Pregnant after IF

2nd Trimester Check In- Week of June 18th

chicandbubblychicandbubbly member
edited June 2018 in Pregnant after IF
How far along?
Appts this coming week?
How're you feeling this week?
Rants/Raves:
GTKY:  What is your favorite baby purchase so far, or what are you most excited to buy? 

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Mommies to be:

@sarzee2 EDD 9/10 GREEN! 

@adirat EDD 9/15  BOY! 

@marimarii 9/30 GIRL!

@chicandbubbly 10/01 GIRL!

@halfanewt 10/3 GREEN!

@Klyn7 10/6 GREEN!

@dragonfly6191 10/14 B/G TWINS!!!

@wildrainbow 11/11 BOY!

@mechelita44 11/15 GREEN!

@radmom27 11/16 BOY!

@josiepasta 11/27 TWIN BOYS!! 

@eabrahamson 11/28 BOY!

@mag1cbeli3ver 12/1 finding out! 

@joslynj11 12/1 TWINS!

@prudence9-2 12/6

@Ilky 12/12

@decemberdoll27 12/15

Please, also let me know if I can add any updates to the list, and include your EDD if it's your first time posting here! ❤❤❤


Me: 28, DH: 30 Married July 2014  DX: Severe MFI- 3 failed IUI's, IVF #1 Egg retrieval June 4th 2016, 5 day transfer- BFP Baby Boy! EDD 2/25/2017. Our sweet miracle Carter Bennett arrived 2/12/2017 6 lbs, 2 oz 19 inches. <3 Surprise BFP!!! Baby Girl due 10/1/2018.


Re: 2nd Trimester Check In- Week of June 18th

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  • How far along?
    19+1

    Appts this coming week?
    None this week

    How're you feeling this week?
    I tire or very easily, so I have to carefully plan outings, etc. BH are hitting hardcore and I'm not a fan at all! It's so annoying!

    Rants/Raves:
    We had our first AS at the MFM last week and baby boy looked good! He was very stubborn and the tech had a hard time getting pics of his heart. She poked him, I practically contorted myself and still he didnt move. Stubborn seems to be his middle name. 

    GTKY:  What is your favorite baby purchase so far, or what are you most excited to buy? 
    I dont know. We have quite a few things from when ds was a baby. We do need a crib, but FIL is buying that. Mostly, I think just getting a few newer newborn outfits and decking baby boy out in Aubrn stuff since he will be born during football season. 
  • How far along?
    16 weeks 2 days!

    Appts this coming week?
    Nothing for a couple of weeks...

    How're you feeling this week?
    I've been having leg cramps, especially at night when trying to sleep. No fun! And RLP seems to be happening more frequently now. Other than that, mostly ok.

    Rants/Raves:
    I love my husband! Honestly, I was never totally sure he really wanted a baby or that he'd be a good dad. But since we got our BFP, he's been so adorable! He talks to my belly and reads stories to the baby. And he's been extra father-like with our nephews and some friends' kids. I think he's going to be an awesome dad!

    GTKY:  What is your favorite baby purchase so far, or what are you most excited to buy?
    It isn't really a purchase. But my favorite thing for baby bean so far is my old lamp that I used when I was a baby/young child! I had it in a tote in our basement with some other random things and I got it out a couple of weeks ago. It still works and I'm totally going to use it in the nursery! It's a plush mama bear holder her baby bear and it plays music (it doesn't necessarily go with the rest of the nursery theme, but I don't really care). Such a fun thing to connect us together!
    Pregnancy TickerMe: 33, DH: 41
    Started IF Feb. 2014
    PCOS & MFI (low sperm count and motility)
    3 Femara cycles w/natural intercourse over summer 2014, BFN
    1 Clomid cycle w/natural intercourse Nov. 2014, BFN
    IUI March 2015, BFN
    IUI June 2015, BFN
    IUI Oct. 2015, BFN
    IVF Oct. 2016, fresh transfer, 2 day-3 embryos, BFN; nothing to freeze
    IVF Nov. 2017, fresh transfer, 2 day-5 blasts, BFP; ectopic; 1 blast frozen
    FET March 2018, 1 day-5 blast, BFP!
    Babysizer Geeky Pregnancy Tracker



