Carseats and accessories for in the car, such as sun shades, mirrors, anything with a car adapter. Remember that only items that have been crash tested with the carseat itself are safe to use. This is regarding head/neck pillows, head restraints, decorative covers, etc. These are still allowed to be sold, however may render the carseat unsafe or effect the fit and/or void the warranty.
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We also have a window shade because when DD1 was an infant she hated the car seat. Pedi recommended it because they thought it might be due to car sickness. Can’t say whether it solved anything but still plan to use it again. We never got a mirror because DD1 was a screamer in the car until we turned her at 2.
I will say that it will probably be a cold day in hell when you can fit your 35 lb child in that infant seat. DD is 2 and is only now 35 lbs. She lasted maybe 9 months in the infant seat before it was just too difficult to get her in and out, never mind trying to carry a carseat with a 35 lb kid in it. So I'd say don't spring for an infant carseat because it has a higher weight limit.
@mayoduck As for accessories, they are nice but not necessary. We use a mirror. It was nice to be able to glance and help steer a pacifier into her mouth or see if she's fallen asleep. Now that she's older we still use it and now DD can see what's going on in front of us, which she likes. My car has tinted windows and a built in sun shade, so we didn't buy one, but it's nice when you're trying to get them to sleep in the car to not have to worry about the bright sun waking them. Less of an issue with an infant seat with a retractable awning.
Not an issue when they're little, but if you're worried about shoes on your seat backs, put a blanket or something there. They also sell seat protectors.
We we switched our son to the Graco 4ever convertible at around 14 months. I would definitely recommend using an infant carseat while the baby is still little. It’s much more convenient to be able to strap them in inside and have the option of carrying them in the car seat.
@mayoduck we had a mirror and shades for the windows.
All the car seat safety techs we've met at hospitals/fire stations, etc. have all said that those little head prop things are not to be used unless it came with the seat. We have sun shades that are a part of our vehicle for every row of seating except the front, they're great. Won't use a mirror because DH things they'd become a projectile in a crash. We used one some when DD1 was an older infant but we were in a different vehicle then. Now I have other little people back there to tell me how baby is doing! (Plus there is a mirror that is a part of my car (separate from the rear view mirror) that shows me everyone in the backseats. Use that everyday.
The only accessories we’ve used are the stroller that was compatible with the infant seat and a sun shade for car windows (DS is part vampire and will pitch a massive fit if the sun is in his eyes...). One befit of any of the infant seats is the click-in base. It’s not crazy expensive to have a second one, so moving the car seat between cars is no big deal.
Also worth nothing, most fire stations will happily check your car seat to make sure it’s correctly installed. Just walk in and ask! (And yes, it’s super easy to not have it correctly installed).
really like the seat and the system. I also found the newborn insert for the chicco keyfit 30 at TJ Max and bought it but we didn’t use it long at all. I don’t think those extra things are necessary anyways.
When DS was around 11-12 months old we moved him to a Maxi Cosi car seat. He seems to enjoy it and we like that it has nice padding and will grow with him. We found it at a discount store near us (they sell unused items that have been returned to places like amazon, etc.) but it doesn’t expire for some time.
We have always had a mirror and we enjoy it we get them at TJ max and we use car seat protectors under the car seats in our cars. DS has a sun shade on him in DH car but it’s not the best quality and falls down sometimes.
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June 2016 - CP
2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
IVF w/ PGS - January 2018
FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
ERA Cycle May / June 2018
ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP
U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
EDD March 28, 2019
Baby Girl born 3/26/19
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We liked an infant seat for the travel system especially early on when they’re always sleeping it seems, it was much easier to get out and do things when we didn’t really have to worry about waking her up during the transfer.
Also, while baby wearing is great, you cannot completely count on it. My baby HATED all carriers until he was about a year old.
(Unfortunately this won't be the last time you second guess yourself as a parent. Confidence in yourself takes time and even veteran parents with lots of kids get thrown for a loop by these small people once in awhile.) Do what you need to do for you!
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https://www.consumerreports.org/infant-car-seats/load-leg-gives-car-seats-an-additional-margin-of-safety-in-a-crash/
They are part of the base I think. I’m not sure if they are on the convertable seats or just the infant one.
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It is important to note that you should still move to a rear-facing convertible seat no later than a child’s first birthday to reduce the potential for head injury. The 22-lb. dummy that represents a 12-month-old child had head contact in three out of four of these seats when the seat was installed with a seat belt and the load leg in place. When the seats were installed with LATCH and the load leg, the dummy had head contact in only one out of four of the seats.
I think it's kind of a cost/benefit issue. If it's worth it to you to buy 2 and only be able to use them for at most a year for the possibility that you might need it, then it will give an "approximately 46 percent less than the average head injury risk of car seat models with no load leg....Less-expensive seats are still safe when used and installed correctly, but these seats offer an additional margin of safety and potential for an easier installation." I think that they will probably be safe without it but if you regularly will need to drive through sketchy conditions with them it could be worth the peace of mind.
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Me: 36, DH 37.
August 2014- 6w MMC
July 2015- CP
PCOS, plus some medical issues that make me high risk.
Our rainbow babies are due 3/21!!!!!
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June 2016 - CP
2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
IVF w/ PGS - January 2018
FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
ERA Cycle May / June 2018
ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP
U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
EDD March 28, 2019
Baby Girl born 3/26/19
Sept '11-April '13 ~ Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying
January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN
February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!!
March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN
July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test
Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells
New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT
January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options
April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy
DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16
July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?!
7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291
7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac
7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!
June 2016 - CP
2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
IVF w/ PGS - January 2018
FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
ERA Cycle May / June 2018
ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP
U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
EDD March 28, 2019
Baby Girl born 3/26/19
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Me: 36, DH 37.
August 2014- 6w MMC
July 2015- CP
PCOS, plus some medical issues that make me high risk.
Our rainbow babies are due 3/21!!!!!
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June 2016 - CP
2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
IVF w/ PGS - January 2018
FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
ERA Cycle May / June 2018
ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP
U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
EDD March 28, 2019
Baby Girl born 3/26/19
Sept '11-April '13 ~ Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying
January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN
February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!!
March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN
July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test
Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells
New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT
January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options
April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy
DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16
July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?!
7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291
7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac
7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!