November 2018 Moms

WTF Wednesday

Me: 34  DH: 34
Married 10/28/17
Our TTC Journey
TTC #1 February '18
Team Green turned Team Blue 10/15/18

TTC #2 January '21
BFP June '21
MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C July '21
Jan '22 - started IF testing
BFP Jan '22
MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C Feb '22
BFP May '22


Re: WTF Wednesday

  • WTF pharmacy!! My doc called in 2 scripts yesterday and they only filled one. Of course, it wasn't the one I needed to stop throwing up. So waiting for them to fill it today, and then I have to figure out how the heck I'm going to get it, since they close before DH gets off of work today.
    Married 4/12/13
    Anniversary
    TTC since 6/13
    Diagnosed w/ PCOS 4/9/15 - R/E recommended lifestyle change
    BFP 4/10/16 - DS born 12/16/2016
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    SURPRISE! BFP 3/8/18
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  • Wtf germs. Caught a nasty cold a couple days ago and of course this morning DD woke up with it. We were just sick like a month ago. UGH. I hate this! 
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  • Wtf to life being so unfair. I’ll throw a TRIGGER WARNING right here just Incase. 
    a year ago today my oldest and best friend was diagnosed for the 3rd time with breast cancer. Stage 4. After I leave work today I’m rushing to the hospital to say my goodbyes. They have her on life support so her out of town family can come see her then it’s over. She’s 34 with three beautiful kids. Why do all the scum bags get to live long lives and crap like this happens to the best people?!! So yeah wtf and f u life!!! Sorry, but thanks for letting me vent, my husband is probably wore out from listening to me.
    nws
  • WTF to people at my company.  We had like 10 people reply all to an email that was accidentally sent to the wrong mail group (a group that includes all 8000+ employees of my company).  I think the first person saying hey you sent this to the wrong place was enough.  Replying all saying “don’t reply all” isn’t helping matters!
    Infertility Journey (in spoiler because it's way too long and child/loss mentioned)
    Married: 08/09/2013; TTC #2
    Me: 31, possible PCOS and Septate Uterus (Septum removed in November 2017)
    DH: 31, MFI (Low Count and Low Motility)
    July 2017 - IUI #1 - Letrozole 2.5 mg, no trigger, Prometrium 100 mg 2x a day - BFN
    August 2017 - IUI #2 - Letrozole 2.5 mg, no trigger, Prometrium 100 mg 2x a day - BFN
    September 2017 - IUI #3 - Letrozole 2.5 mg, no trigger, Prometrium 100 mg 2x a day - BFN
    November 2017 - Uterine Septum removed
    December 2017 - IVF Consultation
    January 2018 - IVF #1 - Retrieval 1/24 - 2 Day 3 embryos (1 transferred fresh, 1 frozen) and 2 Day 5 embryos frozen
    February 2018 - Fresh Transfer - Transfer 1/27 (1 day 3 embryo) - BFN
    March 2018 - FET #1 - Transfer 3/2 (1 day 5 embryo) - BFP!  1st beta (10dp5dt) - 101; 2nd beta (17dp5dt) - 3061! Due 11/18/2018
    March 2018 - Remaining embryos lost in malfunction.

    October 8, 2018 - Son born at 34 weeks and a day due to preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome.  Spent 13 days in the NICU.
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    June 2019 - IVF #2 - Cancelled - Cyst on Ovary
    July 2019 - IVF #2 Take 2 - Retrieval 8/1 - 5 Day 5 embryos frozen
    August 2019 - FET #1 - Cancelled - No Trilaminar Lining
    September 2019 - FET #1 - Transfer 9/25 (1 day 5 embryo) - Chemical Pregnancy - 1st beta (9dp5dt): 110; 2nd beta (14dp5dt): 357; 3rd beta (16dp5dt): 188; 4th beta (23dp5dt): 7
    November 2019 - FET #2 - Transfer 11/6 (1 day 5 embryo) - BFN
    December 2019 - FET #3 - Transfer 12/11 (1 day 5 embryo) - BFP! - 1st beta (8dp5dt): 102; 2nd beta (15dp5dt): 2636! Due 08/28/2020

