Welcome to the PGAL (Pregnant after loss) weekly thread!
**This is a general trigger warning that CP, miscarriage/spontaneous abortion, selective abortion due to medical complications, and/or stillbirth may be mentioned.There is no need to add specific trigger warnings in your posts, but you may if you choose.**
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
4. Any appointment updates?
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why? (Stolen from May BMB

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Re: PGAL 9.12
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)? I definitely am feeling big and tired. Getting out of bed in the middle of the night is roughhhhhhh
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)? Doing well! Thanks to my little guy moving around so much!
4. Any appointment updates? I have my 28 week appointment today at 11:45. I think I'll probably get my flu shot while I'm there.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here): I'm throwing a house warming party for my mom on Saturday. We are having a chili bar which will include hot dogs and fritos and all the toppings. I am so excited I can hardly stand it, lol
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why? (Stolen from May BMB
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
26+2
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
I'm so tired this week but I'm blaming it on work instead of pregnancy!
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
I think I will feel better after my appointment today.
4. Any appointment updates?
I have an appointment this afternoon to follow up on my elevated blood pressure and I'm taking the one hour glucose test for the second time.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Work has been hectic and H is in a golf tournament today so I'm looking forward to leaving work early for the doctor's and then going home to snuggle my dogs
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why? (Stolen from May BMB
Definitely Family Feud! My family loves it and we watch it all the time. We haven't auditioned for 2 reasons, 1. there are too many of us and we fight who would actually go on and 2. this video describes how my family would act on Family Feud (warning for language)
@lippy625 Good luck with your appt today and enjoy your snuggle time!
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
26+6 can't wait to officially get to that 3rd tri!
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Not bad, just getting awkward. I feel like a roly poly.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
Good, baby moves nonstop.
4. Any appointment updates?
Nopers, nothing till the end of the month.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Pretty chill september we're having, which is great. Work is busy, but life is pretty calm at the moment. exactly 3 months from tomorrow i'm due!!!
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why? (Stolen from May BMB
Jeopardy! We watch every night. Some nights are better than others, but I love it
@lippy625 FX you pass the one hour again! I have mine Friday.
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
26w3d...no milestones for many many weeks!
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
I’m also over here feeling large. I feel like a turtle trying to get out of bed. Lots of peeing as baby just loves using my bladder as martial arts practice, particularly when I’m trying to fall asleep!
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
Feeling very good for a while now. Just ready to bring this baby home soon.
4. Any appointment updates?
I have my GD test and a growth scan on Friday. So one part annoying and one part fun.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
DH worked all weekend and won’t have off until Saturday so it just feels like a mega long week. Ready for it to be over!
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why? (Stolen from May BMB
Game shows are a guilty pleasure of mine. I think I would be excellent at Match Game and Family Feud. I think I’m good at guessing what other people will say. We also watch wheel of fortune every night because dd loves it and I’m pretty good at guessing the puzzles, but my downfall would be trying to remember which letters were called already.
@lippy625 Good luck at your appointment today! Are they concerned about PreE?
@morgantu I can't believe we are only ~3 months out! Am I crazy, or has time been flying by?!
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
26+6
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Tired! My body/joint aches have been minimal lately, so I really can't complain.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
My anxiety is really low. I am really getting in the mindset that in 3 short months, I will be bringing a beautiful baby girl from the hospital
4. Any appointment updates?
Nope, my late appointment was rescheduled (again), so I have an OB check this Friday, and my GTT the following Friday.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Work is busy! I bought all the stuff to paint the baby's room this weekend. I also ordered a rug to go in there once everything is painted. I'm slowly starting to tackle small tasks (finally!).
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why? (Stolen from May BMB
Wheel of Fortune. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it seems like the easiest opportunity to win the most money. @morgantu We also watch Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune almost every night. It makes me feel like a real adult
Dumb question- what is the growth scan for? Like a second Anatomy Scan? I don't think my OB has mentioned that to me yet...
@lippy625 Enjoy your Glucola today !
