January 2019 Moms

Weekly Ticker Change EDD Jan 1-7 (week of Nov 12)

EDD?

Symptoms?

Upcoming Appointments?

R/R/Q?

GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? 

Re: Weekly Ticker Change EDD Jan 1-7 (week of Nov 12)

  • EDD? January 2nd 

    Symptoms? Achy hips, achy back, heartburn- I get full really easily and if I eat even a little too much the heartburn goes into full effect  :|

    Upcoming Appointments? I had one yesterday, everything was looking good. Baby is still transverse. My next appointment will be my 35 week sono in 2 weeks. After that, the weekly appointments start! Can’t believe it. 

    R/R/Q? Not that I can think of right now

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? I fear being grabbed by the ankles if I am standing too close to the bed. Also, snakes- anywhere at anytime. Especially in the toilet, biting me on my bottom  :s
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  • EDD?
    Jan 2nd 

    Symptoms?
    Mostly sore lower back and some shortness of breath; however, I'm wondering if baby might have just dropped, because today I feel like I can take deep breaths. Some acid reflux, but nothing horrible.

    Upcoming Appointments?
    Today. I'm scared of the weigh-in, because I really fell off the bandwagon with Halloween and Thanksgiving.

    R/R/Q?
    Rave: ALMOST TO THE FINISH LINE!!
    Rant: I asked DH to massage my lower back yesterday and he legit went and got the rolling pin. I might look like the Pillsbury dough boy, but I certainly am not him!

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? 
    Balloons popping... Or like anything that will startle me. Avoid it all like the plague.
  • Jan 7th

    My back is killing me. It was so bad on Sunday I almost cried. I took an Epsom salt bath and it felt a bunch better. Still swelling. Been really crampy the last 2 days. Insomnia is still raging.

    Just chiro, massage, and acupuncture this week. Have an NST/BPP and an OB appointment next Wednesday.

    Rave: Just pre-registered at the hospital for L&D this morning. Shit is getting real! DH and I were off work together yesterday and he helped me with so much stuff on my "nesting" list. I love that man. 

    GTKY: +1 to the popping balloons. I can't even blow a balloon up for fear it will pop. Also, fish when I'm swimming in a lake (when I was little I was standing in the water beside a dock on a super hot day and someone came runnning onto the dock and caused the 50+ sunfish hiding underneath it to come darting out and they cut my legs...still traumatized 'til this day). 

    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • EDD?
    12/28

    Symptoms?
    Heartburn, hip pain, pressure in my pelvis (pretty sure baby is starting to drop), still a little short of breath but hopefully that will improve as baby drops. I stayed high until I went into labor with DS but I’ve definitely noticed I’m carrying a little lower now. 

    Upcoming Appointments?
    Friday. Regular OB appointment. Nothing exciting. 

    R/R/Q?
    Rave: My birthday is on Sunday! Yay! Also, we finally got the ceiling fan up in baby’s room. We just need to paint but DH said he feels like he’s coming down with something. He’s usually not the man cold type and I have to force him to relax but he was pretty cranky this morning. 

    Rant: I hate it when DH gets cranky. I told him if he gets sick or he gets DS sick, they have to stay 5ft. away from me at all times. I haven’t had more than the sniffles this pregnancy *knocks on wood* and I intend to keep it that way! 

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? 
    I guess sleeping with closet doors open. I just can’t do it. 
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  • EDD? Jan 7

    Symptoms? hip pain, heartburn, pelvic pressure, Braxton hicks contractions, tired all the time! I've never been a snooze button person and now I find myself hitting it 2-3 times per morning. 

    Upcoming Appointments? We had a growth check ultrasound last night and a midwife checkup tonight.

    R/R/Q? Rant: like @sfgiantsgamerbabe I hate when my wife is cranky and hangry. She has a much shorter fuse than I do and I don't have the patience to deal with that! She's great in so many ways but will need to work on controlling her emotions when the baby is here. We're both going to need to focus our energy on the little one!

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? I hate when, at haunted houses, the actors touch you.  That crosses a major personal space barrier for me.  I already get really into scary things (love scary movies, etc). I don't need strangers touching me to make it even more terrifying!.


    My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone)

    IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN
    HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear!
    IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019 




  • EDD: 1/1 
    Symptoms: pelvis is coming undone. I had to get restrictions for work for squatting/kneeling/bending because the pain was so bad. Tylenol and a hip binder didn’t do much for me. I am going out at the beginning of December because I’m so tired and bordering useless at work anyway. Also sleep is becoming dodgy and I have a perma stuffy nose - which I had with #1. I never had pelvic pain with #1 so part of my misery is shock and WTFedness because I’ve done all this before... 

    appointment: 11/23
    R/R/Q: @alexandraseattle we’re 100% on the same page. One more person asks me a dumb question.... 

