenatal care in the first trimester because I didn’t know I was pregnant this time (3rd pregnancy) so I feel the guilt too