How far along are you? How big is baby? 14.4 weeks, lemon?
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1 DD, 2 yo
How are your other kids doing this week? great she has been sleeping good and eating okish
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? can't handle these headaches!
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? hmm probably do some sort of crafting or work at Disney for set design
Me: 32 DH: 31
TTC #2 since January 2018
Baby #1 DD Born 8/25/2016 BFP: 8/11/18 Due: 4/26/18
How far along are you? How big is baby? 16 weeks! Avocado.
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 5 yo DD, 3 yo DS
How are your other kids doing this week? Great! DS turned 3 this weekend and it was the first party that he got really excited about. It was just our family but we had a blast! Looking forward to trick or treating with them tomorrow.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Starting to get huge. I need to go shopping to stock up on more work friendly maternity clothes. Just signed up for a maternity stitchfix. We will see...
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would do what I do, engineering. I love my job.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 15+3 - newborn baby bottle or a roll of toilet paper.
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1 DD - 2
How are your other kids doing this week? She's good. We made a trip to the ER on Friday after she missed the last two steps at daycare as we were leaving and landed face first on the tile floor. She was back to her normal self Saturday morning.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Is anyone else tired all the time? No matter if you get 8 hours of sleep or not? I thought my energy was supposed to be appearing?
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would work part time for an animal shelter. I would use my other time to stay home with the kids.
@mrstmoose Holy cow on the ER visit - that had to be terrifying! I also totally feel your last answer, that is the way to go!
How far along are you? How big is baby? 15 + 5, orange
How many kids do you already have? Ages? N (DD) - 8 months
How are your other kids doing this week? N's doing well! She's had a cold, but it's finally getting better. And - after MONTHS of coaching from my husband - she just started saying "Dada!" With "Mama," it was clear almost immediately that she knew what she was saying - or anyway, she doesn't know it's ME yet, but she knows that I respond to it, so she'll say it very purposefully when she wants or needs something. It's clear she doesn't have a purpose for "Dada" yet lol, but I'm not about to tell my husband that!
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? None. Keepin' on keepin' on.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would be a writer. The only thing that prevented me from writing was job security - not exactly guaranteed for a novelist, and because I always knew I wanted to have a big family I'd have to support, that took precedence.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 15 weeks! Orange/box of crayons
How many kids do you already have? Ages? DD-4
How are your other kids doing this week? Okay, typical toddler ups and downs. She was super excited to spend the day with nana and papa when I dropped her off this morning.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Blerg. I still feel icky. And my contract at work was apparently up but they extended it another month. I’m getting tired of waiting for a permanent position.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? Real estate investor.
this is my backup acct. prevously helloblueeyes
Me:32 DH:33 Married:04/2012 DD:07/2014 BFP 8/14/2018 #2 due 4/18/2019
How far along are you? How big is baby? 17w size of a pomegranite
How many kids do you already have? Ages? DD 2yo
How are your other kids doing this week? She's good. Super sassy lately but that's been the usual for a few weeks now. Really starting to push her independence
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Nothing too much this week. Excited for trick or treating tomorrow but it's a blah kind of week
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would be a doula or a midwife specializing in home birth or at a birth center. I've been weighing it a lot lately and wish I could but the money isn't equal to what I make now and it would be too much of a burden for me to switch at this point in my life.
3. She’s sleeping so much better. She had several teeth coming in plus a cold a couple weeks ago so this is a welcome change and I feel much better for some rest. She’s also a bottomless pit. Constantly saying “eat? Eat?” every few hours it seems like.
4. Nothing really. I just can’t believe it’s almost November!
5. I would probably blog or write. Or be a perpetual student, if that was somehow a paying job.
Happy Halloween, all! I'm super slow getting to the check-ins this week...
How far along are you? How big is baby? 15 weeks, orange
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1 son, 10 months
How are your other kids doing this week? He has a cold which he kindly shared with me :'(
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Rant: See above. Also H got back from a business trip last night after missing the worst of our son's illness and was exhausted and damn near useless after staying at a football game too late the night before. He's lucky I didn't send him to his eternal resting place to catch up on that sleep. Rave: I'm excited for little man's first Halloween today! Question: Did any of you take your kids trick or treating before they were a year old? I'm fine with walking him around the neighborhood but I don't think it makes sense to ring doorbells with a kid who's too little for candy. Am I being a grouch or am I right here lol?
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? Can I get paid to be a SAHM? If not, I think I'd maybe want to write - not books but shorter pieces like articles and blogs and whatnot.
@piccola1988 we didn't ToT with DS until he was 2.5 Even then he was over it after about 10 houses. The first couple years we just passed out candy! Though I did put him in a costume.
@Piccola1988 N is 8 months old, but we'll be taking her trick or treating today (albeit to maybe two houses). My husband thinks it's stupid, but I just can't not do whatever celebratory things we can for her first Halloween. I also picture us looking through photo albums 20 years from now and her saying "You took ________ trick or treating for her first Halloween but didn't take me for mine?!" and I just want her to know she's special now as an individual.
