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Welcome to the PGAL (Pregnant after loss) weekly thread!
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1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
4. Any appointment updates?
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!)
Re: PGAL check in w/o 8/29
22+2, so well past my milestone!
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
I’m tired and my scaitica bothers me if I don’t wear gym shoes
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
I’m feeling pretty good. I’m actually believing that we will have a new baby in 4 months! Thoughts of stillbirth still creep in, but my hospital and NICU has had positive outcomes for babies born at 23 weeks, so I’m trying to focus on that.
4. Any appointment updates?
I got the results of the cell free DNA test back and everything looked great! So, hopefully the urinary tract dilation resolves itself, but if not, it looks like there is not a chromosome issue causing it.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Now that summer is winding down, I am officially starting to feel like a stay at home mom. I have made plans to meet up with two different play groups this week, so hopefully that will be a good experience for both my son and me.
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!)
Baby movement! I love feeling him or her swimming around!
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)? I had a rough week last week, but doing better this week! I think I have the beginnings of SPD, but I'm trying to push through since there really isn't anything that can be done about it.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)? Doing well! Owen moves a lot and that helps tremendously.
4. Any appointment updates? Nope! Don't have my next one for a couple of weeks!
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here): Keeping up with working out 3 day a week and tracking my food is my main focus right now. I've said this multiple times, but I gain a lot of weight last pregnancy from 20 weeks on and I don't want a repeat. So far so good.
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!) I love getting to know my baby before they he gets here! I can anticipate movement and I just enjoy the closeness of having him right here with me.
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
24w3d. No more milestones!
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
I’m feeling large! Just generally having more trouble getting around, bending over, etc., but I’m making it work.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
I feel very good at this point.
4. Any appointment updates?
Not for another couple of weeks.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
A photographer came and took pictures of our house today so once we get those back we will officially be listed for sale. Omg.
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!)
I love the kicks! That’s the one thing I will be sad about leaving behind with my pregnancy days.
@katy0990 Horray for great news from your dna test!
@texas_t Sorry it sounds like you're beginning to get SPD
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
24+6
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Just tired, mostly. My pelvic pain has let us a lot since last week, which is kind of ironic since I have my first PT appointment this evening. Hopefully I can at least learn some stretches/exercises to use if it flares up again.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
Pregnancy anxiety is currently pretty mild. I just find other things to stress about. It's one of my many talents.
4. Any appointment updates?
Nope, but I have a quick OB appointment on Friday. I just need to remember to ask about hospital registration, and getting my TDAP and flu shots at my following appointment on 9/21.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Work is insane. We have hired 4(!!) new people in the last month. It's a big deal for us, since we are a small team (~10 people), but we are getting so busy, we need the extra help. Also, I signed up for a 4 week childbirth class that goes mid October-mid November, and a 2 week newborn care class that starts at the beginning of October. Shit's getting real!
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!)
I also love the wiggles, but my favorite thing is the unknown. I'm one of those people that always has to have something to look forward to. Right now I'm thriving off the excitement of expanding our family, and seeing how it's going to challenge us and change us. I can't wait to meet our little girl and see what she is like.
@texas_t (it) dang girl, working out 3 days a week is impressive. It's been so hot here i don't even want to walk outside.
@rosebud332 yay for house listing! Hopefully it goes quickly and easily
@hollyyyyy Ahhhhh i'm gonna sign up for our classes soon too! It does feel VERY real!
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
24+6 feeling great to be over the first viability hump!
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Feeling pretty good. Trying to be patient with my physical limitations. Sore when I wake up, but I can't really complain.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
Good, heart LO's Hb on monday and feel them all the time so it's super helpful. Definitely feels like we're going to get a baby.
4. Any appointment updates?
Nah, everything was fine on monday and I don't have anything else till my 28 week. Then we start every 2 weeks though, it's crazy!
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Oh man, our semester started on monday (i work at a university). I forgot how many people are around when it's not summer and how busy the scheduling is. During the summer i can take it easy and get a lot of personal stuff done, but much less so during the academic year. Luckily all my house stuff is pretty much wrapped up so there's not a ton to do.
