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WTO Friday 3/1

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Re: WTO Friday 3/1

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  • @kbrown2385 I had never heard of tempdrop until this board. I might have to look into it more if I want to start temping again. 

    @emeraldduchess I have those mornings way too frequently. It must mean I need to go shopping ;) since I currently dont like any of my options.
    Me: 31 DH: 34 :heart: Married: April 2016
    TTC December 2016
    BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
    MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
    BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
    TTC January 2019
    BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
  • Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD: 10

    WAYDTGKU: opk, pnv, sex eod

    R/R: Its Friday! And I'm definitely taking it easy at work today after a crazy week. I have to leave early too for an appointment. Today should go fast and I'm ready for a night at home with H. 

    CS/Q: nothing to see
    Me: 31 DH: 34 :heart: Married: April 2016
    TTC December 2016
    BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
    MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
    BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
    TTC January 2019
    BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
  • Month/Cycle:  4/4  (1 AL)

    CD:  13

    WAYDTGKU:  BBT, CM, PNV, OPK

    R/R:  Okey dokey.....I'm starting to seriously doubt anything good is going to come out of this cycle.  Trying to see the positive on it-  starting a new job on Monday- which would on a normal cycle by very close to or the date I would actually O- and I have no idea how long I'll be at work on Monday.  I was just told to be at the new office @ 8 AM- but the office is also open until 7 PM- so I could be there till 7 PM.  the house guest we have, stress, coming off our loss last month.  Used an advanced CB OPK this AM and got a circle- no smile, just the circle- which I believe means you are not really doing anything- like not approaching FW.  Glad I waited until today in some ways to use one of them because I don't want to waste them as they are so expensive.  I may try another one on Sunday AM.  And my temp dropped a bit- not much- but it dropped.  So who knows what is going on.  I'm anxious about changing jobs and the impacts it's going to have on our family life- but I really and truly don't think I can stay in my current job without fear of them firing me at some point for one reason or another.  

    CS/Q:  I had a question- and now I don't remember.  I think one of them was about the CB OPK showing a solid circle and what that meant ( I threw the directions out    :#  )    I think there was another, but I seriously can't remember at the moment......

    @kbrown2385 yay for the tempdrop coming in!!

    @emeraldduchess  I'm about to have those days EVERY day!!! I HATE picking out what to wear every day!!! And I was told by the head hunter lady that did most of my interviewing that I was expected to wear a suit everyday   >:)    That is SO not me- hasn't been my style.....I found some "suit coats/jackets" / blazers but I'm like really????  I hope it's not REALLY every day.....
  • @marebear15  My aunt snow birds in FL and she was bragging on the strawberries they were getting 2 years ago.  We have been getting some decent strawberries here in VA- they say on the packaging they are coming from FL- but they haven't been amazing!  I'm jealous- wish we could have amazing strawberries year round!! Glad your work out was easier too! That always makes it a little more encouraging to want to keep it up!!

    @millpe  I'm BEYOND looking forward to an evening in with my DH!! And no house guest!  I wasn't feeling 100% yesterday afternoon/evening, very nauseated.  DH was tired and so was I- we went to bed at like 9:30 last night- which isn't too far from when I typically go to bed- but I'm pretty sure I passed out as soon as my head hit the pillow and slept MUCH better than I had the last 2 nights.  Hoping that will give me some energy to want to watch a movie or something with DH.
  • Month/Cycle: 4AL

    CD: 13

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK, PNV, Ubiquinol, Omega 3, Vitamin D, Keto diet

    R/R: I am finding that my cheapo non-BBT thermometer is more consistent than my BBT.  I should have probably just stuck with that.  If it ain't broke, don't fix it....  right?