  • @DecemberDoll27 I'm glad you're able to find baby's HB on the doppler! I keep going back and forth about getting one. Every time I convince myself to get one, I talk to DH about it and he talks me out of it! He just doesn't want it to be a problem if I can't find the HB for some reason. If you don't mind sharing, what brand did you end up getting? And did you get the gel stuff for it, or are you using something else (like aloe or something)? Thanks!
    Pregnancy TickerMe: 33, DH: 41
    Started IF Feb. 2014
    PCOS & MFI (low sperm count and motility)
    3 Femara cycles w/natural intercourse over summer 2014, BFN
    1 Clomid cycle w/natural intercourse Nov. 2014, BFN
    IUI March 2015, BFN
    IUI June 2015, BFN
    IUI Oct. 2015, BFN
    IVF Oct. 2016, fresh transfer, 2 day-3 embryos, BFN; nothing to freeze
    IVF Nov. 2017, fresh transfer, 2 day-5 blasts, BFP; ectopic; 1 blast frozen
    FET March 2018, 1 day-5 blast, BFP!
    Babysizer Geeky Pregnancy Tracker



  • @chicandbubbly I started having those spasms nightly last week too and I got a massage on Saturday. She went to town on my calves which was painful but I haven’t had any spasms the last 2 nights so that may have been the trick! 
    TTC since May 2013
    Mild PCOS, Compound Heterozygous MTHFR
    No Folic acid/pharmaceuticals/supplements (too many to list- private message me if interested), IVIL infusion
  • @mag1cbeli3ver my DH was the same way, he was initially against buying it. But now he loves it and we listen to the HB together every day. I bought very cheap $50 sonoline b from babydoppler.com. it came with batteries and some gel. We are almost out of gel now so I ordered more from Amazon. I was scared that I will be freaked out every time I have trouble finding the HB but so far so good. And it gets easier every day. I watched a couple of youtube videos about using this device. It has been very helpful! But baby moves a lot so you find it for 30 seconds and it disappears and you have to try to locate the LO again.
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • Ugh sorry to hear I’ve got some company with the leg cramps!! Welcome to all of the new ladies to 2nd tri! 

    Me: 28, DH: 30 Married July 2014  DX: Severe MFI- 3 failed IUI's, IVF #1 Egg retrieval June 4th 2016, 5 day transfer- BFP Baby Boy! EDD 2/25/2017. Our sweet miracle Carter Bennett arrived 2/12/2017 6 lbs, 2 oz 19 inches. <3 Surprise BFP!!! Baby Girl due 10/1/2018.


  • IlkyIlky member
    How far along? 14w5d

    Appts this coming week? None until July 2nd

    How're you feeling this week? Headaches come and go and sometimes just lingers in the background. Its very painful to the point I want to cut off my head. Been trying ice packs on my neck and seems like they help. Other than that I feel hard spots in my belly and think there maybe more than one fibroid. I am really hoping it wont cause any issues. Also, praying the placenta has already moved to a better spot. I am not spotting or cramping anymore so thats wonderful!

    Rants/Raves:
    GTKY:  What is your favorite baby purchase so far, or what are you most excited to buy? I haven't purchased anything yet. I mean nothing! I dont know I guess we went through so much hardship I feel like I dont want to get dissapointed so I'll wait a couple more months. Though, I've been asking around to see what is really essential since I am very practical and dont want to go all out with the nursery (maybe later my mind will change but for now I'm pretty relaxed). 

    For those of you are having leg cramps, have you tried magnesium oil? I made my own but you can buy online too. Magnesium helps tremendously especially when applied externally. I had one very bad cramp which woke me up from my sleep and I was about to scream.  I used the oil and havent had anymore (knock on wood). 
  • Hi Girls!  I posted a bit in the First Trimester boards, but I've had a pretty busy month, so this is my first time posting in the 2nd Trimester board.

    How far along?
    17 weeks
    EDD November 27th, 2018 (pregnant with twins!!)

    Appts this coming week?
    I just had my anatomy ultrasound today and got to see the babies.  They were finally able to confirm gender (since my genetic blood tests came back inconclusive) - I'm having TWO BOYS!!!!  I was hoping they'd be both the same gender so they can grow up to be best friends (and selfishly, so they can do all the same sports and activities as kids and I don't have to drive to two different places all the time).  Now I can finally start thinking seriously about baby names!