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!)
The kicks! It's so weird/neat. Also H being especially sweet and trying very hard to make sure i'm ok. Last night i was having a little bit of side pain when I was lying down for bed and he rubbed my back to help me sleep (i'm not sure it really helped, but it was cute).
@katy0990 glad to hear your test results came back great!
@texas_t I hope your pain doesn't turn in to SPD! I was having pretty terrible pelvic pain when I walked or stood up for 3 weeks but it's pretty much gone now thankfully, I can't imagine having to deal with that for the rest of the pregnancy.
@rosebud332 I hope for a quick and easy sale for you! I'm sure it will be a relief once it's all done.
@Hollyyyyy I laughed out loud at your "shit's getting real." Every time we do something baby related my H says that.
@morgantu that's great that your H is being so supportive. Mine has been too for the most part but today he's driving me nuts because he's texting me every hour asking if I've drank enough water - he thinks my blood pressure issues (see below) are related to dehydration
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
24+2
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Feeling good!
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
I am happy to feel baby moving around in there at some point every day so that helps but I've realized I'm going to be anxious about something until baby is safely in my arms, and honestly probably after that too! haha
4. Any appointment updates?
I had a checkup on Monday. My blood pressure was elevated and this is the second time since I hit 20 weeks so I'm now having to do some extra monitoring in case of gestational hypertension/preeclampsia. I'm doing a 24 hour urine collection today and bloodwork tomorrow and then back to the doctor in a week and a half.
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
I'm not overly concerned (yet) about my blood pressure because I think it's a bit of white coat syndrome but the 24 hour urine test is SUPER inconvenient especially since I absolutely had to come to work today. Luckily I have a personal fridge in my office but toting my bag back and forth to the bathroom is annoying.
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!)
It's probably watching how my H has reacted to my pregnancy. He was ready for us to have kids before I was so I knew he'd be so excited but it's been even more fun than I expected to watch him talk about the pregnancy and our plans for baby to other people.
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
@Hollyyyyy The best part about a kid is that they never stay the same, so it's new forever!
@rosebud332 Wow! Good luck on listing your house!
@katy0990 Congratulations on the good report!
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
@rosebud332 Good luck selling your house!
@Hollyyyyy I hope you learn some helpful exercise.
@morgantu A back rub sounds so nice!
@lippy625 I hope your blood pressure is just white coat syndrome. Fx for good results!
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
#1 Favorite thing - not TTC, the cyclical heartbreak was painful.
#2 Favorite thing - NO PERIODS.
#3 Favorite thing - not feeling guilty about not going to the gym / exerting myself.
Dx: Unspecified IF
BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks
BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
@lippy625 I hope your elevated BP is nothing!
@echo-charlietango TBH, I'm excited to get my vaccinations, because it's an easy thing to "check off". Admittedly, I haven't done a whole lot at this point to prepare for this baby, so I'll take all the little wins
26w+3d
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Very itchy, very tired, body aches, reflux, not sleeping well.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
Super anxious. Still waiting on my bloodwork results for cholestasis & threat of stillbirth is real
4. Any appointment updates?
I go tomorrow for my GD test
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever:
Business as usual- kid to school & sports. Trying to distract myself from anxious thoughts.
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? -no period -feeling movement -dreaming about what they'll look like. Between hubby/I and our families, they could literally have any eye/skin/hair color, straight or curly hair, and be short or tall.
@texas_t Sorry you had a rough week last week, but I'm glad you're feeling better. I'm on the minimize weight gain and stay as healthy as possible train too (except for all the pasta I had last night, whoops!) But today I've been good and am back on my lunch time walks and at home weights!
@rosebud332 Oh man, I am feeling large too! I had to bend down and get something the other day and was like oh, looks like I can't do that gracefully at ALL anymore, haha. Also, yeah for photos of the house and listing it! Woo!