    GTKY: dark rooms! I won’t walk into a dark room. This is thanks to an episode of unsolved mysteries I saw when I was little and there was an alien in the corner of the dark room and ever since then... nope! Also heights. I won’t even stand on a chair. 
  • DLpanda08DLpanda08 member
    edited November 2018
    EDD? 12/29

    Symptoms? All of them... at least it feels like it. 

    Upcoming Appointments? Sitting in the waiting room right now.

    R/R/Q? My dog, Finn, died suddenly on Sunday from a ruptured tumor we didn’t even know he had. I’m a wreck and I am going to need people to stop being insensitive jerk faces. He was my first baby. He was not “just a dog”. 

    Also, if one more kid nearly runs over me in the hallway because they were running I’m going to lose it. Slow TF down!

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have?
     I’m absolutely terrified of squirrels. And being outside at night by myself. 
    married 7.11.09
    Me: 31 DH: 36
    DD (14) and DS (11) adopted from US Foster care December 2016
    BFP April 24, 2018 | EDD December 29, 2018
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  • @DLpanda08 Aaww, I'm so sorry to hear about your dog! I can't even imagine how tough that must be for you right now, on top of everything else. Lots of hugs! 
  • @DLpanda08 so so sorry about your dog.  Screw the people who dare to insult the love a person has for the pet.  We love them with our whole heart and it's heartbreaking to lose them.  Lots of love to you while you process all this.  xoxooooo

    My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone)

    IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN
    HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear!
    IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019 




  • @DLpanda08 I’m so sorry to hear about your dog. 
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  • @DLpanda08 I am so sorry about your dog. Thinking of you  <3
  • @DLpanda08 I'm so sorry to hear about your pupper. :( I love dogs way more than humans and it just breaks my heart to think of you going through this loss right now. 
  • skilouiseskilouise member
    edited November 2018
    @DLpanda08 I'm so sorry about your pupper.  Dogs are absolutely family, and anyone who tries to downplay your loss is a jerk. 

    EDD?

    1/5

    Symptoms?

    Hip/ pelvic/ lower back pain, difficulty sleeping, peeing 5000 times a day, big giant man burps anytime I eat anything, a complete lack of tolerance for BS

    Upcoming Appointments?

    Chiro on Thursday, 32 week appointment on Friday

    R/R/Q?

    Rant: All the weather forecasters are predicting the DC area will get about twice as much snow as average this winter  :'(

    Rave: I pre- registered with L&D at my hospital, and got a packet of info in the mail today. One of the bits of info in the packet was a reminder to look into what steps our insurance company requires to get a new baby covered under the insurance. A little while later, DH read the letter and volunteered to take care of the insurance stuff on his own.  Yay for him being proactive and taking work off of my plate!

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have?

    Needing to check behind a shower curtain before going to the bathroom at night. Fortunately our master bath has a stall shower so this is only an issue when we're a guest at someone else's house. 


  • @DLpanda08 sending positive thoughts as your first baby crosses the rainbow bridge. EDD: 01/06
    Symptoms: All of the heartburn. Wanting to sleep on the floor of my classroom after teaching 2 classes. Swollen feet still. Crazy back pain this weekend. Lightning rod pain to the bottom of my shoulder blade up to the back of my neck and down my arm through my elbow. After 48 hours of Tylenol and heat pads, husband support, yoga, sobbing, and icy hot it went away. Turns out my little man flipped and is positioned breech for the first time throughout this pregnancy.
    Appointments: Just had a 2-week check in yesterday and growth US today. All is good. Baby boy seems big at 32 weeks 2 days but no one else was worried . . . 4lbs 7 oz 
    Rant: Pregnancy isn't fun.
    Rave: Sweet students and an amazing husband.
    Question: Does the 3rd trimester always go by so freaking slow?
    Irrational Fear: Birds pecking at my feet. Crickets and Grasshoppers.
  • @dlpanda08 I am so sorry about your pup :( 

    EDD? 1/6/19

    Symptoms? Heartburn every time I lay down, uncomfortable in just about every position.

    Upcoming Appointments? Normal midwife appointment tomorrow, DH is coming even though it’ll be a boring appointment so he can start meeting the midwives too :)

    R/R/Q?

    Rant - Coworker who has the office next to mine came into work every day last week sick as a dog. So yeah, I caught whatever he had (feels like cold but with REALLY BAD sore throat, but it’s not strep), in addition to having a two-day trial this week. Hauling 3 bankers boxes of binders into court 7 months preggo with a cold feels kinda like a marathon. Not sleeping because of being stuffy, uncomfortable, and having to pee all night is also making this week extra hellacious.