We took DD trick or treating last year but not for too many house and with a larger group of our friends and their kids. She was over it after a few homes and ended up crying half the night so I kind of wish we would have stayed home.
DD was like 4 months old her first halloween. So we dressed up and handed out candy. We took her the next year but just a couple houses down our street, nothing big.
We dressed her as a lobster her first Halloween and sat her in my moms big stock pot for pictures ...cutest thing ever. I put on an apron and had some tongs in my pocket, easiest costume I’ve had.
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Me:32 DH:33 Married:04/2012 DD:07/2014 BFP 8/14/2018 #2 due 4/18/2019
Last year, DD was about a year and a half old so we went to grandparents houses and then to a couple of houses on our street. Probably about the same this year.
Hi! I've been MIA for a while and late to check in....
We took the twins out last year and I think they made it to 3 houses before they just wanted to go home and eat their candy. The year before I didn't bother taking them out.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 17+2 a pomegranate.
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 3 1/2 yo twin girls.
How are your other kids doing this week? Doing great. They were a bit mad they couldn't wear their princess dresses to dayhome today.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? I've had some pulling and tightening on the sides of my belly. I'm thinking it's nothing - just stretching and growing but it stops me in my tracks. A few heart palpations too, but I think those are fairly normal to experience.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would want to stay home with my kiddos. That's ultimately the goal after this babe gets here.
Me: 31 H: 36 L & N twin girls: 3yo. Born at 30 weeks. 2 month NICU stay BFP Aug 2018: EDD April 2019
Loved reading about all of your little ones' first Halloweens! We ended up going out for a walk and the sick little guy passed out almost immediately, so at least we got him out in his costume. We got lots of pictures beforehand so it worked out fine for me
For DDs first Halloween we just went to relatives houses who we knew wanted to see her dressed up. Our downtown does an early TorT at the stores before the regular TorT starts so we take the kids to that and stop at the grandparents on the way home. We’ve also done the Zoo for their TorT in the past but wasn’t impressed by it for the $. DH wants to take DD real TorT next year.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 18+2/artichoke/hamster
How many kids do you already have? Ages? DD is 1.5
How are your other kids doing this week? Toddler being a toddler. We went to the aquarium and she lay down on the floor when she didn’t want to go in my chosen direction. Eight times. She wants the attention/reaction so she runs away instead of doing whatever she’s supposed to do. Also, several teeth coming in 🙉
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? I got nothing this week.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? another (travel) writer here. Who would get SO much more done if drop-in childcare was one of those benefits.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 15+5- orange
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1DD almost 18 months
How are your other kids doing this week? Going to be late and waking up early, and the time change is this weekend. I’m a little nervous to see how this goes. Otherwise, she is needing much more attention lately, and it’s exhausting.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Im tired of reading the same books 50 times daily. DD prettt much needs my distraction all the time or she yanks my hair.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? Hmm- I would love to be a child life specialist at the children’s hospital! Such a rewarding job to have!
@midwestmommy90 I hate to tell you, but the reading the same book a million times a day doesn't change in at least the next year. My 2.5 DD still wants to read the same books. Luckily, she picks different books to be obsessed with for a week or two and then we move on. But still.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 16+3, the size of a tarsier monkey.
How many kids do you already have? Ages? DD, 5.
How are your other kids doing this week? She's great. We're currently riding that high of too much candy + tv, both of which aren't a regular part of her day, lol.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Meh
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I mean, I'm currently a SAHM + nephew wrangler. My profession is preschool teacher, which has very low pay and not so great benefits. Most things offer better or lateral movement from there, lol. I would love to move out to the country and run a farm. DH and I joke about that being our retirement plan.
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How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1 DD, 2 yo
How are your other kids doing this week? great she has been sleeping good and eating okish
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? can't handle these headaches!
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work?
hmm probably do some sort of crafting or work at Disney for set design
BFP: 8/11/18 Due: 4/26/18
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 5 yo DD, 3 yo DS
How are your other kids doing this week? Great! DS turned 3 this weekend and it was the first party that he got really excited about. It was just our family but we had a blast! Looking forward to trick or treating with them tomorrow.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Starting to get huge. I need to go shopping to stock up on more work friendly maternity clothes. Just signed up for a maternity stitchfix. We will see...
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would do what I do, engineering. I love my job.
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1 DD - 2
How are your other kids doing this week? She's good. We made a trip to the ER on Friday after she missed the last two steps at daycare as we were leaving and landed face first on the tile floor. She was back to her normal self Saturday morning.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Is anyone else tired all the time? No matter if you get 8 hours of sleep or not? I thought my energy was supposed to be appearing?
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would work part time for an animal shelter. I would use my other time to stay home with the kids.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 15 + 5, orange
How many kids do you already have? Ages? N (DD) - 8 months
How are your other kids doing this week? N's doing well! She's had a cold, but it's finally getting better. And - after MONTHS of coaching from my husband - she just started saying "Dada!" With "Mama," it was clear almost immediately that she knew what she was saying - or anyway, she doesn't know it's ME yet, but she knows that I respond to it, so she'll say it very purposefully when she wants or needs something. It's clear she doesn't have a purpose for "Dada" yet lol, but I'm not about to tell my husband that!
