this is the first time posting on the loss page. Idk what I’m lookong for exactly. I know there are no answers. Just wanting to vent I guess. I experienced my first M/C almost 6 years ago on my first pregnancy. Went in for the first OB appt at 8 weeks and they found no heartbeat. I had no bleeding or symptoms of the mc so ended up having the D&C. Fast fwd to 4 years later. Second pregnancy and everything was perfect. No problems and had my beautiful 2 year old girl. I guess I thought since I had a healthy pregnancy/ baby I wouldn’t have any more losses.( I know that’s not reasonable, just more of my hopes and happiness that made me think every pregnancy would be good after that)Now, I was pregnant again for a 3rd time and the same thing happened. We went in for our first U/S and again no heartbeat at 9w1d. And I was 9w2d. To believe it happened again, I just don’t get it! How can some people have so many pregnancy’s and no complications?! They take that test in the first month and boom they’re pregnant for 9 months no problem, time and time again. It’s just crazy, not fair, and heartbreaking for those of us who have to deal with this. I have positive hopes for my next pregnancy, hopefully soon. Its just comforting to know I’m not the only one with the questions and thoughts in my mind that never will have answers.