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WAYDTGKU: all the testing, metformin, temping, keto
R/R: happy weekend everyone! Getting everything ready to start seeds for our garden. This is our first year starting from seeds so I’m hoping it actually works.
R/R: I haven’t slept at allll at my cousin’s apartment. Apparently she lives right on the busiest street in San Diego (total exaggeration but I’m a terribly light sleeper). So here I am awake at 6:30 ahha. Rave- having a great time with my cousin and it’s beautiful here! We’ve had great weather so far and today is supposed to be nice too. Already sad to leave tomorrow.
R/R: turns out all the snow is super powdery so shoveling the driveway this morning wasnct bad. Well, DH used the snow blower on the driveway while I shoveled the sidewalk up to our front door. Unfortunately, the front door was in the direction of the wind so everything DH was getting off the driveway was blowing onto the sidewalk I was trying to clear. More snow still to come today so it's at least decently cleared for us to leave the house today.
CS/Q: nothing too exciting yet
*TW* History:
Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016
TTC #1 since 7.2017 Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3| all BFN IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name" RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer 2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20 Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21 Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023 Consultation with RI | 6.6.23 Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56 Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox Repeat labs in 8 weeks Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues TTC put on pause
@kbrown2385 what are you planting this year? We used to garden but don't have as much time for it anymore.
@b_1029 can you try a white noise app on your phone? Being in San Diego sounds amazing! I visited DH when he was staioned there 10 years ago (were dating at the time) and it was so wonderful! Are you visiting the zoo? It's currently below freezing and snowy by me so I'm super jelly.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: Clomid CD3-7, B6, OPKs
R/R: Really hoping I don't O tomorrow (possibility due to when I took Clomid this cycle) because DH is out of town. Will do an OPK today to be sure.
R/R: Just waiting for the snow tonight! I think we will get less than expected but I also think there might be bad ice when DH is driving home from work tomorrow morning. Not much on the schedule today, going to work out soon and then try for a quick jog in the afternoon when it’s a bit warmer.
CS/Q: nope
@b_1029 I’m sorry you weren’t able to sleep but I’m glad you’re having a nice time with your cousin!
@kbrown2385 I want to try gardening in pots this year on the deck, we don’t have an area in a yard we can garden. What do you grow?
@inthewoods23 I hate shoveling. So. Much. It always seems to just be migrating back from wind or whatever. My DH wants a snowblower so bad.
@creamcheeseplease we grow in pots as well since we rent. We’ve always had good luck with tomatoes and different herbs. I’m looking forward to trying peppers and arugula since we eat so much of it.
R/R: Date night was good last night, we just went for dinner and watched a movie at home since there was nothing playing until later at night. We are hanging out with friends tonight and dinner at the in-laws tomorrow. I wish we didn’t have so much planned because I have so many other things I need to get done this weekend!
CS/Q: no idea what’s going on this month as my temp rise seems to have happened and I got my +OPK right after that.
Me: 35 DH: 35 TTC since 9/2018
Dx: MFI 10/19- First RE visit 2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles 7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN 9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal 11/20- Mock transfer/ERA 12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN 3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021 12/21- Baby girl born!
R/R: CD 1. 2 days earlier than expected. glad i didn't POAS today before i realized what was going on. trying to make today into a good day doing some house cleaning and spending time with family. football tomorrow- go pats!
CS/Q: zilch.
Me: 36 DH: 37 Married May 2013
TTC #1: April 2016 (Mirena removed March 2016 after 2.5 years)a BFP #1: 10/14/16 - DD born 6/2017 TTC #2 November 2018 (Mirena removed October 2018 after 1 year) BFP #2 9/11/19 - EDD 5/24/20 - DD born 5/2020 TTC #3 May 2022 (Mirena removed after almost 2 years) BFP #3 11/24/23 - EDD 7/30/24
@daffodil_shoe Yes I considered that as well, but I use Ava and haven’t really noticed my temps are that different sleeping day vs. night. Unfortunately it will be all open circles until the next cycle. Guess I’ll see how things look over the next few days.
Me: 35 DH: 35 TTC since 9/2018
Dx: MFI 10/19- First RE visit 2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles 7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN 9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal 11/20- Mock transfer/ERA 12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN 3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021 12/21- Baby girl born!
@kbrown2385 my husband and I just started our keto journey! Have any favorite recipes for a picky eater?!
@ almost everyone lol I'm so happy we haven't had any snow this year. I'm not envious at all of this snow shoveling talk! I miss being a kid and enjoying a good snow day though!
