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Natural miscarriage or ...:.

HisPromisIsTrueHisPromisIsTrue member
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At 9 weeks we lost our sweetling. We are grieving :(.

The doctor told me I have 3 options:
-1 natural miscarriage
-2 medicine induced miscarriage
-3 extraction

i hate all of these options. I hate this decision. How does one decide the best of the worst?

I would appreciate any insight or experience anyone would like to share.


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    Mack2342Mack2342 member
    So sorry for your loss.  For me I was given those same options.  I chose d & c because it was the fastest guaranteed way of ending it so I could move forward emotionally as well as get back to TTC sooner than later.  I hope you find the decision that works best for you.  
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    HisPromisIsTrueHisPromisIsTrue member
    Thank you for sharing
    **Child and Loss Mentioned**

    ~~~God's Promises are Good and True! ~~~

     Baby boy born 6/3/13 after 13 cycles :)
    Angel Baby Loss November 2018.
      Daisypath Anniversary tickers Follow Me on Pinterest
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    allrightmeowallrightmeow member
    I picked D&C because I couldn't deal with waiting for things to happen.  I started bleeding at the start of a three day weekend and that was more than enough for me. 
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    kbrown2385kbrown2385 member
    I’m so sorry you are having to go through this. I’ve had 2 d&c’s and 3 natural. Emotionally, I prefer the natural and physically, the d&c is easier for me. Waiting for something to happen naturally is nerve wracking, but I felt more at peace with everything after.
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    baila1baila1 member
    I had two miscarriages and they were both after 10 weeks so I was told I should have a d&c both times. I was surprised how little it hurt. The next day I didn't even need Advil. But I didn't like the fact that I had to go under anasthesia. That was the worst part for me. 
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