    CS/Q:  I still have zero signs of O.  I have a feeling that I might be delayed a little this month, which is not like me. 
  • @kerco925 sorry about the BBT issues.....I had recently gotten a BBT from Target- and it was ok, but I think it was giving higher temps in general than my Mabis one.  However- I've now been questioning the Mabis too.....Damned if you do, damned if you don't it seems with some of this process.  And right there with ya on the O being delayed this month.  Or something definitely being off.
  • @kbrown2385 yowza, bumping at 5:30 am. Go get that worm, early bird. And happy Friday. 🙂

    @emeraldduchess yes. I have also had weekends where I keep changing my outfit because I can’t get on board with what I decided to wear. 🙄

    @millpe Hooray for an easy day!

    @marebear15 !!! I’m excited for their date. Are you talking to both of them about it, or just one of them? How much can/do you ask them how it’s going? Also, good for you for dropping sugar. I baked a cake for a party and had a lot left over...and I ended up finishing it last night. Don’t feel great about myself, but I don’t feel too repulsed about it either. Btw, I’m really hoping someone gets back to you about that site. I wish I could have been more helpful.

    @MNturnsVA I believe with the advanced digitals, it compares your numbers with previous numbers, so the first test will always be the plain circle. I think the flashy smiley is when your estrogen spikes, and then the static smiley is when your lh spikes. I don’t know that you can skip the tests and have accurate results, but I could be wrong!

    @kerco925  i was definitely delayed this month. These utes need to keep to a schedule already!

    Month/Cycle: 10

    CD: 18

    WAYDTGKU: SMEP, temps, opk, pnv, no booze or caffeine 

    R/R: I seem to be surprised by snow frequently this season. Here it is again. I guess I’ll be shoveling later. TGIF.

    cs/q: does anyone use premom? It’s assuming that my body is consistent every month and it ignoring all signs to tell me that I o’Ed 2 days ago. Not sure how to fix it. No biggie, just annoying.
  • @begging4abump I wish I could say that’s when I woke up but my cat is an asshole and was crying at my door at 430 😑. Good luck with the snow today! Are you supposed to get a lot?

    @MNturnsVA I hope you are able to enjoy your weekend a little before your new job starts on monday! I think the symbols for the cb opk is empty circle: not fertile, blinking smiley: high fertile time, solid smiley: peak fertile time. It’s been awhile since I sued that brand but I’m pretty sure that’s the progression.
  • @marebear15 now I want Strawberry shortcake! Is this friend and brothers first date? 

    @MNturnsVA the way the adv CB OPK works is your first reading for the month is a "baseline" and will always be just an open circle. You are then supposed to test every day after that. The flashing circle means high and then the solid circle means peak. If you dont use a lot during the cycle you will be left with extra test strips, but my holders always die before I get through a third cycle. 

    @begging4abump I keep being surprised too! It's like constant. Also my driveway is terrible from me repeatedly not shovelling and driving over it.... 
    Me: 31 DH: 34 :heart: Married: April 2016
    TTC December 2016
    BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
    MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
    BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
    TTC January 2019
    BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
  • @begging4abump   hmmmmm......I know you are right about the flashey and the static smiley part of it.....I haven't really skipped any days necessarily with the CB OPKS.  Last month I started using them on CD 12 because I usually don't O till day 15 or 16- so I didn't want to start using them on CD 10 as recommended by the box.....So are you saying that if i tested tomorrow it would maybe show a static smiley??? I suppose it's possible for one reason another- either your theory is accurate or that maybe my body is actually doing what's its supposed to be doing....but if you were saying skipping as in I did one on CD 10, skipped CD 11, and tested again on CD 12, I didn't do that.  I have been using my wondfo type tests everyday since CD 10?? 
  • @millpe the tempdrop is good for people who have interrupted sleep. I rarely get through the night without waking up so my temping times with a bbt aren’t consistent at all.
  • @millpe  oh.....so what begging4abump was saying was right....so i SHOULD use the CB opk tomorrow because who knows what it will say anyways... but basically you are saying even if I continued to use more of the CB tests on a monthly basis- it doesn't matter whether I start using them on CD 14 or CD 10 or CD 18- I would still get the blank circle first? basically right?? 
  • @kbrown2385 I have to read more about tempdrop.

