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texas77texas77 member
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Hi guys~  I'm sorry to disappear so unexpectadly.  I think I've been gone for about a month or so.  It was just all too much....I was cracking under the TTC pressure.  It was putting a strain on my marriage, I was constantly angry with DH, I could not be happy for people with BFP's, my work was suffering because I was bumping 24/7....I was totally obsessed.  

Anywho, I can't stay away any longer.  I have done some soul-searching while I was gone (because without bumping I had A LOT of extra time on my hands) and right now I'm in the place of if it happens it happens and if it doesn't then it doesn't.  I didn't chart last cycle, I might this cycle.  We'll see. 

How is everyone??  I was thinking of you guys all the time. 

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  • Luckiest03Luckiest03

    OMG!!!  We have all been so worried about you.  Seriously, I think someone asked about you every other day!  I am so glad to know all is well.  I completely understand all the pressure this causes.  I hope taking a much more laid back approach gets you what you deserve-  BFP!

    Oh, and we have so missed your crazy PIPs and humor to help keep us all sane!

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  • Gina070605Gina070605 member

    HELLO!!! We have missed you! 

    I'm happy you took some alone time, and even happier your back!

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  • jamie.LOVES.markjamie.LOVES.mark

    HOLY CRAP! We have missed you dearly. I am glad you took some time out and did some soul searching BUT next time you have to give us a heads up! We were starting to get worried! So in other words.....don't be doing that shiz again...you hear me?!

    Glad to have you back! Big Smile

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  • crysbenacrysbena
    Glad to see you back!!  We all need a break sometimes but I know it's so hard to stay away!
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  • texas77texas77 member

    Gina~ hi, i just saw and responded to your post above.  I'm glad to be back.  I was really torn between needing time off and missing all of you guys.

    Jamie~ ummm, does your ticker say 13 weeks??  Geez, how long was I gone?  Ok, my bad dawg, no more MIA, I promise....

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  • texas77texas77 member
    imageLuckiest03:

    OMG!!!  We have all been so worried about you.  Seriously, I think someone asked about you every other day!  I am so glad to know all is well.  I completely understand all the pressure this causes.  I hope taking a much more laid back approach gets you what you deserve-  BFP!

    Oh, and we have so missed your crazy PIPs and humor to help keep us all sane!

    awww, it's so good to know that i was missed.  i was wanting to lurk a few times but i had to control the urge.  the holidays helped to distract me a little. 

    Ummm, luckiest, are you KU?  I saw a post below from Kathy.....

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  • jamie.LOVES.markjamie.LOVES.mark
    imagetexas77:

    Gina~ hi, i just saw and responded to your post above.  I'm glad to be back.  I was really torn between needing time off and missing all of you guys.

    Jamie~ ummm, does your ticker say 13 weeks??  Geez, how long was I gone?  Ok, my bad dawg, no more MIA, I promise....

    Ya, you were gone for a LONG ASS time! I know there are a lot of ladies that will be stoked when they log in and see your post!

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  • texas77texas77 member
    wow, 13 weeks, that's crazy.  is it going by slow for you?  How's my Roxy??  are you going to find out the sex? 
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  • Luckiest03Luckiest03
    imagetexas77:
    imageLuckiest03:

    OMG!!!  We have all been so worried about you.  Seriously, I think someone asked about you every other day!  I am so glad to know all is well.  I completely understand all the pressure this causes.  I hope taking a much more laid back approach gets you what you deserve-  BFP!

    Oh, and we have so missed your crazy PIPs and humor to help keep us all sane!

    awww, it's so good to know that i was missed.  i was wanting to lurk a few times but i had to control the urge.  the holidays helped to distract me a little. 

    Ummm, luckiest, are you KU?  I saw a post below from Kathy.....

    I hope!  But not testing until Friday...

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  • texas77texas77 member

    ok, you can do it!   OMG, good luck!  that would be great.  Where's Luna with her PSA...

    ::friday hurry the hell up and get here dust:: 

    ::BFP dust::

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  • jamie.LOVES.markjamie.LOVES.mark

    imagetexas77:
    wow, 13 weeks, that's crazy.  is it going by slow for you?  How's my Roxy??  are you going to find out the sex? 

    The time hasn't been flying by my any means, but it hasn't been too bad. Roxy is fat and happy! Come this summer she is going to get an excercise program in the works!

    And heck yes I am gonna find out the sex! Hopefully next month!

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  • Mrs. TJohnsonMrs. TJohnson
    So glad you're back!!
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  • MrsGhappilyeverafterMrsGhappilyeverafter

    We missed you!!!! I'm so glad you're back.  I'm glad to hear you're in a better frame of mind after a break.  Welcome back! ((HUGS))

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  • BEAUNALBEAUNAL member

    WE MISSED YOU!!!!

    I understand about the need to take a breath and relax for a minute. Taking a step back to make sure you are doing what is best for you and DH is important. We support whatever you need to do.

    Glad to see you back!

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  • snowflake_bridesnowflake_bride

    Oh, it's good to know that you are okay, we were all missing you!  I'm sorry you were going through a ruogh time, but I'm glad to see you back in better form!Big Smile

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  • luvsbunnyluvsbunny member

    FINALLY!!!!!
    I have been paging you almost every week.

    I am so so so so so so glad you are back :)

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  • HisKathyHisKathy

    Yay! You're back.

    Next time a post like this would be good..

    "Hey girls, I'm taking a break so I won't be here for a month"

    Then we'll try to talk you out of it but at least won't think you dropped off the face of the planet or something Stick out tongue

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  • Tonya_GTonya_G member
    Welcome back... I understand the need for a break- mine might be coming soon if this cycle doesn't work out!
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  • lunatwolunatwo member
    Good lord!!  Next time tell us you're leaving before you do that!!!!!!!!
    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
    IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
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    Beta #2: 2,495
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  • kristinem17kristinem17 member
    Hello Texas!
    So great to see you back in action!  YAY
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  • TheEnglishgirlTheEnglishgirl

    Texas!!!!!! I missed you and your funny ways!!!!

    Sorry to hear that you were in a bad place, but yay for being in a good place now, phew!!!!?

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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    Hey.  We missed you and are glad you are back.  I understand the need for a break and I'm glad you are in a better place.
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