@Hollyyyyy Glad your pelvic pain has let up a little and I hope your PT session gives you useful tips for when it flares up! I also love the unknown aspect of pregnancy - you have no idea what you're going to get, personality or looks wise, and I love the building surprise of that.
@morgantu I can't believe we're about to be at the 2 week appointment stage, once we get to 28! It definitely is starting to feel super real that we're going to get take home babies this time around. So wonderful!
@lippy625 Sorry you're having blood pressure issues and having to be monitored! Hope it calms down soon! Are you dealing with any stress you can reduce? I had some early high blood pressure associated with a terrible job and my readings went down by like, over 20 points the second I moved on.
@echo-charlietango Sounds like you have a very full and fun weekend ahead - enjoy!!
@mommythlegend Just saw your post - so sorry you're feeling so anxious. I really hope your bloodwork comes back good and as soon as possible. Sending hugs.
1. How far along are you? Any milestones?
26 weeks and 1 day - well past all milestones, woo!
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
Feeling okay. I think I say this every week, lol. Symptoms are annoying but manageable. Tums Chewy = my best friend.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
Anxiety wise, I'm doing okay. I had a hard day Sunday because I was so busy and active I realized I hadn't felt the baby move and then when I wanted him to move, he barely did. It finally picked up enough to reassure me I didn't need to call my doctor, but I was so worried, it was really upsetting. I just cannot wait until this little one is safely born. Movement since then has been great and consistent, so I think I was just too busy to notice it on Sunday but it was a tough day.
4. Any appointment updates?
Nothing until 28 weeks!
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Work has been insane, so I haven't had much time to post. I'm feeling GIGANTIC btw. I feel like my bump has grown exponentially in the last couple of weeks.
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!)
Lol, when it's over and I get to have an adorable baby?
Got my bile acid results back. It was 11. My Dr said they consider under 14 fine. I still feel unsure, as some sites on-line say over 10 is Cholestasis. I also read that the itching can start before the bile acid rises & my itching is intensifying. I asked to be re-tested in 2 weeks. If still ok, I already have an appt set with my dermatologist in 3 weeks & I will try to chill!
I'll get my GD results tomorrow. The drink almost made me vomit!
23+3, no more milestones
2. How are you feeling (pregnancy symptoms)?
My left ankle keeps popping and is sometimes swollen from it. I think it’s how I stand back up from sitting on the floor (lots of floor sitting for my job). I’m trying to be more conscious of how I’m getting up & down so I don’t really injure myself. It’s also tricky to stay asleep on my side. I think I need more pillows.
3. How are you feeling (anxiety wise)?
A little anxious rn. Just got out of the follow up a/s and the ultrasound tech was pretty quiet. I’m trying not to read anything into that. She looked at the heart for a long time, and the neck twice and looked at the bladder and kidneys again, but didn’t measure them. Baby was still in feet over the head position, so maybe she just still couldn’t get a good look.
4. Any appointment updates?
Yep. Waiting to see the midwife now
5. What's been happening in your life this week? Rants/raves/whatever (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here):
Mostly work, our annual licensing year is this month so it’s been busy with visits from the state licensor, fire marshal, health inspector, etc. Outside of work SO and I are planning a big ikea trip for baby items and also general stuff. We are getting a new bed frame. Ours is an old hand me down and it’s too high (my feet don’t touch the ground when I sit on it). I don’t want to break a leg getting out of bed in 3rd tri.
6. GTKY: What's your favorite thing about being pregnant? (i know for some of us it's hard to thing of anything good right now, so hopefully this will help!)
ehh, I’m not very connected to my pregnancy, I don’t think. I keep forgetting I'm pregnant. I’ve enjoyed the lack of symptoms, but I just feel the same as usual and it’s weird. I even forgot about my belly the other night! I glanced in the mirror and was like “why is my stomach huge?!” And then remembered, oh yeah, because I’m pregnant. I wish I could say my fav is feeling kicks, but the movement always startles me and is a bit uncomfortable. I guess my favorite part is not having periods.
@mommythlegend Congratulations on the GD results. I hope the meds help!