Happy Monday! Today we are concluding our 3-week Baby Feeding Products sequence. We started off with
breast pumps and accessories, then discussed
formula, and today's topic will apply to both pumping and formula-feeding mamas: bottles.
For something so basic, there are a million types out there! Please help with any guidance you can!
Suggestions for particular brands? Particular shape or set-ups like inserts or nipple attachment thingies? Advice on nipple flow? Do you use different types as our babies grow older? Is there a difference in bottles for formula vs. bottles for breastmilk? Are different kinds of bottle recommended to manage any conditions in our babies like reflux or nipple confusion? And what kind of accessories do we need for cleaning and/or sanitizing and/or storing bottles? Any tips on cleaning?
A common piece of advice is to stock up on just a couple of bottles from various brands in case your babies strongly prefer one over another (rather than spending a fortune on a full cupboard of one particular brand), but what should those brands be and what to look for? What's an appropriate starting-point for FTM to prepare while pregnant? Is this something you can normally find used or second-hand? Please share!
Prior and Upcoming Product Spotlights
Re: Product Spotlight: Bottles
my only suggestion to FTM is to only buy or clean a few bottles before baby gets here... they could love your bottle choice that you have so thoroughly researched or you could try 8 different brands before finding one your kid will even think about taking.
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
We bought a standard bottle brush from the supermarket, and used that and regular dish soap for cleaning.
Bottle adjacent - I hate the bags for pumping. I never felt that they were super secure, and I always felt like there was milk in the bag that just wouldn't come out when I transferred to the bottle. I know other moms who love the bags, so I'm just saying don't stock up. Buy one box to try before you commit.
Do STMs think this is a good representation of the more popular bottles on the market?
DS2 used Dr. Brown’s, because I was given a set, and they also worked fine.
This kid will be back to the basic cheapies (because I got rid of everything after DS2 😢) unless we see a reason to upgrade later down the road.
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
Start with the most restrictive flow and move up when needed (when baby becomes frustrated and/or collapses nipples a lot).
A bottle brush and clear soap work great for regular washing. If using breast milk, I'd recommend soap specifically for that (Medela makes some). We put all dirty bottles in a tub in the sink then soak in hot water and wash each evening. Before each baby was born I boiled everything to sanitize.
At a year, my daycare doesn't allow bottles. So 2 months prior we start introducing sippies with milk (they get sippies with water much sooner) and that has been the hardest part for both kids. We ended up using Nuk active cups with my first for 2.5 more years. She'd only drink "warm vanilla milk" (warm regular whole milk) with those cups and since she was underweight during to her heart defect, we had to keep giving milk 3 times a day. My younger daughter would only drink it cold in those cups and stopped after 6 months. At that time we started open cups for milk.
In order to find the right sippy for my oldest, we literally bought one of every type of cup at our local stores. It was such a frustrating process. I recommend not crossing that bridge until you need to!
I got a bunch of hand-me-downs in a big disorganized pile (Avent and Dr. Brown), and a friend strongly recommended Tommee Tippee so I also got this newborn starter pack (I have it in white/green though). I randomly started with the Tommee Tippee, since they were nice and organized out of the box, and since DD (primarily BF) didn't object to them we just stuck with that for ever, so I never wound up even trying the Avent and Dr. Brown and can't speak to them. Tommee Tippee has a built-in air vent in their nipples, and different "levels" of nipple flow. The newborn pack only comes with Level 1 (pretty slow flow to more closely mimic BFing), so a few months in I got a variety pack of nipples and switched her to Level 2 (we never used Level 3). I like TT because they don't have a million parts to wash and keep track of!
We had a designated bottle brush for bottles and pump parts, and I used this Babyganics soap with them. Also to heat bottles, you'll hear a million places and I reiterate here do NOT microwave breast milk or formula directly in the bottle! Microwaving can degenerate breastmilk (or something), but more importantly direct microwaving can create pockets of super hot liquid right next to pockets of cooler liquid and it can be dangerous for little mouths and throats. So another product some ppl have are designated bottle warmers but I never used them. Instead I just microwaved water in a bowl (or boiled it if I already had the kettle going and poured it into a bowl) and then set the bottle in there for indirect heating. (Same went for defrosting bags of breastmilk.)
@sourlemon, it's really funny, I totally agree with you that baby will take it if that's all you give them. I found both my boys very easy going about a number of things, that my nanny kept telling me they were picky about. Like they would take any bottle from me, but she claimed that DS#2 would only take the Medela tube. With DS#1 I would put him in his crib and he would nap, but she claimed he only fell asleep if he was being held. DH says it's because she spoils them, and they know they can get away with stuff with her, that we would never allow.
The ones we used with DD were Avent Natural and I really liked them. However, I'm also planning to try nanobebe this time around because I'm hoping to might help with breast latch.
We always went with the larger 8oz bottles even when DD was only drink 4 oz. You already have to buy new nipples as flow need increases, doesn't seem worth is to also buy larger bottles when it makes no difference for feeding if they're only half full.
TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15
NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
The ones he started to take pretty well were ComoTomo (the only ones we bought more of after the first trial) and a Mam anti-colic. The mam one has an interesting somewhat flattened nipple, which, early on is what he did to mine with a funky latch. So maybe that’s why he did well with the bottle?
Anyhow, I had a ton of Medela bottles he hated so they were just used to pump and store. The rest I got as samples so I definitely agree with advice to buy limited quantities to start!
Question for STM+.. how do I determine how many bottles to buy? Roughly how many are enough?
Both of my NBs had 8-10 feedings a day for the first month or so, then 6-8 for a while, then 4-6 after 6ish months. We have probably 30 bottles that we've built up over 2 kids. With my first, we started with 15 but washing bottles every day right after a c section got annoying so we upped it to have enough for 2-3 days. I wash most evenings anyways, but it's nice to not HAVE to wash if I'm super tired. We have some of the small sizes and some large, but if you are worried about space or money, just get the larger ones.
We threw most of our bottles / rings / nipples in the dishwasher. Oxo has a great little holder that keeps nipples separated to make sure they get clean. When we were handwashing we used a Munchkin bottle brush (eventually it broke down and we had to order another, but it got a lot of use) and Dawn soap.
@nimo-ad - I don’t know what pump you’re planning on using, but I had a Medela pump
and so I bought the starter pack of storage supplies - it came with 6 bottles, 6 smaller storage cylinders (which you can totally attach a nipple to and feed directly out of when they’re newborns), as well as a fridge container and some freezer bags. I figured no matter what I would use it for pumping. I only had about three slow-flow nipples and three rings to start.
@aecm I haven't thought about pumps yet, but I'll try look around for the medela, that sounds like a good package to start with. Thanks