    How're you feeling this week?
    Good, but I'm with most of you who are having leg cramps at night.  I normally stretch a lot in my sleep, but man, my calves cramp up good, it's so painful!!!  I've been doing extra stretches throughout the day.  I bought a big U-shaped pregnancy pillow and for something reason that seems to help.  It also helps with my sore back when I wake up in the mornings.

    Rants/Raves:
    Tomorrow my DH and I leave for our babymoon - 2 weeks in Scandinavia (Denmark, Sweden, Finland and Norway).  I'm so excited!!!

    GTKY:  What is your favorite baby purchase so far, or what are you most excited to buy? 
    Haven't bought anything yet, but I'm itching to buy the stroller and car seats.  The strollers for twins are crazy, so I've been doing a lot of research and am ready to pull the trigger... just need to make sure my DH is on board before I make the $600 purchase.
    Me: 32, DH: 34
    3 fur babies - Cali: 10, Lily: 8, Gus: 1
    TTC: 2+ Years
    Dx: Unexplained Infertility
    IVF March 2018: BFP Twins due 11/27/2018 

  • How far along? 24+5
    Appts this coming week? Midwife appt tomorrow
    How're you feeling this week? 
    Physically fine, but it’s 85 in the PNW so no AC and I’m grumpy. 
    Rants/Raves: so hot! But only 2 days of school left! 
    GTKY:  What is your favorite baby purchase so far, or what are you most excited to buy? 
    Haven’t purchased anything yet, but I’ve been scrounging for freebies on Facebook :) for practicalities sake, I’m excited for the jogging stroller and crib. I’m also super excited to start knitting a baby blanket! 
  • Wow @josiepasta that babymoon sounds amazing!!! Welcome to 2nd tri! 

    Me: 28, DH: 30 Married July 2014  DX: Severe MFI- 3 failed IUI's, IVF #1 Egg retrieval June 4th 2016, 5 day transfer- BFP Baby Boy! EDD 2/25/2017. Our sweet miracle Carter Bennett arrived 2/12/2017 6 lbs, 2 oz 19 inches. <3 Surprise BFP!!! Baby Girl due 10/1/2018.


  • @iiky thanks for the tip about magnesium oil! I did take a bath with my pink stork bath salts which have magnesium in them and it definitely was less painful last night. I’ll have to look into the oil. 

    Anyone that likes taking baths check these out! https://www.amazon.com/Pink-Stork-Flakes-Pregnancy-Magnesium/dp/B00SP89RMG

    Me: 28, DH: 30 Married July 2014  DX: Severe MFI- 3 failed IUI's, IVF #1 Egg retrieval June 4th 2016, 5 day transfer- BFP Baby Boy! EDD 2/25/2017. Our sweet miracle Carter Bennett arrived 2/12/2017 6 lbs, 2 oz 19 inches. <3 Surprise BFP!!! Baby Girl due 10/1/2018.


  • IlkyIlky member
    chicandbubbly  you're very welcome. I'm happy it helped. It's basically melted magnesium chloride flakes. Ancient minerals make good ones (check amazon). You can make it into oil by melting it in distilled water or just use the flakes in bath as you did or foot soak. 
  • It’s been a long while since I’ve been on here. So glad that everyone is still moving along great.

    How far along?
    20w1d with Twin Boys EDD Nov 6 but really hoping for hubby’s birthday late Oct.

    Appts this coming week? None this week.

    How're you feeling this week?
    This horrible after taste is becoming a pain in the butt. I can’t enjoy anything without having to mouthwash after or chew a gum uuuggghhh. Sleep is still uncomfortable but hey, it comes with pregnancy.

    Rants/Raves:
    WE STILL HAVE NO PLACE TO LIVE YET!!!! I hate apartment hunting and we have to be out in less than 2 months. Also my perinatal appointment got rescheduled to four weeks from now due to my drs office eff up!!!! I’ll be almost 6 months pregnant by the time my twins gets fully checked out smt.