    August 13, 2020 - Son born at 37 weeks an 6 days due to failed BPP (Gestational Diabetes).
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  • @ashkee05 I agree at it being so unfair. My stepmom was 38 when she lost her 3rd battle with breast cancer. My little brother was only 4 at the time. He doesn't really remember her :(

    WTF doctors office. The OB i decided on is in a network that I used with my DS almost 5 years ago and in a city over 100 miles away. I filled out new paperwork but they didn't update most of the things in my chart! My pharmacy called me and said they STILL hadn't received the new RX I was waiting on. Called the OB and turns out they had sent it to the other city... over 100 miles away... seriously. 
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  • @ashkee05 I'm so sorry that's awful life is so unfair sometimes T&P's.
  • @ashkee05 I'm so so so sorry you're having to go through that right now. My brother passed away at 27 from a brain tumor and left behind a wife and 1 1/2 year old daughter. Watching him pass away was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I miss him and think about him every day. <3 

    @marfi236 I used to work for a huge multinational corporation with 200k+ employees. The same thing happened there where someone sent out an email to every employee and they actually had to temporarily shut down the server thanks to all the people replying all to the email. We probably received a thousand reply alls before that happened. So dumb but it was also kind of funny :) 
  • @ashkee05 I’m so sorry all of you are going through this. I don’t even know how I would say goodbye to a person before their time. It is unfair. Prayers for all of you.  <3
  • @ashkee05 I am so sorry you are going through that. Saying goodbye is never easy, but I can't imagine it before one's time. Hope you can find some peace in all this somehow. 
    Me: 34  DH: 34
    Married 10/28/17
    Our TTC Journey
    TTC #1 February '18
    Team Green turned Team Blue 10/15/18

    TTC #2 January '21
    BFP June '21
    MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C July '21
    Jan '22 - started IF testing
    BFP Jan '22
    MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C Feb '22
    BFP May '22


  • @ashkee05 I am so sorry. Thinking of you and your friend's family. 
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  • @ashkee05 I’m so sorry you are having to go through that. My heart goes out to you and her family. Keeping you in my thoughts.
  • edited April 2018
    WTF person in the parking lot of a school driving way to fast and almost hitting my 5 year old! I had to pull her back by her collar to stop her from getting hit. My heart was in my throat and I cried!! It ruined my whole day and I have been on edge.

    2nd WTF to the kids in my class that decided today was a great day to be disrespectful and rude to me and their peers. Today was so trying and stressful I made myself sick.
  • Thank you all! And I’m also sorry to you guys who have lost people way to early. So hard to go through! @middleschoolmommy @ginny_203

    @bfpafter4years extra WTF I wouldn’t went off! People drive like jerks in my neighborhood. I’m totally they house that has a yard lined with SLOW DOWN signs and I don’t care how crazy I look, don’t drive like that around kids!! I will also be crazy and call the license plates in. It’s seirously ridiculous!!! Sorry not sorry lol 
    nws
  • ashkee05 said:
    Wtf to life being so unfair. I’ll throw a TRIGGER WARNING right here just Incase. 
    a year ago today my oldest and best friend was diagnosed for the 3rd time with breast cancer. Stage 4. After I leave work today I’m rushing to the hospital to say my goodbyes. They have her on life support so her out of town family can come see her then it’s over. She’s 34 with three beautiful kids. Why do all the scum bags get to live long lives and crap like this happens to the best people?!! So yeah wtf and f u life!!! Sorry, but thanks for letting me vent, my husband is probably wore out from listening to me.
    I am so sorry. Life can be so unfair. 
    *TW*
    Me:35 DH:35
    Dx: PCOS
    DS1 born 11/2014
    DS2 born 11/2018
    3 previous losses
    Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green

  • MojieJoMojieJo member
    edited April 2018
    WTF to my very first craving being something I can't have until tomorrow (it has to set overnight to taste right) when I'm salivating at the thought of it now.  Like, literally salivating. :weary:

    Also WTF to the POS on another site I frequent who felt the need to call parents of mutiples "wh*res" (I assume I need to censor that, hopefully that's good enough not to be in violation of the rules) and say we should all be beat with baseball bats for showing our faces in public. 

