Weekly Check-In -8/13 (Due date of 12/1 and earlier to 12/8.

countrygirl624 · August 2018

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

Any appointment updates?

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?

countrygirl624 · August 2018

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

24 weeks and 2 days ... seems harder to remember exactly the further along I get. Still feeling pretty good - belly feels uncomfortable at times. It’s like I know when it’s growing! Hahaha! Sometimes my feet are a little swollen in the morning then it goes away.

Any appointment updates?
Waiting for them to post my ultrasound results to see what her overall size is since I didn’t talk to a Dr after my appt Thursday. Need to schedule glucose test and rhogman shot still. Blah.

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
Lots of drama surrounding the baby shower for my husbands side ... my MIL is being very selfish and unreasonable. Who tells the preggo woman the shower has to be at their house when said preggo woman has requested it be at her house so she doesn’t have to haul a bunch of crap. Oy!

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
I’m a Leo (my bday is Sunday!) and I feel like I 100% embody every characteristic that goes with it!

hoosiermama-2 · August 2018

@countrygirl624 Ugh, sorry about the shower drama! Are you going to keep pushing to have it at your place? Is there a reason she wants it at her house - is it bigger or more open or something?

How far along are you? How are you feeling?
24 weeks today! Feeling biiiig and all I want is carbs.

Been feeling fatigued the last few days.

Any appointment updates?

I had a checkup this past Thursday. Everything sounded good. My doctor pulled out the glucose drink for next visit and I asked if I could skip to the 3-hour.

With DD, I barely failed the first and passed the 3-hour. I have a feeling I'd fail the 1-hour again, so at least this time I'll skip the misery of one test.

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

Dear Diary, I wish I had the will to exercise. I want to want to exercise but I can't make myself. Sigh.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
I'm a Cancer and don't know how much about it, tbh. I'm fairly sure astrology is like sacrilegious for Catholics.

hkom · August 2018

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

24 weeks tomorrow.

Any appointment updates?
See my one-off thread.

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
Hospitals suck. I've never stayed overnight in one before, so a week in here is going to be an experience. It's next to impossible to get comfortable. My meds make me feel yucky so I'm hoping that helps me sleep a little.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
I used to relate HARDCORE to being a Scorpio, but I've mellowed out a lot between ages 25-30. I still have a lot of typical Scorpio traits (Im very independent, resourceful, loyal, and as some of my college friends would tell you, "dark and twisty." I put a ton of value and loyalty and genuineness. I personally think I'm very in tune with my emotions, but I don't let them run my life. But I would never describe myself as stubborn or jealous or aggressive or any of those characteristics of a "crazy Scorpio".

whitneyb89 · August 2018

@countrygirl624 Ugh, is it so hard for people to follow the request of the pregnant one when it comes to the shower? I about lost it when my mom told me my aunt is deciding to do her own theme for my shower rather than the one I requested..

@hoosiermama-2 I'm right there with you when it comes to exercising! I tell myself to try doing something, but then I back out thinking I at least walk enough at work (even though that may not always be the case! )

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

23+2; feeling tired/exhausted most of the time, but that's nothing new. Unfortunately I feel like I've been dealing with heartburn for the past week. Haven't had so much of a burning feeling as much as dealing with throat tightness/feeling like I have food in my throat, which apparently can be heartburn as well.

Any appointment updates?

Had appointment last week. Everything still going well. Glucose test next appointment, which I don't look forward to. I just feel like I'm going to fail it, especially with all the junk I still eat (even though I try not to, but I have no will power!)

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

I know this might be too soon to feel this way, but is anyone what ready for December to be here already??

I'm just anxious for the baby to be here and I'm ready to not get exhausted from doing simple tasks. Also, I hate feeling useless when I can't help out with something such as moving stuff around. I had to sit back while my husband and brother in law moved in our new couch and I almost cried for not being able to do anything.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
I'm a Taurus, which I definitely feel like I relate to it considering the fact that a Taurus is known for being stubborn, which I know I am. What doesnt help is that my husband is also a Taurus, lol!

kadeephd · August 2018

@hkom Good luck getting some rest in the hospital. I've spent several nights in hospitals and have managed to sleep OK while there, though I was not pregnant at the time. A sleep mask and/or set of earplugs might help you get a little sleep if you can get your hands on some.

@whitneyb89 @hoosiermama-2 I am dreading the glucose test(s) too. I've taken a three hour one before because I have had weird blood sugar stuff since childhood. I hope I pass the hour and never have to do that three hour thing again. I felt so sick.

