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Re: TWW Tuesday 3/12
CD/DPO: 23/7 or 13. Leaning more and more towards 7
Timing: unsure
Typical LP length: 14/15
Testing: not sure
R/R: i was cooking a butternut squash last night, which I have never eaten because I don’t like the smell. While it was in the oven, I started to get itchy, then covered in hives an a runny nose. Not sure if it was a complete coincidence or if I had an allergic reaction, but I didn’t eat it.
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 2
CD/DPO: 26/5
Timing: -5, -4, -2, 0
Typical LP length: 12-14 days ish
Testing: eventually... if AF is a no show.
R/R: started back running last night! It’s been 2 months and I missed it so much! But I’m so sore today!
CS/Q: temp drop a bit this morning. Maybe due to exercise? Who knows.
@ejoseph16 I can’t say that I’ve ever missed running in my life. 😜
Month/Cycle: 10/10
CD/DPO: 29/7
Timing: best I’ve ever had
Typical LP length: 12-13
Testing: maybe Friday? We’ve got a wedding on Friday, so I’m hoping that I’ll have a clear reason to abstain from drinking.
R/r:rave- looking forward to more mild temps in the forecast rant- I feel my hopes getting up for this cycle. I know that it’s just too early to know anything, but I keep obsessing.
Cs/q: ehh, the same as yesterday with another dot, but I fixed the ch from manual to fam, so it looks a little cleaner
@begging4abump I feel pretty normal, still slightly itchy, which may be in my head, but I am going to take benedryl again. And thyme makes everything delicious. Good luck testing, hopefully the wedding will be dry for you..
@ejoseph16 good on you for running yesterday! Your chart is looking good.
@begging4abump Friday sounds like a great day for testing. I can't hope but get my hopes up for you -- your chart is 💯 and maybe 10 will be the lucky one for both of us??
Month/cycle: 9/10
CD/DPO: 18/5DPO
Timing: sorta SMEP
Testing: not happening.
R/R: I got in a really good workout yesterday so I feel slightly better about my pizza and Oreo shenanigans over the weekend. I have a sugar problem, and I think admitting it is the first step. 😁
CS/Q: not today.
CD/DPO: 27/12
Timing: -1
Typical LP length: 14
Testing: probably 3/14
R/R: way overslept this morning, forgetting about an early meeting. Luckily, since it’s soring break here my commute was light and super fast.
CS/Q: overslept this morning so missed my temp. Leapt out of bed in a panic! So, no chart to share but Still mild cramping, and feeling like AF is on her way.
@ejoseph16 : woo hoo for running! Yay, you!!!
@ejoseph16 - Your temp will vary a little, it's the overall shifts that you need to worry about.
@begging4abump - You sure you don't want to test on Thursday with me???
@jennifer_louise - I'm voting a lucky cycle 10 for all three of us!
@lcking82 - Did you make it to your meeting on time? Mornings like that are awful.
Month/Cycle: 11/10
CD/DPO: 21/8
Timing: -5, -3, -2, -1, 0, +1
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: Thursday, Pi Day!
R/R: Beautiful weather yesterday! Work went smoothly, dinner was good, had fun hanging outside, got my workout in, cleaned the kitchen, and got to watch half a tv show before bed! All in all, it was a good day, and I'm hoping today turns out just as good.
CS/Q: No new temps until Thursday
@lcking82 oversleeping and waking up in a panic is the worst. Hope your day gets a little better!
@jennifer_louise +1 to the sugar problem train. Recognition is the first step to recovery. Good job on the workout yesterday!
@begging4abump just looking st your timing, I’m exhausted. It’s so good! Keeping my fx this is your cycle!
@ejoseph16 great job on running yesterday!
@holly321 hope you’re feeling better today! Good idea to just stay away from now on. Maybe not liking the smell was your body telling you it’s a no go lol.
Month/Cycle: 28/1 AL
CD/DPO: 23/5
Timing: negative
Typical LP length: 13
Testing: nope
R/R: I checked our seedlings this morning and found a dead soldier on the floor. This wretched cat dh has ate a pepper plant. I’m so annoyed! I don’t even know how I’m supposed to protect the others. Why does the cat have to be such an asshole 🤬
CS/Q: done temping this cycle
CD/DPO: 31/17dpiui
Timing: nope
Typical LP length: 15 or 16 medicated
Testing: BFN
R/R: no AF yet... DH and I are still trying to come to an agreement on what to do next. I think he'd rather try a 4th IUI since numbers got better last time. I'd like to move on to IVF because conception in the next few months after April would put birth in the middle of less than ideal times, but who am I kidding, there's never a good time. If we can do an IUI this month then immediately go into IVF in April I would be okay with that. Question is, would that be allowed by our RE or would additional testing or a mock transfer need to be done before an IVF cycle. Thereby pushing IVF to May if we do IUI this month.
