July 2018 Moms
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WTF Wednesday
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Re: WTF Wednesday
Ok this might be hard to follow due to the amount of generalizing I need to do...but i gotta vent about work
Client exec mandated a freeze on certain activities in agreement with our exec - well message never got to the customer general level. Ridiculous email thread started at 9:30 where I had to be messenger of the news, customer blew up and involved other customers by 947, who then involved others by 10 all demanding to know why they weren't informed and who on their side requested this... Part of my fellow management replies at 1020, 1022 customer goes after a DIFFERENT one of my employees saying he knows nothing about this freeze so that PM starts pinging me at 1030....then by 1045 the other unrelated customers who were brought in went to other people on my side who are pinging and calling me! DUDES. So much drama and BS because they can't communicate down line and that's apparently my problem. Suffice it to say HR spiked to 134 while sitting in bed on the phone....so now i'm cooling off with an early lunch and arnold palmer (do those ever come with liquor? it's virgin FTR if they do)
My wtf for the day: my freaking attitude. I’m grouchy today. I spent the morning furiously cleaning or trying to clean and it already doesn’t look like i did anything thanks to DD’s complete inability to only have one thing out at a time. I’m entirely too pregnant to keep picking up after her all the time.
Then my DS was goofing off at swim lessons and that ticked me off because he was being disrespectful.
And I’m a little anxious because a friend is coming in town today and I’d love to see her but it’s kinda rainy so idk that we could go to the park and my house is kind of filthy even though I vacuumed and picked up.
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
My WTF about work is minor, but I am annoyed because one of my bosses is offline, the other is at a conference, and I need one of them to tell me where I can locate a contract that my client needs.
Bigger WTF though...said client wants a call at 6:30am. WTF. The only good thing about it is that I am going to schedule it on Friday, work 6:30 am to 10:30 am and take the rest of the day off. Boom!
The other night my sis and I were talking, and she asked if I or DH could text while my c-section was going on. Um, nope!!!! And she seemed hurt by it, but I’m like, wtf, we’ll call you afterward.
My mom has been incessantly emailing me saying that she “needs to know” my health status. And no matter how many times I say I’m fine and the baby is too and the pregnancy is progressing normally, it’s not good enough for her. So after the umpteenth email asking for more details I told her that her anxiety was not helping me out in my last days of pregnancy, and that if she has any further questions, she can research the answers herself. I mean, wtf, it’s not like I don’t have a little anxiety over my first baby myself.
My boss wtf is kind of funny but strange. He asked if I was coming into work on July 2nd, the day of my c-section, because it’s been scheduled for 2 pm. I said that because of fasting, etc., I wouldn’t be...but really, why would I anyway? You can tell he doesn’t have any kids!
Started off zapped after handling family emergency stuff last night until late.
I was supposed to start working at 10/10:15 so I scheduled DS' nap around that, then it was pushed to 11, then again to 11:30, then didn't start until 11:45.
Had to call in for a full on intervention for my dad at 12.
My back went out almost completely at 1.
3:30 DS crawls onto my lap and shows me his arm-- something is going on with his mosquito bite and its, quarter sized, bumpy and red, and swollen so large it's like a golf ball is in his arm (seriously makes it look broken), and is tough.
The baby I watch has a bug and woke up with a 103 degree fever.
Now I am trying to distract myself from the fact that I cannot stand, sit, or lay down without unbelievable pain, while I wait for DH to come home with DS from the doctor's office and ignoring all the calls from various family trying to talk to me about my dad and brother.
Today. SUCKS.
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018