July 2019 Moms

STM+ check-in December

edited December 2018 in July 2019 Moms
EDD:
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 
How are your other kids doing? 
Rants/Raves?
Concerns/Questions? 
GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? 

Re: STM+ check-in December

  • -EDD: July 10th.
    -How many kids do you already have? 4 boys 
    -Ages? 2, 4, 6, and 8yrs old
    -How are your other kids doing? They are getting over being sick again. That paired with bad weather and they are crazy messes. 
    -Rants/Raves? My 8 and 6yr old havehave started being sneaky as heck when they clean their room. It's so frustrating!! I found a ton of clothes, toys, and everything else behind their dresser, under their bed, and in their closet. I got everything out and they tried it again. Threatened to clean out their entire room if it happened again. I'm hoping I don't have to made good on that threat. So much extra work for me.
    -Concerns/Questions? My 2yr old has been the "baby" and very much acts like it, though he is getting much more independent lately. It's going to be interesting to see him react to this baby. 
    -GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing?

    -My 4yr old confused the heck out of me a while back asking for alligator?? Turns out he wanted Gatorade...
    -My 2yr old was being a turd and I told him  to "Knock it off, kid". He told he wasn't a kid. He's Russell Muscle. (the nickname we have given him lol).
    -oldest two have been defiant turds lately. I'll think of something cute or funny later maybe. 
    Wife. Boy mom x6. Expecting #7. Wannabe homesteader.
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  • EDD: 7/8
    How many kids do you already have? Ages? 2 boys: 9, and the oldest turns 11 this week on Wednesday. 

    How are your other kids doing? The oldest has a band concert tonight, his first one. The youngest "forgot" to tell us he was written up on the bus Friday morning - it was for something stupid, but we don't tolerate lying or obfuscation about things like that, so he was in trouble Friday night - the school had already called my husband and let him know. 

    Rants/Raves? My kids are 90% great ;) I am super pissed at both the bank and the post office right now though - waiting for a desperately needed check and starting to worry that my mail carrier sent it back again for no damn reason. I worry because she has done this 3 or 4 times if anything comes addressed to me with my name hyphenated. But she calmly delivers a shit ton of mail for people who have not lived at our address for 3-4 years. 
    Pissed at the bank because DH deposited his last paycheck by phone Friday night (we live in Alaska, no branches for Chase in this state) and it still has not cleared yet. Waiting to see if we need to pissed with his employer instead. 

    Concerns/Questions? Nah.

    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? My boys are goobers. They do a bunch of random weird things. And my youngest has his own hashtag for some of the crazy stuff that comes out of his mouth. This weekend DH and I were cracking up listening to the shower concerts from both boys. 
  • EDD: July 7th 

    How many kids? Ages? One daughter, she’ll be 3 on the 1st of February 

    How are your other kids doing? She’s good! Starting preschool part time in less than a month which is nerve wracking because she doesn’t do well being separated from me so I think it’ll be a hard transition. She’s super excited for Christmas this year and I can’t wait to see her reaction to everything this year! 

    Rants/raves: She’s going through a defiant time lately where she’s been testing boundaries which has been exhausting but overall she’s such a good kid I feel bad complaining lol 

    Concerns/questions: slightly concerned with how she’s going to handle all the adjustments, going to preschool part time and preparing for a baby, then how she’ll do when the new baby comes and she isn’t the baby of the family anymore. 

    GTKY funniest things your kids have done lately? I told my daughter we were going to the mall the other week but first we had to pick up something at my grandmas so my daughter called her great grandma to tell her we were on the way and she said “grandma I’m disappointed because I’m ready to go to the mall but we’re coming to your house so I’m not impressed with mommy”. I know the exact quote because I couldn’t quite believe she said it! At least she’s in touch with her emotions! 
  • @mrscammack My daughter was the same in terms of her attachment to me. She started montessori just before she turned 3. I'm not going to lie...the first day was probably the worst day of my life. She didn't scream or yell but she quietly pleaded and begged "No mommy, please don't leave me. Please. Please don't go." Over and over. I had to hand her to her teacher and walk away. I took the day off work and cried all day. Her school is very honest and sent me pictures throughout the day for weeks. She was teary for the first week or so and drop offs were hard for quite a while, but she would always stop crying minutes after I left and always told me how much fun she had when I would go pick her up. She's almost 5 now so she has been there for almost 2 years and now everything is a dream and super easy. Hugs and kisses and she's off to her class. The beginning might sucks but she won't remember it and it gets better quickly! 
  • EDD:7/18

    How many kids do you already have? Ages? 2 girls. Oldest is 4 and youngest will be 2 end of February 

    How are your other kids doing? Good, they both came to our last appt and the oldest had so many questions for the dr and thought they were cutting the baby out of my stomach that day 

    Rants/Raves? We go back to our home state this week for Christmas and I’m hopimg the warmer weather will give me some energy 

    Concerns/Questions? 

