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WTO Tuesday 2/26
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**This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children or pregnancies of others should have a TW (trigger warning) and be in a spoiler if possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!**
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Re: WTO Tuesday 2/26
Month/Cycle: 8/7 (second cycle AL)
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Prenatal vitamins, Fertility Friend, temping, OPKs, SMEP, red raspberry leaf tea, cutting down on alcohol
R/R: We didn't lose power! Yay!
CS/Q: Not much to see.
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: PNV, OPKs
R/R: I have to drive to a conference 1.5 hours away this morning. I'm hoping the roads are okay. Its going to be a late night by the time I get home.
CS/Q: nothing to see
TTC December 2016
BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
TTC January 2019
BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, BBT, SMEP, FF, OPKs
R/R: test tonight after work, wish me luck I'm not feeling super confident on this one.
CS/Q: guessing I'll get CH tomorrow. Feeling a little sad about early O and not great timing.
CD:10
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK, PNV, ubiquinol, omega 3s, vitamin d
R/R: I had a nice drop in weight today and I reached 40 lbs down! Nice way to start my day. I hope this will help TTC. I have a lot of meetings/appointments today at work and I really hope this day goes smoothly.
CS/Q: nothing yet.
@millpe Have a safe drive! Is the conference one that you’re excited about?
@kimmer1412 I’m at the opposite end, where I want o to get here. Wouldn’t it be nice to be in charge of our bodies? Gl on your test.
@kerco925 Congrats on 40lbs!! Good luck with all your meetings.
Month/Cycle: 10
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: SMEP, temps, opk, pnv, no booze or caffeine
R/R: The nonexistence of cm is saying that I should make myself at home in the wto thread. I’m scared to skip on bd, but it seems pointless atm. Using the lh strips seems pointless too. Ugh, I’m all stressed out about this cycle taking forever, which I’m sure will be a self fulfilling prophecy. I need to go make a gratitude list today.
@millpe yikes that sounds like a long day. Hope you stay safe on the roads.
@emeraldduchess good morning, perpetual cycle/knitting buddy. I'm glad your power stayed on.
@kimmer1412 good luck on your test! And I still think your timing looks good. Remember that EOD is aaaaalmost as good as ED (although I know that's hard to accept for me too). You'll do great tonight!
Month/cycle: 9/10
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM, OPKs, cutting caffeine, PNV, B6, and now EPO
R/R: Finished my bookclub book last night! This was a big accomplishment for me because it means I've finished the book two months in a row, which is quite a streak for me lol. We'll see if I can pull off March's book too...
CS/Q: two lil dots.
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU: HIO, Tempdrop, CM observations, low caffeine intake, OPKs
R/R: I slept! I finally slept. I only woke once to go to the bathroom. I feel human again.
CS/Q: I'm glad I stayed here yesterday. Tempdrop took my shift away yesterday and I may have the start of one today but it is weaker. Tomorrow it may pull yesterday's temp back up and if it does I can confirm ovulation.
@emeraldduchess I'm glad your power didn't go out. That is always such a relief.
@millpe be safe today.
@kimmer1412 I think your timing looks great.
@kerco925 congrats on the weight loss. That is such a great accomplishment.
Month/Cycle: 27/1 AL
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: metformin, ubiquinol, vit c/e, progesterone, opk, bbt, hio, more testing
R/R: Finally back from my last minute trip. It was so nice getting away for a little bit and really enjoyed the warm weather. I am happy to be back in my bed though!
My tempdrop FINALLY shipped and I upgraded ff. I feel super ready track my cycles now haha.
Eta: also, expect your temps to be about a degree higher than your regular BBT temps. It took me awhile to get used to that.
@millpe drive safely! Hope it isn’t too bad for you.
@kimmer1412 good luck on your test! I’m sure you’ll be great!
@kerco925 congrats on 40lbs! That’s an awesome accomplishment!
@begging4abump sorry this cycle is making you crazy! Hopefully o gets its act together and happens sooner rather than later!
@jennifer_louise congrats on finishing the book! I feel like that would be my issue if I was in book club lol. What is the book?
@emeraldcity1214 fx you get confirmation soon! Waiting for that is the most frustrating part to me.
@kerco925 WOW! That is super impressive and definitely a great way to start the day!
@emeraldduchess Yay for power! It's the little things
@emeraldcity1214 Yay for sleep! The best!
@kbrown2385 I'm thinking about upgrading my FF as well. I might bite the bullet today. If not this cycle, next month FOR SURE. So yay!
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, Charting, Temperature, having sex, trying to not eat all the sugar, having sex EOD in my FW etc etc
R/R: I don't want to make small talk at work. I'm trying to Bump, people, can you please leave me alone? As an FYI all of my rants always and forever will be work or CD1 related.
CS/Q: To upgrade, or not to upgrade (yet), that is the question...
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
@begging4abump last month I Od late on CD16 and this month I'm early at CD11, just when you think you got it all figured out it all goes to hell 😂
@millpe - Stay safe!
@kimmer1412 - 3 HIO in the FW isn't bad! Keep your head up and hopes high.
@kerco925 - Way to go on the weight loss! I love when all that work starts paying off.
