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Have we discussed sex??

Merried_2008Merried_2008 member
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Do you enjoy it when pg? Had it changed for you? Etc...
"When the first baby laughed for the first time, the laugh broke into a thousand pieces and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies." Sir James Barrie in Peter Pan

DS: 11/1/2010    DD: 8/9/2012       #3: 4/2019
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Re: Have we discussed sex??

  • Merried_2008Merried_2008 member
    We dtd this morning and it wasn’t uncomfortable but not really enjoyable either. DH did just fine however.  :D 
    "When the first baby laughed for the first time, the laugh broke into a thousand pieces and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies." Sir James Barrie in Peter Pan

    DS: 11/1/2010    DD: 8/9/2012       #3: 4/2019
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  • RainNFyreRainNFyre member
    My boyfriend thinks it’s great. I was sort of uncomfortable and felt a lot of pressure in my uterus. Have been avoiding it ever since. Some women get super horny during pregnancy.
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  • sheepshepherdesssheepshepherdess member
    Too terrified of MC to even think about it, and not really interested either way. But I've had that problem for years, so it's probably unrelated to pregnancy. 
    Me: 29 DW: 44
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  • thatbaintforbettythatbaintforbetty member
    I’m pretty sure I’m getting a UTI and last night I seriously aggravated a hemorrhoid. They only thing going near that area is a doc and maybe some ice. 
    this is my backup acct.
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    Me:32 DH:33 Married:04/2012 DD:07/2014 
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  • Merried_2008Merried_2008 member
    wearegroot said:
    I tend to take care of myself more frequently during pregnancy. My husband is really into foreplay before and cuddling after and I’m just too tired for all that. Just get in and out and let me take a nap afterwards.
    What's with these guys? We have two kids already - ain't nobody got time for that!
    "When the first baby laughed for the first time, the laugh broke into a thousand pieces and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies." Sir James Barrie in Peter Pan

    DS: 11/1/2010    DD: 8/9/2012       #3: 4/2019
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  • robyn2201robyn2201 member
    Sex for me is always better while pregnant so we have been doing it way more than before. Better take advantage of it now because in 10 months I won’t be wanting any. I hate post birth sex, don’t touch me anywhere. 
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

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  • ashtuesdayashtuesday member
    Hormones are making sex almost entirely unappealing to me right now.  This was far from the case with my previous pregnancies, and we were in a very active sex streak when we conceived this LO, so I feel pretty bad for my husband to have had things change so abruptly!  Trying to take advantage whenever the mood does strike, and hoping things will change sooner rather than later!

    And @wearegroot, I LOLed - I had to sit my husband down for a "We don't have time for this extended shit every night!" conversation a few weeks ago.  Men are so different.
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  • kaleesi93kaleesi93 member
    I'm just nymphing my way through this pregnancy and not upset about it at all. 
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  • BringmemylongswordhoBringmemylongswordho member
    I wish I was interested in sex. The last two weeks I've been decidedly "meh" on sex.
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  • mrstmoosemrstmoose member
    It’s still pretty normal for us. How frequently and no pain here. I didn’t get uncomfortable until 3rd trimester during last pregnancy. 
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  • kangstadtkangstadt member
    First few times after our BFP it was definitely more enjoyable for me, with the increased sensation and everything.  The last two weeks, I've been too nauseated for anything too frequent (dropped down to once a week for us).  We're a pretty active couple when it comes to sex, but I've been feeling too gross at night for anything much. 

    With my last pregnancy, my sex drive took off in the third trimester, not sure if that'll happen again this time but I agree with @robyn2201.  Post-birth, just leave me alone unless you're putting an ice pack down there for me.
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  • kyashley1227kyashley1227 member
    Prior to getting pregnant we were having sex on a nightly basis. It’s dropped off a little bit due to pure exhaustion but it’s still a frequent occurrence. I’ve never been into sex while pregnant so this is new for me but, I’m digging it so far. 
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  • lilpotatomamalilpotatomama member
    Haven’t had sex since the day we conceived! We spent a month this summer traveling around Japan/South Korea and we had so much sex that I’ve been burnt out since then. Totally okay with this. We are plenty cuddly and physical without the sex and that’s enough for us sometimes. 
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  • blueberrymommablueberrymomma member
    I want it more now but the nausea prevents me from acting on it. Also my parents have been at our house a lot and the guest room is directly below ours so that just makes everything awkward lol I’m so paranoid about making any noise that it’s just not enjoyable.
    Also I’m so glad I’m not the only with a husband whose more interested in foreplay than I am
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  • rennie1108rennie1108 member
    Yeah....I wish I felt like it but I don't. I feel bad for my DH although hes very sweet about it. But I have zero desire when I'm this constantly constipated! We've had sex twice since I got pregnant and neither time did I really get anything from it. Plus I'm spotting now and we had sex a few nights ago. Its freaking me out!
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  • florallimeadeflorallimeade member
    rennie1108 said:
    Yeah....I wish I felt like it but I don't. I feel bad for my DH although hes very sweet about it. But I have zero desire when I'm this constantly constipated! We've had sex twice since I got pregnant and neither time did I really get anything from it. Plus I'm spotting now and we had sex a few nights ago. Its freaking me out!

    I started spotting Friday/Saturday and have been way too freaked out since too! It has stopped since but I want to call the doctor and make sure everything’s ok first 
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  • cabearitcabearit member
    I am so nauseous that we haven't had sex since BFP. That and I am freaked out about the prospect of spotting afterwards and know that I will be an anxious mess. 
    Me: 36, H: 37 | Married: 10/15/16 | DS#1: 7/18/04 | DS#2: 4/18/19
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  • kaitykinskaitykins member
    edited September 2018
    My dh has poison oak in some... unfortunate areas.
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  • angelob88angelob88 member
    I wish I felt like it. My poor DH. I'm the same with the "get in and get out" mentality right now. It's not super comfortable for me at the moment

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  • middy411middy411 member
    edited September 2018
    I’m lucky DH has always been a “get in and get out” kinda guy. I hated it at first but quickly realized how convenient it was. If he’s intoxicated it takes longer and I start to get really impatient.

    *edited cause it only posted half*

    I tend to enjoy it more during pregnancy but have been too worried about whether my 1 and 2 year olds will wake up in the middle of the night to even jump in to the quickie. Lol
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  • sheepshepherdesssheepshepherdess member
    TMI warning...

    I've been avoiding sex (worries about cervix) and orgasms (worried about cramping) since my IUI, but today as I was napping I, uh, had an orgasm while sleeping. WTH is this fresh mess? Been crampy all afternoon since then. I'm sure I'm the only one!
    Me: 29 DW: 44
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  • mrstmoosemrstmoose member
    @sheepshepherdess get it girl!
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  • saltymasaltyma member
    We’ve done it a couple times. But I instantly start cramping and get very uncomfortable. Not to mention I’m feeling like s#!+. More power to those who find it enjoyable! I have take care of myself a couple times and instantly have pressure and pain in my lower abdomen. Will probably stay away from it from now on. But I also don’t want to deprive DH, so if he wants some, I’ll suck it up and try and enjoy it. 
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  • dapoint23dapoint23 member
    I'm cool with it when I'm not nauseous or dead tired... which isn't often 
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