I really didnt know much about breastfeeding nor did i have the support to be successful. It didnt work out well at all and i felt i was glued to pumping or feeding at all times with no time for anything else.
So now im looking for hands free and moveable products. Has anyone tried or heard anything about the willow pump and is there such thing as a breastfeeding friendly carrier?
Re: Breastfeeding product opinions
@faith0222 I've looked into the Willow pump because it seems really cool (it's so new that it wasn't even around when I had my son a year and a half ago), but I think I'm going to pass on it this time around for multiple reasons. The first is that I'm a SAHM, meaning that if all goes well as it did last time I don't really need to pump all that often -- just enough to provide some extra milk for going out and if I want MH to feed the baby. That said, if I had a job where I needed to take pump breaks multiple times a day or it was difficult to fit those in I would definitely be more interested in the Willow. The second reason I'm not getting it is because I've heard that the bag situation is kind of annoying. You can find video reviews on YouTube but I believe the gist of it is that they're expensive, not reusable, specific to the pump, and difficult to empty. The third reason is that I know at least with my first I had to massage my breasts while pumping to get more milk out and prevent clogged ducts. The Willow doesn't really seem like it would be conducive to that.
Now the Anabella pump -- that is something I would love to buy. Seems like it's still very early in the testing phase though. Also, my insurance wouldn't cover a pump purchased off Indiegogo
I'll be getting another Spectra S1 pump. It's a very well-loved pump by many, and actually is portable like you're looking for. I've definitely pumped in the car with it...aaaand taken it to the bathroom with me. (I know, massively unhygienic, but when the urge to poop hits PP, you TAKE it.)
Re: nursing-friendly baby carriers, I would recommend a ring sling. My brand of choice is Wildbird, but there are many options out there. I never quite figured it out the sling-nursing thing with my son (he also hated to be carried unless he was asleep), but many women report success. There are also vast Facebook groups of women who own ring slings and are willing to help out.
TTC #1 January 2016
BFP April 18 2016 | EDD December 29, 2016
Welcome baby A! January 9, 2017
TTC#2 March 2018
BFP March 30, 2018 | EDD December 12, 2018
I used the Medela Pump In Style with a hands free bra and it worked for me, but I had to take three breaks a day at work for 15 minutes at a time to pump. I'd also pump in the car from time to time if necessary while driving. No real suggestions for hands free as the only other thing I've used is the haakaa (which is amazing!!).
I think ring slings are good for nursing, and so it the LilleBaby. I've nursed DS in that before. I'd just practice at home before going out so you already know what you're doing. I didn't and it was awkward.
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!I didn't leak a single drop so doesn't sound like it would be useful for me. It didn't matter if I was feeding, pumping or haven't fed in HOURS and beyond full. I still wouldn't leak a drop. I would get super engorged and lumpy and painful instead. In fact in 14 months of breastfeeding the only breast pad I ever used was one when I needed to remove my nail polish.
ETA: so advise to FTM don't buy too many breast pads like I did. You may not need them!
Also, here's a question I always wondered for anyone who's used it...does it primarily catch foremilk, and if so wouldn't that be an issue if that was the main way you were expressing milk for freezing? Or maybe it's not an issue if baby gets the occasional bottle of mostly-foremilk...
TTC #1 January 2016
BFP April 18 2016 | EDD December 29, 2016
Welcome baby A! January 9, 2017
TTC#2 March 2018
BFP March 30, 2018 | EDD December 12, 2018
I'm not sure about the foremilk, but I always used it on both breasts. So I put it on one side while feeding, then during the same feeding when I would switch breasts with my daughter, I'd put the hakaa on the other side, and I assume it would not be catching foremilk then.
I would agree that if it is an occasional thing (meaning you are a SAHM and primarily EBF and only use frozen milk for when you go to dinner, etc) that it shouldn't really matter.
TTC #1 January 2016
BFP April 18 2016 | EDD December 29, 2016
Welcome baby A! January 9, 2017
TTC#2 March 2018
BFP March 30, 2018 | EDD December 12, 2018
Eeeeek!!! I shall!!! I'm actually quite excited. I don't think my insurance covers a free one like they did my Medela, but oh well.
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!For supplements, I used the Mother's Milk tea in conjunction with the Gaia Lactation Support capsules (and oatmeal). I'm really not sure what helped, or if it was a combination of all those things, but SOMETHING helped!
When I was struggling with torn up nipples in the beginning (I felt like DD had razor blades for teeth at just 1 month old, it was awful), I used the Medela nipple cream and the Lansinoh nipple shields to get them back to normal.
Hmm, what else? Lansinoh breast pads for drippy nips. But, I think I might try the Bamboobies this time...because, reusable and less waste! And, I have a friend that works for Bamboobies (Colorado company!!), so I'd like to support the company she works for.
I used a couple hand me down nursing bras my friend gave me and I have no idea what brand they were because the print was worn off. I plan on trying the Bamboobies Yoga nursing brahhh this time.
ETA: I'm totally going to try the Haakaa this time. Thanks for the recommendations, guys!
For supplements, Fenugreek, mother’s milk tea, and blessed thistle can be lifesavers.
I breastfed in my K’tan with DS (once I figured out how to use it) abt it worked out okay.
I had the Medela pump in style and it did the job. I definitely was not in love with it, but I HATED pumping. I used a standard car outlet adapter to pump in the car. I also got the medela hands free bra. I tried to make my own out of an old sports bra, but it tore too easily. I highly recommend getting fitted for the actual flanges that go on your breasts. I found out a few weeks in that the ones that come with the pump were not large enough for me and my LC gave me different ones.
Dx: Unspecified IF
BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks
BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
I second the birth class!!! It was so helpful with my first, and for SO who actually learned a lot and was so helpful while I was in labor.