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Re: Product Spotlight - Cribs, travel cribs, sleeping surfaces
Travel: We use a pack n play. Totally worth the purchase for us because our families live 2.5 hours away, and we visit them often. DS is 2 and is just now trying to climb out of it. The one we have has the bassinet attachment for the top, but we never used it.
Rock n play: Everyone’s holy grail
So, does anyone have a suggestion on a flat bassinet? I’ve heard good things about the Halo Bassinest and Arm’s Reach co sleeper.
OR has anyone put their babies in the crib from day 1? I’m a bit intimidated to try that, but baby’s room is steps from ours, and I honestly didn’t like having DS in our room because I would wake up at every little grunt.
DS1: May 2016
DS2: Jan 2019
Baby #3 EDD: 6/18/24
Crib-Pros: Inexpensive, no varnish or paint
Cons: DD climbed out at 16 months. I haven’t compare the depth with other cribs but it’s possible it’s shallower than other cribs.
Pack and Play-Pros: portable, good price (easy to find used as well)
Con: The mattress is fairly hard, bulky and heavy for traveling with, DD climbed out at 15 months
My sister has a Lotus travel crib and loves it. I am considering getting one to have at our house and for travel.
We started DD in the crib from day1 and she never slept well in it. I spent a lot of time awake holding her upright so she would sleep. I wish I hadn’t been so afraid of letting her sleep in the rock and play.
TTC #1 since 01/16; Unexplained IF; Low AMH; Conceived naturally
Married 11/12; Dating 05/05
Me: 36 DH: 37
Also, on the dockatot... it wasn't a miracle worker but it definitely helped. DS had a strong startle reflex for a long time so it really helped with being able to put him down without waking, especially when we could no longer swaddle. We will definitely be using again from day 1, especially since we have a king size bed now! We didn't get it for DS until maybe 8 weeks and I wish I had it earlier.
It's a boy!
Link to an example here for reference.
My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone)
IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN
HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear!
IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019
My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone)
IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN
HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear!
IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019
As far as night time, I have used the Arms Reach mini cosleeper and it nice. I also have a wooden sided bassinet type thing. Basically a mini crib. That worked well too.
Just used a basic crib after that.
I would like to know what people liked for travel with smaller babies? I always just used a pack n play with the bassinet feature but it always seemed like a big hassle when they were tiny. Any other suggestions?
Right now I am between a Halo and Arm's Reach Co-Sleeper (the 3-in-1 that's also a mini playard)....with the Graco Dream Suite (flips over to a changing table) or the Chicco Lullago as other options. I've read all the studies about breastfeeding and co-sleeping but it still scares the daylights out of me to have the baby in our bed all night long. We have 2 cats and we both move in our sleep. Co-sleeping mamas can spare the attestations about how you're so in tune with the baby that you always know what they're up to. My baby brother died of SIDS in the late 80s so it really just isn't an option for me.
I like the Halo and Arm's Reach Co-Sleepers for the co-sleeping-like features but they're on the pricey side. I hate the idea of having something that expensive that only gets used a few months but they both seem so great. I've considered the Chicco Lullago or Graco Dream suite too, but the Graco isn't cheap either. I would consider a full pack n play with the bassinet topper but we don't have the space on either side of the bed for it, and I want kiddo at the bedside and not foot of the bed for at least the first few months. I might have a regular pack and play and keep it at the foot of the bed when it's too big for bassinet if I don't want him in the crib (another room) yet.
To sum up, the ones I'm looking at are:
$$$ - Halo co-sleeper (maybe one of the models with vibration/music option)
$$$ - Arms Reach Co-Sleeper (3-in-1)
$$ - Graco Dream Suite (flips over to be changing table)
$.5 - Chico Lullago (cheaper but no frills)
Opinions plz, as well as others you have experience with/are considering!
My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone)
IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN
HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear!
IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019
*TW loss and children mentioned*
Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen
Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019
Another favorite purchase for babies up until about 4-5 months old is the Brica fold 'n go travel crib. It makes life so easy: https://www.amazon.com/BRICA-Fold-Travel-Bassinet-Brica/dp/B00MH7VAIU/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1536081801&sr=1-1-fkmr0&keywords=brica+fold+n+go+travel+crib
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
We are going to try the doc-a-tot this go-around but not the Snoo. DD1 slept in a RNP for the first 11 weeks or so and then went straight to her crib.
