People think we become mothers when we give birth but the truth is we become mothers the moment we start calling our babies to us in our thoughts, dreams and prayers. Some paths are short and some are so long that you can easily forget where you were headed.
Re: Group 3 (August 15th-23rd) Checkin: w/o 12/9
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: Aug 15 / 4 weeks 4 days
Baby is the size of a(n): Poppyseed
Upcoming Appointments: None until late January then initial appointment followed by 12 week scan. Already had all my blood work done!
How are you feeling?: Nervous but somewhat detached about whether this pregnancy will stick. No symptoms really yet.
Rants/Raves: Getting a dating scan abroad is harder than I expected!! Will have to wait until I'm back home which will be 11 weeks so will be regular 12 week scan.
Questions: Nope but I'm sure I will soon.
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Anywhere either hot and tropical or beautifully snowy.
Baby is the size of a(n): Poppyseed
Upcoming Appointments: January 10th - First Ultrasound
How are you feeling?: I have a cold, so 😑 but nothing related to the pregnancy, yet. Sore boobs!
Rants/Raves: I am super annoyed I’ve had a cold for 2 weeks.
Questions: None right now
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot?
We vacation in Ocean Isle Beach, NC every year. It’s our little slice of heaven. DH & I got married there and I’ve been going there since I was a kid.
Baby is the size of a(n): fleur de sel
Upcoming Appointments: January 3rd- first OB & ultrasound.
How are you feeling?: pretty good. I get waves of nausea, but so far it seems to pass if I eat something or drink some juice. Last time my MS didn't get awful until week 6, I'm hoping this time it stays mild!
Rants/Raves: spotting seems to have slowed down, I'm really hoping that trend continues!
Questions: not really at the moment. Am I the only crazy who already pulled out her maternity clothes bin to look it over and see what I can use this time around? 😜
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? North Carolina/ Tennessee in the fall. We love some colder weather.
ETA - I recently just bought more maternity clothes LOL. Like, last week.
Baby is the size of a(n): poppyseed
UpcomingAppointments: none yet, I need to call and schedule.
How are you feeling?: alright, just very tired. I have to make an appointment to get thyroid blood work done
Rants/Raves: not really
Questions: none
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot?: I think so far my favorite vacation I've been on is my honeymoon in Orlando. But we most often go to Louisiana.
Baby is the size of a(n): apple or poppy seed
Upcoming Appointments: My first u/s was supposed to be 12/23, but we will be out of town to surprise family over Christmas. It will now be 1/2.
How are you feeling?: Feeling pretty good. Some awful cramps in only my left ankle and foot at night for some reason. Some very mild cramping in both legs and feet during the day. Drinking some electrolyte water today in case it's potassium. I also purchased some gradual compression socks for the airplane, put them on last night, and they did seem to help.
Rants/Raves: Been trying to get to H&M for days now, but I feel too worn out to go. Neeeeed some warmer clothes to visit family.
Questions: Is anyone else freezing cold all of the time? Like it's 76 in the house but you're cold.
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Don't have a favorite, but I do love going on vacation. Road trips, short weekend trips, visiting family, exploring with my husband, etc.
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
Baby is the size of a(n): poppy seed
Upcoming Appointments: My first appointment is January 3. My OB typically doesn't do any early US, *TW *
but we had a late first tri loss in early 2017 so I'll bet she checks at my 8 week appointment. *End TW*
How are you feeling?: Tired. Today is the first day I felt pukey. I was SO sick during my first pregnancy so I hope it doesn't get that bad this time.
Rants/Raves: I hate the societal pressure to pretend that you're not pregnant. I have so many events coming up in the next few weeks where I'm going to have to fake drink and try to be clever and that irritates me.
Questions: None so far. I feel like I just did this
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Cabin + Mountains + cool/cold weather.
August 22nd? (I am not sure when exactly when I ovulated so it's just a guess) / 3 weeks 5 days
Baby is the size of a(n):
Poppy seed
Upcoming Appointments:
January 11th first Dr. Appointment
How are you feeling?:
So tired and so excited
Rants/Raves:
I forgot how tired pregnancy can make you I was supposed to clean during DD nap but ended up taking a nap myself.
Questions:
None
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot?
On a cruise
@mrsrebeccacampbell It's good to know the fatigue is normal. Tired and excited are great descriptions!
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
@mrsrebeccacampbell DH wants to go on a cruise but I've never been into the idea of it. Maybe I should give it a try!
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: August 20 / 4 weeks
Upcoming Appointments: I scheduled a meeting with my obgyn for 12/26. I am hoping it helps me decide whether I will seek a new provider. Couple of phone interviews with doulas this week. First official prenatal appointment isn’t until end of January.
How are you feeling?: Lots of emotions.
Rants/Raves: I had a chiropractor appointment yesterday and I told them for safety reasons. On my way out one of the ladies said “I see a baby bump!” STFU- that’s just my extra padding left over from baby #1
Questions: Nah.
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? The mountains.
