This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's.... baby carriers! Ring slings, wraps, you name it.
Please use the prompts below to try to share as much relevant info as you can in a format that is easy for those reading to absorb/respond to. If you'd like to recommend/ask questions about more than one product, please copy/paste the prompts as needed.
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Is there a [baby carrier] you don't have but are considering? Why?:
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Re: Product Spotlight: Baby Carriers (USE THIS THREAD)
Favorite [baby carrier]: I really like a Ring Sling for the early days and then a soft structured carrier for when baby is bigger.
What you like about it: I love the ease of nursing in a RS and how they just pop on. With the SSC, it's pretty foolproof with buckling everything and plopping the baby in.
Is there a [baby carrier] you don't have but are considering? Why?: I'm digging the WildBird RS and will probably go that route. I've heard great things about Lilebaby carriers so I might grab one of those too. I've owned Ergos, Tulas, Becos, Bobas... I'm not brand loyal (Clearly
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MMC 2.12.11 @ 8w
PVM 5.8.12
GWM 3.17.15
RPM 2.21.19
Moby wrap ($40) - this one was my first and worked ok, but I was not a fan. I’m short, so it drug on the floor when putting it on, which is a problem if you go out. Also felt like it hugged me in all the wrong places, and I was pretty lumpy PP. Lastly, it got really hot in there. The material is thick, and even in the winter my daughter would be sweaty when I pulled her out.
Infantino Carrier (not expensive) We got this one as a gift. I hate adjusting straps so I didn’t use this one, but my husband liked it so it became his. This type of carrier is better for when they are older and want to be forward facing.
Wildbird sling (65-120): I got this when DD was older. I found it was easier to use than the Moby and breathed better. She got less sweaty in the summer with the sling than with the moby in the winter. I’m waiting for them to go on sale at the end of the season to buy another one.
I tried a generic ring sling (which was gifted to me) but found it really hard to use. Is the wild bird ring sling easier than a normal one?
@allthingsgo - I find that once you have it threaded correctly, it’s super easy to use. You tube videos are super helpful.
BFP 6.8.2018 EDD 02.18.2019
I really want to get a ring sling for this next one. I think I will babywear a lot more with this baby because I’ll also be chasing after a toddler as well. I took a look at the wildbird site yesterday and really liked their stuff. Does anyone have any other suggestions on RS brands that they’ve liked?
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After ~4 mo I used ergo/Tula.
I still use the Tula with my 2 year old and occasionally with my 4 year old when he asks. He weighs 35 lbs so it’s a little ridiculous but if it gets him to be contained for a bit of time and I can get something done (like walking through an airport), I call it a win.
MMC 2.12.11 @ 8w
PVM 5.8.12
GWM 3.17.15
RPM 2.21.19
Favorite [baby carrier]: I love the ktan for the early days, when they are older I like the ergo or the Tula (my husband loves the ergo the most
Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.): I bought everything new but I know you can get them all second hand, I just waited for good sales (Black Friday) I also bought one for my sister in law
What you like about it: I did everything babywearing, helped me be able to cook, clean and grocery shop easily.
What you don't like about it, if anything: I literally love everything about baby wearing
BFP 6.8.2018 EDD 02.18.2019
Favorite carrier: This is really age specific, although I am fairly brand loyal to Tula. I prefer ring slings for tinies and then a good, ergonomic SSC for 4m-5m and on.
Cost: I’ve paid anywhere from 100-600 for a carrier in the past. RS on the lower end, HTF wrap conversion SSC on the higher end. I actually just bought another carrier today - a half buckle WC Tula that I’m really looking forward to because I like the mei tai style for customizing fit with the top straps but the convenience of the buckle waist. It was $270 ($50 off retail).
What I like about them: I like the fit and the styling options. I’m a much bigger fan of full wrap conversion SSCs vs half’s/canvas ones, but I really think that’s personal preference.
What don’t you like about them: How much they cost
Is there a carrier you don’t have but are considering?: Here’s what I currently have in house at this time - 1 ring sling, 2 full standard WC Tulas, 1 full toddler WC Tula, a standard canvas Tula, a half WC Tula (which is NIP and is either going to be sold or gifted), a Fidella FlyTai, and a size 7 Tula wrap (that I’ve never used) + the new WC half buckle Tula that’s en route. I have a lot to choose from. What I would like to try is an onbuhimo carrier, maybe more wraps, and a different brand of ring sling - considering a Wildbird.
Additional thoughts: I am passionate about babywearing and am also very much against forward facing babywearing. I will not buy structured carriers that allow this as a design option. Tula recently released one and it really irritates me because I don’t think it’s a good practice.
I actually wore my toddler in the toddler Tula for the first time in months tonight at a huge local street festival. I snapped the buckle above bump and it was really quite comfy. Here we are Tula-ing at the same festival last year!
Two wraps- a moby. I LOVE it and used it a ton. I also have a mesh wrap ideal for hot days and pools. I love it as well. I used it in the summer with my infant while my toddler was playing at the splash pad.
A ktan- it’s fine. Not my favorite. Can’t adjust size.