January 2019 Moms

UO (Unpopular Opinion) 7/12

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Re: UO (Unpopular Opinion) 7/12

  • The Beastie Boys are terrible. 
    U2 is overrated. 
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  • haha I really like the Beastie Boys but agree about U2. I personally hate the Beatles -- terrible songwriting, worse vocals. Always off key, drives me bananas.

    Andrea -- FTM at 39!


  • @wkuandrea I'm learning to appreciate the Beatles as I get older but I definitely listen to their remastered stuff that's been edited. lol 

    @UnbreakableKimmySchmidt I always got their plain black ones. So comfy. 
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  • @wkuandrea I also hate the Beatles. I think it’s my internal backlash to the OBSESSION most people have w them. 

    I get a really bad vibe from adults who like Disney - like the women who drag their husbands and all wear matching shirts and have Mickey on their credit cards. I am confused about why grown adults would be so into something for children like there’s some nostalgia and longing for innocence that’s completely escaping me there. 
  • @UnbreakableKimmySchmidt I’m actually a really big fan of lularoe leggings... and lularoe clothes in general. I have a ton of the different styles and wear a Carly with leggings to work most days. 

    I guess my UO is that I love bold prints on clothes. I can appreciate basic black, but I find most solid colors boring. And I like to mix prints.
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  •  you're breaking my heart @UnbreakableKimmySchmidt:D  I actually love them because they are ugly... but I hate the company (I used to sell LuLaRoe and got burned BAD). So I'll jump on and +1 you out of principle ;) 


    Andrea -- FTM at 39!


  • Didn’t expect there to be so much love for LLR. I do have to say some of their dresses are cute but I can’t stand the wild printed leggings!
  • I think LLR the company is awful but I wish I could get such comfy leggings anywhere else! I don’t own a ton of their stuff but what I do own is the best.

    Also I LOVE Disney. I mean. I don’t make H and I wear matching shirts. I don’t have a Disney credit card. But I am always down for a Disney vacation. 

    My UO is that I think the show This is Us is majorly overrated. 
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  • I never have people try to sell me MLM stuff. I wonder if I put off some vibe that keeps them away, lol.
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  • DH and I will NEVER play Kidz Bop for our kids. We’d rather they listen to the original versions of songs. And if the original versions aren’t appropriate for whatever reason, there are plenty of children’s/inoffensive songs to choose from on YouTube/Pandora/Spotify these days. 
  • @UnbreakableKimmySchmidt agreed. I actually do have one pair of black LLR leggings that are super comfy but pretty much everything else makes me cringe when I look at it.  That being said, I got some shirts from my sister when she gave me her hand me down maternity clothes and I wear them when I need an ego boost because I am a 36G and never been particularly skinny and the size XS is like a tent on me. 

    @Potterphile I'm also weirded out by adults obsessed with Disney. My cousin and her husband have left their kids at home and gone to Disney World just the two of them on multiple occasions.  Aside from that being SO sad for the kids, I just don't get why you would choose a place FULL of other people's screaming children as your "adults only" vacation.
  • yay glad that other people like LLR stuff -- I wear the Carly dress (short sleeves, like a big tent) all summer long. And the leggings really are the most comfy. There are definitely some ugly prints out there -- but I'm with @DLpanda08 I love to mix prints! My fave pair of leggings (outside of black, obviously) are red with blue pigs on them. 

    +1 for weird Disney obsessed folks (specifically grown women). I like toys and cartoons and stuff, but some people take that Disney thing way too far. 

    Other things getting on my nerves lately: women that are further along than me but only look like they may have had a big lunch. I have a friend due in Nov that still looks like NOTHING is going on. She also already had a baby shower. 

    Last UO: pregnant women wearing heels. Why? Your balance is already wonky, your knees are in danger because your joints are relaxed, your feet are swelling... why? 

    Andrea -- FTM at 39!


  • Sitcoms are rarely ever funny. 
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  • @Potterphile the adult Disney obsession is also something I don't understand... I am excited to take my children someday & see their reactions for sure, but it always struck me as weird when couples travel to Disney just the two of them (especially honeymooning there seems odd to me). I've always felt like, if you're going to have kids that's a family vacation you're probably going to take with them, I'd definitely prioritize other vacations/destinations for couples-only trips.
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  • @BitterBetty12 nooo I love this is us lol. It's one of the few new shows I watch.

    Also I've never beem to Disney but I can't wait to go and take DS and kid #2. We actually were already planning a trip for March with some of our friends ( one of whom works for the coast guard so he gets some nice discounts ). And then we found out I was pregnant with baby #2. I am actually really bummed that we are going to have to postpone our trip but I'm not sure taking a 3 month old to Disney is a good idea. Also it will be after my maternity leave so a lot of our savings is going toward that 
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  • Lu la roe leggings are ugly. Personally glad that fad is on it’s way out. 
    Agreed! 

    Related UO: leggings are not pants. It's one thing with a long shirt that covers the butt (though I still don't love the look), but when I was in law school I would see so many undergrads wearing leggings and short shirts (and $5k purses, but that's a whole different issue). It was so hard to resist the urge to suggest they go put on some real clothes. 