    Rave - I freakin’ love the holidays (Thanksgiving and Christmas) and even though we aren’t traveling this year and only having one guest for Thanksgiving cannot WAIT to start festivities.

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? I have an irrational fear of the dark due to a childhood trauma that happened in the dark. But, I’m not afraid of things in my closet or under the bed so - win some lose some?

    Me: 36 | DH: 41 | Married: 9/29/07 | DD: December 2018 | BFP: 2/1/21, EDD: 10/6/21
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  • @DLpanda08 I'm so sorry to hear about your pup. I've been there and it is terrible. Don't let anyone else tell you how to grieve. 

    EDD? 1/5/19

    Symptoms? I went from constant constipation to diarrhea. Tired. Crampy. Where is this appetite everyone talks about??

    Upcoming Appointments? Next Wednesday

    R/R/Q? We're all having babies in less than 2 months? What?? I do not feel ready at all. We did have a beautiful shower last weekend and another one this weekend. I just need a week off of work to get everything washed and organized now.

    Anyone else's DH trying to figure out how to get the baby to come before New Years for the tax break?  :p

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? Fire. I think I'm going to leave my hair straighter on and burn my house down. I even got one with an auto shutoff and yet there are still plenty of times that I get in my car and have to go back inside to check and make sure it's off. My dog's crate is by the bathroom and I just envision his fear if fire started around him and not being able to get out. Makes me panicky even just typing this. 
    Me: 36 DH:41
    DD born 1/3/2019
    EDD for #2 1/28/2021
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  • @lacroixliz I’m the one trying to get baby to come in December! CPA here. :) plus health insurance deductibles are on a calendar year. It would be sooooo much better financially for us to have an end of December baby. 
  • @lacroixliz my DH will literally not shut up about the benefits of a December baby. The day the midwife changed my due date from 1/2 to 12/29 I thought he was going to dance around the room. 
    married 7.11.09
    Me: 31 DH: 36
    DD (14) and DS (11) adopted from US Foster care December 2016
    BFP April 24, 2018 | EDD December 29, 2018
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  • Not for tax reasons, but I am really hoping baby makes an appearance early (but full term) like my other two did because our school year cut off is December 31st so if baby comes in January, I will have to pay for a whole extra year of daycare since baby will start school a year behind. 
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • I had been really hoping and wishing and planning for this baby to come between Christmas and New Year's Eve. Then I realized a couple weeks ago I think this is because of the loss I had earlier this year, and still being stuck mentally/emotionally thinking that I would become a mom in 2018 - not 2019. For whatever reason, it has had a big impact on me to think about how I set up this expectation for myself and now that it probably isn't happening by less than a week, the disappointment is palpable. Anyway, since I made that realization, I have been trying my hardest to GTF over it and give LO permission to come when she's ready and to chill TF out myself.
    Me: 36 | DH: 41 | Married: 9/29/07 | DD: December 2018 | BFP: 2/1/21, EDD: 10/6/21
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  • EDD?
    Jan 2nd but I'm pretty sure I will be lucky to get past mid-December at this point

    Symptoms?
    So many Braxton Hicks, some SI joint pain, and some surprise acne on my chin just in time for my birthday/the holidays...yay!

    Upcoming Appointments?
    We had an ultrasound and NST this week that went well. Another ultrasounds and NST next Tuesday that hopefully goes well again

    R/R/Q?
    Rave: My boss agreed to let me expense the Spectra S1 breast pump and a mini fridge for my office so I can have my insurance paid pump at home and not have to tote it back and forth

    Rant: A creepy co-worker of mine (male, ~10 years older than me, makes weird comments about my belly and will occasionally call my Darling or Sweetheart) found my Amazon registry and bought me the Haakaa breast pump. So I mean, I get it was a nice gesture but that is incredibly awkward and will make for the weirdest thank you note I will ever have to write... 

