WTO went MIA over the weekend, so I'm bringing it back!
**This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in
their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that
could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children
or pregnancies of others should have a TW and be in a spoiler if
possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!**
Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys?
WAYDTGKU: trying on our own this month (bbt, opks, pnvs, and all that crap)
R/R: The weather is finally nice here! Loving being able to go outside without a coat, open the windows, etc. On the downside, it makes it harder to go to work!
CS/Q: chart in spoiler
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? It's a toss-up between this:
R/R: I had such an amazing weekend with DH. We spent some really good quality time together, went target practicing, had a picnic bbq in the national park, and caught up on couch time. It was an all around good weekend.
SPOILER TW LOSS
CS/Q: I feel like I'm just living in WTO this month. I'm pretty sure that this is an anovulatory cycle. I'm not sure if I'm using that term correctly so please feel free to help me understand if I am. ***TW Loss. I read thar after a CP you can not ovulate for a few cycles. Is that true? TW End *** So I guess I'm out this month. My temp has stayed low and all of my OPKs have been blatantly negative.
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? I don't even know where to get gifs so this question is definitely off my radar.
Thank you for creating this! (: WTO does go super silent on the weekends!
Month/Cycle: 7/8
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, OPKs, Charting, Temping, HIO of course
R/R: Rant: No rants today! Rave: Lots of raves! Today is my birthday.. 29 part 2 (: I got my first positive OPK yesterday, on CD14! That never happens. I'm usually a positive on CD17 or after! I'm wondering if the HSG got me knocked back into alignment or if me stopping B6 is what did it. Either way, I'll take it! Also, we have a contract on a new house! Fx all things keep going so smooth!
CS/Q: No questions!
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? The drive-bys are ridiculous. Why do people feel the need to ask the stupidest questions ever!
CD: 17 (tech waiting to confirm suspected O on 16)
WAYDTGKU: BBT/Charting, CoQ10, SMEP (which we failed a bit at yesterday) R/R: Sun!!!!! It's been out pretty consistently and I love it!
CS/Q: Posted in the CS/Q thread but... I discarded this morning's temp due to being cold all night. Then I noticed my CM is changing so I feel more confident about O having occurred and the temp being a fluke. Makes sense right?
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? No favorite but I do love the eyeroll gifs. It's probably my favorite expression for drivebys.
@meladams10 happy birthday! For a second I thought you said you were 29 part 2. Then I realized it was raves part 2. I have an aunt that celebrates anniversaries of her 29th birthday.
Month/Cycle: 2
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt
R/R: quiet weekend, getting a massage and my hair dyed this week!
CS/Q: not much to see now.
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys?
DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
CD: **TW** honestly no clue considering my last period was prior to loss
WAYDTGKU: just bd, charting CM, and seeing how things play out.
R/R: I have horrible anxiety so doing anything more reliable with charting gives me awful anxiety and my husband can't stand to be around me. I get obsessive about it, so I've found I am better and just letting it go and paying attention to CM (which yes, I realize is not very accurate) but I also can't handle the OCD and obsession over it. It's like all I can think about.
CS/Q: No
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? No favorite--but I like anything Full House or eye rolls. They make me smile.
@bdream0916 I hope you get your O soon. I actually heard that it doesn't affect fertility at all, but I don't know how reliable my source. I do know that your cycles can be all weird after it though, just like a MC.
@meggyme I love that Michelle Tanner gif! Haha. They used to be so cute! Now they resemble skeletons, sad. @oaklandava Thank you! I'm so sorry for your loss I'm right there with you in regards to anxiety. Is there some sort of big project you could start so you can direct your mind somewhere else? I know how hard it is...
R/R: rave: we bought a boat and it arrived today! I can't wait for a whole bunch of lake weekends this summer! rant: it's been too cold to go to the lake and I can't imagine when the lake will be warm enough to get in!
CS/Q: Not yet
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys?
Edit: I had copied from another poster and had a mistake in my month/cycle (I'm so sorry!)