    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? 
    I think she knows we move her elf and leave notes for her. The other day she told me she was going to go potty and she would really like to have a note waiting for her when we got back. 





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  • edited December 2018
    @mrscammack Our daughters are almost the same age! Mine will be 3 on January 25th 
  • @Panaceia my daughter will be three soon and we want to put her in at least half day preschool before the new baby comes but she’s very attached to me and feel like she’ll be like your daughter was. I know it will be hard.   But she always asks to go to school she just seems to think that I’ll be the teacher Lol. I’m glad you said it didn’t last long though and the school sending you pictures of her during the day is awesome
  • EDD: July 24th
    How many kids do you already have? Ages? 2yo DS
    How are your other kids doing? He thinks everyone has a baby in their belly... 
    Rants/Raves? So so so effing hard to be sick when he's so high energy. We have no family nearby, and no friends who are really equipped to deal with a 2yo at their own house (rather than babysitting at ours), so life is just a shit show right now, pardon my French.
    Concerns/Questions? Not really.
    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? 
    He's picking phrases like "wait a minute..." and using them at the funniest times.
  • edited December 2018
    EDD: July 13th
    How many kids do you already have? Ages? One daughter who’ll be 3 at the end of January. 
    How are your other kids doing? She’s great she’s so in love with this baby already which is awesome but I just got put on bedrest which she doesn’t really understand and I don’t know how I’d ever explain it to her if something happened to the baby....
    Rants/Raves? My doctor  I want to switch so bad but I’m locked with my insurance and my insurance will only accept her..  They’ve been making mistakes on everything from from UTI  tests to paps and have been rude on the phone. Then I went to the ER Sunday night and was diagnosed with a hemorrhage and the ER doctor stressed that I needed to be seen by my OB within the next two days but my OB is refusing to see me until my next appointment in three weeks
    Concerns/Questions? Just concerned with my hemorrhage and my cramps 🙁
    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing?  My daughter hurt her pinky finger on her play kitchen (not like bad or anything, just a little red from her late closing it in one of the plastic drawers) She comes running over to me and my grandfather and says “look” and holds up her finger. Then she says “I need an amputation! A little amputation!” We cracked up. I think it’s because a few weeks ago my mom had to have her pinky toe amputated due to severe neuropathy and diabetes
  • EDD: July 3rd

     How many kids do you already have? 2
     
    Ages? 3.5 and 2.5 

    How are your other kids doing? They’re good mostly, ornery, but good.

    Rants/Raves? They never leave anything alone. They almost killed their fish today because they wanted to pet it 🙄 it was almost a disaster.

    Concerns/Questions? None

    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? 

    We havent told family yet. But my oldest seems to be dead set on letting the cat out of the bag. He’s walking around telling everyone there’s a baby in my belly, and also in his belly, while pushing his belly out as far as he can 😂 good thing my sil is 6 months along so I can blame it on her until we announce in a couple of weeks on Christmas.
  • @foodislove haha, our son also thinks we all have a baby in our belly.

    EDD: July 6

    How many kids do you already have? Ages? One boy who I'm pretending isn't turning 2 in 10 days.   :'(

    How are your other kids doing?  He's good despite us traumatizing him with Santa and a haircut this week.  :D

    Rants/Raves?  We're throwing a 2nd bday party for our son on Saturday and I'm way behind on my to do list.  My parents arrived into town yesterday, so at least I'll get some help from them now!

    Concerns/Questions? Not right now.

    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing?  So, I got the little people nativity set for our son earlier this month.  He apparently thinks one of the three kings is himself, so he calls it by his name.  If we ask him if it's a king he says, noooooo all dramatically.  If we ask who it is, he says his own name.  Kills me every time.
  • I can't believe I go here. I still feel like such a FTM. 
    EDD: 7/26

    How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1 boy who's 6 months. 

