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Re: TWW Fri-Yay! 11/2
@nolemomma14 enjoy your date night!!
@cpiper39 congratuations! That’s such a huge goal. I’ve always got a 6 month bike room rental at our office. That’s expired now, but my goal for the winter months is barre3 x3. I should get a 10 pass at our gym though for random days. It’s so hard to get motivated, but I always feel so much better!
@nolemomma14 sounds like a great way to end the week!
Month/Cycle: 7/7
CS/Q: chart in spoiler
@yelyah4826 sorry about the BFN. Enjoy your yoga class this morning!!
@montee1917 I love when all of a sudden it’s the weekend! Enjoy your work even tonight!
@nolemomma14 yay for date nights! It's a great way to forget about the stress of TTC. Especially in the TWW!
@yelyah4826 yoga sounds lovely! I've always wanted to get into it, but it seems so expensive!
@montee1917 my week feels like it went so fast! Might be due to the fact that every evening this week has had something going on for us. Today I can finally pick up toothpaste that we're low on lol!
Month/Cycle: 16/15
CS/Q: none, temps are looking ok. Should stay up for about another week. AF due next week Friday.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@nolemomma14 Have a nice date night!
@yelyah4826 Way to go on getting back on the healthy eating wagon. It's definitely hard to resist temptation during holiday season but it seems that when keeping healthy outside of holiday feasts, you don't feel so bad about indulging once you're in the thick of it
@montee1917 I hope your temp break gives you some relief this weekend, have fun at your work event!
@inthewoods23 Hope you have a nice outing with your DH tomorrow, that sounds like fun!
Month/Cycle: 4/3
R/R: Rant/ I had a solitary glass of wine last night at dinner and managed to forget to take my antibiotics AND my PM tincture. I also felt way more stressed yesterday than I had for a week so I don't think infrared sauna did much good. Rave/ Have my 7dpo blood work this morning, wooo! Party!
@cpiper39 Congrats on surpassing your work goal! Are you doing anything fun to celebrate?
@nolemomma14 Sounds like you have a busy and fun day! Hope AF stays away!
@yelyah4826 Sorry about the BFN. The yoga class sounds so nice!
@montee1917 Glad your week flew by for you. Have fun at your work event!
@inthewoods23 Your event sounds really interesting. Hope you have fun with the hubby and stay warm!
@mamanbebe Hope the blood work comes back with good results! Sorry you are feeling so stressed and you're body is being confusing, FX your temps are back up tomorrow!
Month/Cycle 4/4
CD/DPO 30/17
Timing -3,-1,0, +1
Typical LP length: 15
Testing: BFN today, again tomorrow if no AF
R/R: Rant: Not doing well keeping my mind busy while playing this waiting game. Rave: Going to see a movie at the dinner theater with DH after work, looking forward to a little date night.
CS/Q: Does anyone think I could have O'd later than FF thinks?
edited to put chart in spoiler
@queenie_b - I could almost make a case for CD17 being O day based on temps, but you have Creamy CM marked. It's possible that you have a very long LP (longest normal is 17 days), or that you're a late implanter (longest normal is 12) plus it's taking awhile for HCG to build up in your body. What brand are you testing with?
@nolemomma14 Enjoy your day off and date night with YH!
@yelyah4826 Have fun at your yoga class!
@montee1917 Enjoy your work event tonight! Happy to see your temp come back up!
@inthewoods23 Hope work goes by quickly and you and YH have a great time tomorrow!
@mamanbebe Sorry you were feeling stressed. Hope you take some time this weekend to treat yourself!
@queenieb13 Enjoy your date night! I’m not great with these charts but I think O date looks correct, although maybe CD 15-17 is possible too.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 18/3
Timing: -3, -2, -1, +1
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: maybe 11-12 DPO
R/R: Had a nice time visiting with family last night.. I have work to keep me busy the next 2 nights, which is good because I feel like I need the distraction right now.
CS/Q: My chart isn’t looking great so far this month, my temp went down just barely above cover line. But I did get my CH this morning!
TTC since 9/2018
10/19- First RE visit
2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles
7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
12/21- Baby girl born!
@misshelen86 I find those first few dpo are always a little weird temp wise, it’s when your estrogen starts to decline (temp drop) and then progesterone starts to increase (temp rise). I hope everything starts to level out for you soon!
@queenie_b what happens if you take out your two days of fertile CM? does that switch your crosshairs to CD15 or 17? With the information you put in I would agree with FF, but I could make an argument for CD15 with a slow rise or CD17 based off of temps alone. also not to feed the BSC but it might be worth getting a different test just in case you have a bad batch...
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
@nolemomma14 enjoy dinner out with your DH.
@yelyah4826 sorry about the BFN this morning.
@montee1917 I am with you on the slow start to this week. Monday and Tuesday alone felt like an entire week.
@inthewoods23 that raptor event sounds like a great time! I love owls. I know there is one near my house because I hear him/her all the time, but I have never seen it.
@mamanbebe good luck with your bloodwork! I hope you get your results quickly.
@queenie_b enjoy your date night! What are you going to see?
@misshelen86 yay for crosshairs! I hope that your temps keep going up and even out. I got scared when I had a dip at 4DPO but then it went right back up. Don't get too frustrated (easier said than done, I know!)
Month/Cycle: 4/4
@inthewoods23: that raptor event sounds FASCINATING. Hope it's cloudy (good for looking up at birds, right?), but not cold and rainy!
@mamanbebe : hope that the testing goes well, and you can get some sort of answers.
@queenie_b : agree with others - maybe CD16/17? that's tough.
@misshelen86 : I bet you see it start mountain climbing up tomorrow.
@emeraldduchess : I think it's kind of neat to really go into the science of it all with the SO's. I think high school health class with it's YOU CAN GET PREGNANT mentality is hard to un-learn!
Timing: Ok on timing, but not on quantity
*TW*/TMI
Testing: ha ha. Way too early.
@mamanbebe I hope your blood work went well this morning!
@queenie_b I'm so sorry you're in the waiting game. I hope you really enjoy your date with DH tonight!
@misshelen86 It's always great to spend time with family, glad you enjoyed it! Yay for crosshairs!
@emeraldduchess what are you going to knit for MIL!? I tried my hand at knitting last Thanksgiving and it did not go well lol. I'm glad DH learned about charting and temping, it sounds like he was happy to learn about it!
@lcking82 sorry about the chafing, hopefully the timing was still good though! I hope you enjoyed Disney!
@lcking82 you are absolutely right about how we were taught sex-ed in school. It's frightening how little people are learning about their bodies if that's the only info they get. DH literally had no clue how small the FW. Glad you had a nice vacation in Disney!
@mamanbebe @montee1917 @wabash15 @lcking82 thanks for the input! AF showed last night. Still not too sure about the LP length but glad to be out of my waiting game! Removing the CM just gave me dashed lines for CD 13. Will see how it compares this month!
@emeralduchess We saw Bohemian Rhapsody! It was definitely entertaining but I wish it had gone a little deeper, I prefer movies that give me all the feels!