@meladams10 We just moved into our new house and I am trying to find work, so that's pretty distracting in itself. HOWEVER, it's also anxiety inducing so it just makes it more difficult. I'm super task-oriented, so I am very much not a fan of taking on additional ones if that makes sense.
Thank you for your kindness. It's definitely not easy. I am sorry for your loss as well. *hugs*
Me: 31 I DH: 31
Met: 9/8/08; Engaged: 9/8/11; Married 6/30/12
TTC#1: 8/2013; BFP: 9/30/13; born June 2014 (boy) TTC#2: 2/2018; BFP: 2/26/18; MC 4/4/18. TTC#2: 4/2018; BFP: 5/12/18; EDD: 1/19/19 (boy) 2 fur babies: Oakley Marley (11.5) & Ava Lynn (2)
@quidditchcapn1120 yay for a new boat! That’s exciting - and hopefully it will warm enough to take it out soon!
Month/Cycle: 4/5
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: pnvs, charting etc...
R/R: Rave: lots of fun gardening and playing outside this weekend. Got our whole veggie garden in and some flowers too! Rant: my cat has been missing since Thursday and no sign of him. It’s been stormy and I’m super worried about him.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? I’m not great a GIFs...
@quidditchcapn1120 Thank you and congrats on the boat! That will be so fun in the summer! Also, love your Kevin Hart gif. We went to one of his shows earlier this year.. hilarious!
@LElkCot Thank you! So sorry to hear about your kitty I hope he comes back home soon! I can't imagine.
@quidditchcapn1120 Ah! Boy do I wish we had a boat. I hope that the lake warms up for you!
@LElkCot Awe. Sorry about your kitty. Fx it comes home soon. Yeah, we are still trying but I haven't ovulated this month. **TW Loss, I'm sorry about your CP in March. TW**
Re: WTO Monday 4/23
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: trying on our own this month (bbt, opks, pnvs, and all that crap)
R/R: The weather is finally nice here! Loving being able to go outside without a coat, open the windows, etc. On the downside, it makes it harder to go to work!
CS/Q: chart in spoiler
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys?
It's a toss-up between this:
And this:
CD: 18
WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM, OPK
R/R: I had such an amazing weekend with DH. We spent some really good quality time together, went target practicing, had a picnic bbq in the national park, and caught up on couch time. It was an all around good weekend.
SPOILER TW LOSS
I don't even know where to get gifs so this question is definitely off my radar.
Month/Cycle: 7/8
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, OPKs, Charting, Temping, HIO of course
R/R: Rant: No rants today! Rave: Lots of raves! Today is my birthday.. 29 part 2 (: I got my first positive OPK yesterday, on CD14! That never happens. I'm usually a positive on CD17 or after! I'm wondering if the HSG got me knocked back into alignment or if me stopping B6 is what did it. Either way, I'll take it! Also, we have a contract on a new house! Fx all things keep going so smooth!
CS/Q: No questions!
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? The drive-bys are ridiculous. Why do people feel the need to ask the stupidest questions ever!
CD: 17 (tech waiting to confirm suspected O on 16)
WAYDTGKU: BBT/Charting, CoQ10, SMEP (which we failed a bit at yesterday)
R/R: Sun!!!!! It's been out pretty consistently and I love it!
CS/Q: Posted in the CS/Q thread but... I discarded this morning's temp due to being cold all night. Then I noticed my CM is changing so I feel more confident about O having occurred and the temp being a fluke. Makes sense right?
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? No favorite but I do love the eyeroll gifs. It's probably my favorite expression for drivebys.
@bdream0916 Thank you!! I'm glad you and your DH got some quality time in this past weekend!
@prpl11butterfly I typically get a significant temp dip prior to O as well, so that temp may be accurate! I'd keep HIO EOD in case!
Month/Cycle: 2
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt
R/R: quiet weekend, getting a massage and my hair dyed this week!
CS/Q: not much to see now.
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys?
CD: **TW** honestly no clue considering my last period was prior to loss
WAYDTGKU: just bd, charting CM, and seeing how things play out.
