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Spotting after IUI?? TMI-pic attached

babyfaith09babyfaith09 member
edited July 2018 in Infertility

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  • babyfaith09babyfaith09 member
    edited July 2018

    I really am sorry, if I posted the spoiler in the wrong place.

    But thank you all for being so nice about it. I’m already in an emotional state, and then to be made to feel horrible about something like this?? I hated posting the pic in the first place, but when your just trying to find answers?? This is why I hate posting on these boards and typically only stick to the one fertility app where I have never seen a mean comment, even when someone posts a pic, or even at silly questions. Because a lot of these types of pics are posted on the app I have been apart of for two years. We just put, TMI in the heading.

    But  I have seen so many woman, sadly, bullied on these other boards for asking a question someone else things is common sense. So for me, instead of nicely saying, hey just make sure we can see the spoiler, or this is what you should have done instead, someone says WTF, and then someone posts a very "nice" meme. :/

    If I did it wrong, tell me nicely.
    Like im seriously almost in tears right now, because I was already on the verge.

    But thank you all for showing me that all woman in the infertility world, always stick together and are nice to each other.

    And to you all's pleasure, I believe this is the last time I will post on this site. I have seen women burned in the past on this one, and bullied, and I have been burned myself for no reason. But despite the comments, I wish you all the best and hope you get your BFPs!

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  • wishiwaspreggowishiwaspreggo member
    @babyfaith09 - I'm a solid IUI veteran after having done 6 of them so I'll answer your question. Spotting is normal and not something to be concerned with. The catheter goes through your cervix and into your uterus. It's likely the catheter irritated your uterine lining a bit and you had some bleeding after the fact. If it's brown, that's because the blood is old and was a result of the IUI which was 5 days before. Implantation usually happens sometime between 8-12 DP IUI. Just take it easy, try to keep your mind occupied, and take a pregnancy test 14 DP IUI. That's the best way to stay sane during the TWW. And I understand, IUI is such a crap shoot. It sucks not knowing what's going on, whether or not the egg fertilized, etc. It helped me to have a BFN plan so I could wallow in self-pity afterwards. A good bottle of wine and a fancy chocolate bar helped me through the rough BFNs.
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  • babyfaith09babyfaith09 member

    @Wishiwaspreggo - Thank you so much! It's so easy to question every little thing. I have pre af spotting every cycle, so it always worries me. But I will do my best to relax and stop thinking about it. A good bottle of wine sounds like a good plan should I get a BFN.

    Thank you!! :)

    Me: 25 ** DH: 27
    TTC #1 since July 2016
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