@yoshi882 SO glad everything is fine with you and that you changed doctors! You definitely didn’t need to keep using an office that treats you that way when you call, already stressed out.
No ginger but i did have a sneaking suspicion that the B6 and unison combo that saved my life with my TW first pregnancy was somehow making me sick this time. I stopped it yesterday and today is already better. Who knows!
@yoshi882 -- I'm so glad to hear that your LO is okay! And yay for dumping that OB and the hospital full of jerks. I hope the new one is much better all the way around!
--- ♥ Married since June 2009 ♥ TW: Living children & Losses:
Mom of sons "Alpha" (Feb 2012) & "Beta" (May 2016) Pregnant after 4 losses via IVF/FET with daughter "Gamma" (EDD Oct 2, 2019)
I stumbled upon an article on Pinterest that talks about being pregnant after a loss. I’ll include it in a spoiler for your reading pleasure, I really enjoyed it.
I want to thank all of you for your continued support and best wishes.
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Unfortunately I will not be completing this journey with you all as very early this morning we did lose the pregnancy. It was all very sudden, especially after having the u/s on Friday. We are not giving up hope and the doctor who compassionately guided us through this believes that we'll go on to have healthy pregnancies.
And now for my not so great update... A confirmed loss today for me. Details in a spoiler if you feel like reading more-- no pressure.
No heart beat today at my 8 week u/s. Looks like bebe stopped growing around 6.5 weeks. We are obvs heartbroken, tho I am pretty numb at this point. Glad DH was there with me. I will be going in for a D&C Friday if bod doesnt figure it out on its own btw now & then. Here is to hoping we can try again soon-- I feel like I never knew how much I really wanted to be a Mom until I had my first loss, and I hope my bod will cooperate to someday make that happen for us. Thanks for all the support you each provided along the way. So much love to yall.
@kagesstarshroom I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Words are failing me right now. Sending you lots of love and strength today and for the days ahead. ❤️
@kagesstarshroom as soon as I saw your update I just started saying “no no no”. I’m so sorry! Sending you so much love and you will be dearly missed in this group.
*TW*
Me: 32 │ DH: 35 Married 8/16/13 BFP#1 DS 11/13/16 BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18 BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
Had my U/S today at exactly 7 weeks. Just an empty 15mm gestational sac. He said to come back in 2 weeks. I feel like what's the point. I've been down this road before, my chances are pretty slim
@yoshi1230 and @kagesstarshroom I'm so so sorry to hear about your losses, what a struggle it is for a few of us to become mothers.
@40momma my friend had the exact same thing happen last year at 7weeks 2days where there was no fetal pole, but by week 10 fetus was showing and heart beat strong, she went on to have a healthy baby boy. Fingers crossed for you!!
What is everyone's coping mechanisms to get through the first trimester sane when the worry is always present? Having a tough time keeping positive this week and worried for my panorama test tomorrow..
@40momma Did the sac measure 7 weeks or was that based on your LMP? At my first ultrasound I was 7 weeks based on my LMP and the sac was empty measuring 5 weeks. They had me come back 2 weeks later, and there was a baby and heartbeat. I ended up ovulating late so they changed my due date. Fingers crossed for you. Thinking of you
I just wanted to check in one last time to give my condolences to @kagesstarshroom and @40momma and to also thank you for all of your wonderful messages. It's definitely been a difficult couple of days.
@40momma, I'm so sorry your ultrasound was stressful and uncertain. I agree with you that hope can be a cruel monster, but I am hoping hard for you that the next ultrasound puts you right on track.
@yoshi882@kagesstarshroom I'm so so sorry Love and prayers to you both as you navigate this awful time. @40momma I'm hopeful that you were just early!! Fingers crossed! @naveed7 thinking of you as you have your Panorama done today!!
@kagesstarshroom I am so very sorry for your loss. Hope you get your rainbow very soon In the meantime, please do take care of yourself.
@40momma praying that you were just a bit off on your estimated due date and that things look great at your next visit!! Is there anyway he'd see you next week to check for growth, rather than have to live in uncertainty for 2 straight weeks?
Thank you for all of the kind words ladies. I'm bouncing back and forth between thinking this is my 4th loss, and hoping and praying that we will have a better outcome in 2 weeks. Of course Dr Google doesn't help my anxiety but I have done a ton of digging and found that those women with tilted uterus's (which I have) will often have troubles with earlier scans as it's hard to get the best picture even with a tv/us.
I'm 7w1d based on my LMP. My symptoms are still there and if anything, ms has actually started to kick in just about 3 days ago. Still sore boobs and vivid dreams. No cramps and no more spotting. @MsBeachNJ he did say I could contact them with any questions so I'll give it a few days and if I'm still feeling pregnant with no bleeding, I'll see if I can get in for a scan next week.
@40momma I had a similar visit today. I am measuring 2 weeks behind at only 6 weeks 1 day. So they said it is too early/small to say it is a MMC. I have to go back in 2 weeks for another US. I did get my levels checked today & have to go back Friday for another round of labs to see if numbers go up or down. I WANT to be hopeful, but it just doesn't look good to me. I am just so upset. I don't understand why or how this happens. It seems so unfair.
Re: PGAL Check-in w/o 1/30
No ginger but i did have a sneaking suspicion that the B6 and unison combo that saved my life with my TW first pregnancy was somehow making me sick this time. I stopped it yesterday and today is already better. Who knows!
♥ Married since June 2009 ♥
TW: Living children & Losses:
Pregnant after 4 losses via IVF/FET with daughter "Gamma" (EDD Oct 2, 2019)
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
https://oh-yellow.com/enjoy-pregnancy-after-loss/
**TW**
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
And now for my not so great update...
A confirmed loss today for me. Details in a spoiler if you feel like reading more-- no pressure.
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
♥ Married since June 2009 ♥
TW: Living children & Losses:
Pregnant after 4 losses via IVF/FET with daughter "Gamma" (EDD Oct 2, 2019)
@40momma my friend had the exact same thing happen last year at 7weeks 2days where there was no fetal pole, but by week 10 fetus was showing and heart beat strong, she went on to have a healthy baby boy. Fingers crossed for you!!
What is everyone's coping mechanisms to get through the first trimester sane when the worry is always present? Having a tough time keeping positive this week and worried for my panorama test tomorrow..
@40momma and @yoshi882, I am so sorry for both of your losses. So heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
DS: 18 months
Dx DOR AMH .2
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@kagesstarshroom so sorry to hear. Sending you hugs!
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
Sending hugs and my best wishes to you all.
@40momma I'm hopeful that you were just early!! Fingers crossed!
@naveed7 thinking of you as you have your Panorama done today!!
@40momma praying that you were just a bit off on your estimated due date and that things look great at your next visit!! Is there anyway he'd see you next week to check for growth, rather than have to live in uncertainty for 2 straight weeks?
I'm 7w1d based on my LMP. My symptoms are still there and if anything, ms has actually started to kick in just about 3 days ago. Still sore boobs and vivid dreams. No cramps and no more spotting. @MsBeachNJ he did say I could contact them with any questions so I'll give it a few days and if I'm still feeling pregnant with no bleeding, I'll see if I can get in for a scan next week.