@begging4abump - When do you normally O? I've had a few cycles where I didn't get CM until the day before O.
@jennifer_louise - OOOH! What book?? I need to read more. Just sit down and make time for it instead of vegging out in the evening.
@emeraldcity1214 - How does Tempdrop change your temperature after the fact?
@kbrown2385 - So glad you enjoyed Jacksonville and had a wonderful break. Have fun with your new TTC toy!
@EmilyLove25 - The VIP FF made me a little crazy, so I decided not to upgrade. I kept obsessing over other people's charts, and the pregnancy points that never helped.
Month/Cycle: 10/10 (2 AL)
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM, PNV, baby aspirin, B6, B-complex, no caffeine or alcohol, SMEP
R/R: Managed to do a little yoga last night which really helped my body feel better. I have a virtual gym that keeps me accountable. My cold is a little better today, but apparently I was so stuffy that kept DH up all night with my snoring, lol.
CS/Q: Probably will start temping tomorrow.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: prenatal, supplements, timing, OPK, BBT
R/R: Getting close to when I normally O. Starting to feel anxious about it. Anxious and excited. Obsessive about timing.
CS/Q: none yet
@emeraldcity1214 thanks for all the helpful info today!
@ejoseph16 yay for O! I hope you get your good timing in.
@millpe be careful driving home in the weather!!
@kimmer1412 FX crossed for you.....this whole process is such a mind game
@kerco925 40 lbs is something to be super proud of!! Way to go!!
@begging4abump When do you usually O??
@jennifer_louise congrats on finishing your book! I have 2 books that are basically collecting dust on my night stand.....It's so hard to find time to work out, spend time with hubby, and we also have a LO, and then there's that whole work thing.....good for you.
@emeraldcity1214 glad you got some sleep! and hopefully all works out with your temps!
@kbrown2385 nothing compares to your own bed!!
@EmilyLove25 Tell your co-workers to go away! Ha, your comment reminded me of how I was when I was very active on these boards in 2015. I hated my job- and spent SOOOOOOO much time on the bump
@marebear15 glad you did yoga! Hopefully it helped to make you feel a little better!
Month/Cycle: 4/4 (1 AL)
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: temping, CM, OPKS in a few days, PNV
R/R: Ok, so I've been actively looking for a new job for the last 8 months or so.....the current work environment is pretty toxic on many levels. I was hired to be the "office manager" but I'm really the receptionist but I process payroll and pay the bills. Outside of that, I'm the receptionist. I hate the actual "work" that I do, and it doesn't make feel like I'm using any of my skill set or adding to my resume. Due to my age, and that we are limited with our TTGP goals, I'm not really trying to go back to school at the moment- and I'm under qualified for lots of jobs I've applied for OR over qualified for a few things as well. Well, I finally found a job- was offered the job and all that and was SUPER torn over whether or not to take the new job or not. The new job has potential for longer hours/different hours than what I'm used too/accustomed too and its going to be about a 30 min drive from home. I'm currently only about 10 min from home for my commute. New job offers lots more opportunity and ways to add to my skill set, and more pay. Potential for much better health insurance, and there will be a definite pay increase. I also will be getting free (reduced cost) dental care as it would be in a dental office. I was feeling SUPER pressured to give my notice to my current job- so I did because it was already getting under the 2 week notice (this was last Wednesday) Things have been crazy since then. The practice owner told a staff member some things that do not make me feel comfortable staying, over concern about job security mainly. We are not in a position for me to be without a job or to have to take a lesser paying job. And yes I would qualify for unemployment if he let me go at some point- but that is never the same as a regular paycheck. There has also been noise made that he wants me to stay, but I just don't see how I can securely and confidently do that. Everyone tells me that I need to just move on and cut my losses. I'm kicking myself though to a degree for not "appreciating" some of the flexibility that this current job offers- although it's not much.......But I have seriously struggled to be happy or feel satisfied in current position- and the environment can really be so negative for a multitude of reasons. It's a small office- and there has been SO much drama.....that's alot....thanks for reading....
CS/Q: nothing to see at the moment.......
CD:5
WAYDTGKU: OPK, fertility diet, MV, going to start temping
R/R: I’m seeing and hearing about pregnancies from people we know and man it’s discouraging why can’t it be me? The BFNs last month sucked big time. And you can’t even talk about it with your friends and family. I’ve been waiting to schedule my annual but I did today cause it takes so long to get in and then we are going to start a plan.
CS/Q: Thoughts on getting the Ava? It’s $$$ that’s why I haven’t jumped on the wagon yet.
@millpe I hope your drive to your conference was smooth! Sorry about the late night!
@kimmer1412 Good luck testing tonight!!! Your timing is still great IMO.
@kerco925 So happy to hear about the milestone! Hope the day goes well for you!!!
@begging4abump Sorry you feel like your cycle is taking longer than usual. Stress can definitely push O so hopefully you being able to regroup and relax a bit will help.
@jennifer_louise Woo! Great job on finishing your book!
@emeraldcity1214 Yay on a good sleep! Your chart could sell TempDrop to millions! It's so STEADY!