R/R: I have horrible anxiety so doing anything more reliable with charting gives me awful anxiety and my husband can't stand to be around me. I get obsessive about it, so I've found I am better and just letting it go and paying attention to CM (which yes, I realize is not very accurate) but I also can't handle the OCD and obsession over it. It's like all I can think about.
CS/Q: No
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? No favorite--but I like anything Full House or eye rolls. They make me smile.
@bdream0916 I hope you get your O soon. I actually heard that it doesn't affect fertility at all, but I don't know how reliable my source. I do know that your cycles can be all weird after it though, just like a MC.
@meladams10 Happy birthday!!!!!!
TTC#2: 2/2018; BFP: 2/26/18; MC 4/4/18.
TTC#2: 4/2018; BFP: 5/12/18; EDD: 1/19/19 (boy)
2 fur babies: Oakley Marley (11.5) & Ava Lynn (2)
@oaklandava Thank you! I'm so sorry for your loss I'm right there with you in regards to anxiety. Is there some sort of big project you could start so you can direct your mind somewhere else? I know how hard it is...
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: pnv, cm, bbt, opk
R/R: rave: we bought a boat and it arrived today! I can't wait for a whole bunch of lake weekends this summer!
rant: it's been too cold to go to the lake and I can't imagine when the lake will be warm enough to get in!
CS/Q: Not yet
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys?
Edit: I had copied from another poster and had a mistake in my month/cycle (I'm so sorry!)
We just moved into our new house and I am trying to find work, so that's pretty distracting in itself. HOWEVER, it's also anxiety inducing so it just makes it more difficult. I'm super task-oriented, so I am very much not a fan of taking on additional ones if that makes sense.
Thank you for your kindness. It's definitely not easy. I am sorry for your loss as well. *hugs*
TTC#2: 2/2018; BFP: 2/26/18; MC 4/4/18.
TTC#2: 4/2018; BFP: 5/12/18; EDD: 1/19/19 (boy)
2 fur babies: Oakley Marley (11.5) & Ava Lynn (2)
@meladams10 Happy birthday! Have an awesome day!
@prpl11butterfly I get a temp dip the day before O usually as well. Considering your CM change I would count it!
@meggyme I also read @meladams10 status as age 29 part 2 which is an awesome way to look at it!
@darkstar42 that cat cracks me up!
@bdream0916 I hadn’t heard that about a cp - **TW** my obgyn said we were clear to keep trying right after I had a cp in March.
@meladams10 fx on the house! Happy birthday and yay +OPK!
@oaklandava so sorry for your loss.
@quidditchcapn1120 yay for a new boat! That’s exciting - and hopefully it will warm enough to take it out soon!
Month/Cycle: 4/5
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: pnvs, charting etc...
R/R: Rave: lots of fun gardening and playing outside this weekend. Got our whole veggie garden in and some flowers too! Rant: my cat has been missing since Thursday and no sign of him. It’s been stormy and I’m super worried about him.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? I’m not great a GIFs...
@LElkCot Thank you! So sorry to hear about your kitty I hope he comes back home soon! I can't imagine.
@meladams10 Happy Birthday! Today is my birthday too
@quidditchcapn1120 Ah! Boy do I wish we had a boat. I hope that the lake warms up for you!
@LElkCot Awe. Sorry about your kitty. Fx it comes home soon. Yeah, we are still trying but I haven't ovulated this month. **TW Loss, I'm sorry about your CP in March. TW**
CD: 45
WAYDTGKU: I am on the PCOS diet (no gluten or dairy for 5 weeks as of yesterday!). Going to acupuncture and taking some supplements for PCOS. Temping.
R/R: Rant: My stupid cycle still hasn't regulated itself after *TW*
After my loss at 32 weeks which was about 6 weeks ago. *End TW*
I know these things take time, but I am so frustrated. I can't even move on and try again until my cycle freaking comes back.
CS/Q: I need to go look up what this abbreviation means! :-p
GTKY: What GIF do you love to use (or have prepped for the future) for drive-bys? i still can't figure out how to do GIFS on here!