@morgantu Roly poly babies are exciting
@rosebud332 I’m a bed turtle too! I hope I don’t wake H when I lightly grunt as I try to get out of the Echo Nest in the night.
@Hollyyyyy I’m happy you’re getting nursery tasks done - and jealous of the rug purchase, I looooove buying rugs.
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
27 weeks today! EDD is three months from today
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Big (but not elephanty), achy, and refluxy. Zantac is my new BFF.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
Low anxiety since kiddo is pretty active. Yesterday I noticed a little tint on the toilet paper, but it got lighter as the day went on, and there was no cramping or contractions. I'm looking out for it today, but not really too worried.
4. Any appointment updates?
Next appt is in two weeks. Also I assume that I don't have GD because my OB's office hasn't called me
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever:
This week I have simply been collecting the things I need to do, then doing nothing about them. For whatever reason I just cannot be productive when DH is home, and he's home a lot right now. I guess it's good to know that apparently I am still so independent that I prefer to do most things solo.
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why?
Not sure - I don't really like game shows. I'll talk to the TV in public if Jeopardy is on, but that's it. I wouldn't want to be on Jeopardy though (although a friend was a contestant!) I am not *that* well read.
Dx: Unspecified IF
BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks
BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
I am with everyone else who mentioned feeling like a turtle getting out of bed. Last night I yelped pretty loudly because I misjudged the edge of the bed while tangled in my snoogle and almost fell out. H and neither dog skipped a beat in their snoring so some help they would be in case of an actual fall! haha
@texas_t Now I want a cheese chili dog!
@rosebud332 A turtle is the perfect description!
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
24 weeks, 2 days, so viability baby!
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
I am feeling pretty good. I am having to pee at least every hour and 3-4 times at night, which is getting old. I am also pretty sore and numb by the end of the day, but I don't know how much of that is pregnancy related and how much of that is from chasing a toddler 24/7.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
I am feeling pretty good, especially because this LO moves so much. However, I did eat 2 pieces of deli ham yesterday, so I feel more guilty and a little anxious.
4. Any appointment updates?
I had my 24 week appointment yesterday and it went well. i had a great talk with my favorite OB about my options re: RCS or VBAC and I feel very confdent in our plans. That was causing me a lot of anxiety.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
This is minor, but my lab has changed their policy and now requires me to get the glucola drink there and sit for an hour prior to the bloodwork. Last time, I just had to show up 45 minutes after drinking it, which was much easier. Now, I need to figure out a day when someone can watch DS, so I do not have to chase him around the waiting room for an hour. Also becasue I had a RhoGAM injection after my miscarriage in March, my bloodwok has to be done within 72 hours of my appointment becasue they are unsure if I will still have the antibodies in my system or not. It is all manageable, just annoying.
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why? (Stolen from May BMB
Who Wants to be a Millionaire! I prefer multiple choice ans life lines
@lippy625 Good luck with the glucose test! I took my second 1-hr one the Friday of the holiday weekend and it actually came out 10 points lower than when I took it at 12 weeks. I noticed (just in my monitoring at home) that my systolic bp jumped up to 120 this week (I’m already on Nifedipine for chronic hypertension and had been hanging out around 110/70 or so). Hope your elevated bp is nothing.
@Hollyyyyy I had taken a break from the snoogle, but I’m back to messing with it every time I get out of bed in the middle of the night to pee too. I have a scan scheduled at almost 30 weeks - not sure if that’s the same thing as @rosebud332’s.
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
25w5d
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Pretty good still, for now. Taking my nightly magnesium earlier in the evening seems to help with the threat of reflux, though when I forget to drink water in the evening I’ve been noticing more leg cramps. And maybe I started to feel a little sciatica in my right side when I walked my SIL’s dog the other night (I usually have it on my left from L3-5 herniations). Otherwise, I could get to bed earlier, but can’t complain.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
Okay, I suppose. I still use the doppler occasionally if I haven’t felt baby move in a while. I figured I have it...
