About 4 weeks along, ovulated around the 6th. Due date dec 24th! Second baby, yhird pregnancy. Super sensitive to ptegnancy hormones, been sick for a week. Alllll the nausea.
I guess if you were straining for a poop you maybe wouldn’t notice it fall out, but they are decent sized devices! That would be hard to miss in your pants lol.
Have they done an ultrasound to make sure it’s not in your abdomen or something??
A friend of mine had one. She had to have day surgery to have it removed after she couldn’t find the strings and found it embedded in her uterus. Another friend of mine started feeling really sick. She’s a doctor so she tried to take it out but couldn’t find the strings. She went to her OB to have her take it out.. she couldn’t find it either. She had an ultrasound done and found it in the outside of her uterus and it had punctured the wall! She ended up having serious surgery and off for 8 weeks.
Aka.. I suggest talking to your doctor ASAP to try to find it because there’s a higher chance it’s missing inside of you then the chance it just fell out or “went away”.
Yeah I've never understood the "they can just fall out" thing. I had one for years and had it removed in February when we started TTC, and getting it taken out HURTS. And I mean they are small, but not THAT small. Like you should totally notice it exiting your cervix and coming out of your vagina. I would DEFINITELY call you doctor to have them check to make sure it didn't imbed or escape your uterus.
@Gwyneddlesliegrace What’s a MUD? Made Up Dx? Mostly Unrealistic Disaster? Moderately Unusual Distress? I can go on for days ...
NTNP since Dec 2012 | TTC since Jan 2016 Dx: Unspecified IF BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
I’m leaning towards MUD from lack of participation, loling when something isn’t funny, and bad spellings.
NTNP since Dec 2012 | TTC since Jan 2016 Dx: Unspecified IF BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
Oh @rawarr honey. We had someone catfish my second bmb for more than a year. She didn’t have any children at all it turns out. Apparently people have straaaaaaaange hobbies.
@runrinserepeat Really?! That’s cray. I’m so happy that I don’t need to churn up drama for whatever reasons they do.
I’m really interested in the reasons why people do that. It is to feel in control? Are they emotional vampires who get a digital fix? I’m sure Psychology Today has some articles for me to dive into
NTNP since Dec 2012 | TTC since Jan 2016 Dx: Unspecified IF BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
Honestly a member of our bmb spoke with our catfish on the phone, and I think in the end I felt mostly just sad for her. She so desperately wanted to be a part of something and she thought we were that opportunity.
We had one in my other group. She was TERRIBLE. So mean... she’d google people and find out info on them and share it in the group. Telling people they were awful parents when they came to the group for advice etc. ugh.
Hm I totally understand the need for community, and I hope that the catfish found a more fitting group somewhere. FX for anybody seeking human connections, because isolation is real. I hope they all can find more honest means of making friends.
NTNP since Dec 2012 | TTC since Jan 2016 Dx: Unspecified IF BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
She ended up getting found out I think, though. Some computer nerd in the group ended up matching IP addresses and it ended up being an active girl in the group
I slept on it, and I’m gonna go ahead and say this isn’t MUD, but a case is a very new bumpie popping in to post without reading the READ THIS FIRST post. MUD is generally very detailed and florid.
But yeah. Catfishers are out there. D16 scraped by without any...as far as I know!
Me: 31 | DH: 31
Together since 2003 | Married 2010 TTC #1 January 2016 BFP April 18 2016 | EDD December 29, 2016 Welcome baby A! January 9, 2017
TTC#2 March 2018 BFP March 30, 2018 | EDD December 12, 2018
In fairness, my first IUD removal was super-crampy, but I didn't even feel the second one happen. Uteri, man. Apparently you slice that puppy open once and nothing else will faze it ever again. I don't know that I'd have been able to ignore it migrating down and out my hooha, but hot dogs and hallways, I guess. I'm not as
But also... uh, okay. Make sure you see an OB ASAP so you can rule out ectopic pregnancy, OP, as that's a major concern for IUD pregnancies. Congrats on your blastocyte!
I'm going to give OP the benefit of the doubt because if it is an IUD pregnancy that needs to get checked ASAP, and can be scary as hell.