  • edited July 2018
    @AshVA I used to be firmly in the leggings are not pants camp too.. Until I was pregnant with DS. Then I embraced it  :D

    ETA: My butt is always covered, though.
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  • @AliKay20 we were at our mall to see a kid’s show and B-a-B was madness! DD has so many stuffed animals she never plays with and won’t wait in line. I would rather pay full price too (or get the grandparents to take her! Haha)
  • skilouiseskilouise member
    edited July 2018
    @AshVA I used to be firmly in the leggings are not pants camp too.. Until I was pregnant with DS. Then I embraced it  :D

    ETA: My butt is always covered, though.
    I totally understand the appeal for pregnant ladies, though I still think think long shirts are necessary. With the undergrads it was ridiculous.... if a stranger walking behind you on the sidewalk can tell with a casual glance that your thong has a lace trim (true story), you need to put more clothes on lol

    ETA: I fully intend to wear thick pregnancy leggings under work dresses in the winter, because dresses > pants.  I'm hoping that will be warm enough.  I normally wear black or white ski base layer pants (basically thick, super warm leggings) under dresses so I can wear dresses all winter, but I suspect I *may* have some trouble finding maternity ski base layers lol.


  • KLS123KLS123 member
    edited July 2018
    @Potterphile I was just thinking as I read your Disney UO "well what about all those adults who are obsessed with Harry Potter which is technically for children" and then I looked at your screen name and I had a good giggle at the irony :D

    FWIW I agree it's weird. Also having grown up with a sister who is obsessed with weird kids stuff I find it super annoying. She put an Eeyore bumper sticker on the car we had to share in high school...my parents let her leave it on there to try and save the peace and boy was I pissed
  • Another UO: The trend of “microblogging” on Instagram annoys the heck out of me. I just want to look at your pictures, not read 2 paragraphs on how fast your kid is growing up. 
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    DS2: Jan 2019
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  • @saltedcaramel518 I like the microblogging. A lot of people post nature shots or do astrophotography that I follow and I really like knowing where they were and what they were doing.  It's a nice little back story.  I don't follow people with kids or it would probably bug me too though. There is a small handful of my friends kids I actually care about,  and they don't blast IG with pictures. 
  • I am a microblogging instamom...yikes! I also do not overpost. Maybe two posts a week. Mainly about motherhood but others just on lifestyle. It’s actually connected me to a lot of other moms on Instagram - some local and others not. I just really enjoy photography and use it as my creative outlet. 
  • Also a microblogging insta-Mom. Whoops! I only do posts like that once a month at most though. 

    Mans @DLpanda08 hit everything I love about Disney. It reallyis a resort with SO MUCH to do. I literally love every second of my trip. And h and I did go there on our honeymoon. It was perfect. It really isn’t just for kids. They have clubs and fine dining and shows. It’s great. 
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  • @KLS123 I was wondering if someone would bring that up  :D but I don’t have a Harry Potter credit card so I’m saying it’s fine. I don’t think it’s weird for people to be fans of things (even things I don’t like or have interest in- I’m talking to YOU Dr. Who fans) but I don’t GET Disney like WHO IS MICKEY like what is his personality? Does he say words? What is there to like or identify with except the IDEA of childhood or make believe. The resort is fine but do you have 15 pairs of mouse ears?  I don’t think a loose liking of it is odd (I don’t want to stab Winnie The Pooh or anything) but there’s a level of obsession w old school Disney that’s just incomprehensible for me given the subject matter and the lack of depth in the subject matter. 

    @AshVA I was wondering when I would stop identifying with you on something. I must insist that leggings ARE pants. I wore em in law school and I wear them now. Might even be wearing them today idk - what’s the difference between stretchy maternity pants w no button/zipper and leggings? I’m not sure. 
  • @Potterphile Hey now I love everything HP too. :D Plus tons of other nerdy stuff! But I didn’t think DubCompanionGryffindorJediHobbitOfWesteros would be an appropriate SN....

    Oh shoot, missed opportunities! 
  • Definitely alll about wearing leggings as pants! I think as long as they're thick enough that you can't see every dimple/panty line they're no worse than tight skinny jeans.  I live in a neighborhood with lots of college students and stay at home moms that just wear yoga clothes all day every day so I don't even think twice about it.
  • @Potterphile :D Definitely lol'ed at your response

    I do agree there's a fine line between leggings vs things like yoga pants, depending on the thickness. My biggest issue is with the really thin leggings that leave little to the imagination (I wasn't exaggerating earlier when I mentioned being able to see the outline of the lace trim on some undergrad's underwear).


  • I LOVE Disney! If it was acceptable to wear a Belle dress to Disneyland I totally would. I asked DH if we had a girl if we can have a Beauty and the Beast nursery. He said no :( 

    I thought leggings weren’t pants until I got pregnant with DS. I still wear long shirts and over them. 
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  • @wkuandrea I would agree about heels in most contexts, however a good friend of mine loves them. She never had ankle weakness or balance issues in pregnancy, and so wore heels until she was about 8 months (though towards the end it was boots with a thick heel).  So, I guess it works for some people.

    One day while she was out walking at lunch, she had a complete stranger pull her car over to the side of the road to yell at her about wearing heels. 

    @AliKay20 I totally agree about the Build A Bear insanity.  I read an article that said some people waited in line for 3-6 hours, all to save a couple bucks on a stuffed bear.  I think that's just crazypants.




  • I love Disney. We never got to go there growing up, and when I was 23 my mom took me and my little sister there. I'll never forget seeing the castle and watching shows. I'll never forget the good meals or the fireworks. I have a few souvenirs, like photo frames, shirts, etc. My H and I went the first year we were dating and it was a great trip. We ate at good places, ran the jogging trails, drank at epcot. I love it.
  • I , too, love Disneyland. But I've also never understood the crazy obsession of adults having Mickey everything. I wanted to buy an Ariel shirt once but the people I was with talked me out of it, lol, but I ended up buying my daughter the cutest ariel sweatshirt. I am lucky enough to live a few hours from Disneyland so my daughter and I went more than I count the first 4 years of her life. Then it just got crazy expensive and I couldn't do it anymore. 

    There is definitely a difference between loving Disneyland and being Disney obsessed. But I understand it because it truly is an amazing place.
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