4. Any appointment updates?
Nope, next appointment’s not till the end of the month. Sort of a “golden” OB appointment - we’ll be 28 weeks on the 28th
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Lately I’ve been wondering about rib circumference growth/expansion and timing. Mostly because I’d like mine to stay the same at least for the next few weeks so I can wear a particular dress to my friends’ wedding at the end of the month
Also last night we got our cheesy studio puppy portrait digital images back, so it’s been fun playing with them on Shutterfly.
Also starting all the classes (tonight’s breastfeeding) - a little bit early. Hope we don’t forget everything!
6. If you could be on a game show, which one would it be, and why? (Stolen from May BMB
We don’t really watch TV - can I say I’d like to be a caller on Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me? If, TV, I guess I’ll go with the Price Is Right since shopping is one of my past times for better or worse.
Married 6/18/16 (Me 42, DH 44), TTC #2
***TW***
As of 12/2016: AMH 1.42, FSH 6.1, AFC ~10
Self-benched Nov-Dec 2016 for
IVF #1 Jan-Feb 2017 (OCP, testosterone primed antagonist w/HGH - ER 2/2/17 - 12R, 7M ICSI'd, 3F, 0B)
IVF #2 Mar-Apr 2017 (testosterone primed agonist/luteal lupron w/HGH - ER 4/8/17 - 10R, 8M, 8F, 5B, 1 PGS normal)
IVF #3 May-Jun 2017 (testosterone primed agonist/luteal lupron w/HGH - ER 6/4/17 - 14R, 5F, 3B, 0 normal)
**New RE**
IVF #4 Sept 2017 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 9/28/17 - 33R, 18F, 10B, 4 PGS normals!)
FET #1 (medicated) of one PGS normal 4AA XX 11/2/17 - Beta #1 11/11/17 (153), Beta #2 11/13/17 (324), mc at 5w1d on 11/19/17
IVF #5 Dec 2017 - Insemination of 9 frozen eggs from 2012 (8F, 1B, 0 normal)
Jan 2018 - Natural cycle ERA (normal/receptive) & stimming for
IVF #6 Jan-Feb 2018 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 2/3/18 - 17R, 6M, 4F, 0 blasts)
IVF #7 Feb 2018 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 2/26/18 - 19R, 9M, 9F, 4B, 2 PGS normals)
FET #2 Apr 2018 (natural cycle w/o trigger, w/P4 support) of one PGS normal 4AA- XX 4/5/18 - Beta #1 4/14/18 (67), Beta #2 4/16/18 (231)
Rainbow baby girl born 12/16/2018 (via c-section, induced at 39 weeks)
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TFAS!
FET #3 Dec 2019 (natural cycle w/o trigger, w/P4 support) of one PGS normal 3BB XY 12/16/19 - Beta #1 12/24/19 (139), Beta #2 12/27/19 (482)
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
@morgantu Supermarket Sweep? I heard somewhere that it is coming back!
@katy0990 That (getting the classes done before I got too uncomfortable) was part of my reasoning - and at the beginning my OB didn’t seem all that confident that I’d make it all the way till my due date (with the preexisting hypertension). Also, next month’s breast feeding class is on my birthday (not really how I want to spend it), and DH has a company meeting one weekend next month so we figured we’d just knock them out this month
ETA: I *may* have grabbed that dress in a 6 (if they don’t cancel my order because it’s not really available). No extra 20% discount, but still under $40 shipped so can’t complain. But that would take care of my immediate rib expansion concern wrt a dress to wear to that wedding
Married 6/18/16 (Me 42, DH 44), TTC #2
***TW***
As of 12/2016: AMH 1.42, FSH 6.1, AFC ~10
Self-benched Nov-Dec 2016 for
IVF #1 Jan-Feb 2017 (OCP, testosterone primed antagonist w/HGH - ER 2/2/17 - 12R, 7M ICSI'd, 3F, 0B)
IVF #2 Mar-Apr 2017 (testosterone primed agonist/luteal lupron w/HGH - ER 4/8/17 - 10R, 8M, 8F, 5B, 1 PGS normal)
IVF #3 May-Jun 2017 (testosterone primed agonist/luteal lupron w/HGH - ER 6/4/17 - 14R, 5F, 3B, 0 normal)
**New RE**
IVF #4 Sept 2017 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 9/28/17 - 33R, 18F, 10B, 4 PGS normals!)