Month/Cycle: 6/5
CD: CD19
WAYDTGKU: Temping with TempDrop, OPK, B6, Ferning tests, Keto and just picked up chasteberry
R/R: Rant - My tempdrop battery was failing the last couple weeks and I didn't realize what it was. I've missed the last two temps and I'm hoping this was truly the issue so I can confirm O in the next couple of days. Rave - My husband and I started keto this month and I've never been so successful on a diet. I haven't even been tempted to cheat!
@nnaelilak welcome to the keto journey! I’m glad it’s working out for you so far! To be honest, I keep it really simple and do meats and veggies that I like (frozen broccoli and cauliflower rice are a staple). I’ve also found tons of recipes on Pinterest. I’ll link a recipe for you for Parmesan Dijon crusted pork chops. Super easy and always a big hit with everyone I’ve made it for.
Also, how is the tempdrop working for you (beside your battery issue)? I preordered mine and it should be shipping soon. I’m looking forward to not having to manually temp.
@kbrown2385 GL with your planting. @b_1029 wow that's a short trip. Glad that the weather was cooperative for you. @inthewoods23 Yay for powdery snow!
@daffodil_shoe Keeping my FX for your timing to work out!
@creamcheeseplease Hope you and YH enjoy the weekend. @misshelen86 I know what you mean about a busy weekend. Hope you are able to get your errands taken care of. @sevenn So sorry to see you back here friend *hugs* @nnaelilak GL on your keto journey. I attempted to try it mid last year and was just meh about it. Maybe if MH did it with me, I would have stuck with it longer. @kimmer1412 Yay for relaxing weekend.
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, CM, SMEP, PNV, EPO, no coffee (grean tea instead), mucinex, raspberry leaf tea, preseed, softcups
R/R: Been a full weekend so far. And true to form, got my first +OPK yesterday on CD15... I have been weirdly regular that for the past three cycles I have had this happen. Got a blazing + today so maybe O tonight or tomorrow..? Also got a temp dip today.
CS/Q: nope
ETA chart
TTC #1: September 2013, BFP 01/01/14, DS 09/14 TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
Hi all! I'm new to posting and just jumping over here because good ol' AF showed up today. Nice to meet you all:)
daffodil_shoe Crossing fingers O holds off for you also.
Month/Cycle: 3/4
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: FAM, OPK, SMEP, seed cycling
R/R: Last month was the first month I felt great about our timing. Before that, I wasn't sure about BD'ing close enough to ovulation, but this time I know I did. Still wish for a different result but interestingly, I'm getting better each month at handling AF when she comes.
CS/Q: Chart looks good. Only thing I worried about last cycle was I started a tiny amount of spotting on the 10th day, so I'm not sure if that means I have low progesterone if it's related to something else. I had a couple months previously a crazy amount of spotting but seeing a gyno about it so hopefully we can get to the bottom of it soon!
@kbrown2385 that recipe looks amazing! Definitely adding it to my book!
I absolutely love tempdrop! It's so awesome not manually temping, the community is amazing and I changed the battery yesterday and all was back to working perfectly this morning!
Re: WTO: weekend 1/19-1/20
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: all the testing, metformin, temping, keto
R/R: happy weekend everyone! Getting everything ready to start seeds for our garden. This is our first year starting from seeds so I’m hoping it actually works.
CS/Q: nothing to see.
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, CM, EPO, SMEP
R/R: I haven’t slept at allll at my cousin’s apartment. Apparently she lives right on the busiest street in San Diego (total exaggeration but I’m a terribly light sleeper). So here I am awake at 6:30 ahha. Rave- having a great time with my cousin and it’s beautiful here! We’ve had great weather so far and today is supposed to be nice too. Already sad to leave tomorrow.
CS/Q: negative
@kbrown2385 what are you planting?
Month/Cycle: 19/18
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: IUI #2 and stuff
R/R: turns out all the snow is super powdery so shoveling the driveway this morning wasnct bad. Well, DH used the snow blower on the driveway while I shoveled the sidewalk up to our front door. Unfortunately, the front door was in the direction of the wind so everything DH was getting off the driveway was blowing onto the sidewalk I was trying to clear. More snow still to come today so it's at least decently cleared for us to leave the house today.
CS/Q: nothing too exciting yet
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
@b_1029 can you try a white noise app on your phone? Being in San Diego sounds amazing! I visited DH when he was staioned there 10 years ago (were dating at the time) and it was so wonderful! Are you visiting the zoo? It's currently below freezing and snowy by me so I'm super jelly.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: Clomid CD3-7, B6, OPKs
R/R: Really hoping I don't O tomorrow (possibility due to when I took Clomid this cycle) because DH is out of town. Will do an OPK today to be sure.
