November 2018 Moms

Saying Goodbye

Hubby and I had the saddest 1st appointment and ultrasound yesterday. We thought we'd be saying hello to our first little one but instead we were saying goodbye. We were supposed to be 9 weeks 2 days, and the baby measured correctly, but the doctor couldn't find a heartbeat. She sent us to a different hospital to do a vaginal ultrasound as well and they also confirmed not being able to find a heartbeat. I know miscarriages are common especially if it's your first time getting pregnant, but it still stings

Re: Saying Goodbye

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Miscarriage sucks so much. Remember to be kind to yourself and take your time to grieve. ((Hugs))
  • I am sorry you’re going through this </3 give yourself time and space to feel all the feelings that will come up, and lean on your support systems. Sending you lots of love. 
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  • I’m so sorry. It’s so heartbreaking, but take time to heal and be gentle with yourself. Wishing you the best and sending lots of love your way. 
  • Very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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  • I'm so sorry. Will be thinking of you and hoping for your rainbow baby soon.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. Your family will be in my thoughts.
  • I'm so sorry!  Wishing you all the best.  Please take care of yourself.  You and your family are in my prayers.
    Me: 43  Hubs: 42 
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    3 Beautiful Girls: 17, 21, 23 (previous marriage)
    Tubal Reveral: 10/12
    Ecoptic: 3/13 (Lost Right Tube, Left Tube Blocked)
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    IVF #2: 3/15  = BFN
    IVF #3: 6/15  = BFN
    FET#1: 11/17 = BFN
    Endometrial Scratch: 2/18
    FET #2: 3/18  = BFP! 
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  • So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and for healing. Hope you have lots of love and support surrounding you.
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  • So so sorry you are going through this.
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.  *hugs* be kind/take care of yourself

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  • I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s heartbreaking no matter when or how you have a loss. I hope you get your happy ending soon. 


  • I am sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. 
  • I’m so sorry  :'( Allow yourself the time you need to heal emotionally as well as physically. Hope to see you back on the boards soon.  <3
  • I’m so sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy ended in loss which i also found out about at my first ultrasound at 9 weeks, so i know the heartbreak and disappointment. Wishing you the very best. Take care of yourself. 
  • I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing you the best, and I hope you get your rainbow baby soon. 
    *TW*
    Me:35 DH:35
    Dx: PCOS
    DS1 born 11/2014
    DS2 born 11/2018
    3 previous losses
    Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green

  • I’m so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this! It's true that miscarriages are "common" but that doesn't mean it shouldn't hurt or upset you. Feel all the feelings you need to and take the time to grieve. Wishing you lots of luck in the future.
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    DD2: 10/2018  <3
  • I am so sorry for your loss.

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  • I’m so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your husband <3
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  • dancingramdancingram member
    edited April 2018
    Just because it's common doesn't mean it's not heartbreaking. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Please be kind to yourself and allow yourself to grieve as you need to.
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    BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
    BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
    BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
    BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
    BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018


  • I’m so sorry.  Take care of yourself. <3 
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