Hi All! I'm starting my first cycle of IVF in just a few days now. (I introduced myself in an earlier post. I'm a little nervous for all the shots but, excited to do something new. Any tips or tricks for surviving IVF? Sending love to all of you!
Welcome! No worries about the shots, the first day is the hardest, it gets easier. I bought a buzzy bee- it has ice wings and vibrates. I used it more for progesterone injections during my FET, but you may find it helpful during the stim shots. Good Luck!
Just focus on one day at a time and you'll be fine! Sometimes it can feel overwhelming -- emotionally and physically - so just try to keep the perspective of making it one day at a time. The shots get easier as you get used to them. Good luck!!
~~ Our Story in Spoiler! TW loss/child~~
Fall 2012 -- started TTC Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016. September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo. Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice. August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP. Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18 September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!
TTC #2 January/Feb 2021 - Freeze-all IVF cycle March 2021 - FET of 1 PGS normal female embryo. BFP! Beta #1 156, #2 472, #3 1241, #4 5268 EDD 12/5/21 - Christmas baby!
I'm doing my first cycle now. I've been on lupron/cetrotide for the past two weeks. I'm starting gonal F, menopur, omnitrope tomorrow. I was super nervous about the shots but it's really not that bad. I totally agree about taking it one day at a time. I call/email/meet with my my IVF coordinator frequently. She had me do a couple of saline injections so I could practice. I was worried about the IM injections but we were able to go into the clinic to help us with the first one.
Good luck for your first IVF cycle, I hope you gets lots of healthy eggs. The shots are not so bad at all, and after a few times you will turn into a pro and it will be routine. It's all quite exciting actually, just keep focusing on the goal.
A tip I might give is prepare a few days of meals/snacks for after the egg retrieval because it is recommended to take it easy for the first few days (I was told to take two days of "couch rest"). Let yourself have a few treats, whatever that means for you, and just breathe. That is what helped for me, after the egg transfers, it was to just breathe and tell myself "I have a little embryo in me right now, it has a good chance".
35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011 PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP Miscarriage at 8 weeks
FET December 15th 2015--- BFP! First saw at 6w4d It's a boy!
Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016
Welcome! Having gone through this process once already (*TW below*), I would suggest to surround yourself with those who support and understand you. IVF is an emotional roller-coaster and lots of ups and downs. If you're not open about the process with family or friends, these boards are amazing for support. It can feel lonely at times if you don't know anyone personally going through this and asking questions/bonding with the ladies (and occasionally men) on these boards is so so helpful. Don't be afraid of the needles and have faith that this process will work. Good luck to you and fx for success!
***History & TW in Spoiler***
***bfp & child warning*** TTC - since 2014 7 rounds of Clomid - BFN IUI #1 - October 2015 - BFN IUI #2 - November 2015 - BFN IUI #3 - December 2015 - BFN IVF #1 - March 2016 Retrieval #1 - April 2016 FET #1 - May 2016 - BFP!!! DS - Born January 2017 Trying for baby #2... FET #2 - January 2018 - BFN No more embryos left; switched to a new RE IVF/Retrieval #2 - January 2019 IVF/Retrieval #3 - March 2019 FET #3 - April 2019 - BFP!!! - DD: Born December 2019 Trying for baby #3... FET #4 - October 2021 - BFP!!! - Due June 2022
@lwalsh87 I know this sounds silly, but watch the videos on how to administer the meds. I think I watched them almost every time I taking the shots (my DH was traveling / working though almost all of my times) so I did them all (except the first one) myself and I found it strangely reassuring. Make sure you are sleeping and taking really good care of yourself -- acupuncture, whatever helps with stress relief. If you are traveling, have your doctor prepare a note for you to take with you so TSA doesn't hassle you. Drink lots and lots of water and stay well hydrated. Second @Alyeena in prepping favorite foods - felt super bloated after ER and didn't feel like moving the day of and after but hopefully you will have less symptoms! Do you know what your medications are? I remember that menopur shouldn't be refrigerated and the Folistim only needs to be in the fridge until you start using it in your pen (it hurts much less when it's not cold!).
Re: Starting IVF next week
Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE
Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016.
September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo.
Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC
June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice.
August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP. Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18
September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks
March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!
TTC #2
January/Feb 2021 - Freeze-all IVF cycle
March 2021 - FET of 1 PGS normal female embryo. BFP! Beta #1 156, #2 472, #3 1241, #4 5268 EDD 12/5/21 - Christmas baby!
"When all is lost then all is found."
A tip I might give is prepare a few days of meals/snacks for after the egg retrieval because it is recommended to take it easy for the first few days (I was told to take two days of "couch rest"). Let yourself have a few treats, whatever that means for you, and just breathe. That is what helped for me, after the egg transfers, it was to just breathe and tell myself "I have a little embryo in me right now, it has a good chance".
PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
Miscarriage at 8 weeks
First saw
It's a boy!
TTC - since 2014
7 rounds of Clomid - BFN
IUI #1 - October 2015 - BFN
IUI #2 - November 2015 - BFN
IUI #3 - December 2015 - BFN
IVF #1 - March 2016
Retrieval #1 - April 2016
FET #1 - May 2016 - BFP!!! DS - Born January 2017
Trying for baby #2...
FET #2 - January 2018 - BFN
No more embryos left; switched to a new RE
IVF/Retrieval #2 - January 2019
IVF/Retrieval #3 - March 2019
FET #3 - April 2019 - BFP!!! - DD: Born December 2019
Trying for baby #3...
FET #4 - October 2021 - BFP!!! - Due June 2022
Drink lots and lots of water and stay well hydrated.
Second @Alyeena in prepping favorite foods - felt super bloated after ER and didn't feel like moving the day of and after but hopefully you will have less symptoms!
Do you know what your medications are? I remember that menopur shouldn't be refrigerated and the Folistim only needs to be in the fridge until you start using it in your pen (it hurts much less when it's not cold!).