CS/Q: none
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU:
PNV, tracking CM and OPKs
R/R: Just waiting for the snow tonight! I think we will get less than expected but I also think there might be bad ice when DH is driving home from work tomorrow morning. Not much on the schedule today, going to work out soon and then try for a quick jog in the afternoon when it’s a bit warmer.
CS/Q: nope
@b_1029 I’m sorry you weren’t able to sleep but I’m glad you’re having a nice time with your cousin!
@kbrown2385 I want to try gardening in pots this year on the deck, we don’t have an area in a yard we can garden. What do you grow?
@inthewoods23 I hate shoveling. So. Much. It always seems to just be migrating back from wind or whatever. My DH wants a snowblower so bad.
@daffodil_shoe I hope O holds off for you!
@daffodil_shoe hope o holds off for dh to be there!
@b_1029 glad you’re enjoying the weekend, minus crappy sleep.
@inthewoods23 glad the snow is nice and light. Makes for easier travel and cleaning for sure!
@b_1029 Sorry you didn’t sleep well, but I hope you enjoy your last day with your cousin!
@inthewoods23 Glad you were able to clear the snow. Stay safe out there!
@daffodil_shoe FX O holds off until YH is back!
@creamcheeseplease Enjoy your workout and jog.
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 14
R/R: Date night was good last night, we just went for dinner and watched a movie at home since there was nothing playing until later at night. We are hanging out with friends tonight and dinner at the in-laws tomorrow. I wish we didn’t have so much planned because I have so many other things I need to get done this weekend!
CS/Q: no idea what’s going on this month as my temp rise seems to have happened and I got my +OPK right after that.
TTC since 9/2018
10/19- First RE visit
2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles
7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
12/21- Baby girl born!
@kbrown2385 - that sounds delightful
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: OPK, BBT, CP
R/R: CD 1 . 2 days earlier than expected. glad i didn't POAS today before i realized what was going on. trying to make today into a good day doing some house cleaning and spending time with family. football tomorrow- go pats!
CS/Q: zilch.
Married May 2013
BFP #1: 10/14/16 - DD born 6/2017
TTC #2 November 2018 (Mirena removed October 2018 after 1 year)
BFP #2 9/11/19 - EDD 5/24/20 - DD born 5/2020
TTC #3 May 2022 (Mirena removed after almost 2 years)
BFP #3 11/24/23 - EDD 7/30/24
TTC since 9/2018
10/19- First RE visit
2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles
7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
12/21- Baby girl born!
https://peaceloveandlowcarb.com/parmesan-dijon-crusted-pork-chops/
Also, how is the tempdrop working for
you (beside your battery issue)? I preordered mine and it should be shipping soon. I’m looking forward to not having to manually temp.
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, OPKs, BBT, FF, SMEP
R/R: just having a relaxing weekend. I'm trying to be blessed stresses this cycle with TTC, we'll see how I do since SMEP starts this week.
CS/Q: nah
@b_1029 wow that's a short trip. Glad that the weather was cooperative for you.
@inthewoods23 Yay for powdery snow!
@daffodil_shoe Keeping my FX for your timing to work out!
@creamcheeseplease Hope you and YH enjoy the weekend.
@misshelen86 I know what you mean about a busy weekend. Hope you are able to get your errands taken care of.
@sevenn So sorry to see you back here friend *hugs*
@nnaelilak GL on your keto journey. I attempted to try it mid last year and was just meh about it. Maybe if MH did it with me, I would have stuck with it longer.
@kimmer1412 Yay for relaxing weekend.
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, CM, SMEP, PNV, EPO, no coffee (grean tea instead), mucinex, raspberry leaf tea, preseed, softcups
R/R: Been a full weekend so far. And true to form, got my first +OPK yesterday on CD15... I have been weirdly regular that for the past three cycles I have had this happen. Got a blazing + today so maybe O tonight or tomorrow..? Also got a temp dip today.
CS/Q: nope
ETA chart
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
I'm new to posting and just jumping over here because good ol' AF showed up today. Nice to meet you all:)
daffodil_shoe Crossing fingers O holds off for you also.
Month/Cycle: 3/4
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: FAM, OPK, SMEP, seed cycling
R/R: Last month was the first month I felt great about our timing. Before that, I wasn't sure about BD'ing close enough to ovulation, but this time I know I did. Still wish for a different result but interestingly, I'm getting better each month at handling AF when she comes.
CS/Q: Chart looks good. Only thing I worried about last cycle was I started a tiny amount of spotting on the 10th day, so I'm not sure if that means I have low progesterone if it's related to something else. I had a couple months previously a crazy amount of spotting but seeing a gyno about it so hopefully we can get to the bottom of it soon!
I absolutely love tempdrop! It's so awesome not manually temping, the community is amazing and I changed the battery yesterday and all was back to working perfectly this morning!