TTC After a Loss

Intro: New to Board after 2 Losses and a Year Benched

*TW: loss mentioned*

Hi everyone!

DH and I (both 32) started TTC in September 2016. I miscarried twice last year (Jan 2017 and July 2017), both at exactly 7w4d. The second miscarriage happened on a backpacking trip in the remote Utah desert and that experience resulted in some grief/trauma that I really struggled to deal with so we benched ourselves so I could take care of my mental health needs. This summer I finally went back to a (new) OB to start looking in to what might be causing losses. She noticed a footnote from a January 2017 ultrasound (of what was a healthy pregnancy at the time) that suggested the possible presence of a uterine septum. In August I had a sonohysterogram to get a better look and she discovered a relatively significant septum, which is scheduled to be removed next month (!!).

I lurked the boards quite a bit during both pregnancies and I am looking forward to be a part of a community that "gets it" as we sort of re-start this TTC process. I've been feeling more hopeful in the past few weeks than I had for over a year, which is great, but also terrifying. 

Re: Intro: New to Board after 2 Losses and a Year Benched

  • Welcome! I’m glad you have a plan with your OB to hopefully get you your take home baby.  I will hopefully be starting TTC in the next month or two as well.  I hope your stay here is short  <3
    Me: 31 DH: 31
      <3 DS born 6/2017, became a heart angel 8/2018 <3
    CP 3/2019
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  • Welcome, I’m very sorry for your losses! There are definitely a lot of great ladies here who “get it” so you’re in the right place!
  • Welcome, I’m so sorry for your losses and that you’re here—but it’s full of really warm, helpful women. I hope your stay is short. 
  • antera23antera23 member
    edited October 2018
    Welcome! I’m sorry to meet you here but welcome. I hope this surgery is what you need to get pregnant and have a healthy 9 months! 
  • Welcome to this fabulous group, although I'm sorry you have to join us. I hope your stay is short 
  • Sorry for your loss.  Welcome to this group of fabulous women
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