Trying to Get Pregnant

I think my oven is broken

11 DPO and I feel the same as I did on CD 1.  I hate TTC.  I really think my body is broken.  This is cycle #5 so I'm really feeling the inner pressure of the "60% of people become pregnant in the first six months of trying to conceive" statistic. 

I just want to know that *I can* actually get pregnant.  Then I think I will have some peace of mind. 

Re: I think my oven is broken

  • I was actually just looking at your chart befor you posted this....it's a tough wait. I wish I had some great words of wisdom...
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  • I actually didn't chart after O this cycle so there's not much to look at.  Admittedly, it did really help with my stress level for the first week.  But since I got sick yesterday (and today) with a fever and I've been taking my temperature ad nauseum, it's kind of hard not to think about it.  My LP is ridiculously long, which also doesn't help.

    I really never expected to be trying for 5 cycles, I can't imagine what it's like for the women on here that have been trying for much longer than that.  God bless them. 

    I just have this sneaking suspicion that something isn't right.  I talked to my H about it tonight and he agreed to try next cycle (lucky number 6 perhaps?) and then we would go see my OB.  I figure six cycles (4 charting) will at least be enough for an SA, should it come to that.

  • It's definitely a tough wait. Sorry it's getting you down.
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  • I hope for your sake that you're wrong. That being said, there's something to be said for women's intuition. It never hurts to get checked out.

    Maybe you should lurk around the TTC 6months or more boards to get your hopes back up!!

  • I know what you mean about that feeling.  I've had a bad feeling that DH and I will have a hard time getting PG. I am really worried his SC is low.  Just a deep down feeling I've had all along.
  • flip that's what I'm worried about too, and I know it's waaaay fvcked up to say it but I think I would be resentful.  I love my husband and we've been together so long that I don't even know what it's like to not have him in my life.  But if he was the reason ... well I can't even think about it right now because it's just speculation and I'll upset myself for no reason. 

    One more cycle and off to the doctor.  Worse comes to worst they call me a hypochondriac and tell me to come back in 6 months.

  • Don't jump the gun. Speculating on how you might feel will only cause you more stress. AND if you're doc is ready to help after 6 months, you can always call the other one.
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    flip that's what I'm worried about too, and I know it's waaaay fvcked up to say it but I think I would be resentful.  I love my husband and we've been together so long that I don't even know what it's like to not have him in my life.  But if he was the reason ... well I can't even think about it right now because it's just speculation and I'll upset myself for no reason. 

    One more cycle and off to the doctor.  Worse comes to worst they call me a hypochondriac and tell me to come back in 6 months.

    I totally know what you mean.  Trust me, you're not the only one to think about that possibility.  

  • okay me and my psychoses are going to bed.  Goodnight ladies :)
  • Hang in there, Lady. :( Sorry you're down.
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