May 2019 Moms

Odds of NOT having a miscarriage

Stolen from April 2019 - I know this is somewhat of a controversial chart - but my PGAL brain finds it very comforting.

Hi ladies,

This is the chart that I look at daily. All credit goes to @l4rk for the following: 

I've noticed that no matter how many times I look up miscarriages rates, I walk away feeling only slightly better (at best). I'm the kind of person who finds reassurance in statistics, but for some reason, all of the existing posts weren't doing it for me. And then I realized why: articles on miscarriage focus on the chances you're going to miscarry and all the comments share miscarriage stories--they don't focus on how many people DON'T have miscarriages and go on to have happy, healthy babies! 

I adapted this week-by-week chart and modified it so that it would focus on the positive rather than the negative! Since I found the positive spin benefiting my peace of mind, I thought it might benefit some of you too.


ProgressProbability of NOT having a miscarriage
3W, 0D67%
3W, 1D67.10%
3W, 2D67.40%
3W, 3D68%
3W, 4D68.70%
3W, 5D69.70%
3W, 6D70.80%
4W, 0D72%
4W, 1D73.50%
4W, 2D74.80%
4W, 3D76.40%
4W, 4D77.90%
4W, 5D79.50%
4W, 6D81.10%
5W, 0D82.70%
5W, 1D84.20%
5W, 2D85.60%
5W, 3D87%
5W, 4D88.30%
5W, 5D89.50%
5W, 6D90.60%
6W, 0D91.60%
6W, 1D92.50%
6W, 2D93.40%
6W, 3D94.10%
6W, 4D94.70%
6W, 5D95.30%
6W, 6D95.70%
7W, 0D96.10%
7W, 1D96.50%
7W, 2D96.80%
7W, 3D97%
7W, 4D97.20%
7W, 5D97.40%
7W, 6D97.50%
8W, 0D97.60%
8W, 1D97.70%
8W, 2D97.80%
8W, 3D97.80%
8W, 4D97.90%
8W, 5D97.90%
8W, 6D97.90%
9W, 0D97.90%
9W, 1D (and on)98%+

ETA Stats from Expecting Better based off her research. Reversed to show positive side.

6W                     ~89%
7W                     ~92.5%
8W                     ~94.9%
9W                     ~96.5%
10W                   ~97%
11W+                 >98%

Overall odds of making it full-term based on Expecting Better:
~95% if no previous miscarriage. 75% with previous miscarriage (does not matter if multiple or not). She implies it's likely higher than 75% if using progesterone supplements but doesn't have the stats for that. 
Me: 33 DH: 34
Married: Oct 2015
TTC #1: Sept 2016
BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
BFP: 3/24/17   <3  DD1 born 12/2/17
TTC #2: July 2018
BFP: 8/26/18 <3  DD2 born 5/16/19



Re: Odds of NOT having a miscarriage

  • THANK YOU for posting this!  These stats have given me so much peace of mind in both of my pregnancies <3
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  • I really love this. Will definitely be coming back here daily to look at the numbers. Thanks for posting!

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  • Thank you for posting this.
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • Thanks so much for posting this. I do find it reassuring to check back on these numbers as the days pass.

    *TW* Like many others on this board, I've also experienced a MC- it was 6w into my first pregnancy back in 2013 and the experience has definitely impacted my state of mind in every subsequent pregnancy. I'm cautiously optimistic, but the fear of loss is always in the back of my mind right up until I deliver. However, I am comforted by the statistics as the days and weeks progress and I love seeing the numbers presented in this positive light. Thanks again!
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  • @misskimsue I can just imagine. *TW* This is my first pregnancy since my loss, and though I'm pretty well at peace about things and generally optimisitc, the thoughts just creep up at random points, and I feel like it will be that way through this whole pregnancy. It long for the innocent days before a loss, you know?


