I figured I would start us out this week on this thread. It hasn't been claimed yet, so if anyone wants responsibility for this, feel free to claim responsibility. I know it's early, but with so many products to consider, it's better to start the ball rolling on the discussion, even if you won't be purchasing right away.
Copied from J '19, courtesy of
@galactickates , with a few changes.
This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's.... Car Seats!
Please use the prompts below to try to share as much relevant info as you can in a format that is easy for those reading to absorb/respond to. If you'd like to recommend/ask questions about more than one product, please copy/paste the prompts as needed. 
For S+TMs:
- Lifestyle/body factors that might influence your choice:
- Favorite [car seat]:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- What you like about it:
- What you don't like about it, if anything:
- Is there a [car seat] you don't have but are considering? Why?:
- Is there a [car seat] you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?:
- Additional thoughts on [car seats]?:
For FTMs
- [Car seats] you're interested in:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- Any questions about it/them for S+TMs?:
To view past product spotlights, add suggestions for future spotlights see here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1lTxG3PinopZDo2nd13oufAzhnRlO2bwIDC4KGrGzbtM/edit?usp=sharing
(Also just a reminder that if anyone wants to revive old threads to ask questions as we get further along and it becomes more likely everyone is doing further research, please feel free!)
TTC #1 since September 2014Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI
(count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low
progesterone
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Loss History (TW):
BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015
BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
TTC History (TW):
3 losses in 2015
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All
Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt
#1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
Next Up:
TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
Re: Product Spotlight: Car Seats
BFP 6.8.2018 EDD 02.18.2019
For infants, I like to get one of the infant bucket seats. If you’re set on going straight to a convertible seat, skip this blurb. I love the Chico Keyfit 30 and it is the only infant seat I will ever use - we still have Lou’s and it doesn’t expire til 2022 so I’ll just use it again. It’s light, easy to clean, and gets a great fit in all sizes or cars. I like the infant seats because I can grab and go when the weather isn’t great or babe is sleeping. I know we’re not talking about strollers, but I would skip the travel systems with infant seats - pick a different stroller that will accept your infant seat that is less bulky. I like the Chicco Liteway Plus. It’s a good umbrella stroller with rubber wheels and you can click the Chicco seat into it. Seat is around $200 and stroller is between $150-200 I think?
My 2yo is now in a Clek Fllo in my car and I would not buy this seat again. It’s awfully heavy and the microfiber cover sucks. I got it because it’s narrow and I used to drive a Honda Civic so I needed a smaller profile seat.
I’ll probably go with a Graco 4ever or E2F or something next time around when we get to this stage. DH has some Graco RF seat in his car for her and I like it a lot better.
Final thought: extended rear facing saves lives. I don’t have a lot of judgey parenting opinions outside of this, but I’ll give all the side eye when someone turns their 9mo because “I’m the mom and it’s my choice.” You may be the mom, but physics wins every time in a high speed crash.
As kiddos get older, having a seat with a high weight limit on the FF 5 point harness is a wonderful thing. You can get one up to like 85# if you want. My son was in a 5pt FF until he was almost 6 and probably could’ve gone longer.
BFP 6.8.2018 EDD 02.18.2019
Both kids are using Britex convertible car seats now. We love them, but they aren't easy to install. I make my husband do it.
We started out with a Graco when DS was an infant and he hated it. We realized that because the seat was so deep, he was basically folded in half. He was born in November, so heat shouldn't have been a issue, but he was always so sweaty and uncomfortable in it. We switched to the Peg Perego and never had another problem. We will definitely use it again for baby number 3 since it hasn't expired.
ETA: spelling
For FTMs
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
Check out my Infertility blog
Check out my Infertility Instagram
BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
BFP 6.8.2018 EDD 02.18.2019
@ruby696 , @kayjay44
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
Check out my Infertility blog
Check out my Infertility Instagram
BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
Would we be silly to buy a convertible seat for car #2 instead of a second infant base?
I suspect car #2 will only ever get used very rarely in the first year because I'll be on maternity leave. But obviously don't want to be stuck without a seat in case of some kind of emergency. After year 1 we will definitely need a seat in each car.
Tia!
@KristoKekerooni - Most convertables can be used for infants. It basically comes down to ease of use (winner: bucket seat) and how long they last (winner: convertible).
We'll be using our bucket seat for the third time with this LO as we have until 2020 before it expires. That means we've gotten at least 3 years out of it by the time this LO outgrows it. And I do babywear a lot, but it's nice to have the bucket seats when they are constantly sleeping.
BFP 6.8.2018 EDD 02.18.2019
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
Switched to a Graco E2f and never looked back, my 98% 2.5 year old is still comfortably tear facing in it, and that won’t change until close to 4 hopefully!
So so in short, save $ with the infant seat (they’re all very similar!) and spend $ on a convertible! The E2f is reasonable ($160ish on sale) and will last a LONG LONG time. Worth every cent, and really user friendly!
Because my SIL and I are due at the same time and my MIL will be watching 1 or both babies some days there's potential for needing 6(+?) total bases. From a financial side that makes the Graco top pick, but people seem to like Britax and Chicco better. Thoughts?
Already got a new E2F for this one. Got a great price on Amazon. $160.
If you're getting a Graco check this out: https://www.gracobonusbase.com/home?gaipcat=Homepage&gaipcid=HERO_FREEBASE&gaipcp=3?
Free base with the purchase of certain seats. We got one, which is $100 savings with the E2F. I think it takes 6-8 weeks for the base to come.
... Also, the Nuna travel system gets great reviews. We'll be making a trip next weekend to take a peek at one in person, so I guess that will help make our decision.
BFP 6.8.2018 EDD 02.18.2019
We went with the Chicco Keyfit30 this time around (had a Britax BSafe w/ DD and then a Graco Snugfit with DS but loaned them out then donated them after each kid). Really like how light the Keyfit is and how well it puzzled in my SUV for 3 across (it's narrow but doesn't FEEL small - know what I mean?).
MMC 2.12.11 @ 8w
PVM 5.8.12
GWM 3.17.15
RPM 2.21.19
For both you and @sonicearplugs:
You absolutely do not need a base to get a good install in an infant seat in a car - they are mearly for ease of use. You can do a safe install with the car seat seat belt in about 30 seconds. You can also very easily move a base between vehicles. That’s actually what we did with my second baby and it was no problem - much easier than moving a convertible seat between vehicles which we also did often for a long time.
That brings me to my question:
Does anyone have a Rec for a lightweight travel convertible car seat? I asked this on "ask a STM" and thankfully got one response- the graco contender- but am interested in more recs. I need something for two upcoming plane flights, both for in the plane seat and to go in and out of cabs quickly and easily (first trip is to NYC). Of course the online reviews of the few popular ones show pros and cons, and I need to buy stat because we are flying a week from Thursday. Thanks!
ETA: Has anyone used the Cosco Scenera NEXT or the Evenflo Tribute XL. Those are the two lightest ones listed on Lucies List..
MMC 2.12.11 @ 8w
PVM 5.8.12
GWM 3.17.15
RPM 2.21.19
ETA: My two year old is nearly at the height max for it but he's all legs so I think it might not quite be accurate for him.
MMC 2.12.11 @ 8w
PVM 5.8.12
GWM 3.17.15
RPM 2.21.19