My mother got engaged in August to a fantastic guy she's been dating for over 8 years. I had been TTC for about a year when we found out we were expecting. We told our parents as soon as we found out but didn't want to make any big announcements until we were out of our first trimester. We made an announcement to put on Facebook an did as soon as we got home from our 12 week appointment and had the green light that all was good and our baby was growing healthy. On that same day we received a sealed envelope containing the baby's gender. My husband and I wanted to find out together, in private but my mother wanted to interject herself so badly that she made dinner reservations for my husband and I, herself and her boyfriend and my in-laws to do it in a restaurant. Less than 12 hours after we made our announcement (at midnight on New Years Eve), my mother decided to overshadow by announcing her engagement in big bold letters. Some family and friends reached out, clearly seeing the pull for attention and asking if we were ok with it. Obviously we were not. When I told her that we were hurt by it and that she should have waited and let us enjoy announcing our pregnancy she completely turned on me. She cancelled the planned dinner and didn't speak to me for 3 weeks. In the meantime we did the reveal at my in-laws house, which was nice but bitter sweet. My husband and I also made the decision to keep the gender off of Facebook until after the baby was born. The only people who knew were close family and friends that were invited to the shower. About a month before invitations even went out, my Godmother started calling and texting asking for the sex. I told her she would find out soon enough and that my husband and I didn't want it announced on social media. She said things like "you will be sorry if I die tomorrow not knowing" and "you're such a brat". My mother told me to tell her and that "she's your godmother and she loves you so just tell her". And I did. Within a week she had announced the sex on Facebook. I'm livid, my husband is livid. Even after responding to so many people with "we'll announce the sex at birth, we don't want everything on social media". And even after I told her several times not to tell anyone, she still went ahead and did it. LIVID. I'm trying my best not to lose it for the sake of the baby but god knows I'm reaching the end of my rope. Am I overreacting? Is it just the hormones? How the hell do I stay calm when I want to scream all the time?