Well, just got what feels like my millionth BFN. We've been trying unassisted for 10 months, which I know isn't actually that long. I told myself that if it didn't work this time, I'd finally call our ivf doctor again. We have diagnosed male factor infertility and I'm 37. We are the lucky parents of a beautiful boy who is about to turn two. With him, we got pregnant via ivf, so I shouldn't be surprised that we need it again, but I still thought that we magically might avoid it. We've been in the slow process of fully weaning so we can do ivf. I'm so scared that it won't work, of all of the pain and disappointment, of the crazy costs, of the time, all of it. But, I'm also so lucky. I have one beautiful child and I'll be able to do ivf. How long did you try before ivf? How did you deal with weaning? How did you do all of the appointments with a child? Any other advice? I'm thankful to have this forum. Thank you for the support!