    GTKY:  What is your favorite baby purchase so far, or what are you most excited to buy? 
    I haven’t bought anything yet since everyone says to wait until after my shower. I am excited to get a pregnancy pillow. I need to experience a good nights rest!
    Me:28 DH:33
    01/10/12 : First ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    Dx:PCOS
    2012-2015: TTC #2 (2 rounds of clomid + metformin)
    04/13/15: Second ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    02/29/16: Third ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    Tubal Infertility
    Married: 2/11/17  <3
    7/21/17 : Consult with RE  :#
    10/12/17 : Second consult with a different RE
    1st IVF Cycle scheduled for Feb 2018
    02/13/18 : ER
    (22 follies,16m Eggs, 11 fert, 5 blasts)
    02/18/18 : ET 
    - 2 beautiful blast 3AA,2AA (highest quality)
    02/27/18 : First Beta - 193!!!
    03/01/18 : Second Beta - 546


  • @mrsa2017 Definitely buy the pregnancy pillow! I love it (and I def wouldn't wait til the shower! Lol!)
    Pregnancy TickerMe: 33, DH: 41
    Started IF Feb. 2014
    PCOS & MFI (low sperm count and motility)
    3 Femara cycles w/natural intercourse over summer 2014, BFN
    1 Clomid cycle w/natural intercourse Nov. 2014, BFN
    IUI March 2015, BFN
    IUI June 2015, BFN
    IUI Oct. 2015, BFN
    IVF Oct. 2016, fresh transfer, 2 day-3 embryos, BFN; nothing to freeze
    IVF Nov. 2017, fresh transfer, 2 day-5 blasts, BFP; ectopic; 1 blast frozen
    FET March 2018, 1 day-5 blast, BFP!
    Babysizer Geeky Pregnancy Tracker



  • @mag1cbeli3ver so ordering that! A friend told me it’s great for after birth as well, if you have a C Section.... I am itching to purchase something but I’ll wait until after we find a new apartment. I want to at least set up a crib for them.
    Me:28 DH:33
    01/10/12 : First ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    Dx:PCOS
    2012-2015: TTC #2 (2 rounds of clomid + metformin)
    04/13/15: Second ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    02/29/16: Third ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    Tubal Infertility
    Married: 2/11/17  <3
    7/21/17 : Consult with RE  :#
    10/12/17 : Second consult with a different RE
    1st IVF Cycle scheduled for Feb 2018
    02/13/18 : ER
    (22 follies,16m Eggs, 11 fert, 5 blasts)
    02/18/18 : ET 
    - 2 beautiful blast 3AA,2AA (highest quality)
    02/27/18 : First Beta - 193!!!
    03/01/18 : Second Beta - 546


  • @mag1cbeli3ver which pregnancy pillow do you have? I bought one from Amazon and it is getting delivered today but I am a picky sleeper so I need all the opinions I can get!
    Me 30, DH 39
    TTC since Aug 2015, 
    BFP Apr 2017 - late diagnosed EP, right tube removed, left tube scarred.
    Dx: tubal IF
    IVF Sept 2017, 7 R, 6M, 6F- 4 blasts, 1 transferred fresh - CP
    FET #1 Dec 2017- BFN
    FET #2 Jan 2018- CP
    FET #3 BFP!!! EDD 12/15/2018!
  • @DecemberDoll27 @mag1cbeli3ver I got the snoogle few days ago. But I’m gonna return it. It is not built for short women (im 5’0”) and it also got really hot during the night. And one night I woke up in the middle of the night with hip pains. (I only used it for 2 nights). 
    TTC history in spoiler box:
    Me: 42, single
    Hysteroscopy: 2013
    IUI #1-2: 2013 BFN
    Surgery 10/2015: Planned to start trying again but had a surgery. (Not related to fertility)
    Surgery 5/2016: Planned to start trying again but had another surgery. (Not related to fertility)
    IUI  #3-5 (with Clomid): summer 2016 BFN
    IVF #1: 11/2016. 30R; 21M; 20F; 8B (6 day5 & 2 day6); 4 normal after PGS
    Medicated FET #1: 1/31/2017 transferred 1 embryo 3AA. BFP. Embryo stopped growing at 6w 1d. MUA at 9w 3d.
    Medicated FET #2June 2017 - cancelled...
    Hysteroscopy #2: June 2017
    Medicated FET #2: 8/7/2017 transferred 1 embryo 5BB. BFP. Ended in CP.
    Medicated FET #3: 10/11/2017 transferred 1 embryo 3AA. BFN
    ERA: December 2017 - need an extra 12 hours of PIO
    Medicated FET #4: 1/24/2018 transferred 1 embryo 4AA. BFN
    Out of embryos.  :'(
    IVF #2: 03/2018.