CS/Q: so many questions but all IF related
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD/DPO: 24 / 10 dpo
Timing: -2, 0
Typical LP length: 14 days
Testing: not yet
R/R: Sorry I didn't answer back yesterday. Things got a little hectic. My mom has kidney stones so there's been hospital trips and she's been in a lot of pain. This weekend my brother got us tickets to see Star Wars: The Empire Strikes back at the Symphony, so the orchestra will play all the music. I'm pretty excited.
CS/Q: didn't temp this month.
@inthewoods23: I know that's a tough decision to make, and hopefully your doc can help you decide (or give you any more info that might help). I'm so sorry about the BFN (and now for the lingering wait for AF).
@begging4abump GL Friday! I think that makes sense re: the wedding & all.
@jennifer_louise Admitting it is definitely the first step!!! I walked by the cookie aisle & stared longingly yesterday, but resisted. hashtag resist.
@kbrown2385 Boo cat! Yay seedlings! We keep talking about starting some seeds, and you're giving me motivation to do so.
@inthewoods GL with making that decision. It seems like your plan to do one more IUI & then start the IVF in April is sort of a best of both worlds plan--give you time to talk to your RE, considers YH's opinion, and keeps you in line for the "best time" plans of the future, which I feel like I do, too, even though you're right & there's "never a good time,"--I still can't help but want to choose the "best" time" for something so unpredictable.
Month/Cycle: 6/4/1AL
CD/DPO: 33/12
Timing: n/a
Typical LP length: 14-15
Testing: n/a
R/R: DH is having a really rough patch right now & it's really hard on us. He is really up when he's up and reallllly down when he's down, and I am being as supportive as I can, which he acknowledges, but it's still hard. Additional rant: There is an "escaped inmate" near campus? All the phones are ringing--I got an email, a text, two phone calls on my call, one phone call in my office about it--we know we know just stop/get the guy already! / rave: I just really appreciate yall & having this space to talk about this stuff that I don't really talk to annnyone else about. Thanks.
CS/Q: It was hard to get out of bed earlier, which is usually a sign for me AF is around the corner. Also, got some acne/facial hair growth (hello tweezers), which are additional signs. Hoping I am right and that she'll be here by the end of the week, since I was benched this cycle & looking forward to moving on--though my FW might be when I'm away if she does come when I think? My chart is like someone drawing tall thin mountains hastily.
@marebear15 I think I’m sticking with Friday, but my hopes are all in for our little novTENber club. Right, @jennifer_louise ?
@littleredm i hope your mom gets relief soon! Enjoy the orchestra!
@kagesstarshroom Lol @ your description of your chart. But, about YH, that’s tough. Mh can get swept away with anxiety, and it is so tough on him, on us, and on me. I hope this rough patch passes quickly and that you all feel stronger than where you started afterwards. ❤️
@kagesstarshroom lol @ hashtag resist. It's the hardest after O and the first couple days of AF for me.
@begging4abump @marebear15 NovTENber would be incredible, and also it would be almost impossible to come up with a catchy one for eleven.
@inthewoods23 just so sad this IUI wasn't the one for you. I see both points of view with wanting to move forward right away and also try another IUI first. But most of all, I think you're right that there's never a perfect time to have a baby, but it's never going to be terrible either.
@jennifer_louise girl, I workout to eat! I just lost 170 pounds to start our TTC process, so I started running to keep myself in check. That way the shenanigans of food can happen every once in a while!
@littleredm I found that running helps clear my mind. I get some of my best teaching ideas while running. And I can sort out stressful things in my mind as well. It helps me not focus on the pain. Lol
@kagesstarshroom sorry about YH. Hoping you guys can get through this smoothly. That can be hard on both of you.
CD/DPO: 24/7
Timing: Good
Typical LP length: 12-13
Testing: 9 dpo
R/R: Wow, I am tired today. So happy to be home and have a nice, chill night. I am going to make a taco salad for dinner.
CS/Q: nope