    What the hell is wrong with people?  I know some people get off on causing offense and being "edgy," but really?! :angry:

    @ashkee05 I'm so sorry about your friend.  Life truly isn't fair.  I wish there was something I could say that would make things right, but there isn't, so I'll just say that you, your friend and her family and friends are in my thoughts. :heart:

    I lost my best friend/uncle when I was in high school to something completely treatable that wasn't caught in time.  He was the best man I've ever known and he was gone so fast there wasn't even time for me to say goodbye.
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers
    Our infertility journey (TW)
    ● IUI #1: BFN 
    ● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C :'(  
    ● IUI #3: BFN 
    ● IUI #4: BFN 
    ● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
    ● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP!  BOY #3!
    ● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks :'(
    ● Natural #2:  BFP - M/C @ 5w5d :'(

  • @ashkee05 I am sorry to hear that. I never will understand F-ing cancer.  My SIL was diagnosed stage 4 triple negative breast cancer 2 years ago. She has recently stopped treatment and its only a matter of time. Although she has no kids she is only 37. To young for this...

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  • MouseMama817MouseMama817 member
    edited April 2018
    @MojieJo Wtf???? Parents of multiples as in twins, or multiples as in more than 1 child? Either way, what a psycho.
  • @MouseMama817 Both, though he seems particularly angry about moms of twins and higher order multiples in general, since that's the sub-forum he was posting on (as well as one for NICU parents).

    He's clearly off his rocker, but damn. :confounded:
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers
    Our infertility journey (TW)
    ● IUI #1: BFN 
    ● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C :'(  
    ● IUI #3: BFN 
    ● IUI #4: BFN 
    ● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
    ● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP!  BOY #3!
    ● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks :'(
    ● Natural #2:  BFP - M/C @ 5w5d :'(

  • @goldie987 No freaking clue.  There's no logic to that kind of crazy! :expressionless:
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers
    Our infertility journey (TW)
    ● IUI #1: BFN 
    ● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C :'(  
    ● IUI #3: BFN 
    ● IUI #4: BFN 
    ● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
    ● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP!  BOY #3!
    ● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks :'(
    ● Natural #2:  BFP - M/C @ 5w5d :'(

  • @ashkee05 I'm so deeply sorry to hear about your friend. I hope you are able to have wonderful, quality time with her. I can't imagine how hard it would be for you to be there with her during this time, but it's so great that you're able to support her and be with her. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs, not that it helps in any way.
    @MojieJo What a tease! Please tell us what you're craving and what you made that has to set overnight. Will you share? :) 
    @marfi236 Reply all email chains are so annoying, but they make me laugh and they can sometimes be so entertaining. I love it when people reply all to say "I don't know what this is. Please remove me from the distro." You can't be removed from the distro because it was sent to the whole organization! It makes me roll my eyes and laugh at the same time.
    *TW*
    Me: 31 | DH: 33
    DD1: 8/2014  <3
    TTC #2: 6/2017
    BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
    BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
    BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
    BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
    DD2: 10/2018  <3
  • @offtoneverland Nothing too special.  Just a pasta salad.  A delicious pasta salad, but pasta salad all the same!

    It has to set overnight absorb the dressing/sauce so that it permeates the pasta and makes it moist and yummy. :yum:
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers
    Our infertility journey (TW)
    ● IUI #1: BFN 
    ● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C :'(  
    ● IUI #3: BFN 
    ● IUI #4: BFN 
    ● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
    ● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP!  BOY #3!
    ● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks :'(
    ● Natural #2:  BFP - M/C @ 5w5d :'(

  • @MojieJo Oh, I thought you were talking about some sort of delicious dessert. You can keep your pasta salad to yourself.  :p I've never had a pasta salad that I enjoyed!
    *TW*
    Me: 31 | DH: 33
    DD1: 8/2014  <3
    TTC #2: 6/2017
    BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
    BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
    BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
    BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
    DD2: 10/2018  <3
  • @MojieJo WTF is wrong with that guy??? Either he is wacked or just trying to start drama.