@kbrown2385 It's hard being gone from the board for a little bit lol. So happy your trip went so well! Yay on your TempDrop shipping and the upgraded FF!
@EmilyLove25 Hahaha totally agree on the small talk! I'm still using the basic version of FF - upgrading is getting so tempting!
@marebear15 Happy to hear yoga helped you feel better. That's awesome you're able to access a virtual gym at home! Glad you're feeling better.
@ejoseph16 I think the week around O is always the most stressful - that's great you're being good about timing!
@MNturnsVA Sorry you're dealing with so many feelings and emotions about moving from one job to the other. Honestly moving away from a toxic job is better for you. I really hope that once your settled in to the new job that you're able to feel a bit better.
@snowgirl8 It's always tough to see more and more announcements. It doesn't get easier seeing those BFNs, that's for sure. Glad you were able to get your appointment set up!
Month/Cycle: 7/7
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: Metformin, Armour Thyroid, PNVs, HIO, Temping, OPKs and I'm sure other things but I'm having brain fog lol. I'm getting raspberry leaf tea so starting that on Wednesday.
R/R: So I'm pretty sure I have the flu. I went to work yesterday simply because I needed to get so much done but that was a mistake! Called off today and ended up waking up at 10am! I haven't slept in like that since high school lol. Also have a cute, funny story about my new advanced OPK that I'll put in a spoiler because it might be a TW
CS/Q: My temps are a mess because I have a fever so I'm hoping that will settle down so I can confirm O. I did get a smiley yesterday and today which is peak but I never got the high days. Straight from “not fertile” to “peak”? I’m so confused. FF is saying that I should O tomorrow which is two days before my usual O day!
Edit: words.
Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
@marebear15 I had the same reaction to ff vp.
@emeraldcity1214 3 apps? Dang! I act like that’s a lot, but I’m 1 click away from that. 😂 I recently added premom to give me numbers on my cheap opk. I think I need to set a maximum app # for myself sooner rather than later.
@MNturnsVA I usually o cd 16/17, but I have a history of delaying til 22 or so when we have ppl stay over...which we did... Sorry about the added work stress. It’s really hard to find the exact right fit!
@kbrown2385 Glad to see you’re back! I hope you had the best time on your mini vacation. I’m so glad you were able to make it happen! Congrats on finally getting your tempdrop! I hope it proves worth the crazy wait!
@brookert615 noo sorry you're sick! Feel better soon! Your story about YH is the cutest! I'm picturing his reaction as he saw the test, freaked out, then started putting the pieces together. Guys are so funny. I was cleaning out an old purse last night to give to my Mom and found a softcup in there that I carry around instead of tampons (cuz I've used menstrual cups for almost a decade). He only knows what I use softcups for when we're TTC so he found it in my pile of crap on the counter, came up behind me in the kitchen holding it with this elated look on his face like "is it go time baby?" Ummm no honey, remember how I was hysterical last night because CD1? I had to explain what its actual purpose is and he was all embarrassed. Also, did he really think that's how I would signal to him that I'm ovulating? By leaving a pile of literal garbage on the counter with a softcup on top?
@kbrown2385 omg that damn tempdrop finally shipped? Yahoo!
@MrsJessS *hugs* we're cycle buddies this month. You'll have to keep us updated on the Cricut, I want one so bad but totally don't need it lol.
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
@kiki047 Hey friend! I just saw your post from yesterday and just wanted to send my love your way! That’s too funny about YF! Guys have the strangest thought processes but they can get an A for effort LOL
Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
@MrsJessS have fun with your cricut machine. Share some pics with us of the things you make!
@brookert the flu blows.
@MNturnsVA that's quite a toxic work situation. I'm sorry you have to deal with all that.
@marebear15 you're right, our paths are very similar. I hope we'll both have our rainbows soon (and the same BMB would be awesome!)
@kimmer1412 good luck on your test!
@kerco925 congratulations, 40 pounds is amazing!
@begging4abump sorry your cycle is so frustrating right now.
@jennifer_louise I will have to check out that book! I don't really get to read for fun except during school vacation, but I am already starting my list for spring break and summer.
@snowgirl8 sometimes it feels like I'm being stalked by KU women. I don't have an AVA but many ladies on here do and like it.
@kbrown2385 welcome back from your trip! The winds were really strong here, though other parts of the state got it much worse (trees falling on houses, etc.)
@emeraldcity1214 yay for a good night's sleep!
@jennifer_louise huge accomplishment on the books! I’ve never been good at the book club gig... I always had to go the short route and read spoilers! Hahaha
@emeraldcity1214 hooray for sleep!
@snowgirl8 this is ringing so true to me right now! I’m avoiding Facebook tonight. I can’t do the announcements right now. Too emotional and anxious. As happy as I am for them, I’m sad that it’s not me.
@brookert615 right?! Our timing is much better this cycle. Last cycle we had no plan, just had lots of sex. We were burnt out by FW. This time around we are being more methodical with it while still enjoying it. Lol by the way, I hope you feel better!
@MrsJessS cricuts are THE BEST! Enjoy it!
Sorry it took me so long to tag tonight... I had to completely restart my phone. It was acting crazy!