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

23+3, feeling pretty good, maybe 7/10. I've had some heartburn, am having trouble getting comfortable at night and am sore, mostly in my hips and back. I've also been having some slightly worrying discharge the past couple of days that I am keeping my eye on. I feel the baby move a lot now though which is reassuring. It's also nice to be visibly pregnant finally. I wore a form fitting dress today rather than something loose since I am finally at the point where it looks like a baby bump instead of a few extra pounds. I've been doing a bit better emotionally/anxiety wise too.

Any appointment updates?

My 24 week is next Tuesday.

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

I am super hungry now too, which I guess is a good thing. I'm a little worried I've been gaining weight too quickly the past few weeks and am going to get chastised at my next appointment though.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?

I'm an Aries. I don't know much about it... I had to google to see which traits I think I have. It seems like it fits pretty well -- strengths are energy and enthusiasm and weaknesses are impatience and short-temper, which I definitely have. I also like physical challenges like it says Aries do.

maureenmce · August 2018

@countrygirl624 Sorry for the baby shower drama! Definitely feel like it should be at the location most convenient to you!!

@hoosiermama-2 I'm feeling big and very fatigued too! Blah!

@hkom I am so sorry! Again, I am sending you love and wish you weren't stuck in the hospital!

@whitneyb89 So sorry you're dealing with heartburn, have you tried taking anything for it? I'm on Pepcid twice a day and I find that I have to have something plain (usually a half a mini bagel with nothing on it) as soon as I wake up, to soak up the acid or whatever. Good luck!

@kadeephd My husband is an Aries and I am always so jealous of his energy!

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

24 weeks tomorrow! Okay. I accidentally wore some pants I did not realize were too tight now on my bump and I have been uncomfortable all day. It has really aggravated my reflux.

But I'm sure I'll feel better once I get home and changed!

Any appointment updates?

I have my 24 week check up tomorrow, but should be hopefully quick and routine.

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

My DD is going through a major sleep regression. She's always been a night owl but lately it's taking 2 hours to get her to bed and she isn't closing her eyes until 11, she's waking up at least once if not twice a night, and my husband and I are SO exhausted. I think it's related to big changes in her little life - she just transferred to preschool from the toddlers class and that has been a BIG adjustment, and she's also newly potty trained, and newly hyper aware of my pregnancy and that she's going to have a little brother. It's a lot for her and I think it's contributing to her sleep issues, so I'm trying to be empathetic but also I am TIRED.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
I'm a Scorpio and I do relate, kind of! Not to the stereotypical stuff (crazy Scorpio, etc.) but to the regenerative aspect. Scorpios are supposed to be one of the big signs of transformation and regeneration and I think I am good at recreating myself and my life after changes. Also @hkom *waves* Hi fellow Scorpio!

countrygirl624 · August 2018

@hoosiermama-2 Her reasoning is that she doesn’t want to haul food to my house - even though no one asked her to make all the food and she had no problem hauling three coolers worth of food 5 hours for Thanksgiving last year. It’s a control thing really ... DH and I built a new house last year and I think she’s jealous.

@whitneyb89 I don’t know why people have to make the shower about themselves when it’s supposed to be for someone else - super awesome! Not! I’m letting my SIL deal with her own Mother and wait and see what happens. At the end of the day I could be a major bia and say I’m not going to the shower unless it’s at my house but I prefer to not go there.

@maureenmce Thank you!

ab_canada · August 2018

@countrygirl624 I may be getting the same "uncomfortable belly" feeling. Well, mine really feels like it's stretching. It's weird, but it sort of makes sense so I am not worried.
@hkom @maureenmce I am a Scorpio too!

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

24+3. Feeling good. Dealing with lower back pain every once in a while (especially long car rides or golfing, it seems) but it goes away if I have a good sleep. Plus, I have my second ever prenatal massage today, so I am very excited!

Any appointment updates?

None until next week.

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

We are starting to work on the nursery! MIL ordered the crib (and toddler rails, and the full bed kit! Holy Moly!) and my sister is going to come over and paint a mural on the wall in the next couple of weeks. We are thinking flowers in muted/pastel colors.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
Scorpio. I used to be really into it when I was a teenager and now I have to look up what the traits are. I do/did relate to it, but honestly you just end up picking the traits you like the most anyway

Strong willed? Yes, which is a funny combination with my stubborn Taurus husband. I have no idea what kind of children we will produce, but chances are good they will be stubborn too!
Passionate? Yes, I tend to be passionate about everything. I don't do things half way, which has been good and bad sometimes..
Possessive? No. Secretive? No, just quiet..