FET #1 (medicated) of one PGS normal 4AA XX 11/2/17 - Beta #1 11/11/17 (153), Beta #2 11/13/17 (324), mc at 5w1d on 11/19/17
IVF #5 Dec 2017 - Insemination of 9 frozen eggs from 2012 (8F, 1B, 0 normal)
Jan 2018 - Natural cycle ERA (normal/receptive) & stimming for
IVF #6 Jan-Feb 2018 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 2/3/18 - 17R, 6M, 4F, 0 blasts)
IVF #7 Feb 2018 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 2/26/18 - 19R, 9M, 9F, 4B, 2 PGS normals)
FET #2 Apr 2018 (natural cycle w/o trigger, w/P4 support) of one PGS normal 4AA- XX 4/5/18 - Beta #1 4/14/18 (67), Beta #2 4/16/18 (231)
Rainbow baby girl born 12/16/2018 (via c-section, induced at 39 weeks)
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TFAS!
FET #3 Dec 2019 (natural cycle w/o trigger, w/P4 support) of one PGS normal 3BB XY 12/16/19 - Beta #1 12/24/19 (139), Beta #2 12/27/19 (482)
This is Calliope (aka Calliopuppy):
Thanks for looking!
Married 6/18/16 (Me 42, DH 44), TTC #2
***TW***
As of 12/2016: AMH 1.42, FSH 6.1, AFC ~10
Self-benched Nov-Dec 2016 for
IVF #1 Jan-Feb 2017 (OCP, testosterone primed antagonist w/HGH - ER 2/2/17 - 12R, 7M ICSI'd, 3F, 0B)
IVF #2 Mar-Apr 2017 (testosterone primed agonist/luteal lupron w/HGH - ER 4/8/17 - 10R, 8M, 8F, 5B, 1 PGS normal)
IVF #3 May-Jun 2017 (testosterone primed agonist/luteal lupron w/HGH - ER 6/4/17 - 14R, 5F, 3B, 0 normal)
**New RE**
IVF #4 Sept 2017 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 9/28/17 - 33R, 18F, 10B, 4 PGS normals!)
FET #1 (medicated) of one PGS normal 4AA XX 11/2/17 - Beta #1 11/11/17 (153), Beta #2 11/13/17 (324), mc at 5w1d on 11/19/17
IVF #5 Dec 2017 - Insemination of 9 frozen eggs from 2012 (8F, 1B, 0 normal)
Jan 2018 - Natural cycle ERA (normal/receptive) & stimming for
IVF #6 Jan-Feb 2018 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 2/3/18 - 17R, 6M, 4F, 0 blasts)
IVF #7 Feb 2018 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 2/26/18 - 19R, 9M, 9F, 4B, 2 PGS normals)
FET #2 Apr 2018 (natural cycle w/o trigger, w/P4 support) of one PGS normal 4AA- XX 4/5/18 - Beta #1 4/14/18 (67), Beta #2 4/16/18 (231)
Rainbow baby girl born 12/16/2018 (via c-section, induced at 39 weeks)
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TFAS!
FET #3 Dec 2019 (natural cycle w/o trigger, w/P4 support) of one PGS normal 3BB XY 12/16/19 - Beta #1 12/24/19 (139), Beta #2 12/27/19 (482)
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
Dx: Unspecified IF
BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks
BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
Doctor's appointment for me went well. My BP is still slightly elevated but lower than it was last time (126/92) so she is leaning more towards chronic hypertension than anything pregnancy related. My appointments will be every two weeks going forward anyways so she feels comfortable just monitoring it for now. She also commented on my weight gain for the first time ever which was to say she was very happy with it. Since I'm overweight to begin with, that thrilled me. Hopefully I pass the one hour glucose test again and yesterday will have been an overall success! They gave me a lemon-lime drink yesterday instead of orange and it was WAY better.
ETA: doctor's office just called, passed the glucose test yesterday so woohoo!
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*