  • @DecemberDoll27 this is the one I got. A Queen Rose. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072NZLT27/ref=sspa_mw_detail_2?psc=1
    I love it! I was originally gonna go with the snoogle like @prudence9-2, but I liked that the Queen Rose was u-shaped instead of c-shaped, if that makes sense! I've been using it for about 3 weeks now and have no regrets!
    Pregnancy TickerMe: 33, DH: 41
    Started IF Feb. 2014
    PCOS & MFI (low sperm count and motility)
    3 Femara cycles w/natural intercourse over summer 2014, BFN
    1 Clomid cycle w/natural intercourse Nov. 2014, BFN
    IUI March 2015, BFN
    IUI June 2015, BFN
    IUI Oct. 2015, BFN
    IVF Oct. 2016, fresh transfer, 2 day-3 embryos, BFN; nothing to freeze
    IVF Nov. 2017, fresh transfer, 2 day-5 blasts, BFP; ectopic; 1 blast frozen
    FET March 2018, 1 day-5 blast, BFP!
    Babysizer Geeky Pregnancy Tracker



  • @mag1cbeli3ver yeah, I think I should get a U shaped pillow. Does it got hot during the night?
    TTC history in spoiler box:
    Me: 42, single
    Hysteroscopy: 2013
    IUI #1-2: 2013 BFN
    Surgery 10/2015: Planned to start trying again but had a surgery. (Not related to fertility)
    Surgery 5/2016: Planned to start trying again but had another surgery. (Not related to fertility)
    IUI  #3-5 (with Clomid): summer 2016 BFN
    IVF #1: 11/2016. 30R; 21M; 20F; 8B (6 day5 & 2 day6); 4 normal after PGS
    Medicated FET #1: 1/31/2017 transferred 1 embryo 3AA. BFP. Embryo stopped growing at 6w 1d. MUA at 9w 3d.
    Medicated FET #2June 2017 - cancelled...
    Hysteroscopy #2: June 2017
    Medicated FET #2: 8/7/2017 transferred 1 embryo 5BB. BFP. Ended in CP.
    Medicated FET #3: 10/11/2017 transferred 1 embryo 3AA. BFN
    ERA: December 2017 - need an extra 12 hours of PIO
    Medicated FET #4: 1/24/2018 transferred 1 embryo 4AA. BFN
    Out of embryos.  :'(
    IVF #2: 03/2018.

  • IlkyIlky member
    I have the Queen Rose brand u-shaped pillow as well. I tried it for a week and couldn't sleep, I get suffocated (I dont like close quarters) and felt very uncomfortable. But, it could be just me, I cant even sleep with a pillow between my legs, talk about a picky sleeper! I dont think it keeps you hot becasue of the material, more so because it tucks you in and there is no air going through. Anyhow, I was sleeping just fine without it but recently was waking up with alot of back pain and my midwife told me I should start using it NOW. lol I took the pillow out again to try and last night was not bad at all. I pretty much didnt cover myself which helped to keep cool. I do agree with @mag1cbeli3ver that u shape make more sense than snoogle. 
  • @Ilky I can totally see that! I actually kind of like being almost wrapped up by the pillow. I find it comforting! But I can see how some would find it suffocating, for sure. @prudence9-2 I also agree with what Ilky said about the heat. This particular pillow does get hot bc there's no airflow really as you're almost completely surrounded. The celling fan helps a lot in keeping me cool.
    Pregnancy TickerMe: 33, DH: 41
    Started IF Feb. 2014
    PCOS & MFI (low sperm count and motility)
    3 Femara cycles w/natural intercourse over summer 2014, BFN
    1 Clomid cycle w/natural intercourse Nov. 2014, BFN
    IUI March 2015, BFN
    IUI June 2015, BFN
    IUI Oct. 2015, BFN
    IVF Oct. 2016, fresh transfer, 2 day-3 embryos, BFN; nothing to freeze
    IVF Nov. 2017, fresh transfer, 2 day-5 blasts, BFP; ectopic; 1 blast frozen
    FET March 2018, 1 day-5 blast, BFP!
    Babysizer Geeky Pregnancy Tracker



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