Jens_Hoes · August 2018

How far along are you? How are you feeling? 24 + 2. Fine I guess. Belly gets in the way a ton which is annoying, harder to get up off the ground after playing with DD.

Any appointment updates? Had my 24 week last week and they told me to stop gaining so much weight

the lady said it much nicer of course. Nothing again until early September, then we switch to every two week appointments

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary? There is so much to be done for this LO. And I feel like I have no time. As the summer comes to an end I feel like there is more I will want to do on the weekends (pumpkin patch, apple picking, halloween stuff, etc) and I don't know when I'll have time to move everything from the office which needs to become a nursery. I also don't know where I'm going to put all this crap in the office! Ugh.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it? Aquarius, and I know nothing about it so idk lol

@maureenmce holy moly 2 hours is exhausting!! are you guys thinking of doing anything differently, I imagine you won't be able to sustain that come December
@hoosiermama-2 you are cray cray for wanting to go straight to the 3 hour! lol I am scared I'll have to do that again.
@kadeephd try not to stress about the weight. As you can tell I am on that struggle bus now. It is what it is. Some people just gain weight in pregnancy.
@countrygirl624 and @whitneyb89 I hope you both get the shower you want, but I may be the minority here in thinking this but don't forget all these people are giving their time and money for you and your LO. Your DH should be helping to lug everything back to the house for you and the theme shouldn't matter too much in the grand scheme of getting a ton of stuff for free. plus at the end of the day, you get an adorable little squish out of the whole deal!

whitneyb89 · August 2018

@maureenmce I haven't tried anything for the heartburn yet, but I'm probably going to have in soon because dealing with throat tightness for multiple nights in a row kind of sucks. Probably eating a better diet would help me a lot as well..

@Jens_Hoes That's honestly why I haven't said anything to my aunt. I know in the end, it won't really matter. I just hate feeling ignored with the only thing I had a say in.

texas_t · August 2018

@countrygirl624 Ugh. Baby showers are supposed to be fun, not a PITA

@hoosiermama-2 Gah! I wish I would have thought about that regarding skipping to the 3 hour. I just took my screen yesterday and it was miserable and I'm horrified I'm not going to pass and have to drink the juice again

@hkom When I was in the hospital being induced, they asked if I wanted Ambien. Maybe ask for a sleeping pill?
@whitneyb89 Have you tried taking zantac that helps acid reflux?
@kadeephd I gained so much weight last pregnancy that I feel like I'm overly anxious about weight chastising as well. I've seen 3 different OBs in my practice and not one has mentioned my weight, so, so far so good! Hopefully the same for you!
@maureenmce I'm so sorry for the sleep regression. We dealt with that and are still partially dealing with that, so no recommendations, just more power to ya!
@ab_canada Wow!!! I can't wait to see the mural!!! My FIL just told us he was going to order Owen's crib, so I'm super excited about that. We need to work on nursery. My MIL just left and she was staying in the room, so we need to break down some stuff in there and paint.
@Jens_Hoes I'm sorry again about the weight comment

I mentioned to you in a another thread that I gained a lot of weight with DS1. My doctor was pretty chill about it but was like, you'll be fine, your baby will be fine, but it's REALLY going to suck losing weight once they get here.

He was sooooo right

How far along are you? How are you feeling? 24 weeks 2 days. I'm pretty good for the most part. Not sleeping amazingly, but that's to be expected, I guess.

Any appointment updates? I had my Glucose Screen yesterday and just anxiously awaiting the results. I met the new OB on staff yesterday and he's young (cute) and laid back. He threw me for a loop asking about what I planned for BC after having this baby I was like "deeeeerrrppp" We ended up talking it out and I touched on the fact that I'm 35 and not sure I don't want another baby and how we've used the rhythm method for the bulk of our time being married. He said it's just an effective form of BC as condoms and that if we've done it successfully, it's probably the best option. I feel good about it because if we want another kid, it will probably be quickly after this.

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary? I have to choose between hospitals. My OB practice moved to a hospital that will be opened in October and it's supposed to be nice and new and fancy schmancy. The hospital he moved from was great and that's where I had DS1. I loved my experience, so I'm thinking of sticking with the familiar. The new hospital is having an open house soon, so I will at least go take a tour.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it? Cancer. I have no idea if I relate or not. I'm not a signsy person.

binxybaby · August 2018

How far along are you? How are you feeling?
It's getting harder to remember strangely enough...but I believe I'm 24+1. I'm feeling relatively good. I've definitely been blessed with an easy, complication-free pregnancy. I just feel incredibly pregnant. I'm struggling to breathe at night. I'll wake up on my left side, but need to take several deep breaths because I feel like I'm suffocating. Seems strange that that's happening when I'm lying the correct way. My belly has started to bump into things too, which is startling and also highly entertaining to me.