I'm actually 15 weeks pregnant today and conceived with my Paragard in place. Naturally I was freaked the eff out because it's super dangerous (and also because I was so shocked I was in that <1%, you never think it will happen to you), so I went for an U/S within 24 hours of BFP (~5w) to rule out ectopic. When I got the IUD out two days later, my OB AGAIN checked to make sure I didn't have an "ectopic twin" (can't remember the term he used). My strings were in place, but the U/S showed that it had slipped a little low (who knows what came first, baby or low IUD? we'll never know). I was a little crampy a few days before and after they removed it, and felt a hell of a lot better once it was out, so perhaps it was slowly forcing it's way out?
So...yes, make sure you go to an OB/ER/doctor ASAP because ectopic pregnancies are some scary shit, and if the IUD can be found and removed, that's definitely ideal (not to say you can't have a healthy pregnancy and baby with an IUD in place, it's happened). And congrats!
Re: IUD pregnancy
DS2 due 12/12/18
Have they done an ultrasound to make sure it’s not in your abdomen or something??
Another friend of mine started feeling really sick. She’s a doctor so she tried to take it out but couldn’t find the strings. She went to her OB to have her take it out.. she couldn’t find it either. She had an ultrasound done and found it in the outside of her uterus and it had punctured the wall! She ended up having serious surgery and off for 8 weeks.
Aka.. I suggest talking to your doctor ASAP to try to find it because there’s a higher chance it’s missing inside of you then the chance it just fell out or “went away”.
TTC #1 January 2016
BFP April 18 2016 | EDD December 29, 2016
Welcome baby A! January 9, 2017
TTC#2 March 2018
BFP March 30, 2018 | EDD December 12, 2018
DD2 | June 2011
DS1 | Oct 2013
ADD3 | Oct 2014 (April 2001)
DS2 | June 2016
DS3 | Dec 2018
Due with baby blob August 2021
Dx: Unspecified IF
BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks
BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
TTC #1 January 2016
BFP April 18 2016 | EDD December 29, 2016
Welcome baby A! January 9, 2017
TTC#2 March 2018
BFP March 30, 2018 | EDD December 12, 2018
DD2 | June 2011
DS1 | Oct 2013
ADD3 | Oct 2014 (April 2001)
DS2 | June 2016
DS3 | Dec 2018
Due with baby blob August 2021
I’m leaning towards MUD from lack of participation, loling when something isn’t funny, and bad spellings.
Dx: Unspecified IF
BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks
BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
I’m really interested in the reasons why people do that. It is to feel in control? Are they emotional vampires who get a digital fix? I’m sure Psychology Today has some articles for me to dive into
Dx: Unspecified IF
BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks
BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
Dx: Unspecified IF
BFP#1 Nov 2017 • Blighted Ovum + MMC • D&C at nine weeks
BFP#2 Apr 2018 • It's a boy! • Born 13 Dec 2018
But yeah. Catfishers are out there. D16 scraped by without any...as far as I know!
TTC #1 January 2016
BFP April 18 2016 | EDD December 29, 2016
Welcome baby A! January 9, 2017
TTC#2 March 2018
BFP March 30, 2018 | EDD December 12, 2018
But also... uh, okay. Make sure you see an OB ASAP so you can rule out ectopic pregnancy, OP, as that's a major concern for IUD pregnancies. Congrats on your blastocyte!
I'm going to give OP the benefit of the doubt because if it is an IUD pregnancy that needs to get checked ASAP, and can be scary as hell.
I'm actually 15 weeks pregnant today and conceived with my Paragard in place. Naturally I was freaked the eff out because it's super dangerous (and also because I was so shocked I was in that <1%, you never think it will happen to you), so I went for an U/S within 24 hours of BFP (~5w) to rule out ectopic. When I got the IUD out two days later, my OB AGAIN checked to make sure I didn't have an "ectopic twin" (can't remember the term he used). My strings were in place, but the U/S showed that it had slipped a little low (who knows what came first, baby or low IUD? we'll never know). I was a little crampy a few days before and after they removed it, and felt a hell of a lot better once it was out, so perhaps it was slowly forcing it's way out?
So...yes, make sure you go to an OB/ER/doctor ASAP because ectopic pregnancies are some scary shit, and if the IUD can be found and removed, that's definitely ideal (not to say you can't have a healthy pregnancy and baby with an IUD in place, it's happened). And congrats!