@hkom I don't blame you for not wanting a shower, especially while John is still in the NICU and you're going through a lot emotionally. I'd wait until a bit after he's home and just do a meet and greet type deal. I also probably wouldn't be going to those social events. If you're not up for it, don't go!! There is no obligation. Worry about YOU first and others second.
@TinaGrey No one wants your spam. I see this is your first post here, none of us are likely to click on a link from some random stranger.
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
@MDKC14 Have you considered creating a registry just to get the completion discount on the car seats?