Any appointment updates?
The dreaded glucose test is August 27th and I'm terrified of it. I really hope to pass. Otherwise, nothing on the horizon.

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
Rave/Dear Diary: Honestly, I feel like my relationship with my husband has gotten better while I'vem been pregnant. I was worried that the stress of it would put strain on our relationship, but I think the idea of having a common goal to work towards has strengthened our partnership. It's nice. I hope it continues when the sleepless nights and crying become a thing. That might just be wishful thinking though lol

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
I love astrology. I'm a Capricorn. Am I practical, ambitious, wise, disciplined, patient, pessimistic, and stubborn? I would say a lot of these traits ring true, but I also don't feel I'm as rigid as Capricorns are made out to be. I can be spontaneous, fun-loving and open-minded too. I also think I lack ambition when it comes to my career. I'm much more interested in becoming and being a good mom than pretty much anything else in my life.

kristah2 · August 2018

I can't believe we're all at the point of that dreaded glucose test!

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

24+2 - struggling as I'm hungry all the time but I also feel like a cow.
Any appointment updates?

Last apt was advised everything is looking good for little girl. They are debating adjusting my due date to 12/08 based on her size but I'm positive of conception date so who knows.
She said my placenta is low lying so I have to go back early October to see if it has moved at that point.
Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

I got a new job! I start Sept 19th. It's a 1 year contract position but of course I'll be going on leave end of November / early December pending if I go section or natural birth.
I did disclose to the person hiring that I was pregnant but I still feel guilty as she doesn't know just HOW pregnant. And I haven't talked to my new manager yet.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
I'm a Scorpio and I think I'm pretty dang close!

countrygirl624 · August 2018

@Jens_Hoes Is not even about the shower I want ... I honestly could care less. My SIL and I agreed to having it at my house as she was in charge of the shower and my MIL didn’t even ask me if it would be okay to have it at her house instead. She just told me without even including my SIL about anything. I’m not stressed just annoyed ... my husbands family is always drama crazies!!

@ab_canada My belly feels the same way! Like I ate a huge meal and it’s stretching and I can’t take a deep breath because of it. Also I realize I need more shirts as the “baggy” shirts pre-baby officially are retired and I need more maternity/bigger sizes.

hkom · August 2018

Wooo look at all the Scorpios! !

@maureenmce The accidental too-tight pants are the WORST! I've done that multiple times and it's miserable.

@texas_t I will probably ask them about a sleep aid tonight if I feel like I'm going to struggle again. H is bringing me pillows from home so hopefully that helps.

Jens_Hoes · August 2018

@texas_t I saw your other comment, thank you. I did gain more than the recommended amount last time too. When I talked with DH about it, he stated it doesn't matter how much you gain, it "melted off last time". I gave him a dirty look because it FAR from melted off lol I am super hoping you pass your GD screen. I'm terrified of mine.

@kristah2 congrats! what's the new job? when will you let them know you're almost 3rd trimester?

kristah2 · August 2018

@Jens_Hoes Thanks! It's with the federal government so it should be a decent job! I've been in the pool for a few months now (I actually found out I was pregnant right after the interview) and when they emailed me asking if I was interested in an upcoming position I disclosed I have become pregnant since the interview and if that was okay then of course I'd be interested.
When my new manager contact's me with next steps I'll probably disclose then that I'm pregnant and due December 2-8th and advise I'll be taking 13 months leave and cross my fingers she doesn't hate me

mag1cbeli3ver · August 2018

@countrygirl624 Sorry that your MIL is being a pain! I hope your SIL can keep her in check and you enjoy your shower. I meant to ask this last week - how was the Hall of Fame game a couple weeks ago? We watched on TV, but I feel like it would be so much cooler to experience in person!

@whitneyb89 +1 to feeling helpless and hating it! I'm also someone who doesn't like to just stand by and watch. I always feel obligated to jump in and help however I can, but now I'm restricted to the sidelines. No one lets me do anything, which gets kind of annoying!

@maureenmce I'm sorry to hear about your daughter and her sleeping problems lately, but you make a great point that she's going through so many big changes right now! Hopefully it all settles down (and soon)!

@ab_canada Hooray for working on the nursery! Is you sister a painter or something? It's so cool that she'll be doing a mural for you and LO!

@Jens_Hoes I am also soooo looking forward to all the fun fall weekend activities! I'm totally over summer and ready for everything fall.