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? 
    large crowds

    @tosh24 oh man I LIVE for my nightly Epsom Salt bath....seriously a cure all

    @sfgiantsgamerbabe Happy birthday!! My 30th birthday is on Saturday! Kind of stinks to celebrate sober but I will toast to yours with my club soda and lime

    @alexandraseattle right there with you on the work ethic lately....get me outta here

    @DLpanda08 I'm so sorry for your loss :( loosing a dog is devastating and you are allowed to morn that however you need. I still tear up when talking about my dog that passed away three years ago

    @kaf1788 I have a friend that is so afraid of fish that she refuses to eat seafood because "If I don't eat them then they won't eat me" LOL

    @AshVA agree, closed shower curtains are scary AF

     
  • @KLS123 Your coworker sounds horrifying. Who in their right mind would think that was the appropriate gift for him to buy - plus aren't they like $10? He couldn't find a book or stuffed animal or cute towel (other much more appropriate gifts in the same range) - it had to be a manual breast pump? I feel gross all over for you.
    Me: 36 | DH: 41 | Married: 9/29/07 | DD: December 2018 | BFP: 2/1/21, EDD: 10/6/21
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  • @KLS123 I got a shudder just reading that story about your coworker. A breast pump is kind of an awkward gift for any coworker to give, but it seems creepy AF coming from the guy you described. 


  • @KLS123 That gift...wow. Well at least I don't have to deal with that today! That's for making my day better, haha. 
  • @Kabazaba @AshVA @alexandraseattle thanks for validating that it is super weird and pretty inappropriate. I was starting to think I was being ungrateful for a gift but yeah...so uncomfortable 
  • @KLS123 you are definitely not being ungrateful. That coworker sounds insanely creepy. Even giving him the benefit of the doubt that he’s just awkward and doesn’t socialize well, that is a super awkward gift. 
    married 7.11.09
    Me: 31 DH: 36
    DD (14) and DS (11) adopted from US Foster care December 2016
    BFP April 24, 2018 | EDD December 29, 2018
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  • @lacroixliz a few times I've been driving on my way to work and turned around because I thought I left the straightener on! Never did but I'm always afraid!! 

    @kls123 agreezies with everyone else, that's beyond gross and creepy. Its stuff like that that really pisses me off because men either are trying to be creepers or think it's funny. There's no way that was a good idea for him to do and if he sincerely thought it he needs to realize just how inappropriate it was. I would even consider returning it to him and saying thanks but no thanks, this gift makes me feel uncomfortable. There's just no way you need to worry about that weird stuff at work.  Maybe even speak to an HR rep if you have one.  Seriously not okay.

    My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone)

    IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN
    HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear!
    IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019 




  • @DLpanda08 I'm so sorry about your doggy :(:'(

    EDD? 1/8 (but convinced I'll be early)

    Symptoms? off and on sciatica pain and general pelvic discomfort. I've been seeing the chiro but I'm not sure its doing anything. The pelvic floor PT couldn't get me in until 12/10. More and more Braxton Hicks. Heartburn is getting worse. I just don't feel like going to work anymore. 

    Upcoming Appointments? had an OB appointment last Wednesday. Ended up going in to L&D this morning for lots and lots of Braxton Hicks on going since yesterday morning. They ended up telling me they couldn't see any contractions on the monitors and gave me a muscle relaxer. Said to call if they're still happening this evening. This is freaking me out because with DD, I had regular Braxton Hicks for 3 days before my water broke and I was in active labor. The meds seem to be helping so far but I still get one every time I stand up or move suddenly. 

    R/R/Q?
    Rants: DD has been having a hard time the last week or so. She isn't listening at home or at daycare and usually just laughs when anyone tries to discipline her. She also hasn't been sleeping well lately, and the combination is starting to wear on me. Also, the air quality is terrible due to the fire a couple hours north of us so I was stuck inside with my students all week until they finally cancelled school yesterday. Also, my dog had another seizure yesterday which means his current treatment plan is no longer working and we may have to put him back on more serious meds.
    Rave- Finally making some progress on the baby's room and I think DH and I agreed on a first name! I think I've decided that Dec. 7th will be my last day at work. 

    GTKY: What is an irrational fear you have? bridges. I hate driving over them. 
    <3 D 2014 
    DD- 11/2016
  • @KLS123 Happy birthday to you too! 
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  • EDD? January 3rd

    Symptoms? Loss of mucous plug, baby has dropped and I have hemmoroids. 

    Upcoming Appointments? Next Friday

    R/R/Q? I am in a slump, I hate working right now because I am always driving. I hate bringing my teens and adult son to work. I hate my college, it's getting to me, can't wait until this semester is over with. My 6 year old is driving me nuts, she has to follow me around everywhere. Hemmoroids suck. I had them early in my pregnancy, they went away and now they are back, I don't want to have them when I deliver. I am straining at all it's the added pressure. I don't like night time because sleeping is hell, either I sleep or I don't. 


  • I have a bad feeling I won't make it to Christmas before baby comes. My husband is leaving fir Florida next week and will be back December 5th I am terrified of going into labor while he us gone. I keep telling bavubto please not come out while he is gone. When I saw my mucous plug this weekend, it just added to it. 😢
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