    @goldie987 HAHA that is awesome! I would have died laughing!
    Me: 34  DH: 34
    Married 10/28/17
    Our TTC Journey
    TTC #1 February '18
    Team Green turned Team Blue 10/15/18

    TTC #2 January '21
    BFP June '21
    MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C July '21
    Jan '22 - started IF testing
    BFP Jan '22
    MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C Feb '22
    BFP May '22


  • @offtoneverland Nope, no dessert!  I'm not feeling sweets.  I guess that's a good thing! :lol:

    @tessiesmom26 A little bit of both, I think.  Dude's something else.

    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
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    Our infertility journey (TW)
    ● IUI #1: BFN 
    ● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C :'(  
    ● IUI #3: BFN 
    ● IUI #4: BFN 
    ● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
    ● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP!  BOY #3!
    ● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks :'(
    ● Natural #2:  BFP - M/C @ 5w5d :'(

  • @MojieJo I'd have to agree. Also you now have me craving pasta salad!!
    Me: 34  DH: 34
    Married 10/28/17
    Our TTC Journey
    TTC #1 February '18
    Team Green turned Team Blue 10/15/18

    TTC #2 January '21
    BFP June '21
    MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C July '21
    Jan '22 - started IF testing
    BFP Jan '22
    MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C Feb '22
    BFP May '22


  • @tessiesmom26 Heh heh, sorry!  I love how pregnancy cravings are contagious! :lol:
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers
    Our infertility journey (TW)
    ● IUI #1: BFN 
    ● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C :'(  
    ● IUI #3: BFN 
    ● IUI #4: BFN 
    ● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
    ● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP!  BOY #3!
    ● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks :'(
    ● Natural #2:  BFP - M/C @ 5w5d :'(

  • WTF bloodwork!  Anybody else have your OBGYN take SIX VIALS of blood???  I thought I was going to hurl for sure--even the lab tech seemed shocked they were requesting this much from me.  Just keep thinking of that baby... 
    Married: Nov 2010
    TTC #1 since: Aug 2016
    Dx: Unexplained
    6 failed IUIs on Letrazole & Ovidrel
    Final (#7) IUI - BFP!
    EDD: Nov 2018
    Team Pink!
    Me: 31/DH: 30

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  • oh man @kbrown2385 that stinks! hopefully your husband is quick.
  • @kbrown2385 That's the worst! Hope it didn't take too long to get the spare!
    Me: 34  DH: 34
    Married 10/28/17
    Our TTC Journey
    TTC #1 February '18
    Team Green turned Team Blue 10/15/18

    TTC #2 January '21
    BFP June '21
    MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C July '21
    Jan '22 - started IF testing
    BFP Jan '22
    MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C Feb '22
    BFP May '22


  • @kbrown2385 nooooo what a nightmare!


  • ugh @kbrown2385 that stinks. I'm glad your DH works close so you hopefully didn't have to wait too long! 
    *TW*
    Me:35 DH:35
    Dx: PCOS
    DS1 born 11/2014
    DS2 born 11/2018
    3 previous losses
    Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green

  • Thanks everyone. He was able to meet me after about 25 minutes. Frustrating in the moment, but thankfully easily solved. 
  • @soehlerk I think I had 4 or 5 for my intake appointment.
    @kbrown2385 I locked my keys & phone (purse) in my car when my DS was an infant. Thankfully I had him and my dad is retired & lives super close so I went into the grocery store and called him. (I also knew his phone number. Win, win for me!) He owed me though, I bailed him out 2 days in a row years earlier. Haha!  :D (Just kidding he owes me nothing, he is an awesome dad.)

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