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? None. Keepin' on keepin' on.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would be a writer. The only thing that prevented me from writing was job security - not exactly guaranteed for a novelist, and because I always knew I wanted to have a big family I'd have to support, that took precedence.
How many kids do you already have? Ages? DD-4
How are your other kids doing this week? Okay, typical toddler ups and downs. She was super excited to spend the day with nana and papa when I dropped her off this morning.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions?
Blerg. I still feel icky. And my contract at work was apparently up but they extended it another month. I’m getting tired of waiting for a permanent position.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? Real estate investor.
prevously helloblueeyes
Me:32 DH:33 Married:04/2012 DD:07/2014
BFP 8/14/2018 #2 due 4/18/2019
How many kids do you already have? Ages? DD 2yo
How are your other kids doing this week? She's good. Super sassy lately but that's been the usual for a few weeks now. Really starting to push her independence
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Nothing too much this week. Excited for trick or treating tomorrow but it's a blah kind of week
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would be a doula or a midwife specializing in home birth or at a birth center. I've been weighing it a lot lately and wish I could but the money isn't equal to what I make now and it would be too much of a burden for me to switch at this point in my life.
2. DD, 18mo.
3. She’s sleeping so much better. She had several teeth coming in plus a cold a couple weeks ago so this is a welcome change and I feel much better for some rest. She’s also a bottomless pit. Constantly saying “eat? Eat?” every few hours it seems like.
4. Nothing really. I just can’t believe it’s almost November!
5. I would probably blog or write. Or be a perpetual student, if that was somehow a paying job.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 15 weeks, orange
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 1 son, 10 months
How are your other kids doing this week? He has a cold
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Rant: See above. Also H got back from a business trip last night after missing the worst of our son's illness and was exhausted and damn near useless after staying at a football game too late the night before. He's lucky I didn't send him to his eternal resting place to catch up on that sleep. Rave: I'm excited for little man's first Halloween today! Question: Did any of you take your kids trick or treating before they were a year old? I'm fine with walking him around the neighborhood but I don't think it makes sense to ring doorbells with a kid who's too little for candy. Am I being a grouch or am I right here lol?
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? Can I get paid to be a SAHM? If not, I think I'd maybe want to write - not books but shorter pieces like articles and blogs and whatnot.
We dressed her as a lobster her first Halloween and sat her in my moms big stock pot for pictures ...cutest thing ever. I put on an apron and had some tongs in my pocket, easiest costume I’ve had.
prevously helloblueeyes
Me:32 DH:33 Married:04/2012 DD:07/2014
BFP 8/14/2018 #2 due 4/18/2019
We took the twins out last year and I think they made it to 3 houses before they just wanted to go home and eat their candy. The year before I didn't bother taking them out.
How far along are you? How big is baby? 17+2 a pomegranate.
How many kids do you already have? Ages? 3 1/2 yo twin girls.
How are your other kids doing this week? Doing great. They were a bit mad they couldn't wear their princess dresses to dayhome today.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? I've had some pulling and tightening on the sides of my belly. I'm thinking it's nothing - just stretching and growing but it stops me in my tracks. A few heart palpations too, but I think those are fairly normal to experience.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I would want to stay home with my kiddos. That's ultimately the goal after this babe gets here.
H: 36
L & N twin girls: 3yo. Born at 30 weeks. 2 month NICU stay
BFP Aug 2018: EDD April 2019
18+2/artichoke/hamster
How many kids do you already have? Ages?
DD is 1.5
How are your other kids doing this week?
Toddler being a toddler. We went to the aquarium and she lay down on the floor when she didn’t want to go in my chosen direction. Eight times. She wants the attention/reaction so she runs away instead of doing whatever she’s supposed to do. Also, several teeth coming in 🙉
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions?
I got nothing this week.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work?
another (travel) writer here. Who would get SO much more done if drop-in childcare was one of those benefits.
15+5- orange
How many kids do you already have? Ages?
1DD almost 18 months
How are your other kids doing this week?
Going to be late and waking up early, and the time change is this weekend. I’m a little nervous to see how this goes. Otherwise, she is needing much more attention lately, and it’s exhausting.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions?
Im tired of reading the same books 50 times daily. DD prettt much needs my distraction all the time or she yanks my hair.
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work?
Hmm- I would love to be a child life specialist at the children’s hospital! Such a rewarding job to have!
How many kids do you already have? Ages? DD, 5.
How are your other kids doing this week? She's great. We're currently riding that high of too much candy + tv, both of which aren't a regular part of her day, lol.
Rants/Raves? Concerns/Questions? Meh
GTKY: If the income/benefits for all jobs were the same, what would you choose to do for work? I mean, I'm currently a SAHM + nephew wrangler. My profession is preschool teacher, which has very low pay and not so great benefits. Most things offer better or lateral movement from there, lol. I would love to move out to the country and run a farm. DH and I joke about that being our retirement plan.