DS1: May 2016
DS2: Jan 2019
Baby #3 EDD: 6/18/24
My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone)
IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN
HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear!
IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019
We we tried the rock n play, but really wasn’t a fan.
I had a different mattress for DS1 and DS2&3, and much prefer the ones we had the second time around: the Simmons Kids Naturally foam crib mattress. It is super lightweight which makes changes crib sheets so much easier, and honestly still looks brand new 2 years and a million sheet changes later.
https://www.guavafamily.com/products/lotus-bassinet
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
I was considering the same options and talked to a good friend with a 1 year old. She found that the co-sleepers didn't actually make a big difference in getting so close to the bed, even though she had a c-section. She said she found a pack n play with a bassinet at a yard sale and wished she had just used that from the beginning.
We just got this at Baby Depot/Burlington https://www.amazon.com/Graco-Pack-Play-Playard-Pasadena/dp/B004Y9AKZI in a different color.
We will get a basic Ikea crib that converts to a toddler bed for when baby is older.
I'm watching the baby budget and I really like that for $65 or less you can have something you can use in your bedroom, maybe in living room when baby is older, and for travel. I will be keeping it right up next to our bed for the first few months at least.
I was looking at the following:
Milliard Crib Mattress and Toddler Bed Mattress | Hypoallergenic + Waterproof Encasement | 27.5"x52"x5" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00EV79VRQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_SW4PBbJ3TT8QY
Also did anyone buy a cover for their matteress for additional protection?
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00GJIXMQG/ref=s9_acsd_top_hd_bw_bjsin5_c_x_1_w?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=merchandised-search-4&pf_rd_r=63YEQFBEBD6GX9RB2FAP&pf_rd_r=63YEQFBEBD6GX9RB2FAP&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=b46bb821-2d80-59eb-8743-0ba9f06f73d3&pf_rd_p=b46bb821-2d80-59eb-8743-0ba9f06f73d3&pf_rd_i=677977011
She slept like a newborn in it- not a miracle worker- but transitioned well to a crib. We transitioned her to her own room/crib at 6 weeks and the transition was smooth.
@mtengl we used a basic mattress- the Safety 1st: https://www.target.com/p/safety-1st-174-little-dreamer-baby-crib-mattress-white/-/A-51423677
It lasted until she was maybe 2?
As long as the mattress is firm I don't think it should really matter what mattress is used- I find it quite shocking how many different kinds there are; especially made by the same company!
We did buy a mattress protector but I couldn't tell you if we used it when she was an infant; I don't think we put it on until she was a toddler.
This mattress is waterproof so was easy clean up when necessary.
A tip I learned too late was to put two sheets on the bed so in case of an accident it was easy cleanup in the middle of the night!
We have an espresso colored crib that matches her bookshelf and dresser. It has a solid back and i love it! I had a hard time deciding solid back vs slats all around, but I loved the look and did some digging and decided on it. It still works with the mesh bumpers (I only used these when she was at the moving/rolling stage, and kept getting her feet stuck and every night had to run in and get her foot loose. After about a week I got the mesh bumpers. This fixed the problem), and there was no evidence or opinions that the solid back could increase SIDS. DD started sleeping in her crib for NAPS at 2 months so she could get used to sleeping in a flat surface for daycare naps, then slept in there through the night at about 8 months.
Married: 8/11/2007
DD: Born 2/3/17
BFP#2: 5/3, EDD 1/10/19
My in laws bought us a crib from pottery barn which we love but we decided to put it in the nursery and @sweetyjenj like you said you did use it for naps to help transition (that was actually DH idea I don’t know where he got it from).
We are going to use the pack n play for our bedroom and I do have the rock n play on our list and I would love to use it for sleeping at night but I have four dogs and it makes me nervous to not have her more enclosed.
@kmos816 I am going to look at that matteress. I always feel better with personal recommendations of how things hold up instead of just random reviews
Naturepedic Organic Cotton Lightweight Classic 2-Stage Crib Mattress https://www.amazon.com/dp/B008MR3P0U/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_de7PBbBPJHS0P
BeautySleep SlumberTime Naturally Crib and Toddler Mattress https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00COSLEGA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_FE-PBbJ7JEV86