    How are your other kids doing? He's got a bit of a cold today and just had his first tooth push through. Luckily instead of being fussy, he's just been sleeping the day away. Hopefully that doesn't mean he'll be up all night! 

    Rants/Raves? My FIL comes into town tomorrow and I'm really not looking forward to it. We have a very strained relationship bc of some drama that happened over the past year. We used to live near them and moved away when DS was 2 months old. This is the first time seeing them since. FX it goes okay!

    Concerns/Questions? Any moms with 2u2 want to share some advice/helpful tips? We were definitely not planning on having our second so quickly! They will only be 14 months apart! 

    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? 
    He has just started saying dada and it's the best. I'm not even mad that dada came before mama since I know that's how it usually works. He's also very deep in his blowing raspberry phase.  :D
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     August 2015
    DS born 5/23/2018
    TTC #2 July 2020



  • tsa208tsa208 member
    edited December 2018
    @Amphibious22 I will have two under 2 as well! My daughter will be almost 19 months when he is born. Just realized I haven't posted yet.


    EDD: 7.5
    How many kids do you already have? A 13 month old daughter
    How are your other kids doing? Great! Every day is something new
    Rants/Raves? DD is going through a sleep regression. I haven't gotten a good night of sleep in two weeks. :(
    Concerns/Questions? None
    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing?  She has been trying to say "uh oh" for a month now, but only said "uh!" Yesterday she looked at me, and clearly said "Uh...OH! Uh...OH!!" She was so proud of herself for finally getting it. She said it the whole way home from daycare. 
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  • EDD: July 5

    ​​​​​ How many kids do you already have? Ages? 2. Daughter will be 6 next month and my son turned 4 just before Halloween.

    How are your other kids doing? Ok, the last week and a half they have been acting up. Not sure if it's the holidays and the thought of another sibling setting in, but I'm hoping it's a phase that ends soon. It's unlike both of them. 

    Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? GTKY: Not really, asides from trying to move into a bigger house with some more space. Ours is cramped and we wanted to move before we found out about #3

    What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? My 4 year old son told me the baby is a girl. I told him I couldn't promise that and it might be a boy. He said ”No, its a girl!”. I told him again, that it might be a little boy. He then walked up to me put his finger over my mouth and goes ”Shhhh, don't say that Mommy its mean”. 
  • @key33 Your son is ADORABLE. That is so cute. Hope it's a girl for his sake, lol.
  • EDD: July 24

    How many kids do you already have? Ages? A two-year old daughter

    How are your other kids doing? She just started "school" in August, and she has been sick all the time since. :(

    Rants/Raves? Our daughter still sleeps in the bed with us, but we love it! I know we should probably work on getting her to sleep in her own bed before the new one comes, but I miss her at night!!! Anyone ever co-sleep with a toddler and have an infant in the room? I kinda want to attempt it, but I know that is crazy.

    Concerns/Questions? I'm an only child, so this sibling thing will be completely new to me. I'm nervous that I'm somehow less prepared to manage sibling relations, since I don't have a sibling myself? Is that weird? 

    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing?  My face is breaking out from pregnancy hormones. Yesterday, my daughter kept pointing to my pimple and saying "mommy's got a boo boo!"  :D:'(:D:#
  • I slept with my baby until she was 6 months and then she went to her crib. She's 13 months now and could never sleep next to me - she'd wake up and think it was play time. I miss sleeping next to her so much!
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  • @foodislove Haha! I don’t know what he’s going to do if it’s not. 
  • @strickland8052
    I am also an only child and have had the same thoughts! 
  • @happymessmama17 my daughters due date was actually the 24th! That’s so funny! 
  • key33key33 member
    edited December 2018
    @strickland8052 @acw452 Only child here too! I had the same thought with my second. But, really it’s just like any relationship. It's really cute to see how they interact and grow together... Until they get a bit older and start arguing and telling on one another all the time. 
  • Edd: 7/9
    currently have one daughter, she turned 4 today... I’m having ultra hormonal feelings over here around it 
    She’s a gem and super excited to be a big sister. Obviously she makes me crazy here and there, but she’s smart and kind and I like her a lot. 
    Rants/raves: I’m so glad next baby isn’t a December birthday. This month has been insane already with the presents and treats and obligations. I’m so tired I’m not enjoying most of it. 
    Concerns- Margaret falls asleep in her room but every night comes into our bed at some point. I can’t decide if that’s worth addressing before July. I mean, maybe next trimester
     🤷🏻‍♀️
    Cute stuff? Im awful at remembering these moments, but lately she’s been rattling off a list of things she loves me more than- tonight was chocolate ice cream, the moon, her studies and daddy 😂
  • @Amphibious22 I’ll be in the 2 under 2 club as well! Let’s enjoy the rollercoaster! 

