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**TW goodbye**

chichiphinchichiphin member
in September 2019 Moms
We received news this morning at our second opinion appt with a Geneticist/OB. We found out that our cystic hygroma has grown to 8.5mm and there is now fluid in the abdomen, which is signifying hydrops fetalis as the fluid is now in two separate areas. Hydrops, regardless of the NIPT results that we are still waiting on, carries a very high risk of miscarriage or fetal demise. We have been given the option of a D&E with genetic testing post-procedure to try and pinpoint the issue, as it is unknown how long it may take for the pregnancy to miscarry on its own.

I'm rooting for all of you to have safe, healthy & happy pregnancies/LOs.  <3<3<3

If ANYONE has any questions, please do not hesitate to ask. I'm forcing myself to be very open and honest about what is occurring and how it occurs. Eventually I will be moving back to TTGP/TTCAL. 
**tw**


married 11.1.14

ttc #1 since 5.18

bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone

d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks

bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI 

little girl A born 3.26.20

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    MsBeachNJMsBeachNJ member
    @chichiphin I am so very sorry to read this update. I was really hoping that you received great news today. I will pray for you. Please take the time to take care of yourself during this time <3 Sending love & hope for a healthy rainbow very very soon for you <3 
    TTM - EDD 4/23 - Team Green <3 
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    b_1029b_1029 member
    *lurking* @chichiphin I am so, so sorry to see this heartbreaking news. I was really hoping for better news for you guys. Whenever you decide to come back to TTGP, we will welcome you with open arms...but take all the time you need <3 Sending you so much love over the next days/weeks. 
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    nomangos23nomangos23 member
    @chichiphin I'm so sorry to read this update. Again, I'm an open book for ANY question or concern. Just know, you are NOT alone. Take care of yourself dear friend. 
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    RedBreast35RedBreast35 member
    I am so, so sorry @chichiphin.  I wish there were words that would help, but know there really aren't.  You're amazing for being so open and honest about this and hope talking about it helps you process and heal.  You, your H, and your LO are in my thoughts and I wish you nothing but love and peace going forward  <3
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    chichiphinchichiphin member
    @nomangos23 You're on my mind a lot, and I appreciate how much you have opened yourself up to me regarding this dx  <3
    **tw**


    married 11.1.14

    ttc #1 since 5.18

    bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone

    d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks

    bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI 

    little girl A born 3.26.20

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    kiddiesandkittieskiddiesandkitties member
    Oh @chichiphin. I am SO sad and sorry to read this update.  The biggest hugs and prayers are with you today, in the coming days, and forever as you navigate this sucky, sucky road. 
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    OmegaRose3OmegaRose3 member
    So sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace of mind and healing in this time. Thank you for choosing to be open during this difficult time
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    monkeysmom80monkeysmom80 member
    @chichiphin I am so sad to see this.  Much hugs and prayers to you and your husband!
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    lillywonderlandlillywonderland member
    I love you so much, @chichiphin. I am truly sorry about this, and wish I had something wise to say. Just know that you are loved by many (on here and in your life) and we will continue to love and support you through the tough times ahead.
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    aliciac2008aliciac2008 member
    So, so sorry @chichiphin. Hugs and good thoughts to you as you go through this very difficult time. I applaud you for being so open about this, but try and take good care of yourself. 
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    kgg2241kgg2241 member
    @chichiphin my heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry. I wish I had comforting words but just know I'm thinking of you. This is so unfair and I'm so sorry you have to go through this. 
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    calliahcalliah member
    I am so sorry. Thinking of you and your husband. 
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    supermom34482supermom34482 member
    I am so beyond sorry. I wish you and your family some peace during this trying time. I will be thinking of you and your lo as you go through this. A million hugs to you <3
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    brookert615brookert615 member
    @chichiphin I am so sorry you're going through this heartbreaking time. Sending all of the love and prayers your way  <3<3<3.
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    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
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    ternsetcternsetc member
    I'm so sorry and sad to see this. Thinking of you and your family during this time, and going forward.
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    zuuls_momzuuls_mom member
    I'm so sorry @chichiphin. My heart is absolutely broken for you and I am sending you so much love. You will be missed on this board. Hugs.
    *TW*
    Me: 32 │ DH: 35 
    Married 8/16/13
    BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
    BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
    BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle  <3


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    janat1717janat1717 member
    @chichiphin I'm so sorry that you are facing this news and these decisions right now.  <3
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    mommyshark13mommyshark13 member
    I am so very sorry to hear this. 💔
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    blitzybeeblitzybee member
    I’ve been thinking about you. I am very sorry to hear of your update. You have so many rooting for you and your family. Sending love your way. 
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    galentinegalentine member
    @chichiphin, I am so very sorry. You will be in my thoughts ❤
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    ruby696ruby696 member
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    @chichiphin I am so sorry to see this update. My heart breaks for you and YH. So much love to you both during this terrible time. <3
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    bubsaliciousbubsalicious member
    I'm so sorry to hear this update. I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts.
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    sloopy02sloopy02 member
    <3 thinking of you 
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    madamerwinmadamerwin member
    @chichiphin I don’t participate here much but I saw your earlier post and have been thinking of you. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
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    dahliasanddogsdahliasanddogs member
    @chichiphin i am so very sorry. i've been thinking about you a lot since your first post. thank you for being so open.  <3<3<3<3<3
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    septoctkidsseptoctkids member
    So sorry to see this—  thinking of you 💜
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    dpchickensdpchickens member
    chichiphin I'm so sorry. This is heartbreaking. We're here for you in TTCAL if you need more support. 
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    rms924rms924 member
    @chichiphin I am so sorry for your loss. You'll be missed. Sending so much love to you, lo and your family <3. 
    Me: 34 DH:38
    DS: 18 months   <3
    Dx DOR AMH .2
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    marebear15marebear15 member
    @chichiphin - I came over here to lurk on you, and my heart sank at the title of the post. I'm so so sorry! You are so brave to be open and honest about the whole process. 
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    flowerintherainflowerintherain member
    I'm so sorry :( I'm heartbroken for you. I hope you get your rainbow soon <3
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    SA0012SA0012 member
    Oh, @chichiphin I could not be more sorry. My heart is absolutely broken for you. I've been rooting for you and your family so much. This is so unfair and I wish there were words to help. I will continue to think of you and your family for a long time to come and hope for the best always. My heart is with you. Please take care.  <3
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    bakerstreetboysbakerstreetboys member
    I’m so sorry. I have been thinking about you and hoping that it wouldn’t end like this for you. PM me if you have any questions. Take care of yourself. 
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    themadcamelthemadcamel member
    @chichiphin I am so sorry to hear this heartbreaking news. Much love and strength to you ❤️
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    easyenloveeasyenlove member
    I'm so, so, so very sorry to hear this. 💔 I will keep you and YH in my prayers. 
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    satuttle1014satuttle1014 member
    I’m so sorry to hear this. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers ❤️
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    TeacherMama7TeacherMama7 member
    I am so sorry to hear this! No matter how long you carry this baby, you will always be his or her mom. I’m so sorry that you are going through this! I am praying for you. 
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