    @emeraldduchess I wouldn't discard the temp. It is what it is. I've had this crazy low temp this cycle too. I am leaving it because it was accurate (tested 3 times in a row) and I want to have the history. 

    @millpe emjoy your quiet day today!

    @marebear15 that's fantastic about your new meds. Also, does no sugar mean no fruit?

    @MNturnsVA send you hugs. Looks like you have a lot on your plate. I can't help you with the CB but I am sure the directions are available online if anything.

    @kerco925 I also use a cheapo CVS thermometer (the box said it was good for BBT) and it works great.

    @begging4abump it's going to take weeks/months for all this snow to melt!
    TTC#1
    10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
    11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged 
    1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
    4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
    6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020 <3  Baby girl born 2/27/2020
    7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).

    TTC #2
    9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
    10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
    12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022

  • @rikiteacup  thanks!! funny you mentioned the directions being online maybe because I do think you can call their customer service # or something maybe- I MAY attempt to find that today!  And I'm going to have a crazy week next week for sure.  I'm doing a whole lot of NOTHING today on my last day in my current job and I'm quite sure that next week- my mind is going to be a ball of mush by the end of the week after spending it at the new job- new everything.  Like driving to a whole new location- not even with the same company or anything so it's going to be a MAJOR change.
  • @begging4abump - I talk to both my brother and my friend about it. I give suggestions or hints where I think each one will need it. Things are going well in the relationship, but my friend is graduating and needs to figure out what she's doing after May, before they both will take the next step.

    @millpe - This is their like 4th or 5th date? They are kind of dating, but haven't put the commitment in quite yet. She's still figuring out where she's going to be in 3 months, and they haven't discussed long-term options yet.

    @rikiteacup - Fruit is okay on our no sugar month, just no desserts, super sweet foods, etc. We're not being super picky about it, just a relaxed approach.
  • @MNturnsVA Yes, you will always get a blank circle on your first day!
    Me: 31 DH: 34 :heart: Married: April 2016
    TTC December 2016
    BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
    MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
    BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
    TTC January 2019
    BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
  • @millpe  and @lcking82   thanks ladies!! you have renewed my faith in this month! I'm not going to get my hopes up too high- but you have definitely encouraged me to make sure we make the most of our freedom in our house in the next 24 hours!!
  • @kbrown2385 - I'm curious to hear what you think of your tempdrop!

    @emeraldduchess - I have those mornings a few times a year and they drive me batty.

    @marebear15 - strawberry shortcake sounds amazing (as does the idea of FL weather). Good luck going sugar free!

    @MNturnsVA - Good luck with your new job! FX!

    Month/Cycle:3/3

    CD: 2

    WAYDTGKU: PNV, Temping, RHR, FF

    R/R: Aunt Flo/Irma showed up yesterday. (Has anyone else watched I.T. Crowd?- Reference is in the spoiler). I made it to the gym for the first time in months. It felt nice to be back.


    CS/Q: Nope! :)
  • Hi everyone, I took a month off TB so I hope it’s ok I’m jumping back in here. Sounds like February was a busy wonky month for a lot of us, myself included. 

    @kbrown2385 Hope you love your tempdrop! (Sounds like such a good idea w the way my sleep has been going.) How did you pick it over the Ava? 

    @millpe Enjoy the evening with YH!  We are aiming for the same tonight—nothing but a movie at home and then BD lol. I really feel for people who have opposite schedules from their SO after the insanely busy week we just had. TGIF! I hope you get some more good rest. 

    @marebear15 Yay for all your Friday raves—especially the workout without dying! 

    @kerco925 @MNturnsVA @lcking82 Sorry for your questionable bbt/temps/O days. I’ve been through so many bbt’s and returned them all for unreliability: the Target one, the CVS one, the DHEA from amazon. I finally got the one so many people on TB liked from amazon called Easy@Home because it has a soft blue backlight. It’s been working great—the only thing is I have noticed that one side of my mouth is always much warmer than the other, regardless of which side I’ve been sleeping on. So I take the temp on both sides and then average those together. Gonna post this in ransoms/questions and see if anyone else has ever noticed this. 