@kristah2 Congrats on your new job! How exciting!

How far along are you? How are you feeling?

24 weeks 3 days! Most of the time I feel okay (except for at night), but if I go several days without doing yoga or squats, my lower back starts to hurt a lot.

Any appointment updates?

Glucose screening is on Aug. 31st, then I start biweekly appointments! How can that be true already?!

Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

Dear Diary: I'm so glad that I finally have hired all my new tutors for the fall semester! The whole process was way more stressful than normal and I've been testing and interviewing students since May! But yesterday I had my final interview and made all the position offers, so I feel like a big weight has been lifted.

GTKY: What is your astrology sign and do you relate to it?
Oh man - no other Pisces in this group?! I am a fish (and even have the pisces symbol as one of my tattoos) and I can definitely relate to that sign. I'm very emotional, day-dreamy, and artistic, and I absolutely love being in the water!
This question also made me wonder about baby bean, and it looks like most of our LO's will end up being Sagittarius (Nov. 22 - Dec. 21).

Jens_Hoes · August 2018

@kristah2 I am insanely jealous you get 13 months!!

kristah2 · August 2018

@Jens_Hoes technically only 12 but it's still a long time!! last one will be based on approval and without pay as my EI would have run out by then but I don't really want to go back right before Christmas.

Activebaby · August 2018

I’m 23+5 today. I keep forgetting how far along I am and having to refer to the app. Im feeling good. I’m tired but I think that’s due to my 2 and 4 year old and busy schedule more than pregnancy. I’ve been moody recently - feeling overwhelmed a lot.

Appts? My next appt is Monday (Glucose test). Not excited for that. With ds1 I was borderline for the 1 hr (failed), and had to take the 3 hour. For ds2 I think I took a 2 hour test. I think.... and passed. I do not want to drink that nasty drink.

R/R/DD: I’m not ready for the baby to come. (Earlier poster mentioned they were) I’m okay where I’m at feeling baby move and feeling okay. When baby comes I don’t have enough time off to cover leave (I’ll get leave, but not income). I knew this when getting pregnant, but it’s getting closer to reality. We will be fine- I just have to use my savings and I feel pretty clueless for how much birth costs will be. It was drastically different between ds1 and ds2. Also I just like being pregnant and I know it’s my last and I want it to stay just like it is (when it gets closer and I say the opposite- don’t judge me too hard).

Im a Libra. I think of Libra’s as always trying to be balanced. I think of myself that way- at least always trying to be that way!

ab_canada · August 2018

@mag1cbeli3ver
Yes, she is! She recently completed her PhD and while that one was more in sculpture, she is a talented painter.

countrygirl624 · August 2018

@mag1cbeli3ver Thanks - my MIL has been a pain the past three years ... I’m sure we’ll all survive, haha. The game itself wasn’t bad for a preseason game, got to see RGIII super close up. We were right in the end zone in a terrace space so there were high tops and regular tables to be comfy at. Food was pretty good and it was perfect weather! That’s awesome you’re doing yoga - I used to be a big time yogi but haven’t done any during this pregnancy.

maureenmce · August 2018

@texas_t Oh, I'm so sorry you've been dealing with sleep regression too, it is the WORST.

@Jens_Hoes My husband and I are going to try to brainstorm some solutions because, yes, we cannot sustain this once the new baby comes. But it's complicated because I think with all of the changes she's going through with preschool and me being pregnant, part of the issue is she wants me to physically be next to her. We had another very rough night last night and I was up from 4-5 trying to get her back in her crib (my husband tried, but she literally will scream mama until I go in there) and it just ended with her in bed with me, snuggled up and she slept peacefully. Every time I tried to transfer her, she woke and cried for me. I...hope this passes before the baby comes? But I'm worried it may intensify when he arrives. She's definitely a mama's baby and I am not sure how to address that. (And she is not a kid who responds well to cry it out for a variety of reasons, unfortunately.)

binxybaby · August 2018

@mag1cbeli3ver OMG...I forgot that biweekly appointments are starting soon! I think mine start as of 28 weeks. Weeeeeirrrrdddd.

hoosiermama-2 · August 2018

@Jens_Hoes Yes, I'm very cray cray in general. I just know that I'd fail the first test.

I feel you on the so much to do, so little time. Our guest room will become the nursery and my office will become the guest room. My office? Moving to a corner of our bedroom.

We'll probably cosleep for the first 4-6 months, so I keep telling myself there's not TOO much pressure to finish his nursery. But my mom is all about it.

@texas_t Also Cancer, also not signsy. Maybe that's one of the traits??

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