@smmatt08 Yasss someone else who is reaching out to Doulas too! People think it's nuts "so early on" but I'm like this needs to happen now. A "baby bump" *eyeroll.
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
Baby is the size of a(n): poppyseed
Upcoming Appointments: nothing yet, I emailed my RE about this surprise pregnancy to be like WAT DO I DO AAAH (we have a long history of IF and we were planning for a January FET before this shock) and haven’t heard back yet
How are you feeling?: tired and sore boobs!
Rants/Raves: I was NOT planning on having to be disciplined with wine and sleep schedule over the holidays!
Questions: where else do y’all go for tracking the size of baby other than the bump? Like “my baby is the size of a tiny morsel of caviar” or something
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Western Europe so I can dork out with Roman and Greek ruins (my field of specialty). I am scheduled to lead a student trip to Rome this summer but that’s up in the air now! Locally, we’re close to Napa so I love doing short trips there—even without drinking it’s so peaceful and nice there
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
Upcoming Appointments: None yet. I need to call my doctor still. I was supposed to see the MFM before Thanksgiving for a pre-conception appointment but that got cancelled at the last minute. So Ill be calling my OB and ask what next.
How are you feeling?: Sick already. I had terrible MS with both my girls early on and this one doesnt seem to be breaking that mold. Nausea and fatigue started before the BFP. Food started tasting off before the BFP as well. Thats about it. Oh, and crazy dreams the past few nights.
Rants/Raves: Even though this is my third, I am worried due to my heart condition that was diagnosed this past April. I'm on meds that arent really safe in the first trimester, however they keep me from dying. This is why I wanted to see the MFM before getting pregnant, but here we are.
Questions: None yet.
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Maui. We go every 2-3 years and I just love it. We just got back from our latest trip about a month ago and I already miss it.
Upcoming Appointments: none yet
How are you feeling?: excited/nervous/in shock
Rants/Raves: this is my third. I am not looking forward to my body not being my own for 2ish years between pregnancy and EP’ing. I’m getting up there in age so I’m not sure how that will effect the pregnancy.
Questions: none so far. Been there, done that!
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Anywhere where DH and I can get some alone time!
Baby is the size of a(n): poppyseed
Upcoming Appointments: January 8. really hope the time goes by fast because I will be a bundle of nerves until then.
How are you feeling?: My breasts are a little sore, a little bloated, and I am really tired, but other than that, I feel good. I've never been pregnant before, so I don't know how I am supposed to feel at this point.
Rants/Raves: I'm trying to think of some cute but not over-the-top ways to tell our parents. My mom we plan on telling right before Christmas, but we won't be able to tell DH's parents until they come home from their trip in January. The rest of our families we will probably wait until Feb/March to tell them.
Questions: Nope.
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? We've only been once, but we loved Aruba. I also love Disney, but since I am a teacher I can only go when school is out and it's wall-to-wall crowds, which has zapped some of the magic for me.
Edited because spelling is hard today...
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 8/23, 3w5d
Baby is the size of a(n): Fleur de sel
Upcoming Appointments: Haven't scheduled one yet. Our insurance no longer covers the health system I delivered my last baby at. There's a new hospital opening not far from us, so I'd like to be able to deliver there... I just have to call and find a new OB! 😭 ***ETA*** Just called and made an appt with a new OB. January 16!
How are you feeling?: Mostly okay... More exhausted than usual, but who knows if it's pregnancy related or just teething toddler related. And slightly nauseated all day, with one throw up this morning.
Rants/Raves: None yet!
Questions: None yet!
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Not really a where, but a what... DH and I love finding new B&B's, secluded vacation rentals, and cold weather camping. We like small towns and being close to nature.
@smmatt08 Seriously side eyeing that lady... SMH!
@cato99 I use Ovia too!
Baby is the size of a(n): tardigrade
Upcoming Appointments: 1/7!
How are you feeling?: nausea comes and goes. I'm mainly just hormonal haha
Rants/Raves: today is the last day of finals!!!!!
Questions: none
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot?
Obx, I haven't been since I lived on the east coast almost a decade ago
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 8/21 4w2d
Baby is the size of a(n): poppyseed
Upcoming Appointments: Jan 9 I’ll have a dating ultrasound
How are you feeling?: tired and my stomach feels a little wonky plus not much of an appetite, but it could be feeling anxious
Rants/Raves: still processing all the feels - tried for a year, accepted it wasn’t going to happen, applied for law school for Aug 2019 and now here I am.
Questions:
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Anywhere where I can sit and relax with good food and I’m sold
TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15
NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
Baby is the size of a(n): poppy seed or something teeny tiny
Upcoming Appointments: Another blood draw 12/21 and then US 12/28!!
How are you feeling?: Pretty danged good. Some fatigue and my boobs are on fire, but no nausea so I'm good!
Rants/Raves: I miss coffee. And wine. The wine I can do without but omg, y'all. MY COFFEE. 😲
Questions: None right now
GTKY: What's your favorite vacation spot? Florence, Italy. The food, the wine, the people.. love it all!