    @rikiteacup @MNturnsVA I’m right there w both of you w the new job stuff. Remember, it takes between 30-90 days to really get your feet under you in a new role so cut yourself some slack.:-) MNturnsVA you could just get a really comfy suit jacket—made of soft material instead of stiff—and throw that over dresses, even over a fitted tee and slacks. That’s what I do a lot, still looks really professional, and my favorite one was inexpensive from H&M I think. 

    @spacemountaineer Congrats on the gym. You’re inspiring me to go back this weekend. 
  • Month/Cycle: 10/7 (2 AL)

    CD: 11

    WAYDTGKU: FF, BBT, PNV, Vitex, NAC, Ubiquinol, Vit D3, Fish Oil/DHA, extra Iron & Folate, just added natural Progesterone cream and Lovenox blood-thinning injections last month.  

    R/R: Rant—We almost missed the FW this time because it started 5 days early! The past four months I’ve been O on CD 15. Trying to squeeze in BD 2-a-days over the next couple days so we don’t miss O—if it hasn’t already happened! I’m wondering if it’s the new addition of progesterone to the regimen. The progesterone made my cycle run long last month (nothing like being 4 days late with BFNs galore :/). I haven’t used the cream yet this month because it’s supposed to begin again on O day. Wondering if using it last month is the reason I’m fertile so early this month?? Anyone experience this? 

    CS/Q: My temps are all over the place due to crazy work schedule in the wee hours this week. I just changed the time in FF so I wouldn’t have a bunch of open circles. 


  • @keikilove well it’s cheaper for one thing. I have pcos(although mild) and I’m still able to use it. It’s geared towards women who have interrupted sleep, either from children, shift work or just general overall crappy sleep cycles and irregular menstrual cycles. I also like that I can use it beyond ttc so I can continue without bc. The customer service is great, the owner Michael is a big part of their facebook group and they really try their best to fix any issues. It doesn’t collect all the data that Ava does, but so far I like it. 
  • @kbrown2385 ugh, sorry about the cat. Mine is the same if we have the door shut, which we only do when there’s company. What a pain.

    @millpe who are these people who shovel every time? My neighbors are always on the ball and take care of it immediately. I do just enough that I’m not breaking the county’s rules.

    @rikiteacup I hope you adjust quickly. That beginning can be tough, but it’ll be worth it. 

    @MNturnsVA I know you can jump from a circle to a static smiley and bypass the flashy one. I’d recommend that you keep checking every morning, though you can try twice a day if you get the flashy, but I don’t know if that’s worth running through tests so fast.
  • **lurking**

    I just wanted to add one more thing about Tempdrop. You can change the battery so you can keep using your Tempdrop for years. Ava is only good for 2 years because that is it's battery and you can't change the battery. So once the battery is out your Ava doesn't work anymore. 

    Also, @kbrown2385 there is another app that integrated Tempdrop and it's called Neofertility. It only allows you to track k your temps in Celcius though. So you would have to use Sensiplan rules instead of TCOYF. I immediately put that app out of my mind because I don't have any desire to switch to Sensiplan. I saw a post on the FB page about it that reminded me and then I thought of you. Also, I use this method to TTA pregnancy. I think it's a great alternative to HBC. I have been using it for almost 10 years now. 
  • @emeraldcity1214 I was actually following that post from last night lol. I don’t really mind not having a specific app to link it to. I like ff and having the tempdrop app to sync and have a list of my temps is just fine with me. I will have to look more into the different methods though. 
  • I didn't even know about all the other methods until I joined my FAM FB group. It's basically a charting group for women who use fertility charting as their method of BC. They do weekly educational posts where you look at a chart that ended in an unintentional pregnancy or just has things marked incorrectly and you tell what they did wrong and how the chart should be marked according to the rules. It has been very helpful for me. If you plan to use this method later as BC I highly recommend it. 
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