WTF Wednesday 3/7

Re: WTF Wednesday 3/7

• jumpy57 member

  March 2018

  It's a good thing the central office that handles a lot of computer system stuff and document sorting/storing is two hours away because otherwise I would throw things at them. Everything ends up being a five person email chain conversation and nothing gets done. Ugh work!!!!! I just want to do my job and not deal with computer glitch issues

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• nlc8424 member

  March 2018

  WTF to my H. He sends me a text this morning saying that he thinks he needs to get his wisdom teeth out since he's been in constant pain since yesterday and he recently complained about this over the last few weeks. I feel bad for him because mouth pain is awful, but he hasn't been to a dentist in the almost 9 years we've been together. He's got multiple dental issues and it makes me mad that he waits until a crisis to address the issue, typical man. 

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• pourmeanothermocktail member

  March 2018 edited March 2018

  @nlc8424 Yup, sounds about right. Wtf man?
  
  @EErin86 That is totally irritating! I hate bureaucracy nightmares. 
  
  So I totally posted mine in Randoms last night, but short version-started a cold yesterday, my work week starts today, I was relatively productive yesterday and DH asked why I didn't do more. So I did a ton more dishes because he didn't want to do more.
  
  He's usually more understanding, but he's sometimes stupid when he forgets how much work being home with a toddler is.

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  Married 7/18/15
  1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16
  Team green turned BLUE!
  2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18 
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• southernlady07 member

  March 2018

  @nlc8424 Oh my gosh! The only way I get mine to go is to schedule all three of our appointments at the same time so he has to show up  Otherwise, he'd totally put it off and never make medical appointments.
  

  Me: 32   DH: 32
  BFP #1: 1/23/2012  DD: Born 9/20/2012 
  BFP #2: 12/30/2017  DS: Due 9/10/2018 

  
  

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• nlc8424 member

  March 2018

  Seriously @pourmeamocktail. I don't even care about the cost to fix any/all of that, we'll deal with that in some way. He doesn't want to be told what to do/not do and that he hasn't taken good care of his teeth. But guess what, he hasn't so now he has to pay the consequences. I also don't want to deal with his whining miserable butt complaining about being in pain constantly until he does get into a dentist/oral surgeon, which he will inevitably use as an excuse to not be able to to as much with DS. Ugh.

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• nlc8424 member

  March 2018

  @southernlady07 I might have to start doing that. I hate acting like a mom to a grown adult, so I typically am not helpful with setting up appointments for him and/or reminders. But this is ridiculous.

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• ashh2018 member

  March 2018

  southernlady07 said:

  @nlc8424 Oh my gosh! The only way I get mine to go is to schedule all three of our appointments at the same time so he has to show up  Otherwise, he'd totally put it off and never make medical appointments.
  

  Then only way I can get mine to schedule any kind of medical appt is if I start crying and break down and tell him I’m worried and I wish he would take care of himself. And even then, it rarely works unless it’s my birthday and I can throw in a “all I want is for you to take care of yourself”. @nlc8424 I hope his teeth are ok!

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• jumpy57 member

  March 2018

  Everytime I go to the dentist I tell them to harass DH until he makes an appointment. I'm so sick of hearing "I don't know what my schedule will be in 6 months" be a grown up, figure your shit out. Also, same for doctor visits, your every other year medical check for work doesn't count, find a primary doctor

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• klj0228 member

  March 2018

  @nlc8424 I don’t schedule ours at the same time, but I do schedule all of his appointments. If I didn’t he would never go to the Dr. 
  

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• [Deleted User] member

  March 2018

  A big ole WTF to our interim manager, who decided his commute was too hard to make it in today, even though the rest of us still had to come in!!!
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• nlc8424 member

  March 2018

  @BusinessWife I love when other people prioritize their safety but don't do the same for their employees. So sorry you have to deal with that!

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• jumpy57 member

  March 2018

  I've reached rage level with our central office. I think I need to ignore everything from them for the rest of the day for fear of sending a super passive aggressive email in response

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• [Deleted User] member

  March 2018

  Yeah, well at least we are headed home now... :/ after wasting a whole morning! Lol. Awesome, thanks.

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• southernlady07 member

  March 2018

  I'm starving. I have a bunch of snacks in my office and don't want any of them.

  Me: 32   DH: 32
  BFP #1: 1/23/2012  DD: Born 9/20/2012 
  BFP #2: 12/30/2017  DS: Due 9/10/2018 

  
  

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• MandyMost member

  March 2018

  My FIL hadn’t been to a doctor in over 25 years (literally!) and is now dealing with 25 years worth of health problems that are now all major and have DRASTICALLY affected quality of life. If had seen a doc regularly he’d likely still be working and having a great time. It’s sad. Feel free to use this example if any of your DH’s aren’t going to regular check-ups!

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• stothi member

  March 2018

  Hubby and I are total opposites. He'll go to the dentist but not the doctor and I'll go to the doctor but not the dentist. We both nag each other to do the thing we won't do and neither of us ever gives in. But as a team we equal one fully responsible adult, so I guess there's that?

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• jumpy57 member

  March 2018

  Why do I have so many of these today....
  Wtf coworkers, why do you insist on kicking/shaking my cubicle walls???? It's not a funny joke and you always knock my decor off the wall! My clock can't handle another injury it's already held together with tape
  
  
  

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• kbfash member

  March 2018 edited March 2018

  Planning surprise 60th for my mom. Gave my siblings an update. Sister responded with let me know what I can help with / what I owe? I said an iPod playlist would be great (her hubs is a band leader and has a ton of downloaded music). Responded with Oh wow! So sorry for your troubles, quickly remembering why I don’t delegate.

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• jhjocelyn member

  March 2018

  Wtf life? I cleaned the whole main level of the house, and the damn firestick remote is still MIA. I even searched dd’s room. It has to be in the giant mound of clean laundry we dumped out and went through 2 nights ago when it went missing.... the one chore I skipped today. 
  Guess I’ll be folding laundry watching the storm tomorrow 
  

  

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  bfp#3- 9/26/14. EDD: 5/7/15. no heartbeat found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 10/23/14. "Little Bug"

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• jumpy57 member

  March 2018

  #kbfash and see, if I were your sister I would say awesome, hubs will get right on that. It's a sister win win. I guess she missed out on the opportunity though

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• smsaulino member

  March 2018

  WTF Trig... got a 54% on the test that I've been studying weeks for. It brought my grade to an 84 in the class. 

  Me: 33 DH: 31 Baby: 9/2/2018
  
  
  

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• klj0228 member

  March 2018

  @smsaulino sorry your test didn’t go well. Maybe talk to the professor or try to get a tutor. I am terrible at math so I definitely had to get help with the couple math classes I took in college.

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