    EDD: 7/7

    How many kids do you already have? Ages?
    Just one! Our daughter is 10.5 months old. 
     
    How are your other kids doing? She’s got a stuffy nose lately and has been moody, but I’m thinking it’s from teething. We’re team 0 teeth right now. 

    Rants/Raves? Rave: DD decided she wanted to crawl!!! Finally! And now it’s time to baby proof the house: any hints?

    Concerns/Questions? Nothing right now. 

    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? Baby girl really enjoys her bath time. She has discovered that when we put our fingers up to her mouth and move them fast, it can make some funny noises. She has been doing a lot of that lately and it’s so adorable when she tries to do it herself! 

  • EDD: 7/12 How many kids do you already have? 1 Ages? 5 How are your other kids doing? Doesn’t know yet Rants/Raves? Exhausted ALL the time Concerns/Questions? Doc says i have Anti-M and nobody seems concerned?? GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? She’s been asking Santa for a baby sister or brother 
  • EDD: 7/12 How many kids do you already have? 1 Ages? 5 How are your other kids doing? Doesn’t know yet Rants/Raves? Exhausted ALL the time Concerns/Questions? Doc says i have Anti-M and nobody seems concerned?? GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? She’s been asking Santa for a baby sister or brother 
    Quoted because the knottie name is hard! Please try to change it so we can get to know you and support you 💝
    I wasn't sure what Anti-M was, but quick research seemed to indicate if the baby did have it an issue it was something that could be at least addressed swiftly after birth.
  • EDD: 27/7
    How many kids do you already have?1
     Ages? 3, 4 in February 
    How are your other kids doing? Really good, it’s a pretty easy age right now.

    Concerns/Questions? 
    I see there’s a few others with a big (3+ years) age gap too. How are you guys feeling about it? Did you plan for that gap, we didn’t we’ve been ttc for three years but now I’m feeling ok about it.

  • @snootles I’m with you on the age gap (DD is 3, will have almost a 4 year gap)

    This gap was more or less planned. I struggled a lot with PPD after having DD and needed to make sure I was 100% ready to do this again! I didn’t expect that to take 3 years....but it is what it is!

    I’m actually excited about the gap because I know DD will be a big help and won’t have to deal with double strollers etc.
  • key33key33 member
    edited December 2018
    @snootles the age gap was planned for our 3rd although the timing was a surprise. I don’t think I will mind the age gap at all.

    Our other two are 21 months apart born in Jan 13 and Oct 14. My other two can play nice but are usually telling each other to stop looking at them and arguing about something ridiculous. 🙄
  • @snootles our gap will be 3.5 which wasn’t planned, we wanted closer together and started trying when DD was 1 so we were hoping for a 2/2.5 year age gap maximum but it took 18 months of ttc to get pregnant.

    Now though I’m happy about the age gap, DD will be in preschool part time so i’ll get quality alone time with baby like I had with DD and when the baby is 1 and getting into everything my daughter will be in kindergarten so it’ll definitely be easier on me this way. 
  • tsa208tsa208 member
    edited December 2018
    snootles said:
    EDD: 27/7
    How many kids do you already have?1
     Ages? 3, 4 in February 
    How are your other kids doing? Really good, it’s a pretty easy age right now.

    Concerns/Questions? 
    I see there’s a few others with a big (3+ years) age gap too. How are you guys feeling about it? Did you plan for that gap, we didn’t we’ve been ttc for three years but now I’m feeling ok about it.

    Hiding from my 13 month old right now, this is music to my ears!  :D
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  • EDD: 7/10
    How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1, dd is 6
    How are your other kids doing? She's doing great. Loving kindergarten and ready for Christmas. 
    Rants/Raves?  Right now dd and I both have colds. Hope we feel better by Christmas  
    Concerns/Questions? None
    GTKY: What's the funniest thing your kiddos have said or done lately? Or cutest thing? Dd was just 'talking' to the baby. 
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