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  • Love this chart! Very comforting 
  • I had to take a look at the chart today. My brain is so worried. I have a two year old but before she was born we had MMC at 16 weeks. It was heartbreaking. I am sort of happy to have so many other women in this BMB with similar experiences and anxieties this time around.
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  • Thank you for sharing this!  <3
  • Not going to lie, this definitely helped my anxiety, some. I have gone to bed praying every night for a healthy baby and an uneventful nine months.
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  • Thank you for posting. I needed to read this today. 
  • @Rachel2066 thank you! I loved that. And it kinda made me chuckle that I could keep asking for more reassurance. DH is worried about me getting spun up but even I showed it to him and he was like, see this is good to look at. 
  • Thank you so much for this! Ever since I became pregnant and started reading different forums, I feel like all I'm reading about is miscarrying. I understand it's very possible to have one, and it's so sad, but it gives me anxiety when I barely see any posts about the positive successful pregnancies.  
  • @Rachel2066 and @peachy13 thank you to you both for posting this!  After having a MMC in June, I definitely needed something like this to go to instead of the usual.  Thank you so so much!
  • mrskoz428 said:
    Not going to lie, this definitely helped my anxiety, some. I have gone to bed praying every night for a healthy baby and an uneventful nine months.
    Same, girl! I have found repeating positive affirmations to be incredibly reassuring, it really helps break me out of my anxiety. I'll say things like "this baby is healthy" "this will be my take home baby" "my body knows how to grow and protect this baby", and "I know God will watch over and protect this child". Just wanted to share for the other anxious mamas! 
  • @sagems10 I am so the same way! I appreciate every annoying little symptom as my body saying “Things are going well, Momma!” Every minute of morning sickness reminds me that my body is loving up on this growing baby! I am definitely going to start these positive mantras, as well!
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  • @mrskoz428 who knew we'd actually be grateful for nausea?! Lol
  • @sagems10 every single day! Lol!
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  • I want to stop and thank both @Rachel2066 and @peachy13  for posting these stats. As a multiple (back to back) loss momma, these numbers remind me to have hope. 
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  • This is really wonderful. Thank you for sharing!
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  • This was shared in my old BMB as well and I really love it. Can we pin this? It's a great reminder.

  • @zuuls_mom whoops, good point! Sorry! :grimace:

  • No worries @DuchessOfCambridge!
    *TW*
    Me: 32 │ DH: 35 
    Married 8/16/13
    BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
    BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
    BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle  <3


  • I’ve been checking this daily and telling friends and family. 94% everything’s going to be okay!! So helpful and reassuring. Thank you!  <3
  • @chloe97 Agreed. The numbers in the general chart really don't apply to individuals specifically - it's really misleading. But maybe I am just bitter because *TW* I have had two miscarriages after seeing heartbeats, when the risk was supposed to be like 2%. Guess I'm just super lucky? *End TW*
  • kbrown2385kbrown2385 member
    edited September 2018
    @chloe97 and @ruby696 I’m feeling the same! While I know there has to be someone to ge the percentages, (tw) it’s hard to know I did defy the odds 4 times when they were supposed to be in my favor. 
  • @kbrown2385 Maybe we should buy lottery tickets?
  • @ruby696 I actually said that to my friend this morning  :D
  • chloe97chloe97 member
    edited September 2018
    @ruby696 Same here and after being that "lucky" I never felt safe until DD was in my arms. PGAL is truly, truly a miserable experience- even when things seemingly are going smoothly. I am not nearly as anxious (at least not yet) this time now that I know a live birth is possible for me, but I totally understand how devastating it is to be on the wrong side of these statistics.

    ETA @kbrown2385 TW The night before I found out that my 2nd pregnancy had a chromosomal abnormality incompatible with life at my 13 week u/s I dreamt that I had one the MegaMillions. I was right I did win a  very bitter and sad lottery. End TW


  • @chloe97 *TW* My last loss was in July, so it feels like the universe is playing a joke on me right now.*End TW*  I know a lot of people, including PGAL people, find the chart reassuring. But for me, it almost made it worse. I felt like I was in the clear and then I wasn't. 

    You're right though - I have two LC, so I know it's possible. That does help.
  • @chloe97 @ruby696 @kbrown2385 Thanks for sharing your perspectives and thoughts on the chart. I honestly never thought about the numbers from a PGAL point of view. How frustrating to keep falling into that small percentage. I’m sorry for your losses.

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